tosyne2much:
Madam, continue sleeping around under the guise of "don't put all your eggs in one basket"

It's none of my business

Loolzz..
Oga soothe yhurself...

Integrator1:


Keep preaching promiscuity, ladies with this kind of mindset will definitely loose at both ends and will be back to square one.

You just can't be too smart in life.

Leave them let them keep justifying their promiscuous lifestyle

This advice will make you turn to a prostitute. Guys will use and dump you like a sack of rotten potatoes because no body wants to marry a woman that they know cannot be faithful to one man.

Please ladies don't take this kind of advice it's from the pit of hell!!!!!!

Jodha:



My dear yhure far gone...

lol. Way above your imagination.

Jodha:


Sorry babes I meant late 20's early twenties are still flexing babes...
At the age of 27 ,28 and above...the Lady is gradually realizing she's not getting young anymore she needs to settle down ...then the pressure from family members and co start tripping in slowly...then the pressure from friends..when yhu start seeing yhur friends getting and yhure just there...and sh_tz like that...


Babe tiri gbosah for yhu...but nairaland guys will never understand this..

They don't like anything that looks like you're making ladies wiser. They want women they could control so that's why they'd be against what you're saying or brand it cheating.

Could remember a girl saying she was dating a guy she loved dearly that she told other men off coming for her without any form of consideration 'cause of the guy she was dating and he ended up leaving her for another girl.

Advice from the pit of hell, the other guys you want to date, are they from heaven? You are a confused person

kimbraa:
They don't like anything that looks like you're making ladies wiser. They want women they could control so that's why they'd be against what you're saying or brand it cheating.

Could remember a girl saying she was dating a guy she loved dearly that she told other men off coming for her without any form of consideration 'cause of the guy she was dating and he ended up leaving her for another girl.

Something like this is not gender specific so don't make it seem like a thing like this is only pertinent to men. We have also seen cases of ladies who dump their boyfriends for the highest bidder despite all their effort to satisfy them.

Are you also encouraging us to have side chics even when we are already considering a girl for marriage? And then later, you will still say all men are dogs?

Isn't that hypocrisy?

Briee:
Advice from the pit of hell, the other guys you want to date, are they from heaven? You are a confused person

I'm glad this is coming from a lady. It's indeed an advice from the pit of hell .

Promiscuity is a very bad trait in a woman no matter how much we try to justify it. It's a thing that marriage may not even change. However, you don't have to mess around with a thousand of guys before you can be called a slut. When you're in a relationship yet you're dancing to the tune of a suitor, then you're one

I run from promiscuous ladies as fast as my legs can carry me

I dont know what the fvck it is you saying but one thing i'm sure of is as a guy i would definitely dump (and maybe use before i dump) any lady that has this "dont put all ur eggs in one basket" mentality

perharps you're trying to help them ladies btween the age range of 30- and above but i still believe this shiiii is totally wrong

trust and complete love would be missing in a relationship with a lady that doesnt "place all her eggs in one basket"
paving way for mis-trust, insecurity, low self esteem, and loving to a very minimal extent........


Anyways e no concern me but like i said earlier i would use and dump any lady who doesnt love me completely and has "her eggs in 24 other baskets" so she can finally pick another egg from her basket cos which ever way you put it i still believe its promiscuity

plus what happens to the other "eggs in the diff baskets" you continue to lead on if the main guy eventually decides to marry you eh?

sunshineR:
I dont know what the fvck it is you saying but one thing i'm sure of is as a guy i would definitely dump (and maybe use before i dump) any lady that has this "dont put all ur eggs in one basket" mentality

perharps you're trying to help them ladies btween the age range of 30- and above but i still believe this shiiii is totally wrong

trust and complete love would be missing in a relationship with a lady that doesnt "place all her eggs in one basket"
paving way for dis-trust, insecurity, low self esteem, and loving to a very minimal extent........


Anyways e no concern me but like i said earlier i would use and dump any lady who doesnt love me completely and has "her eggs in 24 other baskets" so she can finally pick another egg from her basket

My brother, may God never let us fall in the hand of wayward woman

I mean what's the essence of dating a guy when the lady harbours distrust and insecurity towards the guy? . Does it make any sense at all?

tosyne2much:
My brother, may God never let us fall in the hand of wayward woman

I mean what's the essence of dating a guy when the lady harbours distrust and insecurity towards the guy? . Does it make any sense at all?

i just tire

later if them say most ladies are hoes they'll start insulting their sisters, moms and female relatives

all i see here is means of justifying their promiscous butts



its no news that we men can almost easily be read and so i believe ladies should be able to read a guy and know how committed he is in a relationship and totally end the relationship instead of continuing but still keeping side guys you'd fall back on

Op in summary ur just encouraging galz 2 go into prostitution
Dumb post
Mynd44 comman close down dis thread please

tosyne2much:
Something like this is not gender specific so don't make it seem like a thing like this is only pertinent to men. We have also seen cases of ladies who dump their boyfriends for the highest bidder despite all their effort to satisfy them.

