Safiaa:
oh my lord. I couldnt stop nodding my head to this comment. Girl your comment touched me.

Cannicus:


lol ! You mean baba esteemos, no?

Cannicus:


Hmmmn, touched you where exactly?

ibkayee:

She wasn't specific how? Yeah she didn't

Hmm, it isn't always obvious in the beginning, some examples are going on about how nice they are, expect rewards for being nice, they aren't necessarily the most foolproof signs to look out for but they're common

I think they're wrong too

sunshineG:
She wasn't specific because she didn't state the type of good guys she was referring to but instead she used the word "most" in her post

yes there is no fool proof sign and yes ladies that treat nice guys badly are also wrong

But don't you think the mentality of ladies who treat nice guys badly is similar to what she wrote in her post

Don't you think those ladies believe those guys are nice because of the honey pot?

Do you think it is fair to the genuine nice guys ? Since there is no way of diff them from "bad" good guys

Because frankly I beginning to think most ladies prefer snobbish and proud guys

Prec1ous:


Ensure you quote me or i will fight you.

I will also work on mine.

This is the truth, i do not know why they are twisting it all

ibkayee:

Yes, ladies that take advantage of the genuinely nice guys are wrong


Sometimes it's hard to differentiate between the genuine and fake, however when it's a case of the girl knowing the guy is genuine and taking advantage of this she's wrong. If she's doing it under a guise to get something from him then it's similar

If it's a case of her not being sure or thinking the guy is being fake (even though he may not be, but she doesn't know this) then she's just being cautious and I can't blame her since some guys go to ridiculous lengths for sex and unfortunately the genuine ones are collateral damage, which is unfair but that's life unfortunately


I can't blame some girls for thinking this, some guys go to ridiculous lengths to get sex, some nice guys are the collateral damage which is unfair but that's life unfortunately


I don't think it's fair to genuine guys


There's a difference between the overt proud/snobbish guys (they're bad but they aren't pretending) and 'nice' guys. The fake nice guys are sha worse because an asshole is bad but at least he's upfront about it, not pretending to be something else to manipulate

ibkayee:

Wish I could like this a million times

sunshineG:
maky so you think all nice guys are looking for sex ?
Please clarify I don't get you

luminouz:

Lmaooooo!!
Seems u were a victim of fvckboiz!
Pele!!
Not all men are like what u typed up there!!!

sunshineG:



Unfortunately life doesn't happen like that because most genuine nice guys after being collateral damage a couple of times become bad guys and the Bleep boys we see today

Greene66:


I was never a victim of anything. But I've seen people who have suffered. I've seen ladies get raped by so called friends. I've seen ladies get disappointed by so called friends. I've seen so called friends manufacture hoax just to destroy the relationship of the girl so they can get the girl in the long run. I've seen things bro..

You dont have to be a victim of armed robbery before you learn to close your gates and doors. Same way I don't have to be a victim of this before I know what is up.

All men are what I typed!!! You can deny it all you want but its the truth. If your so called friend opens her legs up for you, you would mate with her. So spare me.

Gwaihir:


Sorry to butt in but I cannot ignore this lame excuse guys give for being of such person.

Are the ladies who you are going after have the liberty to become olosho,rude,bitter,angry bitches because of how a couple of guys treated them? Because that's basically the same reason a female will give to you.

Now for a smart good thinking fellow, should the action of a woman decide who you choose to be for the rest of your life or you just take your lessons from the experience, move on and be a better man? What if the said lady is not yours to keep and the one who would treat you right is right after her? Some people just come into our lives so that when we meet the right person we know this is the right person.

The said girl you became a demon for may have changed her ways and ended up with a decent responsible guy while you continue going around with the baggage you have no business carrying in the first place.

It's immature and short sighted to place such reasons as why a dude became such. Most guys who turn out that way were such or had it in them even before they became jilted, they just needed a reason or trigger to set it off.

makydebbie:
I'm coming back to modify.
Oya I'm done cooking.

Op firstly, I'll tell you, you're not insecure in anyway. You're even smart not to over look it and see it as something normal.

