₦airaland Forum

Prec1ous:
You have actually turned a lady after my heart here because you have been able to separate emotions from reality.

You should venture into business, you will excel.

makydebbie:
LOL, bro thanks.
Business? Never thought of that, but I'll love to be a journalist and a writer.

makydebbie:
LOL, bro thanks.
Business? Never thought of that, but I'll love to be a journalist and a writer.

Sirambassador:
will love to be??


What are you still doing

ifycamilla:
Please give me a break...theres nothing like true friendship between a man and a a woman, .....uotehor=SofiaAmrozia post=60016791]Me, I've just been reading comments and laughing.

I have a male best friend, not my only one but the one I trust the most. The guy is like my brother, he has a girlfriend and we're friends too.

Boys are way better as friends (even tho my absolute besties are girls), no drama, no jealousy, peace of mind.

To each his own sha.....

Prec1ous:
I wish to send you a PM, so I ask your permission!

I currently operate a blog and we may bank on controversial topics like this to make a break.

I am a writer too and do not worry, we may never meet.

makydebbie:
Feel free,
At emboldened bro...

makydebbie:
I'm a student.

Sirambassador:
oh... I never knew

Prec1ous:
You should edit you email off, I sent a mail already.

That bold part was a disclaimer .

thank

makydebbie:
I'm a student.

fineboynl:
I have never seen her with other girls. It has always been boys. Let me use this example so you can understand.

8 boys happens to be friends and they are A,B,C,D,E,F,G and H.

First time you saw them together in gathering with the girl. she came with A and left with A. you then have this believe that she is dating A. though they all gist and laugh together like they know each other before.

Another day she came with C and B and left with C and B. But A is not in the gathering.

She became very close to C. You see them on special days that is unusual for non lovers, like Sundays or val day then you think it must definitely be C.

But somehow it looks like the closeness with C drops. she is now very closer to F then you just conclude that she is dating F.

Then you saw her with A yesterday but today with F.

Now you are confused and then make conclusion that she is not dating none of this guys but they are all just only friends.

All this guys are Friends and they all know each other. and she is very beautiful and intelligent. just that she just like Being around with guys. and move with the ones with cars that pick and drop her off. before you think she is prostitute no she is not. you always see them arguing and discussing intelligent topic of argument.

But I was thinking maybe because majority of girls are dull. So she cannot get a good intelligent discussion around girls. The only thing most girls know is boob, butt, and boy's. I might be wrong though.

makydebbie:
Don't forget to keep this comment in the trashcan as well.

Sirambassador:
Will you shut the Bleep up

DeeTus:
LOL! Story teller. Some women are dishonest and unfortunately, you are one of them. There is no way you could have lots of male friends without sleeping with any. Opposite attracts.

Kenfil:
Nah u sabi o? Ono na ndo afu onwa. This is the silly illiterate mentality i was talking bout, most of ur lives are so focused on sex sex sex. Best believe that there are women out there that cherish relationships without looking for sex or monetary gains from men... Now vamoose

Prec1ous:
I still stand by my view.

A guy and a girl cannot be friends.

It is either they have a past romantic history, living in present romance or building the ground work for future romance.

Let us stop deceiving ourselves, the only relationship they can have and I will be half assured is if they are business partners.

All the girls I have dated, they all called me friends and I LOVE YOU entered into the equation from nowhere. Next, we were frolicking under the sheets, so called friend.

This is a secret, the easiest way for a guy to get a girl is to play the friendship card, along the line just change the game by adding romance, checkmate, she is yours.

If you as a girl cannot get female friends, then there is something wrong about you as a person and your attitude.

Guy also have problems and fights but the only time a guy calls a girl friend is when his game to see her pant is not in the advance stage.

Girls beware, you so-called male friends if given the chance will sleep with you without even thinking twice. Except you are transgender or have leprosy.

It is not ethical, someone will get confused along the way.

This is also a precursor to rape in some cases. The day they will gang rape you, your eyes go clear.

This is a guy's secret, we all want to sleep with that beautiful so-called friends of ours.

So girls, keep deceiving yourself.

If your best friend is a boy and he is not hitting on you then:

-You may not be as attractive as you think.

-You have a bad personality and we know guys are tolerant and pussy no dey bite.

-You are being preyed on the till you are vulnerable, he is watching till he can launch. When I don't know, a man can wait if he is certain to conquer.

- You are transgender or blocked.

Your only trusted male friends are:
Husband
Father
Brothers
Sons

READ THIS: How TRUST is the new SCAM: Stop this blatant lies about TRUST!

davide470:
When are you guys resuming again, so that you will not have time to be replying upandan?

Josephamstrong1:
I beg to disagree this time.
My ex had this good male friend that she convinced me of being so proud of. The guy exudes maturity when I see their chat and phone conversations. The day we had a little argument, she left and stayed with this her guy friend who f*cked her for days... Lol.
Male friends are just like parasites or this nice guy next door waiting for an opportunity to strike. Get rid of them if you're in a serious relationship.
Arrest my case.

stagamagadasca:
the way I see people talk as if women are innocent creatures... the funny truth is some ladies wants to sleep with their nice friends too...forget all this advise your giving them..girls are nt babies..when they see a cute and caring guy they feel Hot to phuk him too..they are not sticks.. once a girl looks at a man she knows if she can phuk him or nt...I even have a Female friend am nt attracted to but this girl is on my neck,she wants to phuk me by all means...she's beautiful and endowed but my brother my thing dnt stand even if she naked ...I dnt knw why.

wolextayo:
I have read through the comments, I was expecting a question from those comments but it never emerged.
A Girl can have many male friends but that doesn't mean something is going on under the skirt. Also, I contacted 10 girls for a short survey on this topic and also on my question. 7 of the girls claimed to have more male friends while the rest said they have more female friends. The outcome of my question's survey also showed that 8 of the girls (2 married) started their relationship with friendship while the remaining 2 claimed it was just a 'woo and come back for reply thing' and it was sealed till today.

My Question

Pls if we don't start an intending relationship with friendship, how better should it start?
I'll be expecting answers to this question. Thanks.
Cc : fineboynl
Prec1ous
Makydebbie
Kondomatic
Tosyne2much

joanana:
She loves being around boys because boys don't judge, they don't keep malice, they don't get angry for long, shes safe around boys and can be herself around them.

I know exactly how it feelsbut you can't understand y. You feel it's not right. Well, it will take time for her to adjust and let her male friends. Just be patient with her.

Male friends will tell you truth about yourself but girlfriends won't.

sharpwriter:
How did you know about the fvck bro... she told you?

nuelyoyo:
well, in your case, ur gal willingly offered her pvssy to this male friend. She probably did that out of anger to spite you.

Josephamstrong1:
Lol...She did naa after much confrontation.
That I pushed her to doing what she did. She was depressed and not really herself blablabla.

Benstino:
Your kind is what every lady should avoid when making male friends. The number of likes in Ur comment shows how bad our society has gone.

Back in skul then, my best friend (not even my girl) was a girl. Never touched her nor dreamed of. Her advice and overall intellect was second to none. When a suitor came, she traveled all the way to school to tell me all about d guy (as she was my senior colleague and graduated b4 me, though age mates). And mind u, she was super hot. Sometimes in Ur life U've got to reason outside d skirt. During her trad, u should have been there to see d dance scene bw us. His man stood and laughed widely b4 joining us.