Are you also encouraging us to have side chics even when we are already considering a girl for marriage? And then later, you will still say all men are dogs?

Isn't that hypocrisy?

Most of you already have sidechicks. I stopped trusting men long ago but I've never stated that all men are dogs 'cause not all think with your dicks.

The purpose of the thread isn't to cheat but to keep an open mind. To be able to discern a serious suitor coming while in an unserious one you felt is serious, you can't tell the heart of man.

I specifically stated it's for ladies whose biological clock is already ticking 'cause the girls are still catching fun with numerous guys. This topic isn't debatable for those who understand what it is.

Ok, how many side niggas should I have in case he doesn't marry me at last?

Guys are very unpredictable and I don't like to lose.

kimbraa:
Most of you already have sidechicks. I stopped trusting men long ago but I've never stated that all men are dogs 'cause not all think with your dicks.

The purpose of the thread isn't to cheat but to keep an open mind. To be able to discern a serious suitor coming while in an unserious one you felt is serious, you can't tell the heart of man.

I specifically stated it's for ladies whose biological clock is already ticking 'cause the girls are still catching fun with numerous guys. This topic isn't debatable for those who understand what it is.

I don't trust them too, all of them have side chicks, none of them will ever agree that they are dating, they are always single. I was chatting with one the other day, he told he was single (not like I care), then as we became friends, he later told me he has 4 girlfriends and is planning to marry one of them next year, this is the e-diot that told me he is single o .

Jodha:



I'm sure I specifically stated that ...the girl's case was just an example to drive my point...and it doesn't stand as a basis of conclusion for mhe...

Yhure not getting my point at all...and I'm seriously tired of repeating the same thing...

A mature lady would understand my point and totally support it....

Maybe I get your point or maybe what you meant is different from what you typed.

Anyway, we sha agree on something even though we do not state it in the same way

Rorachy:
I don't trust them too, all of them have side chicks, none of them will ever agree that they are dating, they are always single. I was chatting with one the other day, he told he was single (not like I care), then as we became friends, he later told me he has 4 girlfriends and is planning to marry one of them next year, this is the e-diot that told me he is single o .

hahaha

Not all of them have side chicks.

kimbraa:
Most of you already have sidechicks. I stopped trusting men long ago but I've never stated that all men are dogs 'cause not all think with your dicks.

The purpose of the thread isn't to cheat but to keep an open mind. To be able to discern a serious suitor coming while in an unserious one you felt is serious, you can't tell the heart of man.

I specifically stated it's for ladies whose biological clock is already ticking 'cause the girls are still catching fun with numerous guys. This topic isn't debatable for those who understand what it is.

What happens after marriage too?

Because the man could also become randy too

Should she also keep an open mind?

kaboninc:

hahaha
Not all of them have side chicks.

Can you swear it?

Rorachy:
I don't trust them too, all of them have side chicks, none of them will ever agree that they are dating, they are always single. I was chatting with one the other day, he told he was single (not like I care), then as we became friends, he later told me he has 4 girlfriends and is planning to marry one of them next year, this is the e-diot that told me he is single o .

Humans are naturally greedy and selfish but the difference is; to which extent?. Every human on earth would put himself first in certain situations. That's what differentiates a man with conscious and one without.

That I have a boyfriend and another man I deem better than my boyfriend is coming to ask for my hand in marriage, after doing my background check on him I'd instinctively dump that guy for the suitor and any guy would do same when faced with two ladies they deem one better. Why should anyone be with a time waster and call it love?.

As for that guy, he's a player. Any guy you ask the number of relationships he has been into would either say three. It's usually three for them when they've loose count.

kaboninc:


What happens after marriage too?

Because the man could also become randy too

Should she also keep an open mind?

Why should she?. Marriage is marriage, you commit and stay faithful to your spouse either man or woman.

kimbraa:
Humans are naturally greedy and selfish but the difference is; to which extent?. Every human on earth would put himself first in certain situations. That's what differentiates a man with conscious and one without.

That I have a boyfriend and another man I deem better than my boyfriend is coming to ask for my hand in marriage, after doing my background check on him I'd instinctively dump that guy for the suitor and any guy would do same when faced with two ladies they deem one better. Why should anyone be with a time waster and call it love?.

As for that guy, he's a player. Any guy you ask the number of relationships he has been into would either say three. It's usually three for them when they've loose count.

I know he is a player but I don't care cos its his business.

