Blackhawk01:
LOL

Makky, biko summarize. Ion like reading

sunshineG:
This a more balanced view, although I may not agree with everything

Friendship btw a guy and girl should be defined just like any friendship

Ladies should also be honest with their relationship status

Ladies are emotional but I doubt guys are any better though because guys are sexual being. The reason it is much easier to seduce a guy than a lady

Anyway, nice write up. it is your view and you have the right to be biased with you view but this a fair enough view

Lalas247:
I have an equal balance of male and female friends
Yes ladies can be a bit oTT but it's due to ENVY cause why hate on another it's pointless we all got Vjayjay down there but most would rather be petty those type of females u stay clear from .. friendship will always end up toxic , back stabbing n the rest


I think it's ok to have male friends or more male friends .... NL is not how the whole male race thinks
Maybe if you meet a guy on this platform yes high possibility they will Fuvk up .. high possibility they will act up (most have issues) don't blame them ...
but outside this forum and other social media .. it's easy to have long lasting male friends without having issues ... all this friend zone only a biggie on social media especially Nigerians .. no one makes a fuss about it in fact only heard of it here ..

personally a good balance of male and female friends
Take note: He will smile , laugh , comfort, play , have long convos , even tell you his secret ... Biko hold back because u can't trust a guy just like that ... not saying u can't be friends but be very sure and guarded a Real male friend never disappoints and you will always know by their actions

Kimbraa shinarlaura sexybbstar


Mynd44 are we friends

shinarlaura:


My friend, my sister.

I love u

makydebbie:
Lazy geh, goan read joor.

Lalas247:


Kai lol no homo before the jobless ppl of NL say we be les

makydebbie:
But we're still saying the same thing, so how is it biased?

EmperorLee:
Mtcheew

Blackhawk01:



You miss me?

Saintsammurai:
Sigh!!!!! so in a nutshell,, what you are saying is that, females should not take males as the best friends....Well I think you centered your views based on the things you hear, male friends you had and movies you watch....Going into friendship with a male pervert as a female, its a time bomb.....IT all boils down to the type of guy a female take as her bestie....what are his principles, his discipline,e.tc. Before you take that guy as your bestie,,,,think about his personality,,,IS he the perverted type, the type that flex around in night clubs, or he is thy type that is strongly disciplined, cool headed, the type that sticks to one girl, the mature type...like i said...Look before you leap..

EmperorLee:


Mtcheew

Blackhawk01:


Confess, I won't beat you again.

Next2Bezee:


More like judge before you leap. It's only possible to catch a few signs of a person's true character without actually getting close to that person and that is why a lot of guys and girls fall prey to gold diggers, oloshos and mentally unstable people.

The Op is right, you cannot tell the true character of someone if you aren't close to them, so it's better to define the friendship & set your boundaries right from the start, especially people in a relationship.

These days, most find it easier to start a relationship as good friends and before you know it they are pouring akamu inside another man's gf's ponyor.

sunshineG:
there are certain areas we maynot agree

Forexample, you stated somewhere in your write up that men are very rational which I don't necessarily agree with

try to walk naked among guys and see how they will drop all they are doing to focus on you

My dear men are not that rational

EmperorLee:


Mtcheew

makydebbie:
I said logical.

Blackhawk01:


LOL. Did that before my first comment.



Believe me, from other people's experience and stories, you're spot on. But, personally, I'll stick to my male bestie.

Female bestie? Lol. I'll pass and you know why, Debs.