Obalende:

They trying to replicate exactly wat they've done in North America. ... making most girls hostile to guys and teaching dem all sorts like safe space, wat and wat is comfortable and comfortable, consent legalese, older guys are freaks and pedophiles etc.

Yao Biatch niggaz listen..... commercial sex dolls are now available.

Woman no b God. God and God only shall I worship not woman.

That is the problem!

These wicked leeches, for personal gain, with create turmoil and confusion, spread hate amongst the genders and when the shyte hits the fan, they are the same people who will claim to be Counsellors!

Its like Weapons manufacturers building and donating a hospital to war victims.

In NA now, everyone looks at the other with so much suspicion because "damaged women" like these ones have sownso much hate into impressionable women!

JeffreyJamez:


Still points to the case of Pyschological damage. They were made to believe it wasn't wrong by these "aunties" when they were kids,how do you expect most of them to see it as wrong now they're grown men?

No, they are grown enough to know it's wrong. So, they should comment on such issues with wisdom. You don't know who is reading. No lady has ever grown to believe it wasn't wrong, at least ...I have never seen one. There is more to why guys trivialise it.

Many dvmb asses im this thread. I'll just watch

Obalende:


Exactly. Man hating is a serious issue in Toronto and the whole of Ontario right now. And most girls don't check wat they are being taught....

Most decent men don't condone sexual violence. Most guys will defend the ladies against such.

It's true females get endless attention from guys asking them out and trying to sleep with them though.

This gender stuff wasn't even a real issue before. Women were property? God made it so open ur Bible. Thou shall not covet thy neighbors wife....

Societies hv defended Queens.

This is just Satan's gender Warfare. Divide and conquer.

cococandy:
I can swear I've stood up for more male victims in my life than you ever have.
The problem with people like you is the 'what about me?' Complex.

You use it to try to sabotage the wellbeing of others because at the moment those people are being taken care of and you can't stand not being the center of attention. If they weren't doing it, you wouldn't have remembered it.

Where are your threads addressing male victims of rape? Where are your comments about teaching sexual awareness to boys (rather than encouraging sex as a male victory)? Where have you ever seen women stand against men getting help? Is there any thread for male victims that you see women come to shit on like you people are doing here?

Instead what we see are men like you standing up to deflect the attention from real victims who in many cases are female just because you can't stand seeing women get help.

So You're not among the men who teach other men not to cry and thus encourage toxic masculinity which makes young boys think that having sex at a young age is an achievement for them and speaking up about abuse is a sign of weakness?

Why don't you 'group of guys' gather to help first and let see which women will come to destroy it with their 'evil and devious ways'. You haven't even tried and you are already speculating about how women will destroy it.

I'm sure you won't do that. Instead stay here and try to tear down this platform that's helping victims. Meanwhile your boy friends and brothers and fathers are going about town destroying the futures of young children.

Yeah,cos you know me so well ....

tosyne2much:
Woman sexually abusing a man

Go and report to the Pope
Mcheew

I'm sure you pay oloshos to get fukked, now you're complaining when you getting it free
Hope to don't need a resetting slap to say the truth

cococandy:
I can swear I've stood up for more male victims in my life than you ever have.
The problem with people like you is the 'what about me?' Complex.

You use it to try to sabotage the wellbeing of others because at the moment those people are being taken care of and you can't stand not being the center of attention. If they weren't doing it, you wouldn't have remembered it.

Where are your threads addressing male victims of rape? Where are your comments about teaching sexual awareness to boys (rather than encouraging sex as a male victory)? Where have you ever seen women stand against men getting help? Is there any thread for male victims that you see women come to shit on like you people are doing here?

Instead what we see are men like you standing up to deflect the attention from real victims who in many cases are female just because you can't stand seeing women get help.

So You're not among the men who teach other men not to cry and thus encourage toxic masculinity which makes young boys think that having sex at a young age is an achievement for them and speaking up about abuse is a sign of weakness?

Why don't you 'group of guys' gather to help first and let see which women will come to destroy it with their 'evil and devious ways'. You haven't even tried and you are already speculating about how women will destroy it.

I'm sure you won't do that. Instead stay here and try to tear down this platform that's helping victims. Meanwhile your boy friends and brothers and fathers are going about town destroying the futures of young children.

I will have to agree with this post. The only time I see men complain of sexual abuse is when they get it from the back, once it's a woman...majority of them see no wrong in it.

I am surprised they are claiming it's women standing against them.

pocohantas:


No, they are grown enough to know it's wrong. So, they should comment on such issues with wisdom. You don't know who is reading. No lady has ever grown it believe it wasn't wrong, at least ...I have never seen one. There is more to why guys trivialise it.

