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Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by DrClemzzY(m): 7:17am On Aug 24, 2017

HannahHitler:
never said that. let's be mature and reasonable. how many cases of male rape as compared to the females? The boy child is born a king and treated as such till he's old.

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Are you hiqh?... Funny as it seems, many people don't know what some of the male folks encounter. Only if some of us tell you our story and experience about molestation and rape by the female folks... I think you will look twice before you leap.
Have a nice day.

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Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by kense88: 7:17am On Aug 24, 2017

EasyWork001:
Quit wailing. Na only you get prick for here? Open male rape thread na

Crying like a hot mess smh

posted my own experience on the topic, to create awareness on the possibility of male children falling victim, for people to learn and you call that crying like a hot mess. It's obvious you can't reason properly.

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Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by pocohantas(f): 7:18am On Aug 24, 2017

FTrebirth:
that's nice! i'll keep their contacts too coz i'll have my own kids someday. but then, whenever i open a thread and see certain female monikers commenting in it, i just know the thread has gone to the dogs.

these girls are still embittered by their past...they were victims of rape abuse by their stepfathers and uncles and they've grown up to become extreme man haters. so even if a boychild is abused, they gloat over it but when it's a girl they wail, rage and take their cries to the same men they hate for help.

God will help all of you.

Have you seen any girl gloat over it so far?

Or you ignored the males that gloated over it to pick on people who did nothing wrong just to satisfy your own self-hate?

God will help all of you too.

Thank God you acknowledge they were abused, maybe if they got help...it won't have gotten to this.

SmartchoicesNG:
Shut up already! Who hates female folks? You talk as if both genders aren't interrelated.... Stop sowing discord and hatred a over. Most guys who have commented here have close and loved female relatives. That you probably have a caustic gender home front doesn't mean all of us share such toxic family life with you!

If you ain't smart enough to know that the seed of discord was sown by people who tried to sensationalise this topic, then you don't deserve any of my attention. No single one of my post has put one over the other so far. You are quoting the wrong person.

Keep yapping, you'll be ignored.

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Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by pocohantas(f): 7:22am On Aug 24, 2017*

kense88:
posted my own experience on the topic, to create awareness on the possibility of male children falling victim, for people to learn and you call that crying like a hot mess. It's obvious you can't reason properly.

Oh, it hurts you.
Yet you accused the women that cried out of playing victims. Now you have met someone with a distorted mentality like yours and you say she isn't reasoning properly. Did you reason properly?

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Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by DrClemzzY(m): 7:23am On Aug 24, 2017

All i'm tryna say is sexual abuse is bad.

Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by Ensho: 7:28am On Aug 24, 2017

ekensi01:
when last did you check on your brain update service provider?

summerslam!

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Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by ELKHALIFAISIS(m): 7:34am On Aug 24, 2017

[quote author=cococandy post=59767498]If men are so concerned about each other? What's stopping you people from looking out for male victim of rape or forming your own rape prevention organizations instead of trying to come in the way of help being offered to females?

It Shows it's not about getting help for men but about preventing women from getting help. You guys never remember anything until women want to do it for themselves then you're all like 'what about men?'
All in a bid to derail the course of women's wellbeing.

Pocohantas is right though. Where did the thread specify that it's all about females? But your wickedness towards women will never let you see that. You saw help and women in the same sentence and your vile nature couldn't let it be.

Stupid things.[/qufree, I have seen how intelligently you reasons, so everyone is on his own huh

don't complain when men corner all the political appointment to themselves , women put themselves in this perpetual self inflict destruction, if they respect their selves nobody will think of raping them, u can't open office for my head and expect me to let u go free, mutual agreement between 2 adults that goes wrong is rape abi huh

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Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by weyreypey: 7:38am On Aug 24, 2017

SmartchoicesNG:
Can you deny ever raping a boy child? Just deny that cradle robber! How can a woman be so gleeful over boy child molestation! " they enjoyed it" you are lucky I don't curse again!

Quit my mentions!

pocohantas:
Cc: Myd44. This is a serious accusation.