Our nowadays ladies, will say girls do backstab, gossip and other shitty things. Truth is, most guys that are 'acting' nice are not so nice. Ladies! Wake up! They just want to fvck you and move on. There's nothing like guys are more caring than ladies. Of course they want your honeypot so why will they show their real colors? From friend, to bestie, to confidant, to friends with benefits without you knowing how you guys ended up there. Guys are smart, they'll take your excesses, they'll listen to your rant, they'll comfort you. My dear, it's all for the greater good. If you don't like female friends, then be on your own. It's not every boy on the street that is your male friend. Most of them will even see your actions as green light, but then, you're just nice to your 'friend'.

At the end, they just want to fvck you. Later we'll see thread that "all guys are the same". Everything starts from friendship, they'll start from there, when they're done destroying your pussy, you'll be wondering why nigga doesn't have your time again. You gave him the opportunity on a golden platter. Guys are very patient, they'll wait, take your rubbish, fvck, move on and tell their friends. I don talk my own, I feel like creating thread on this nonsense sef.
Ladies, be wise. You no fit keep yam and goat together, something must happen.

Lalasticlala I no fit rant for nothing make this thread reach fp abi Horlohlah?

Laveda:
I have a male best friend, there's nothing between us and our relationship has just been perfect..

The help we get from each other and all..

Prec1ous:
I still stand by my view.

A guy and a girl cannot be friends.

It is either they have a past romantic history, living in present romance or building the ground work for future romance.

Let us stop deceiving ourselves, the only relationship they can have and I will be half assured is if they are business partners.

All the girls I have dated, they all called me friends and I LOVE YOU entered into the equation from nowhere. Next, we were frolicking under the sheets, so called friend.

This is a secret, the easiest way for a guy to get a girl is to play the friendship card, along the line just change the game by adding romance, checkmate, she is yours.

If you as a girl cannot get female friends, then there is something wrong about you as a person and your attitude.

Guy also have problems and fights but the only time a guy calls a girl friend is when his game to see her pant is not in the advance stage.

Girls beware, you so-called male friends if given the chance will sleep with you without even thinking twice. Except you are transgender or have leprosy.

It is not ethical, someone will get confused along the way.

This is also a precursor to rape in some cases. The day they will gang rape you, your eyes go clear.

This is a guy's secret, we all want to sleep with that beautiful so-called friends of ours.

So girls, keep deceiving yourself.

If your best friend is a boy and he is not hitting on you then:

-You may not be as attractive as you think.

-You have a bad personality and we know guys are tolerant and pussy no dey bite.

-You are being preyed on the till you are vulnerable, he is watching till he can launch. When I don't know, a man can wait if he is certain to conquer.

- You are transgender or blocked.

You only trusted male friends are:
Husband
Father
Brothers
Sons

makydebbie:

Lalasticlala I no fit rant for nothing make this thread reach fp abi Horlohlah?

You are very funny.

BTW... No girl/lady should think she can deceive me with such statement "he's my friend".

Prec1ous:
I still stand by my view.

A guy and a girl cannot be friends.

It is either they have a past romantic history, living in present romance or building the ground work for future romance.

Let us stop deceiving ourselves, the only relationship they can have and I will be half assured is if they are business partners.

All the girls I have dated, they all called me friends and I LOVE YOU entered into the equation from nowhere. Next, we were frolicking under the sheets, so called friend.

This is a secret, the easiest way for a guy to get a girl is to play the friendship card, along the line just change the game by adding romance, checkmate, she is yours.

If you as a girl cannot get female friends, then there is something wrong about you as a person and your attitude.

Guy also have problems and fights but the only time a guy calls a girl friend is when his game to see her pant is not in the advance stage.

Girls beware, you so-called male friends if given the chance will sleep with you without even thinking twice. Except you are transgender or have leprosy.

It is not ethical, someone will get confused along the way.

This is also a precursor to rape in some cases. The day they will gang rape you, your eyes go clear.

This is a guy's secret, we all want to sleep with that beautiful so-called friends of ours.