I believe most of the guys who make such comments are kids who think life is about sex.

I don't take such things likely,cos I was a victim and I know how that shii affected me. It only annoys me when females try to.make it seem men are the only beastly creatures when it comes to this case of rape. There are as much beastly females out there as the male folks.

Tittos:
There is an increasing number of rape cases in Nigeria. However it's shocking to find out that most rape cases are never reported. Also statistics show that a huge percentage of rape cases especially in minors are pepertrated by relatives or close family friends. Nigeria has a society still placed bulk of the blame on rape victims thereby making it difficult to speak up. Studies also found that the majority (76.1%) of the victims that sought help at a hospital did so within 24 hours of their sexual assault, but forensic evidence was not gathered because rape kits have yet to be introduced. This then makes it difficult to prosecute the perpetrator for lack of evidence.

These have made rape victims silent about their ordeal. Thier silence becomes dangerous as it can lead to depression and phobia. Most rape victims are not even aware when they begin to tow this path.
However these three women have taken the fight against rape and sexual abuse to a new level. Enlightening the public about rape and sexual abuse and harassment, helping victims and working hard to combat this ugly crime in Nigeria.

Chi Umeasaka

Aunty Chi has she is fondly called is a life coach, OAP and the producer of 'Teen times with Aunty Chi' on inspiration fm. A victim of rape, she has dedicated much of her life helping victims of abuse and counselling them. Her work earned her an appointment with the Abia State Governor as an SA to the governor on matters related to the girl child. She still shuffles between Lagos and the East and provides life counselling and guidance to youths in general and victims of abuse.
Ig @9ineteenchichi
Contact-08077567379

Blessing Timidi- Very passionate about her work, Blessing has canvassed the length and breadth of Nigeria helping rape victims among other Sexual Reproductive Health and Rights and seeking justice for them. She has spoken on many platforms and strongly campaigns against victimisation and silencing of rape victims.
IG@blessingtimidi
Contact-08052657061

Antonia Ojenagbo-Toniabruisedbutnotbroken is the ig handle of this bold and beautiful woman that usually spots a honey blonde hair. As her name suggests Tonia herself has been a victim of rape and abuse and has gone ahead to turn it around, empower herself and help those who are suffering same fate. She has a support and counselling group for abused and rape survivors where victims come together to talk about their travails, advice and help each other in the process of healing. She is also a certified group counsellor for troubled teens and believes in the power of counselling and collective healing as these helped her too.

IG @toniabruisedbutnotbroken
Contact-08098987884

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KingTom:
I'm just looking at those idiots who call male rape enjoyment. Do you catastrophic failures know what it feels like as a 13 year old hawking kerosene having yourself violated by one 'auntie' or worse as a 17 year old having your prick tied with a goat rope and middle aged sagged bag of rotten STDs take turns molesting you? These are just two of the numerous cases the police and justice system laugh off each day. What a shame. Check out the laws of statutory rape in Nigeria and you'll cry yourself silly. Bunch of sacllywags!

They don't. They just don't.

Them think say na just to chook prick come out.

Well, that escalated quickly...



And that's how I read all the comments...

If such happens, They will be the one on the thread telling the young boy to stop complaining.
I'm tired of the hypocrisy

pocohantas:


I will have to agree with this post. The only time I see men complain of sexual abuse is when they get it from the back, once it's a woman...majority of them see no wrong in it.

I am surprised they are claiming it's women standing against them.

ekensi01:


when last did you check on your brain update service provider?

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Obalende:


This gender stuff wasn't even a real issue before. Women were property? God made it so open ur Bible. Thou shall not covet thy neighbors wife....

Societies hv defended Queens.

This is just Satan's gender Warfare. Divide and conquer.

If you want to know what all these "feminazzis" are all about, all you need do is go over their previous posts and you will see their agenda and know their personality.
All these pretences they are making here, na wash.

The Man has, as one of his duties, to defend and protect the 'Women' (Women who remian Women).
That role has not changed in man or any living specie, for that matter.
But these set of hateful, frsutrated women who call themselves NGO's have lost the opportunity "to be defended" (intentionally or toherwise) and want to upset the rules such that Women can see Men as their enemy.

These sort of Women are the real Satan trying to create a Gender War!
Stopping them in every little way, is the duty of anyone who respects and upholds humanity

JeffreyJamez:


Yeah,cos you know me so well ....

Yea well prove me wrong.

Henceforth, let's see you advocate for men without trying to distract from female victims.