Point out my comment that has supported rape of the boy child, the mods will do the needed.

Wow just wow... Madam kindly deny the allegations. Calling a mod makes you look guilty... Wow

Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by pocohantas(f): 7:40am On Aug 24, 2017

weyreypey:
Wow just wow... Madam kindly deny the allegations. Calling a mod makes you look guilty... Wow

This one isn't okay. Tell him to point out the post I supported rape...then there'll be something to deny.

Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by weyreypey: 7:47am On Aug 24, 2017

pocohantas:
This one isn't okay. Tell him to point out the post I supported rape...then there'll be something to deny.

Well he has a point though... Why are you going aggro? Guilty conscience or need to make atonements?

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Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by pocohantas(f): 7:48am On Aug 24, 2017

weyreypey:
Well he has a point though... Why are you going aggro? Guilty conscience or need to make atonements?

Okay. You'll soon join him to prove your accusations. Because you guys obviously have comprehension issues...

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Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by FTrebirth(m): 7:50am On Aug 24, 2017

pocohantas:
Have you seen any girl gloat over it so far?

Or you ignored the males that gloated over it to pick on people who did nothing wrong just to satisfy your own self-hate?

God will help all of you too.

Thank God you acknowledge they were abused, maybe if they got help...it won't have gotten to this.

i've seen you and your crew gloat over men's plight many times on this forum. in fact, that's the only reason you joined nairaland - to defend women and attack men. sometimes i wonder if you have fathers, brothers, uncles...let's skip the boyfriends part as most of you are lesbians.
you wouldn't have quoted me if my comment hadn't hit you.

sometimes you ask questions first before pulling a male-hate induced conclusion. if you've been doing that, you would have found out that the first guy you attacked was also a victim of rape before raining those unprovoked insults on him.

i made mention to keep the contacts of these good ladies just in case the need for their help arises, which i've done BTW.

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Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by pocohantas(f): 7:51am On Aug 24, 2017

FTrebirth:
i've seen you and your crew gloat over men's plight many times on this forum. in fact, that's the only reason you joined nairaland - to defend women and attack men. sometimes i wonder if you have fathers, brothers, uncles...let's skip the boyfriends part as most of you are lesbians.
you wouldn't have quoted me if my comment hadn't hit you.

sometimes you ask questions first before pulling a male-hate induced conclusion. if you've been doing that, you would have found out that the first guy you attacked was also a victim of rape before raining those unprovoked insults on him.

i made mention to keep the contacts of these good ladies just in case the need for their help arises, which i've done BTW.

Point out where I have gloated over male [child] rape. Please do that now...No need for accusations, just point it out NOW.

A victim of rape should be logical enough to help his ilk get help, not sensationalise a worthy cause due to bias.

these girls are still embittered by their past...they were victims of rape abuse by their stepfathers and uncles and they've grown up to become extreme man haters. so even if a boychild is abused, they gloat over it but when it's a girl they wail, rage and take their cries to the same men they hate for help.

This is what you should be backing up with hard facts, which I am very sure you don't have. My sexuality isn't the topic here. That is just another random accusation, but not worth my headache...not as serious as this.

Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by kense88: 7:52am On Aug 24, 2017

DrClemzzY:
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Are you hiqh?... Funny as it seems, many people don't know what some of the male folks encounter. Only if some of us tell you our story and experience about molestation and rape by the female folks... I think you will look twice before you leap.
Have a nice day.

She could be one of the perpetrators.

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Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by ELKHALIFAISIS(m): 7:54am On Aug 24, 2017

cococandy:
slowpoke

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Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by LordOfNaira: 7:59am On Aug 24, 2017

These women are not professionals. At least, I didn't see their academic qualifications. To give therapies, you need more than experience. You need education in the field of psychology or related fields up to at least a master's. I am always suspicious of these so-called life coaches or counselors who use sentiments and emotions to give therapies.

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Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by streetzdreamz(m): 7:59am On Aug 24, 2017

Bridgetania:
you talk about equality?...

