makydebbie:
I said "hardly" it's like 10%.
Why should they stop being nice if they're genuinely nice from the onset?

Joel3:
your IQ only revived around boob and ass. by the way do you feel a thing for girls with boob and ass?

Prec1ous:


What i am pointing out is...

Some are not real and avoid all sort of confrontation and try to be extremely good..

There is no way you wil not have an altercation with a friend, no one is oerfect except the person is trying too hard to be

imustsaymymindo:


They stop being nice as an adaption technique. When you are emotionally manipulated constantly, you tend to build boundaries so as not to get hurt. No how you would be genuinely nice, you would not want it to be reciprocated to an extent. When it's not a charity work, it's a relationship and every participant is meant to benefit from it. Even with same sex friendships.

NB: When you stop being nice does not mean you start being wicked. It means you stop showing and doing nice deeds or probably cutting the person off because the person does not hold much value to you anymore and is not worth you.

leathalbeast:
hahahaha I get you. but if the boundaries are set and both parties pursue their friendship over other interests then it will work. I have a female friend and things work out OK between us.

Horlohlah:
Lol...as if you don't know already, who else?

makydebbie:
I get your point, that's mainly for friendship that has been defined from the beginning and also for mature folks but then society has made it almost impossible. With fvck boys everywhere with ulterior motives, that's almost impossible.

sexybbstar:
I have female "companions" but my real friends are guys.i confide in guys more than ladies.None of my male friends has ever hurt me before but I've been hurt by ladies several times.I prefer male friends to female friends.

Prec1ous:
I still stand by my view.

A guy and a girl cannot be friends.

It is either they have a past romantic history, living in present romance or building the ground work for future romance.

Let us stop deceiving ourselves, the only relationship they can have and I will be half assured is if they are business partners.

All the girls I have dated, they all called me friends and I LOVE YOU entered into the equation from nowhere. Next, we were frolicking under the sheets, so called friend.

This is a secret, the easiest way for a guy to get a girl is to play the friendship card, along the line just change the game by adding romance, checkmate, she is yours.

If you as a girl cannot get female friends, then there is something wrong about you as a person and your attitude.

Guy also have problems and fights but the only time a guy calls a girl friend is when his game to see her pant is not in the advance stage.

Girls beware, you so-called male friends if given the chance will sleep with you without even thinking twice. Except you are transgender or have leprosy.

It is not ethical, someone will get confused along the way.

This is also a precursor to rape in some cases. The day they will gang rape you, your eyes go clear.

This is a guy's secret, we all want to sleep with that beautiful so-called friends of ours.

So girls, keep deceiving yourself.

If your best friend is a boy and he is not hitting on you then:

-You may not be as attractive as you think.

-You have a bad personality and we know guys are tolerant and pussy no dey bite.

-You are being preyed on the till you are vulnerable, he is watching till he can launch. When I don't know, a man can wait if he is certain to conquer.

- You are transgender or blocked.

You only trusted male friends are:
Husband
Father
Brothers
Sons

Prec1ous:


I can't actually be in a room with the ugliest girl and in this case YOU!

to reach me you will need more than a 1000 feet pole, because I am afar off you in miles you cannot measure.

pocohantas:
It works for some people...
It doesn't work for others.

Not every guy is wired to have sex with every female friend.
Some have tried it and it ruined great friendship, so...now they know better.

It would work easily if it started on a clear note, not when you convert a guy with romantic feelings to a friend [friendzone].

In all, everything should be done with moderation and caution.

Simply put. Thank you for this piece

imustsaymymindo:


Lol, let's blame it on society. There are actually no Bleep boys and Bleep girls, the society over time changed their mentality.

You need to pity us men o. We have to employ so many indirect tactics just to get laid or express our sexual feelings to a girl. If we ever dare say to a girl "I feel sexually attracted to you, sister and I wish we can do the do", we lose our respect instantly, hence why we sometimes use this indirect means.

Women too are suffering. Any woman who is not married in this society and would love to do the do is labelled a "cheap girl" in the society. Hence, why some girls use indirect means in way of manipulation to tame men. Meanwhile, they actually like the sex.

I blame the society for not allowing us able to express how we feel and dont get to be judged.

makydebbie:
LOL, that's because I was speaking to the ladies, yes ladies cross boundaries for sex but not only sex. They fall in love because of the love care and attention the guys give them. They may even see it as "green light" and start catching feelings.

I've had a "male friend" that started telling me crap along the line then sef I was single. See ehn, most of the guys I've met started asking me out or giving me green light at some point and other times, I was the one catching feelings too. Then I asked one, why can't we just be friends!! It's like goat and yam my dear, I don't see it happening except your bestie is your twin.