Then we will know you're serious about men's wellbeing versus trying to take away from women's wellbeing .

tomdon:



Go and report to the Pope
Mcheew

I'm sure you pay oloshos to get fukked, now you're complaining when you getting it free
Hope to don't need a resetting slap to say the truth

So, you see it as a form of enjoyment on the part of a man when a woman rapes him?

Hope they are pro-life though.

cococandy:


Yea well prove me wrong.

Henceforth, let's see you advocate for men without trying to distract from female victims.

Then we will know you're serious about men's wellbeing versus trying to take away from women's wellbeing .

No one is trying to take away "women's well-being". Y'all should just stop trying to make it seem men are beast and women are saints. Dazall.

Daboomb:


That is the problem!

These wicked leeches, for personal gain, with create turmoil and confusion, spread hate amongst the genders and when the shyte hits the fan, they are the same people who will claim to be Counsellors!

Its like Weapons manufacturers building and donating a hospital to war victims.

In NA now, everyone looks at the other with so much suspicion because "damaged women" like these ones have sownso much hate into impressionable women!

girls are taught in secondary school patriarchy theory.... how they were oppressed by men.... indoctrination continues in university... by the time girls are done with the school system they r man haters though they don't know they think they learned the truth...

Obalende:


girls are taught in secondary school patriarchy theory.... how they were oppressed by men.... indoctrination continues in university... by the time girls are done with the school system they r man haters though they don't know they think they learned the truth...

I really was just going to read comments but you've said the truth...

I'm getting really pissed off with these things....

Look! There need to be a balance.

With the cases I'm following, even some reported on nairaland, Domestic violence is not restricted to females alone.

It's almost 50/50. Unlike what we are made to believe.

Women interestingly are always playing the victim EVEN IN CASES THEY ARE CULPRITS.

JeffreyJamez:


I believe most of the guys who make such comments are kids who think life is about sex.

I don't take such things likely,cos I was a victim and I know how that shii affected me. It only annoys me when females try to. make it seem men are the only beastly creatures when it comes to this case of rape. There are as much beastly females out there as the male folks.

Sorry about your experience.

You men should start from toning down the toxic masculinity that dictates who a real or weak man is.

I have a handsome lil cousin that kept chatting with older ladies on FB, some sent money. Nothing I did or said worked. I had to tell my ex way back, I don't know what he told that boy...he was the one that came to tell me women can wait, his education is priority now. Younger guys look up to you older guys. They pick most of the bad easily, because they feel it shows masculinity.

All the same, we'll keep doing our collective best. It's not a gender battle...we would all have male and female children and I am sure we want the best for them all. Sorry for the harsh words earlier...goodnight.

HannahHitler:
never said that. let's be mature and reasonable. how many cases of male rape as compared to the females? The boy child is born a king and treated as such till he's old.

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Daboomb:


If you want to know what all these "feminazzis" are all about, all you need do is go over their previous posts and you will see their agenda and know their personality.
All these pretences they are making here, na wash.

yea such evil agenda. To make sure that women are represented and that young girls whose lives are ruined by the excesses of randy men can pick up their lives and make something meaningful out of it. How dare they.

The Man has, as one of his duties, to defend and protect the 'Women' (Women who remian Women).

You men are doing a mighty fine job of that. With all the kidnapping, rape, terrorism and what not. We feel very protected by the decisions men are making. Said no woman ever.

Take away reproductive duties for a second and imagine a world without men. Yea not so full of pain, unnecessary wars, jungle justice and untimely death is it? Way to protect us.

That role has not changed in man or any living specie, for that matter

. I'm sure many women who have been victims of toxic masculinity will beg to disagree

But these set of hateful, frsutrated women who call themselves NGO's have lost the opportunity "to be defended" (intentionally or toherwise) and want to upset the rules such that Women can see Men as their enemy.

A woman who was gang raped doesn't need to be told who her enemy is. A woman who has been beaten and deprived of her rights doesn't need to be told either. You're the ones doing all the telling with your actions

These sort of Women are the real Satan trying to create a Gender War!
Stopping them in every little way, is the duty of anyone who respects and upholds humanity

Classic delusional conspiracy theorist. Don't address the problem. Attack those trying to help the victims. Blame anyone but the perpetrators. Asiwin

JeffreyJamez:
Yeaaah, it's always about the female victims. The male Victims can go to hell and burn.

So because people are organising a fight against malaria denotes they support cancer?


@Post, I came to see posts concerning rape and its attendant effects in the society. Instead what do I see? One even accused one of being a lesbian? People fighting about the gender involved. Pathetic!