Is there equality in the number of girls raped on a daily basis compared to guys?

How and when last did u hear that a boy or man was raped?
But u can bear me witness that aleast every two days on NL we read different news about young girls being raped..and this happens on a daily basis.

Btw..u dont expect a female who was a rape victim to come and be campaigning on behalf of both sex. She has to use her experience and how she pulled out successfully outa the mess to help her fellow girls..a method which may not be suitable for the male gender.
By the way...its always difficult for a lady/girl to talk about embarrassing sex ordeals such as rape with a man...and that applies too for the men.

What you should be concerned is...for men who has undergone the terrible ordeal and still survived and pulled through..this men should be the ones coming out to campaign for the boys/men victims too.

There are some matters,so intricate and delicate,that are reserved for the same genders to handle..so that they can be a free flow of communication.

Finally...you are all entitled to your own ideas...but i suggest, if any man who has been a victim to sexual abuse needs who to talk to,and there seems to be none concerned..he should get up,take the mantle of courage and be the first masculinist or male gender rights activist,make himself available and known,hereby forging and setting a pace others would gladly follow.
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Bri.

pheeeew!! its hard to believe,but it seemed you are the only female on this thread who is sane enough to make a sensible discuss void of insults and vile words,and your analysis are damn right!!!others are just jabbering away at the mouth,personally I see nothing wrong in the writeup we all know the greater percentage of rape victims,and we all know which gender gets more broken and shattered,a male victim of rape doesn't necessarily need much help or any help at all,people sometimes make bias judgements cuz of their hatred for an entity, ion really fancy the female species that much,but the odds life stakes against em is high enough,sugarcoating it to me is a crime,this NGOs are female victims and as such I don't even expect them to counsel male victims,cuz they only know how it feels for a woman not a man, male victims of rape too should set up an organization, don't see a reason why this women should be labeled in a bad light for facing their gender,some even called them men haters!!! don't think a sane female victim would still love men generally if she hasn't moved on,and I think this women are helping them to let go of the past,move on and love again; some peeps are really confused beings.................as much as the female species don't really catch my fancy, they need all the help they can get,and guys needs stop screaming bloody murder.

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Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by weyreypey: 8:02am On Aug 24, 2017

pocohantas:
Okay. You'll soon join him to prove your accusations. Because you guys obviously have comprehension issues...

Stop the big big grammars and face the allegations!

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Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by FTrebirth(m): 8:03am On Aug 24, 2017

pocohantas:
Point out where I have gloated over male [child] rape. Please do that now...No need for accusations, just point it out NOW.

A victim of rape should be logical enough to help his ilk get help, not sensationalise a worthy cause due to bias.

this was my comment:
"i've seen you and your crew gloat over men's plight many times on this forum. in fact, that's the only reason you joined nairaland - to defend women and attack men."

nowhere did i mention male child rape. you're just deflecting.

the young man was disappointed that the main focus of the op was for female protection against abuse; the males, who equally are victims of the same, were left out. and your best defense was that boys enjoy getting raped.

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Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by ibkayee(f): 8:05am On Aug 24, 2017

Piiko:
you made a valid point about people competing for relevance especially males so for that I am going to be a feminist for the next 24hrs

You don't need to be a feminist to recognise that it's an issue

Don't be one of those people that just throws the word around for the sake of it lol

Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by SilvanusII(m): 8:05am On Aug 24, 2017

[quote author=ELKHALIFAISIS post=59772135][/quote]I did a double-take at your conclusion of high stupidity (and I desperately hoped it wasn't from u). Rape victims do nothing to earn rape, and definitely it isn't mutual consent if AT ANY POINT, THE PARTNER DECLINES. I suggest u look up what consent means.

Re: If You Are A Victim Of Rape Or Sexual Abuse You Should Talk To These Three Women by tomdon(m): 8:07am On Aug 24, 2017

tosyne2much:
So, you see it as a form of enjoyment on the part of a man when a woman rapes him?

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So you see it as suffering ba. Pray tell so that we know how to classify you

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