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Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by naijaboiy: 12:15am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Obalende:I don't condone sexual violence. As much as I like sex I won't bother any woman who is not willing to go down with me that moment. We will have problems if you try to use sex as a tool to manipulate me. But I will never force a girl into sex. Never! And this goes beyond respect for women or whatever. As a man you need to control yourself too, when you show that you can't do without sex you turn into an emotional slave and fall for the whims and caprices of a woman. If a man respects himself and practices self control, he won't have to "rape" a woman and he will get respect from that woman too. He's gonna win both ways. Self control and respect will benefit you first before it benefits your partner or any female you are in connection with. I wish every man can learn this. 2 Likes |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by naijaboiy: 12:19am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Daboomb:Errr...she's actually married bro. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Nobody: 12:21am On Aug 24, 2017 |
tosyne2much:consult me, the people's Apostle |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Obalende: 12:22am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Daboomb: She has good points though... there is toxic masculinity stemming from the male ego... this ego sprung up when you started insulting her instead of addressing her points. I think feminism will do a good job of curbing toxic masculinity.... 2 Likes |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by RottenBanana: 12:23am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Daboomb: 12:27am On Aug 24, 2017 |
naijaboiy: Spot on! This is what needs to be preached and taught. Boys and Men must exercise a high degree of self-control at all times, especially in sexual matters and not allow some manipulating women to turn them into objects controlled by a punanny. Men should be able to look at a naked woman and say: Phuck-off, I dont need you or your sexual orifice. But they would not teach or preach this because these feminazzis know that ones men develop that will-power to 'turn it off', they become FREE and cannot be manipulated anymore. The Women lose Power over their male counterpart. |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by 2016v2017: 12:28am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Tittos: |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Obalende: 12:31am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Daboomb: commercial sex dolls are now available and feminists around the world are working hard to ban it because their power will be gone... |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by tosyne2much(m): 12:32am On Aug 24, 2017 |
ApostleJSuleman:Go and sit down jawe |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Daboomb: 12:34am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Obalende: Now, to show you that there is an inherent tendency for men to spring to the defence of women, without thinking properly or being objective, l want you to show me where l quoted her FIRST and INSULTED HER. (Since you claim l insulted her first). Be reminded that she was the one who quoted me FIRST and used an insulting word (Asinwin) at the ned of her post. I then replied her accordingly. Its typical, "toxic masculinity" to feel you just need to defend a woman (No matter how irrational you come across). I understand the syndrome but unfortunately, women dont even appreciate it nor value such men... they see you all as "the same". I am waiting. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Daboomb: 12:38am On Aug 24, 2017 |
naijaboiy: Having a "designer Toy" at home, decorated to show your friends and called it "a husband", does not mean you are married or even happily married. There are Husbands and their are "decoration Husbands". (Ever hear that song, Man-shortage?) Just point to one happilly married owman who does all th nonsense she posts on Nairaland and l will cosnider shutting down my account. You cant be happily married and still be a Man-hater! The two dont go together. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by naijaboiy: 12:39am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Daboomb:Imagine a world where every man can control his sexual urges and dictate when and where he actually wants sex. We will be able to tackle this rape issue very specifically because it would only turn to those men who rape minors or as a result of robbery. There wouldn't be any case of boyfriend rapes girlfriend or something like that. And most importantly the power to manipulate men will be lost. They gonna be bitter mehn 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by naijaboiy: 12:43am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Daboomb:Facts tho! |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Nobody: 12:43am On Aug 24, 2017 |
naijaboiy:biased?.. U guys r actually condemning des women for dis?? Common ,,,.. We all know d rate of rape is high towards females and somtin needs to b done.. Not neglecting d fact dat guys also get raped and need psychological attention buh if actually d program was mearnt for all genders ,do u think des women wud b able to understnd ur pains? U al r asking who r we gonna call for help, y nt ask urselves... U can as wel start a program just lyk dis for d male child also......it wud help alot.. Instead of condemning dis gud work .. Try to improve it 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Obalende: 12:44am On Aug 24, 2017 |
naijaboiy: Iranian researchers conducted experiments that showed that there are actually specific herbs that can curb testosterone production thereby inhibiting male sex desire. |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Obalende: 12:45am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Daboomb:hmm |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Daboomb: 12:46am On Aug 24, 2017 |
