Been over one month I met my girl.
We started off on Facebook as just chat mate .
One day, our chat got erotic and the next thing was her knocking on my door.

We had sex, and she confessed is the best she has ever had as I made her cum easily . After the sex, she complained of feeling guilty. She was opened to me cos she was having issue with her boyfriend. The guy reside in Benin while she is in Ph

Days passed, she never mentioned her boyfriend again till she told me they are no longer together. At first,
I wasnt serious with the relationship but she wooed me with her caring and companion. This girl has never demanded a dime from me.
She has pleaded with me that she hate double dating and won't think twice to walk away if she sees me with someone else.
I decided to stay with her. Today, I visited her apartment for the first time. While leaving, I saw a packet of condom in her bookshelf. I didn't mentioned it to her, we left together.

This has changed my mode and everything I think of her completely.
How do I handle this

She's very civilized and careful... . She's a nice gurl..

Red Alert ... Someone Is Playing A Fast One On You...Something About These Overprotective Lovers.

The condom is for you guys
Chill dude

IamKashyBaby:


U saw a condom...did u checked the expiry date?

Before u conclude, double check everything before u decide...

Everything happened so fast. I was helping her to look for her key when my eye caught the packet. Looks new but opened.
I didn't want to draw her attention so I didn't touch it.

According to her, her ex stays in Benin which she do go to visit.
So she didn't used it with her ex. She is a student living in student area.

Am completely blank. Don't know what to think.
This is happening when am beginning to think that am about to settle with someone

Shol3:
The condom is for you guys
Chill dude

US. Not sealed, but opened.

Biafrareform:
Been over one month I met my girl.
We started off on Facebook as just chat mate .
One day, our chat got erotic and the next thing was her knocking on my door.

We had sex, and she confessed is the best she has ever had as I made her cum easily . After the sex, she complained of feeling guilty. She was opened to me cos she was having issue with her boyfriend. The guy reside in Benin while she is in Ph

Days passed, she never mentioned her boyfriend again till she told me they are no longer together. At first,
I wasnt serious with the relationship but she wooed me with her caring and companion. This girl has never demanded a dime from me.
She has pleaded with me that she hate double dating and won't think twice to walk away if she sees me with someone else.
I decided to stay with her. Today, I visited her apartment for the first time. While leaving, I saw a packet of condom in her bookshelf. I didn't mentioned it to her, we left together.

This has changed my mode and everything I think of her completely.
How do I handle this

its been a long time i used the word "Paranoid"

you my friend are suffering from paranoia.

Ps. you acted like a king size chicken, you didnt even have the nerve to talk to her about it, rather you brought here on NL.

What if the condons has been there even before you met her nko

Dude your gf is fvckin the guy.

what's wrong with a young lady having a packet of condom? Ayam not understanding.. lemme wow you, I have over 7 packet of kiss condom. does it mean I'm using it? no I'm not,but I won't hesitate to give it to peeps that can't abstain.she might have gotten it from a health seminar she attended or a friend who's into health gave it to her.. op, don't read meanings into everything you come across.. trust your partner but if you are finding it difficult to trust her, confront her with your findings so that she can explain better. there's really no need for all these baseless assumptions!! !

Wait...

So you woo'd another guy's girl, fvcked her and now you expect her to be faithful to you??

Your head is not dia yet

Fadiga24:
Dude your gf is fvckin the guy.

Actual she's fvcking some other guy not even the ex. In Akon's voice "These bitches ain't loyal"

agbonkamen:
What if the condons has been there even before you met her nko

She said she dont double date and from her story, her ex stays in Benin and she do go to visit him and hasn't been to PH

If it has been there b4 I met her, that means she has been cheating on her ex who she broke up with cos HIS CHEATING HABIT and her claim of not double dating is false. Therefore, she can also cheat on me

Lol, and you still have the audacity to called her your girl instead of our girl, which means no be only you dey chop am

She just let you know it wasn't the BEST she ever had
Get on the moving on train

Biafrareform:


Everything happened so fast. I was helping her to look for her key when my eye caught the packet. Looks new but opened.
I didn't want to draw her attention so I didn't touch it.