I don't fear commitment in a relationship, I fear wasting my time, and so many guys are good at wasting a lady's time.

At the end, its only one guy a lady get to marry.

Its indeed true, some even say they have dated only two girls in their whole life (6years relationship and 10years relationship).

kimbraa:
Most of you already have sidechicks. I stopped trusting men long ago but I've never stated that all men are dogs 'cause not all think with your dicks.

The purpose of the thread isn't to cheat but to keep an open mind. To be able to discern a serious suitor coming while in an unserious one you felt is serious, you can't tell the heart of man.

I specifically stated it's for ladies whose biological clock is already ticking 'cause the girls are still catching fun with numerous guys. This topic isn't debatable for those who understand what it is.

Ehn ehn Wetin men come do you?

kimbraa:
They don't like anything that looks like you're making ladies wiser. They want women they could control so that's why they'd be against what you're saying or brand it cheating.

Could remember a girl saying she was dating a guy she loved dearly that she told other men off coming for her without any form of consideration 'cause of the guy she was dating and he ended up leaving her for another girl.

The question is, can you date multiple men?

If you are loyal to one man, does it means you'll accept to be wooed by another guy?

I don't know how people see it, relationships are all about risks and it also happens to both sides.

As you find guys who have side chicks, you also find girls who also have side boo.

Because you date someone doesn't mean you will both end up marrying. Something could come up and things just won't work the way they ought to be. This is the context I can agree with one having an open mind

An open mind that something can happen but you guys can still try to make it work. Not to have an open mind to consider other suitors especially when you are in a very serious relationship. Unless this guy shows no prospect of marrying and you really want to get married.

That is how I see it

Rorachy:
I know he is a player but I don't care cos its his business.

I don't fear commitment in a relationship, I fear wasting my time, and so many guys are good at wasting a lady's time.

At the end, its only one guy a lady get to marry.

Its indeed true, some even say they have dated only two girls in their whole life (6years relationship and 10years relationship).

Question is, is it a risk worth taking?

Rorachy:
Can you swear it?

I can only talk about myself.

When I'am dating someone, I do not keep or have side chicks.

But when am not dating anyone, I can have as many side chicks as I want.

kaboninc:


I can only talk about myself.

When I'am dating someone, I do not keep or have side chicks.

But when am not dating anyone, I can have as many side chicks as I want.

What if the "anyone" took you as her "someone" ?

Now how do you justify that? I'm not a type that cheat but I don't blame girls that cheat either, why won't they cheat when they are not sure if they are a side chick or a main chick.

I could be a side chick to my guy and I won't know.

Rorachy:
What if the "anyone" took you as her "someone" ?

Now how do you justify that? I'm not a type that cheat but I don't blame girls that cheat either, why won't they cheat when they are not sure if they are a side chick or a main chick.

I could be a side chick to my guy and I won't know.

Hian...I am not dating a side chick na. Lol.

My own meaning is that we are just there and its causal and nothing attached. And she knows there is nothing attached to it. If we shag, we shag and if we don't shag, we don't.

But if she wants it to be real, then we go cross that bridge.



Be that as it may, relationships are risks. If you dont take them, you just may never know whats at the other end. And whatever is at the other end for someone could be different from what could be at the other end for you.

So you could be his side chick. You don't know. But should that stop you from having a relationship?

kaboninc:


Hian...I am not dating a side chick na. Lol.

My own meaning is that we are just there and its causal and nothing attached. And she knows there is nothing attached to it. If we shag, we shag and if we don't shag, we don't.

But if she wants it to be real, then we go cross that bridge.



Be that as it may, relationships are risks. If you dont take them, you just may never know whats at the other end. And whatever is at the other end for someone could be different from what could be at the other end for you.

So you could be his side chick. You don't know. But should that stop you from having a relationship?

No, but not everybody like to take risks.

kimbraa:
Humans are naturally greedy and selfish but the difference is; to which extent?. Every human on earth would put himself first in certain situations. That's what differentiates a man with conscious and one without.

That I have a boyfriend and another man I deem better than my boyfriend is coming to ask for my hand in marriage, after doing my background check on him I'd instinctively dump that guy for the suitor and any guy would do same when faced with two ladies they deem one better. Why should anyone be with a time waster and call it love?.

As for that guy, he's a player. Any guy you ask the number of relationships he has been into would either say three. It's usually three for them when they've loose count.

It is still a risk too. Maybe, a risk worth taking for you.

How do you know that this serious guy won't have other side chicks too after marriage?

Rorachy:
No, but not everybody like to take risks.

Do you like to take risks?

kaboninc:


Do you like to take risks?

Why not, most things we regret in life are the risks we didn't take. So am a risks taker.