Married man keh, maybe he is her childhood friend who he finds unattractive.
Can you have a girl with aggressive boobs and ass as bestie without thinking some things?

makydebbie:
Even the stupid boys will come here acting all sanctimonious that they're genuine. Pls goan tell my nephew that one maybe he'll believe.
Exactly! At a point you may even feel indebted to him, you may fall in love and your case is different if your "male bestie" is single. Lola I must create a thread on this ooo. Maybe next week the article will be ready or you no trust me again?

Tori46:


I think you're right. When I was in 200L or so I had this friend whom I visited in his hostel and at home because we resided in the same state. We were close and I got to meet his mum. She liked me and she was always around whenever I visited.

Fast forward to this fateful day, when I got to his place he was home alone. Immediately I entered, he tried kissing me and I found myself struggling with him. He was more powerful but I succeeded in avoiding the kiss. His mum came back and we acted normal.

After that day, I foolishly went to his hostel and his room mate was even around. He tried kissing me again and we had to struggle. After that day I stopped talking to him. He noticed and asked what was wrong and I poured out my heart to him. He apologised and he said, "I was only trying to find out if you like me". I was irritated and I stopped visiting him since then.

I've also experienced the same thing with two friends. Since then, I made up my mind not to be too close to guys because I feel they'll try to take advantage of me. Who knows, I may not be lucky the next time. Funny enough, my boyfriend already warned me about having male friends but I didn't listen. Too bad I've not been able to share my experience with him but now I know better.

makydebbie:
I'm coming back to modify.
Oya I'm done cooking.

Op firstly, I'll tell you, you're not insecure in anyway. You're even smart not to over look it and see it as something normal.

Our nowadays ladies, will say girls do backstab, gossip and other shitty things. Truth is, most guys that are 'acting' nice are not so nice. Ladies! Wake up! They just want to fvck you and move on. There's nothing like guys are more caring than ladies. Of course they want your honeypot so why will they show their real colors? From friend, to bestie, to confidant, to friends with benefits without you knowing how you guys ended up there. Guys are smart, they'll take your excesses, they'll listen to your rant, they'll comfort you. My dear, it's all for the greater good. If you don't like female friends, then be on your own. It's not every boy on the street that is your male friend. Most of them will even see your actions as green light, but then, you're just nice to your 'friend'.

At the end, they just want to fvck you. Later we'll see thread that "all guys are the same". Everything starts from friendship, they'll start from there, when they're done destroying your pussy, you'll be wondering why nigga doesn't have your time again. You gave him the opportunity on a golden platter. Guys are very patient, they'll wait, take your rubbish, fvck, move on and tell their friends. I don talk my own, I feel like creating thread on this nonsense sef.
Ladies, be wise. You no fit keep yam and goat together, something must happen.

Lalasticlala I no fit rant for nothing make this thread reach fp abi Horlohlah?

lilmax:
most nigerian girls are really vulnerable

my observation

if you need free sex, and you are not in a relationship.... just act as a best friend to a beautiful girl

this is the thing, make sure she's in a relationship, make sure she tells you everything ....make sure you are a pillar to her, someone who she can lean on

now when you want free sex all you have to do is what? cause a fight between her and her boyfriend I wonder why my body dey sweet me

when there's a fight who does she run to? her so called best friend ... her so called best friend comforts her, makes her more vulnerable, and bam she's turned on

and blah blah blah she would bring up the why did you do this to me card?

what do you do? don't act harsh. tell her you're sorry, hug her....tell her she's the most important girl in your life, once again she becomes vulnerable , you strike one more time

at the end when she's tired, she tells you get out ..... you move to the next beautiful girl

make sure you have like 3 girls that need you as best friend... you go dey bang free every week, just stir a fight that's all


well its someone story though not mine

bottom line: no strings should be attached

Princefrankie1:


What's your real name bro. I am so convinced we are twins. This can't be a mere coincidence. Just tell me your surname.

Prec1ous:


This guy has a theory already, i must put this to test.

All the hypocrites can pretend more!

makydebbie:
I'm coming back to modify.
Oya I'm done cooking.

Op firstly, I'll tell you, you're not insecure in anyway. You're even smart not to over look it and see it as something normal.

Our nowadays ladies, will say girls do backstab, gossip and other shitty things. Truth is, most guys that are 'acting' nice are not so nice. Ladies! Wake up! They just want to fvck you and move on. There's nothing like guys are more caring than ladies. Of course they want your honeypot so why will they show their real colors? From friend, to bestie, to confidant, to friends with benefits without you knowing how you guys ended up there. Guys are smart, they'll take your excesses, they'll listen to your rant, they'll comfort you. My dear, it's all for the greater good. If you don't like female friends, then be on your own. It's not every boy on the street that is your male friend. Most of them will even see your actions as green light, but then, you're just nice to your 'friend'.