According to her, her ex stays in Benin which she do go to visit.
So she didn't used it with her ex. She is a student living in student area.

Am completely blank. Don't know what to think.
This is happening when am beginning to think that am about to settle with someone

Oohh i see..

Why it was on a bookshelf anyway If u cant sleep, u better ask her..talk to her so you will have peace of mind..

Lalas247:
She just let you know it wasn't the BEST she ever had
Get on the moving on train

Damn, must you be so ruthless?
You just smashed his ego to bits

Next2Bezee:
Wait...

So you woo'd another guy's girl, fvcked her and now you expect her to be faithful to you??

Your head is not dia yet

Let me give u her exact words.

" I have been having feelings for you. When we had sex, I was having issue with my guy.
After the sex, I wanted to block u on Facebookand blacklist your no. Everything changed when you openly confess your feelings for me "

OP you giving yourself headache. Way back at the university, I always had condoms both male m female in my wardrobe. Did I use them? No.

I was a member of Anti-Aids club and we usually go out to distribute condoms. I also gave some of my roomates who are sexually active.

All you could do about it was to say something funny. Like... "Bae, who dash you this condom na?"

pryme:


Damn, must you be so ruthless?
You just smashed his ego to bits

It had to be done he will heal

Op the lady is on nairaland too. She posted something similar. About the condom issue she said it was there so she will see how u will react.

Lalas247:

It had to be done he will heal

But will you choose this way to tell your partner he is not good enough?
By displaying a pack of condoms?

Biafrareform:


She said she dont double date and from her story, her ex stays in Benin and she do go to visit him and hasn't been to PH

If it has been there b4 I met her, that means she has been cheating on her ex who she broke up with cos HIS CHEATING HABIT and her claim of not double dating is false. Therefore, she can also cheat on me

I think you should watch her first and see how things unfold. If she is cheating you definitely would be caught.

pryme:


But will you choose this way to tell your partner he is not good enough?
By displaying a pack of condoms?

depends
If her n the guy never used doms then ... it can be a way to let him know
Or she forgot to remove it
Cheating ain't only men ladies cheat too so if he suspects he may be right

Women mask it well it is very hard for a guy to catch a lady out than a lady catching a guy out

she's a street hustler

gbadokwa anya
tupu ndia eri e gi

She is keeping it for emergency sex .

Rorachy:
She is keeping for emergency sex .

Kikiki emergency sex with who though
That's the question

IamKashyBaby:





Oohh i see..

Why it was on a bookshelf anyway If u cant sleep, u better ask her..talk to her so you will have peace of mind..

Peace of mind?

Like I said, was beginning to settle with her, meaning my mind hasn't completely settled.

Just have to return to default mode cos is obvious them gals ain't worth the stress

Maychang:
OP you giving yourself headache. Way back at the university, I always had condoms both male m female in my wardrobe. Did I use them? No.

I was a member of Anti-Aids club and we usually go out to distribute condoms. I also gave some of my roomates who are sexually active.

All you could do about it was to say something funny. Like... "Bae, who dash you this condom na?"

Good explanation.

Biafrareform:


Let me give u her exact words.

" I have been having feelings for you. When we had sex, I was having issue with my guy.
After the sex, I wanted to block u on Facebookand blacklist your no. Everything changed when you openly confess your feelings for me "

You don't know what "issue" she had with her bf

She had feelings for you.
She came to you for sex
She wanted to block you afterwards
She changed her mind when you confessed.

She is either naturally confused or she is lying.

Bottom line is, you can't fvck a girl who already has a boyfriend and expect to build a relationship with that kind of person...you have already set yourself up for heartbreak.

Run while you still can.

Lalas247:

depends
If her n the guy never used doms then ... it can be a way to let him know
Or she forgot to remove it
Cheating ain't only men ladies cheat too so if he suspects he may be right

Women mask it well it is very hard for a guy to catch a lady out than a lady catching a guy out

Anyway I asked the Doc if was infected by your Aura, He told me I was already infected before now.