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Entitlement mentality is disturbing this brother in-law. Secondly he's disrespectful. Your wife should be able to call him to order, if she doesn't. Address him yourself. What nonsense

I'm sure if any of your family member comes to stay in your house for a long period of time, your wife will start raising her nose.

You can also invite your mother to come and spend a couple of weeks, and let your bro in law know you're expecting visitors, so he'll have to excuse you for a while.

Let's see how long your wife can tolerate your mother or any of your siblings.

But be ready for Fuji house of commotion to unfold

okirewaju:
He's family Sir

Wifey will get angry if you do that

There is a limit to everything in life...

In this case, Op you're brother in law has by his attitude put himself up for possible eviction. I don't think your brother would disrespect you to the extent of bringing ladies to your house or even having the guts to remove your clothes from your own wardrobe. Haba!!! that guy has no respect for you and does not deserve pity from you too. He feels that since you married his younger sister, then probably he seniors you as well. I doubt he will behave like that in his Senior sister's place so you sef MAN up. But my main concerns in this case is your SON. Yes SON. I pray the boy is not negatively influenced. Watch out for your boy. You can even travel with your family, change locks and let him get the message.

okirewaju:
I agree with you that he's wrong in that area but how do one tell his brother in law to leave his house?

In situations where your life and that of your family members is threatened, then you can tell an irresponsible brother in law to leave. Who knows the caliber of people he brings to the house in their absence and what those people are capable of doing. He should send the guy packing and heavens WILL NOT fall. Do unto others what you want others to do to you. If you want to be treated nicely, then endeavor to put up a nice behavior. You don't need to be perfect but just try to put up a nice behavior when you're in people's home.

eyinjuege:
I'm sure if any of your family member comes to stay in your house for a long period of time, your wife will start raising her nose.

You can also invite your mother to come and spend a couple of weeks, and let your bro in law know you're expecting visitors, so he'll have to excuse you for a while.

Let's see how long your wife can tolerate your mother or any of your siblings.

But be ready for Fuji house of commotion to unfold

This is it!!! Op just invite a family member of yours.. your mother will do a good job in reformatting the young man's life even without talking. Only him will pack out by himself. When Mum is done with her job and is gone, change locks and warn your wife not to invite anyone home. You and your wife should stay without a visitor for like 6months. This will enable you people bond more and give each of you boldness to standup to any intruding family member in the future.



I don too talk... E don do for here.

Acidosis:
45k on food for 6-7 weeks? Are you sure everyone is feeding well?

i dont tink dey live in lagos but op tried sha,his wife should tell her brother to leave

When I said no long visits from extended family, some Nairalanders called me a bad wife and were telling me I don't know tomorrow.

They always cause more harm than good in the long run!

The ones from the husband's side especially, their superiority complex is something else. This is my first time seeing where the wife's relative has such effrontery, they're usually not this bold.

OP, don't inconvenience yourself and your finances for him or any other person. He is a disrespectful brat. Send him home.

Talk to your wife about it,you guys should come to an agreement then start by locking your door both your bedroom and the kitchen, reduce what ever quanity of food you serve him. For now stop buying excess into the house
You are just starting your family and have got better things to do with money
All the best

pinky1974:
Talk to your wife about it,you guys should come to an agreement then start by locking your door both your bedroom and the kitchen, reduce what ever quanity of food you serve him. For now stop buying excess into the house
You are just starting your family and have got better things to do with money
All the best

Thanks!