makydebbie:
Bro hope you no vex say I expose your people.

Acidosis:


Carry go dear, nothing do you. I agree with your points 100%. A guy and a girl can NEVER be "best friends" without one or both parties getting something sexual or sensual as benefits.

Sometimes, it is not always for s. e. x... Some guys are so s€x starved, they can befriend some girls just so they could peep at her boobs, thighs or even sniff her panties.. While the girl would be somewhere forming "my best friend is a guy and nothing is attached" babe, nigga is somewhere sniffing your undies both day and night; tapping currents like his life depends on it".

makydebbie:
Preach on bro! It hardly happens that there's no string attached. Lol, male besties keh? If I get junior sister wey dey do that thing I go talk to am reset her brain factory settings.

Acidosis:


Lol!

You're so funny

Kenfil:


Just listen to urself... I prefer male friends and had lots of them before I got married.. All with zero attachments. Most of u will lose good women because u have been wired to think backwards smh

makydebbie:
Preach on bro! It hardly happens that there's no string attached. Lol, male besties keh? If I get junior sister wey dey do that thing I go talk to am reset her brain factory settings.

leathalbeast:
are you saying a lady cannot keep male friends without anything happening? though it's rare it exists o. I kinda know a few like that.

makydebbie:
I'm coming back to modify.
Oya I'm done cooking.

Op firstly, I'll tell you, you're not insecure in anyway. You're even smart not to over look it and see it as something normal.

Our nowadays ladies, will say girls do backstab, gossip and other shitty things. Truth is, most guys that are 'acting' nice are not so nice. Ladies! Wake up! They just want to fvck you and move on. There's nothing like guys are more caring than ladies. Of course they want your honeypot so why will they show their real colors? From friend, to bestie, to confidant, to friends with benefits without you knowing how you guys ended up there. Guys are smart, they'll take your excesses, they'll listen to your rant, they'll comfort you. My dear, it's all for the greater good. If you don't like female friends, then be on your own. It's not every boy on the street that is your male friend. Most of them will even see your actions as green light, but then, you're just nice to your 'friend'.

At the end, they just want to fvck you. Later we'll see thread that "all guys are the same". Everything starts from friendship, they'll start from there, when they're done destroying your pussy, you'll be wondering why nigga doesn't have your time again. You gave him the opportunity on a golden platter. Guys are very patient, they'll wait, take your rubbish, fvck, move on and tell their friends. I don talk my own, I feel like creating thread on this nonsense sef.
Ladies, be wise. You no fit keep yam and goat together, something must happen.

Lalasticlala I no fit rant for nothing make this thread reach fp abi Horlohlah?

Errr...so the summary of this your post is that girls should stay away from making guys as friends because all guys have the intention of being with them in the sheets?

Right?

makydebbie:
There'll be confusion as time sets in. It happens like you said that opposite sexes can be friends. But it's like rare that's why I used "hardly". Most times, 90% of the "friendship" ends up being destroyed. Especially when you're also in a relationship and the girl tells everything to the 'bestie' then there's trouble.

Kenfil:


Just listen to urself... I prefer male friends and had lots of them before I got married.. All with zero attachments. Most of u will lose good women because u have been wired to think backwards smh

naijaboiy:

Errr...so the summary of this your post is that girls should stay away from making guys as friends because all guys have the intention of being with them in the sheets?

Right?

makydebbie:
No ofcourse, your friendship should be defined. And it's not adviceable to take them as besties.

So what do you take them as and how do you define such friendships?

leathalbeast:
it's true, at times one will fall for the other and that destroys the friendship but that type of friendship is nice though. for the guy your female friends mostly tell you how women behave and sometimes seeks advice from you about her relationship. for the lady too, she get to learn alot of things about guys from her male friend.

makydebbie:
You should be reading your "Goodbye to failure in English", and not quoting me.

naijaboiy:

Errr...so the summary of this your post is that girls should stay away from making guys as friends because all guys have the intention of being with them in the sheets?

