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I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by robertmugabe: 9:09am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Pls permit me to post this piece here as it seems not to be compatible with all the sessions available... I will be brief as much as possible... I am typing in disdain and gross depression. I am 32 years old. I finished from a university in the year 2012. As it is always of any person living in the glory and self-simulated value of finishing with good grade and from one of the leading universities in Nigeria, one would, of course, erroneously expected to retire from the academic environment, to a cushy labour market environment. Far from what I confidently pictured while in school, it is 6 years now and still counting, of active service in the labor market in search of deserving job. From the beginning of post-university time, many of my friends picked up YAHOO instead of wasting their time in d tensed labor market while some newly opted for it along the line of their hopelessness in the labor market. I was invited but I took my uncompromising stance. So far, I have tried to upgrade my self sha with professional exams but yet not materialising. Behold, my friends are now juicily successful in their fraudline path. Even if I get good work today, it may take me 15 years of conservative savings before matching their lofty height of success. Almost all of them are now married, have an obviously paying businesses and of course, possess what it takes to earn Daddy status in their respective environment. While me no even get an apartment of my own... Ah still they live with my brother who is already married. I am aware of how they make their money through compromising gmail, but I was hellbent even though the cross breeds of alerts on their respective phones is always intimidating. Even, sometimes, they did engage my service of writing an official and professionally worded statements meant to be furnished to their clients. Funniest thing and not unexpected anyway, some of them are now stylishly cutting me off. Because I am presently far below their current social status and probably because I seems to them not to be a serious type or seems to them to be a coward. For days now, I have been contemplating compromise and it's appearing to me that it is getting too late to be an upright man. Dear Nairalanders, pls have you ever been in this situation and how did you overcome the thought of such compromise ? 25 Likes 5 Shares
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Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by MZrapper(f): 9:13am On Dec 24, 2019 |
PLEASE make money regardless of how it comes. No one cares how you make money, just be rich. 99 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by RuggedArab: 9:14am On Dec 24, 2019 |
hmmmmm |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Universe8888(m): 9:15am On Dec 24, 2019 |
My brother, Take heart.... U mustn't join them because it never ends well. Anyways, send a message to axxelusglobalservicesintl@gmail.com stating ur financial need and u will get a solution be it job, entrepreneurship,loan e.t.c Thank me later..... 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by robertmugabe: 9:18am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Universe8888: Hmmmmm...OK bro 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Nobody: 9:19am On Dec 24, 2019 |
The end thereof is sorrowful 19 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Augla1: 9:21am On Dec 24, 2019 |
My brother one truth I must tell you, define what success is not just in d short run of things. That is the first thing wt ur case 7 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by millionboi2: 9:22am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by heniford2: 9:23am On Dec 24, 2019 |
. 21 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Paige001(f): 9:24am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Pls don't join them oh, crime never pays, they might be successful now but would surely be caught someday 8 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by robertmugabe: 9:24am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Augla1: This form part of my mentality also bro...but these guys keep winning back to back 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by BetterPoison: 9:25am On Dec 24, 2019 |
We all have a different timing for success. Keep trying and ignore what you think others have that you don't yet. 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by timibare(m): 9:26am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Money na Money....even dos wen dey pack soakaway na money den dey make.....plus dos wen carry coco frm Sao Paulo enter Cambodia successfully na money.... en if u slap oyinbo woman face en $$$ drop na money..... jes b successful, when time reach ask for the forgiveness of ur sins.....go en sin no more 26 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by robertmugabe: 9:27am On Dec 24, 2019 |
heniford2: You're funny bro |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Universe8888(m): 9:28am On Dec 24, 2019 |
heniford2: just send them a message..... axxelusglobalservicesintl@gmail.com |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by heniford2: 9:29am On Dec 24, 2019 |
robertmugabe:not funny but so serious about it God has forsaking me so i will try the devil 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by BilltheDON(m): 9:29am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Brother... Don't loose hope. |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Augla1: 9:34am On Dec 24, 2019 |
timibare:Hmm, quite a thought. The king can be bought if only one can pay such long a price, even the Pope can reserve one a special seat in 'his heaven's so long he is paid the money hear on earth! No wonder the crave for money by any means 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Omihanifa: 9:35am On Dec 24, 2019 |
heniford2: Becareful what you wish for 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by madampresident(f): 9:42am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Bro, don't do it. I repeat, do not do it. Believe that your time will come. Every man's timing is not the same and can never be. For a minute, put yourself in Invictus Obi's shoe. Guy made money, appeared on Forbes list....Where is he today? I know a bro who was broke at 35. He was deported penniless. Mom sent this guy 10K from time to time just to survive. Three years later, guy is earning a 6 digit salary and is balling. I think you should figure a way to improve yourself and make yourself marketable. You should also consider skills as nothing beats skills. Do not just live hoping for something good to come your way, improve and arm yourself to attract what you truly deserve! A wise man said, "the best time to have planted a tree was 10 years ago, another time to plant one is now." 53 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by zed7: 9:49am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Not all that glitters is gold. I've had similar experience, some eventually ended up very broke while a few still remain rich till date. However, what matters is what you can achieve yourself. You need to work hard, millions are making it legitimately in the world. Another man's weath should not be your business because at the end of the day, nobody's wealth is coming to you. You only eat what you earned. 13 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Kevsmart88(m): 9:51am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Ur case is very similar to mine bro....av intentionally cut contact with all of them, I know it's hard but believe me there's a reason U still haven't compromised yet...First, u must understand U ain't competing with nobody in life. Secondly, av seen where it took someone only one year to achieve what it took others ten years and please do not judge nor despise them for their actions, ur time will surely come and God who maketh Rich will grant U wealth with peace of mind...stay blessed and keep believing... 34 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by robertmugabe: 9:54am On Dec 24, 2019 |
madampresident: Thanks, I really appreciate |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by robertmugabe: 9:58am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Kevsmart88: Bro no be small thing... 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Igyeseh(m): 10:22am On Dec 24, 2019 |
robertmugabe:Hahahaha. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Apination(m): 10:25am On Dec 24, 2019 |
robertmugabe:Ewu! Hope you go follow them die their die when the time reach. Just imagine the low lives you are using to compare yourself, instead of you to focus and build your life, you are moving around with nonentities. You call them friends but they won't help you unless you join them, what a pity that at 32 you are still useless. This life is a race, run your own, do not allow greed for unsustainable wealth to blind you and Rob you of your peace and happiness. 2020 is the year, work hard and be content, when the time is right God will provide beyond your expectations. 10 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by imiski(m): 10:29am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Paige001:most of them never get caught. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Nobody: 10:36am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Universe8888:loan? May need one for an important business by January |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Daviddson(m): 10:39am On Dec 24, 2019 |
I hope you're also aware that EFCC has arrested thousands of them this year alone? And have been convicted and are currently serving jail terms? And some have died in the fraud and are in hell? Etc etc. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by Couzy21(m): 10:40am On Dec 24, 2019 |
I love the way you composed this write-up though, ever thought of writing as a job? 10 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed, All My Friends Are Successful Fraudsters... by robertmugabe: 10:51am On Dec 24, 2019 |
Apination: Well, you may call them low life in your own narrow way of reasoning but in far broad societal expectations, they are far from what you call them until the time of consequences of their actions, if at all there will be. Baba it is not in my nature to compare my self but at some point of protracted hopelessness, you spontaneously find your self in d habit of putting your life in retrospective assessment and measure against the societal expectations and those things you see all arround... 16 Likes 4 Shares |
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