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I need u guys to pls help me out by giving ur advice.
I'm a guy that always want to settle with one lady in a relationship,that has been my dream but I have a little problem with myself and d problem is, B4 having a relationship with a lady,my love will be so much and it will be as d best thing to happen to me but after accepting my proposal and we started dating,d love will just disappear and I won't feel like being with her again......it has happened to me with four ladies now....This makes me to be scared of being in another relationship.....Right now I have this lady I luv so much and after months she has accepted my proposal but theres fear in my hrt for wat happened to d others not to happen to her cos I luv her so much and which to be serious with her.......
Guys wat do u tink is d problem and what do I rink I can do.....
Thanks as u forward ur advice

We have the same God damn problem bruh

Slayer2:
We have the same God damn problem bruh

i like your name "Slayer" so Slay the damn problem mehn stop wasting time gosh

You never love them but LUST after them.#fact

Evablizin:
i like your name "Slayer" so Slay the damn problem mehn stop wasting time gosh

my own slayed me ....

My brother in the Lord, you have a spirit wife.

#just kidding.

Don't worry bro, this is simply a sign of boyhood. By the time spirit of manhood manifest in you, you won't need this thread again.

The key to everlasting love?? First of all fear doesn't work with love. So don't love out of fear or don't let fear stop you from loving

I honesty think you haven't find the lady you truely love, I feel like you are a bit desperate to fall in love from your story. I don't think you can force emotions, you can only pretend and convince your self to be in love for a short period.

My advice: try and identify a lady that will have most of the qualities you want in ladies and what you like doing i.e. your hobbies

I hope that will work

Stay blessed

You need serious prayers...

Bros what U are feeling is infatuation not love,it happened to me 2 when I was after one very gorgeous tomato jos that most lecturers and students in my school are after but she was my frnd after I made my intention known and she said we should be frnd I zero my mind and never talk to her again not knowing she want me to try harder but immediately I have said it, I didn't care about her again I notice I was after her because I av better advantage and she was so beautiful.