So girls, keep deceiving yourself.

If your best friend is a boy and he is not hitting on you then:

-You may not be as attractive as you think.

-You have a bad personality and we know guys are tolerant and pussy no dey bite.

-You are being preyed on the till you are vulnerable, he is watching till he can launch. When I don't know, a man can wait if he is certain to conquer.

- You are transgender or blocked.

You only trusted male friends are:
Husband
Father
Brothers
Sons

maklelemakukula:

I don't know what you did to me oo, but you annoy me so much.U seem so fake

Prec1ous:
I still stand by my view.

A guy and a girl cannot be friends.

It is either they have a past romantic history, living in present romance or building the ground work for future romance.

Let us stop deceiving ourselves, the only relationship they can have and I will be half assured is if they are business partners.

All the girls I have dated, they all called me friends and I LOVE YOU entered into the equation from nowhere. Next, we were frolicking under the sheets, so called friend.

This is a secret, the easiest way for a guy to get a girl is to play the friendship card, along the line just change the game by adding romance, checkmate, she is yours.

If you as a girl cannot get female friends, then there is something wrong about you as a person and your attitude.

Guy also have problems and fights but the only time a guy calls a girl friend is when his game to see her pant is not in the advance stage.

Girls beware, you so-called male friends if given the chance will sleep with you without even thinking twice. Except you are transgender or have leprosy.

It is not ethical, someone will get confused along the way.

This is also a precursor to rape in some cases. The day they will gang rape you, your eyes go clear.

This is a guy's secret, we all want to sleep with that beautiful so-called friends of ours.

So girls, keep deceiving yourself.

If your best friend is a boy and he is not hitting on you then:

-You may not be as attractive as you think.

-You have a bad personality and we know guys are tolerant and pussy no dey bite.

-You are being preyed on the till you are vulnerable, he is watching till he can launch. When I don't know, a man can wait if he is certain to conquer.

- You are transgender or blocked.

You only trusted male friends are:
Husband
Father
Brothers
Sons

Flashh:

You are very funny.

BTW... No girl/lady should think she can deceive me with such statement "he's my friend".

makydebbie:
I'm coming back to modify.
Oya I'm done cooking.

Op firstly, I'll tell you, you're not insecure in anyway. You're even smart not to over look it and see it as something normal.

Our nowadays ladies, will say girls do backstab, gossip and other shitty things. Truth is, most guys that are 'acting' nice are not so nice. Ladies! Wake up! They just want to fvck you and move on. There's nothing like guys are more caring than ladies. Of course they want your honeypot so why will they show their real colors? From friend, to bestie, to confidant, to friends with benefits without you knowing how you guys ended up there. Guys are smart, they'll take your excesses, they'll listen to your rant, they'll comfort you. My dear, it's all for the greater good. If you don't like female friends, then be on your own. It's not every boy on the street that is your male friend. Most of them will even see your actions as green light, but then, you're just nice to your 'friend'.

At the end, they just want to fvck you. Later we'll see thread that "all guys are the same". Everything starts from friendship, they'll start from there, when they're done destroying your pussy, you'll be wondering why nigga doesn't have your time again. You gave him the opportunity on a golden platter. Guys are very patient, they'll wait, take your rubbish, fvck, move on and tell their friends. I don talk my own, I feel like creating thread on this nonsense sef.
Ladies, be wise. You no fit keep yam and goat together, something must happen.

Lalasticlala I no fit rant for nothing make this thread reach fp abi Horlohlah?

sexybbstar:
I have female "companions" but my real friends are guys.i confide in guys more than ladies.None of my male friends has ever hurt me before but I've been hurt by ladies several times.I prefer male friends to female friends.

Laveda:
I have a male best friend, there's nothing between us and our relationship has just been perfect..

The help we get from each other and all..

Next2Bezee:


Except that when you're in a relationship or are married, those boundaries are defined with the best interest of your partner at heart.

That doesn't have to be the case if you're in a relationship where you aren't ready to sacrifice for your partner.