Right?

naijaboiy:

So what do you take them as and how do you define such friendships?

adajoe555:
I have only 2 female friends and the rest are male. I know how they behave and there is a limit to everything. Some guys use such opportunities to start something funny . me just being careful sha


Boo boo have said I should limit my friendship with guys. So I'm trying my best

makydebbie:
LOL, that's deadly.

MissRaine69:
I have male friends a lot of them.
We are just that friends, we game ( a lot), work together, argue, talk and support each other and I do have female friends just not as many. There is no misunderstandings regarding the nature of our friendships. I grew up with most of them and value their presence in my life. How this is viewed I would not care less to be frank.

tosyne2much:
Can't you see the absurdity of our people's mentality?


Can you now see that education sometimes doesn't keep people enlightened?

Next2Bezee:


If neither of them are in relationship then it's probably fine not to define what they can & can't do as friends.

But if either of them is in a relationship, they could personally dictate to themselves limits they won't cross with their friends.

But what if the guy is not interested in being friends with her but just wanna smash?

Next2Bezee:


Good for you.

If you still feel the same way when you fall in love with a guy whose friends are almost all female & he seem to spend a lot of time with each of them everyday then even more Tuale for u.

Prec1ous:


And i guess you are the smartest, the one whose education really made enlightened.

If you have a counter claim, why not display your illumination so others can see the light.

What exactly is someone in relationship seeking for in another person of the opposite sex in the name of friendship.

You may be contained but stop masturbating and leaking hypocrisy everywhere.

What does education has to do with matters of the heart and affection?

Can you control or tell your body the specific amount of testosterone or oestrogen and oxytocin it should produce as the case may be?.

naijaboiy:

But what if the guy is not interested in being friends with her but just wanna smash?

Prec1ous:
I still stand by my view.

A guy and a girl cannot be friends.

It is either they have a past romantic history, living in present romance or building the ground work for future romance.

Let us stop deceiving ourselves, the only relationship they can have and I will be half assured is if they are business partners.

All the girls I have dated, they all called me friends and I LOVE YOU entered into the equation from nowhere. Next, we were frolicking under the sheets, so called friend.

This is a secret, the easiest way for a guy to get a girl is to play the friendship card, along the line just change the game by adding romance, checkmate, she is yours.

If you as a girl cannot get female friends, then there is something wrong about you as a person and your attitude.

Guy also have problems and fights but the only time a guy calls a girl friend is when his game to see her pant is not in the advance stage.

Girls beware, you so-called male friends if given the chance will sleep with you without even thinking twice. Except you are transgender or have leprosy.

It is not ethical, someone will get confused along the way.

This is also a precursor to rape in some cases. The day they will gang rape you, your eyes go clear.

This is a guy's secret, we all want to sleep with that beautiful so-called friends of ours.

So girls, keep deceiving yourself.

If your best friend is a boy and he is not hitting on you then:

-You may not be as attractive as you think.

-You have a bad personality and we know guys are tolerant and pussy no dey bite.

-You are being preyed on the till you are vulnerable, he is watching till he can launch. When I don't know, a man can wait if he is certain to conquer.

- You are transgender or blocked.

You only trusted male friends are:
Husband
Father
Brothers
Sons

Prec1ous:


A guy will just end up stealing your from your boyfriend.

All the sacrifice he makes is for one ultimate goal.

If you are not offering anything in return, you are setting yourself up for harm.

Ebayray:
My best friend's a male, we've been friends since childhood. Nigga is older than me, has his own fiancée too and we've never been interested in each other.
I have lots and lots of male friends. It depends on how you place yourself in such friendship. If you are the type of girl that's always seductively dressed or always telling him your problem, then one party will fall for the other, but if you're just mutual friends, no Strings attached, I don't see why I wouldn't be friends with guys.



My opinion tho

Prec1ous:


The issue now is.. No one knows where strings will get attached.

Depending on how close you were to him ... His fiancée may have seen you as a threat or quarelled about you (just a scenario)

It starts at mutuals and fondness tends to ruin it all.

A woman will always melt into a man, especially one who is always present and in that case, it is MR. FRIEND!