Rape affects both gender and the fight should be on irrespective of gender.

pocohantas:


Sorry about your experience.

You men should start from toning down the toxic masculinity that dictates who a real or weak man is.

I have a handsome lil cousin that kept chatting with older ladies on FB, some sent money. Nothing I did or said worked. I had to tell my ex way back, I don't know what he told that boy...he was the one that came to tell me women can wait, his education is priority now. Younger guys look up to you older guys. They pick most of the bad easily, because they feel it shows masculinity.

All the same, we'll keep doing our collective best. It's not a gender battle...we would all have male and female children and I am sure we want the best for them all. Sorry for the harsh words earlier...goodnight.

Sorry too, good night

JeffreyJamez:


No one is trying to take away "women's well-being". Y'all should just stop trying to make it seem men are beast and women are saints. Dazall.

If the shoe fits. By all means wear them.

The OP doesn't demonize any gender. You're seeing and saying things that aren't there because you don't want to admit that you're irked by the concept of women getting help. Keep deflecting

cococandy:
yea such evil agenda. To make sure that women are represented and that young girls whose lives are ruined by the excesses of randy men can pick up their lives and make something meaningful out of it. How dare they.



You men are doing a mighty fine job of that. With all the kidnapping, rape, terrorism and what not. We feel very protected by the decisions men are making. Said no woman ever.

Take away reproductive duties for a second and imagine a world without men. Yea not so full of pain, unnecessary wars, jungle justice and untimely death is it? Way to protect us.


. I'm sure many women who have been victims of toxic masculinity will beg to disagree



A woman who was gang raped doesn't need to be told who her enemy is. A woman who has been beaten and deprived of her rights doesn't need to be told either. You're the ones doing all the telling with your actions



Classic delusional conspiracy theorist. Don't address the problem. Attack those trying to help the victims. Blame anyone but the perpetrators. Asiwin

I agree on the kidnappings, terrorism, reckless driving, untimely deaths etc.... I agree 100%. You see I think the feminist movement a strain of it is divine..... I support the strand of feminism that curbs toxic masculinity. the main benefit I see of feminism is subduing mens egos. mens egos are the worlds number 1 biggest problem; from that angle I support the feminist movement of Christian proprtions.

However there is a jezebelic strain from darkness that aims at the ultimate destruction of girls - that's the strain coming to Nigeria. did girls tell you they need to be forced into the army? or representation?

cococandy:

If the shoe fits. By all means wear them.

The OP doesn't demonize any gender. You're seeing and saying things that aren't there because you don't want to admit that you're irked by the concept of women getting help. Keep deflecting

I am not irked by women getting help.

Obalende:


girls are taught in secondary school patriarchy theory.... how they were oppressed by men.... indoctrination continues in university... by the time girls are done with the school system they r man haters though they don't know they think they learned the truth...

The brainwashing is now sytemic and systematic!

I always ask myself:

- Why is it that Mrs A, with a loving husband and nice family with children, never dream of forming this sort of NGO?

-Why is it that it is always WOMEN (frustrated ones) that are always dforming these NGO's promotiing rape dis, rape dat?

-Why is it that the promoters of this sort of NGO are always claiming to have been raped in their past?

- Why do these women NGo's always mention "girl-Child" in their promotion when the thing has nothing to do with girl-child education (in the East, three-times more girl-child are educated more than the boy child, yet you still see them harping on about GirlChild education!)

- Why not just let us all agree that rape is wrong and offenders should be punished, irrespective of which gender the Victim and the perpetrator is?

The new one is that of a "Wife" charging her husband for rape, when they have s*x, as married couple, inside their family home, on their family bed!

The idea is to make the husband to always beg for sex in his marriage, thus giving the wife an undue advantage over him. If he does not,
then she can put him in jail using such Rape accusations.
In marriage, you both belong to each other (that is waht the "I do" is all about) but Women want to get the benefits of marriage while shirking the responsibility!

These Evil, scumbag-women are really getting out of hand.

JeffreyJamez:



Men are raping Children, agreed. And you know this because of the media. Now ask yourself why has there never been a news of young male boys being raped by their maids, neighbors and aunties?.... because non of you would believe the boy child...or would try to cover it up. ..90% of Sexually active boys today are victims of child abuse...but nobody is talking about that and the perptrators are shining teeth Everywhere...it's always about the female child....Even if a group of guys gather to help, it is you same women that will use your devious and evil means to bring it down....

u are a real мan and wιѕdoм ĸnowѕ υ вy naмe...