At the end, they just want to fvck you. Later we'll see thread that "all guys are the same". Everything starts from friendship, they'll start from there, when they're done destroying your pussy, you'll be wondering why nigga doesn't have your time again. You gave him the opportunity on a golden platter. Guys are very patient, they'll wait, take your rubbish, fvck, move on and tell their friends. I don talk my own, I feel like creating thread on this nonsense sef.
Ladies, be wise. You no fit keep yam and goat together, something must happen.

Lalasticlala I no fit rant for nothing make this thread reach fp abi Horlohlah?

Safiaa:
oh my lord. I couldnt stop nodding my head to this comment. Girl your comment touched me.

makydebbie:
I'm coming back to modify.
Oya I'm done cooking.

Op firstly, I'll tell you, you're not insecure in anyway. You're even smart not to over look it and see it as something normal.

Our nowadays ladies, will say girls do backstab, gossip and other shitty things. Truth is, most guys that are 'acting' nice are not so nice. Ladies! Wake up! They just want to fvck you and move on. There's nothing like guys are more caring than ladies. Of course they want your honeypot so why will they show their real colors? From friend, to bestie, to confidant, to friends with benefits without you knowing how you guys ended up there. Guys are smart, they'll take your excesses, they'll listen to your rant, they'll comfort you. My dear, it's all for the greater good. If you don't like female friends, then be on your own. It's not every boy on the street that is your male friend. Most of them will even see your actions as green light, but then, you're just nice to your 'friend'.

At the end, they just want to fvck you. Later we'll see thread that "all guys are the same". Everything starts from friendship, they'll start from there, when they're done destroying your pussy, you'll be wondering why nigga doesn't have your time again. You gave him the opportunity on a golden platter. Guys are very patient, they'll wait, take your rubbish, fvck, move on and tell their friends. I don talk my own, I feel like creating thread on this nonsense sef.
Ladies, be wise. You no fit keep yam and goat together, something must happen.

Lalasticlala I no fit rant for nothing make this thread reach fp abi Horlohlah?

Greene66:
Any lady who has male friends is laying with those 'friends' or will one day do so or be raped by one of those 'friends'.

I pity ladies of today how gullible they are. No man is your friend. All your male friends imagine you unclad. Some even masturbate on your pics at home. They will mate with you the day they have the chance.

Safiaa:
oh my lord. I couldnt stop nodding my head to this comment. Girl your comment touched me.

makydebbie:
Uwc dear.

makydebbie:
I'm coming back to modify.
Oya I'm done cooking.

Op firstly, I'll tell you, you're not insecure in anyway. You're even smart not to over look it and see it as something normal.

Our nowadays ladies, will say girls do backstab, gossip and other shitty things. Truth is, most guys that are 'acting' nice are not so nice. Ladies! Wake up! They just want to fvck you and move on. There's nothing like guys are more caring than ladies. Of course they want your honeypot so why will they show their real colors? From friend, to bestie, to confidant, to friends with benefits without you knowing how you guys ended up there. Guys are smart, they'll take your excesses, they'll listen to your rant, they'll comfort you. My dear, it's all for the greater good. If you don't like female friends, then be on your own. It's not every boy on the street that is your male friend. Most of them will even see your actions as green light, but then, you're just nice to your 'friend'.

At the end, they just want to fvck you. Later we'll see thread that "all guys are the same". Everything starts from friendship, they'll start from there, when they're done destroying your pussy, you'll be wondering why nigga doesn't have your time again. You gave him the opportunity on a golden platter. Guys are very patient, they'll wait, take your rubbish, fvck, move on and tell their friends. I don talk my own, I feel like creating thread on this nonsense sef.
Ladies, be wise. You no fit keep yam and goat together, something must happen.

Lalasticlala I no fit rant for nothing make this thread reach fp abi Horlohlah?

ibkayee:

Wish I could like this a million times

sunshineG:
so I don't get you ladies,
Are you saying nice guys are stupid
What of ladies that I nice to me, should I believe that they want to have sex with me too?l

ibkayee:

Nah nice guys aren't stupid, there are a lot of guys that are genuinely nice

I believe she's talking about the guys who operate under the guise of being 'nice' to get to get sex. They act like being nice entitles them to affection, sex etc so pretend

Lol girls don't need to do all that to get sex like guys, maybe money lool

sunshineG:
but she wasn't specific in her post, even though she didn't generalize

So how do you diff btw a nice guy "just being nice" and a nice guy looking for the "honey pot"


what you think about ladies taking advantage of nice guys?

ibkayee:

Nah nice guys aren't stupid, there are a lot of guys that are genuinely nice

I believe she's talking about the guys who operate under the guise of being 'nice' to get to get sex. They act like being nice entitles them to affection, sex etc so pretend

Lol girls don't need to do all that to get sex like guys, maybe money lool