He paused developing his life for a woman. This story hasn't ended. They'll soon start pouring themselves acid.

I hope someone reading this doesn't make the same mistake.

This is just why men see women as use and dump tools in 10yrs time in Nigeria people won't consider getting married or dating anymore it would be more of friends with benefits stuffs and all of the call girls things

Find cash and settle the man simple if possible build house for him as a thank you gift.

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Please who will help me buy Gun for that man....
If you want the man to leave you just give him 1billion naira interest

People like that end up being miserable in life

She should just train the guy the way the guy trained her. He picked her up when she was nothing and made her something. So she should reciprocate the selfless gesture shown by the man. Life is very unpredictable

bukatyne:


I don't get this post....

A man not progressing for a woman insecurity?

The man sha messed up; you don't develop someone else at the expense of yourself.

But the lady was collecting the money mean fro the guy

Why didn't she tell the man that they will be doing the development together

She's an ingrate. That's my opinion.

GoingPlaces247:
This is true love. It is not those pretence from slay queens with bad character.

What is true love about the post

Did you read where the woman ended up marrying the fruit selling guy

Na y Dem dey kill some people be dis!!!

Dat lady shld be careful cos anytin fit happen.

When you develop other people's dreams at the expense of yours, you get "shit on" !!!

Karma go just be like "If i tell u say i love u o"



Team_Trust_Nothing_In_Skirt

Why should she be a shame her destine is in that truck driver if not nemesis will follow her let her marry the truck driver.

bukatyne:


The Karma that will punish her is doing press up.

So she can't turn around and train him to 'her level'?

Best answer so far,
She must return the gesture then the will now hold referendum to marry or go separate ways

She should bring him up to her level. That's if the level is truly the problem. It's just simple.

happens all the time ...christiana did it back in the 80s ....she better get someone that won't make her regret leaving this good guy ....for me I feel marriage is meant to be enjoyed not endured ...as for my truck-driver friend ....you won't enjoy her if she already have double mind...

pcguru1:
Well its not anything new if she doesn't want to be with the girl she can leave, ideally for most women you are only as useful as what you provide for them, once they reach that level of self sufficiency, they wake up and realize you are beneath them. I don't believe in karma the universe is indifferent, its possible this woman will live happily ever after, that's just life. So you see its a strange dilemma such man will later resolve never to help any lady not his wife, then the next babe will categorize him as being stingy or a broke-ass. It also happens in the reverse case too, woman helping a man only to be deceived. The solution is when helping don't expect anything from anyone and always have a low opinion of everyone that way if they disappoint you by being honest its a good disappointment if they don't at least its what you expected.

you spoke my mind.
I don't believe in karma.
Life is just random and unpredictable
You must be an atheist and also a psychologist (unproffesional)t am i right ?

nerodenero:
The man didn't mess up.

The man messed up. I repeat, the man completely messed up! In more ways than one.

The worst of his messed up errors was financing the girl and watching her change levels without improving himself.
Water will always seek it's level.

If a man is with a woman who's set on her game (regardless of who's financing that game), he had better get his act together and polish his game. Very simple. He doesn't have to be exactly at her pace, but at whatever level he's playing, he has to be ontop of his game. #enoughSaid
Y'all should free the babe biko

If he didn't finance her now, and the story was that she no longer loves the man, 99% of you would advice her not to marry out of pity o. Now because money is involved una de talk another thing.

Any man (or woman) who decides to finance their partner to success should do it because they want to, and not as an investment for marriage. Love, mutual trust, respect and loyalty are far weightier investments for marriage
















Having said that, I think the babe is simply looking for an excuse. If not, what stops her from brushing up the man to her taste?
She no love am anyday that's just the simple truth. He was a means to an end, and she believes the end has been fulfilled.
The guy should pick himself, learn lessons and move on.

I won't advice any one either guy or lady to sponsor their partner, I had a neighbor who sponsored her husband oh not even boy friend. After graduating from the University, man lucky got job with NNPC. the foolish man now said his wife is an illiterate. He drove his wife. I believe the truck driver caused the problem and to be honest the lady don't love him any more. Happiness is paramount

Amadioha,featuring Sango and Ogun fall on Her

[quote author=DuBLINGreenb post=59368221]Find cash and settle the man simple if possible build house for him as a thank you gift.[/quo]
Its no,no,no put yourself in this guys shoe.
Tell us how you'd feel.perhaps the guy doesnt run a loan organisation or a charity firm.
Na this kind ting fit make man commit murder and even suicide same time

She is looking for advice on how to do it without hurting his feelings although she is grateful for all he has done for her...

What kinda advice does she need.... She would end up hurting the guy anyways.... Buh ehn, some persons can be ungrateful..... Biting the hands that fed u.....

The thunder that will fire her is still doing press up from law school. some women are just too ungrateful.

Please, I want to understand what kind of promise a 14year old could have made to a man, of which he want to actually wants to hold her to it.
As for as I am concerned, this may not even be a case of wickedness or anything like that.
She was a minor, she is an orphan and she was scared, please tell me how anyone could put 100% blame on her? As far as I know, that guy took advantage of her and as a child, she didn't know better and I honestly do not blame her.
And to everyone out there, do not go out of your way to help anyone expecting to collect in the future(payback).

I was adviced not to be a scholarship board to any girl when u are not educated and not to marry or date any girl that was trained by his poor boyfriend

maclatunji:
We listened to this on Star fm 101.5 and just had to share.

A girl’s parents die when she is 14 and somehow ends up with a young man that is a fruit seller who sends her to school with the proceeds of his business.

Later, he becomes a truck driver and continues paying for her training until she is 26 years old today and is now a lawyer.

Now, she is feeling uncomfortable about this her truck driver benefactor with marriage on the horizon. She feels she is above his level and is looking for a way to tell him.

She is looking for advice on how to do it without hurting his feelings although she is grateful for all he has done for her.

What do you think about this situation?

Source: http://www.opinions.ng/tragic-love-story-lawyer-truck-driver/

Chai na wa o. I feel for her sha because love is not a simple thing and she just does not love him regardless of what he has done for her in the past.

I feel they should both go their ways and she will be grateful as well. He can find a quality woman to marry on LostRib.com here http://lostrib.com/?afmc=36v. Very easy to find true love ready for relationship.

Ah? I thought it was only men whose true nature comes out when they have "everything"?

Ah!!! Aye e le ooo

See wickedness


Anyway, see more true life stories like this here: http://m.af1234.com/Af1234/trending

bukatyne:

The Karma that will punish her is doing press up.
So she can't turn around and train him to 'her level'?

press up LMAO

We have to learn to see the bigger picture...now that she's a lawyer, why can't she use her learning to improve the status of the guy's business...apparently he's a hardworker and his talents can be harnessed to build wealth for the family...I realise the ego trip and that I'm asking a lot, but leaving the poor dude at this point will leave a bad stain on your karmic history...