₦airaland Forum

Everyone desires to be loved and to feel love, but the task of finding love have become increasingly difficult for Nigerian young men in recent years.

Young men in Nigeria struggle with financial instability, social injustice and peer pressure amongst other societal issues that may impel them to remain single for a long time.

The total disregard of these prevalent issues by the society has forced some young men into various crimes in order to get the financial prowess to earn the respect of some young women.

Nevertheless, there are simpler methods young Nigerian men may apply to get the love they desire. Here are a few practical suggestions


1) Be truthful - Always endeavor to present your self exactly the way you are to a lady I.e. your financial status, your family and educational background should be presented exactly they way they are to a lady

Note; Do not attempt to lie about any details about yourself as you may attract the wrong ladies that will add to your misery.

2) Go for ladies that are hard-working and ambitious: Always make certain you avoid ladies that have the mindset that a guy should take care of all their financial needs. Try to go for the independent and ambitious ladies

3) Be open minded: Do not confine your search for love to your vicinity or tribe alone. The kind of lady that may accommodate your lifestyle and social status may be from another tribe or religion.

4) Cut your coat according to your size- Always try to avoid high maintenance girls that will require you to spend a great deal of money i.e try to avoid girls that want the most expensive phones, the lastest fashions etc.

5) Seek opinion of the elders and experienced persons about relationship issues- Do not strain to figure out everything about relationships on your own. Always seek the opinion of elders within your vicinity on issues concerning your relationship status and relationships in general.

These are my suggestions, feel free to add yours.

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Ur on POINT OP..


but, have u found ur missing rib?
[/quote]I can't say
Do you have someone for me

IamKashyBaby:



Ur on POINT OP..


but, have u found ur missing rib?

Kashy I Am Not Understanding...When Did Love Have Formula, Is It Maths

IamKashyBaby:


Chaaii..why u cant say it? Is she here as well?

I hope she is not a monitoring spirit tho... But if ur into interracial, i got some friends on side ..SINGLES & READY TO MINGLE

smd

sunshineG:
I can't say
Do you have someone for me

With this your list I hope you've found it?

@OP Goan Drink Milk, I Can See You Lack Calcium

even after reading this, they will still not learn. I tried letting one know tht its not all ladies you can capture with ur wealth and show off, he dude got angry nd call it quit with me. Wetin concern me

IamKashyBaby:


Chaaii..why u cant say it? Is she here as well?

I hope she is not a monitoring spirit tho... But if ur into interracial, i got some friends on my side ..SINGLES & READY TO MINGLE

wow
That is a nice offer, mixed race kids and everything

but I have plans that may prevent me from settling down for a long time maybe 5 years from now

But I will let you know when I am interested
Thanks

Nma27:
With this your list I hope you've found it?

don't mind me
So you don't agree with the list right

sunshineG:
wow
That is a nice offer, mixed race kids and everything

but I have plans that may prevent me from settling down for a long time maybe 5 years from now

But I will let you know when I am interested
Thanks

Woooaah..hold up baba Sunshine, u already jumping on how to start milling kids..u never even see my friends yet oo

IamKashyBaby:


Woooaah..hold up baba Sunshine, u already jumping on how to start milling kids..u never even see my friends yet oo

I am sorry jare don't mind me


I over think things too much it is not my fault jare

sunshineG:
I am sorry jare don't mind me


I over think things too much it is not my fault jare

Naso

sunshineG:
don't mind me
So you don't agree with the list right

Didn't go through it...

Nma27:
Didn't go through it...

kk

IamKashyBaby:



Ur on POINT OP..


but, have u found ur missing rib?

Help me ask him o...
If it has worked for you, lemme relate it to my friends and bro.

nice one..especially number 4,,most guys don't know their level and sometimes feel intimidated when they see a classy babe,hence they device a means to berate her by calling her olosho,not knowing that the lady works so hard to earn her money..

Nice one bro

tosyne2much:
Nice one bro

thanks