naijaboiy: I think the Blame lies squarely at the door steps of we "Fathers". We dont train our male child to see sex as an "fleeting feeling".... like having a Lollipop or Ice cream. You may want it but you must be able to say "I wont have it now". SELF CONTROL We must tell our Sons that putting it in and psushing it out doesnot change you, make you better or even make you happier. Its just an "intense feeling of a few seconds" that can destroy you for a whole life, if not properly managed. Most importantly, we must tell our Sons that "You are not yet a man, if you cant say "No" to anything and everything, even food". My own sons know that their "test of manhood" is when they can deny themselves of that which they desire most, at any time. When anyone matures to that stage, then you have almost everything under control, including those that think having something between the legs, make them superior. 1 Like |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Obalende: 12:48am On Aug 24, 2017 |
cococandy:lady it seems you are a product of the US feminist system. Its all well and good... Truth is we men need the ladies to help us curb our toxic masculinities... that is the truth.... this is real female empowerment.... how many men could you help? Please help us. However, I would do well to recommend to you to guard against the hating strain of the movement.... as long as you balanced you are good.... you may have been brought up taught men are evil etc..... its good to review ones beliefs from time to time. |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by cococandy(f): 12:48am On Aug 24, 2017 |
You're the one with lack of self control and somehow it's the women's fault? Are you a brainless goat? I don't think anyone is stopping you from teaching young men what needs to be taught. But are you? No you're not. You're looking for where young girls are getting help to derail it. Devil's first son Daboomb: 3 Likes |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Daboomb: 12:49am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Obalende: Seriously, l want you to show that l insulted the thing first. That was your accusation at me. Show me if it is true. I will even apologise. |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by cococandy(f): 12:50am On Aug 24, 2017 |
I'm sorry if calling out the obvious truth strikes you guys are man hating. Maybe just maybe you people wouldn't have so much bullshit to be called out on if you did the right things? Just saying. BTW I'm a product of the Nigerian misogynistic hellhole. If I didn't live the bullshiyt life, I wouldn't know would I? Obalende: 5 Likes |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by cococandy(f): 12:52am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Sounds like a good start But at the end you yet again revealed your deep problems. Helplessness at the site of a vagina. It is well Daboomb: 4 Likes |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Obalende: 12:53am On Aug 24, 2017 |
cococandy:there are intrinsic weaknesses in men..... Girls receiving support and prevention of sexual violence is a good thing. I think the movement is good in Nigeria maybe if guys egos were bruised a bit then they would act well. I don't have the answers... |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Daboomb: 12:55am On Aug 24, 2017 |
cococandy: Olosho, Gerrof my mention joor. Bitterness is eating-away and destroying what is left of your miserable and it shows in every line you post. Frustrated animal forming "women defender"! I said l wont come down to your gutter-level and l hope the person defending you has seen a snippet of who you are. Ill-mannered, uncultured, frustrated and bitter loser. L-O-O-S-E-R!
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Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by SweetJoystick(m): 12:57am On Aug 24, 2017 |
cococandy: |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by EmekaBlue(m): 1:01am On Aug 24, 2017 |
cococandy:sorry for the initial quote i gave u,coz ur dp got my attention.... after using my software to process into you account kinda, I found out thats not you on your profile. You are making so much feminine meow here but u dont even have self esteem. its better u take it down than use the beautiful lady to be behaving like this. Thankyou |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Obalende: 1:01am On Aug 24, 2017 |
If men are so concerned about each other? What's stopping you people from looking out for male victim of rape or forming your own rape prevention organizations instead of trying to come in the way of help being offered to females?Why would a man want to prevent a woman from getting help? I cant think of any reason.... you make this sound personal/ gender war... typical US strains of the movement.... I dey tell you.... |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by cococandy(f): 1:14am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Why don't we get all the insults out of the way and see if somehow something sensible can come out of you. 1) I'm olosho. Agreed 2) I'm bitter. Agreed very much 3) I need to find a man so my bitterness will turn to sweetness . Oh wait I have one already. I guess he's not a real man then because what real man would be okay with a woman has a voice and cares about female oppression. Sigh. 4) I'm ugly and men don't want me that's why I hate men. 5) there's really nothing else left to insult me with. Now that I've made your job easier. What sensible thing do you have to say? Oh I forgot you didn't want to 'descend' to my level of discourse. you prefer the high road of calling me a slut as a debate response. Dimwits like you come a dime a dozen and I've been doing this for a while now so I already know that take away those preprogrammed responses listed above, you have nothing meaningful to say. It's like a minion lord some where made your little minds and put nothing else but those in it. You're naked in a debate without the ability to call the woman a slut. You should go to hell where you belong Daboomb: 8 Likes |
Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by cococandy(f): 1:16am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Obalende:did you read the initial responses on this thread? 3 Likes |
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