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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 6:56pm On Sep 05, 2017

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by dingbang(m): 6:56pm On Sep 05, 2017
There is more to life...

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 6:57pm On Sep 05, 2017
VargasVee:
1. I know you're a female hiding under a male moniker cause your comments are always about attacking men. Work on your self esteem.

2. How about when men say they cannot be in a relationship without sex? You lot still go ahead and cry an ocean about it.

3. The world can never be Utopia, not possible. There's always gonna be the rich and the poor. You do know that some people work harder yet still end up less affluent than others?

4. As a lady, are you any less human? Why not work towards your goal of being independent then having a man to it comes as a perk?

You belong to the category of men I am talking about. Stop complaining about the world. Stop complaining about women. Stop vilifying me. Go and hustle. Become financially successful and you won't have to complain anymore.

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Lalas247(f): 6:57pm On Sep 05, 2017
sunshineG:
grin kk mind it well
I can tell it is big for you to want to mind it
Lolz abeg make I lipsrsealed before yahoo boyz hold me

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 7:02pm On Sep 05, 2017
Lalas247:

Lolz abeg make I lipsrsealed before yahoo boyz hold me
na dat yahooboy with yellow bear bear dey fear u? grin

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Lalas247(f): 7:09pm On Sep 05, 2017
lefulefu:

na dat yahooboy with yellow bear bear dey fear u? grin
qhh dat guys is too rugged grin I fear o
It takes skill cry to do bear bear like that grin

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by VargasVee(m): 7:13pm On Sep 05, 2017
DouglasH92:


You belong to the category of men I am talking about. Stop complaining about the world. Stop complaining about women. Stop vilifying me. Go and hustle. Become financially successful and you won't have to complain anymore.


Lol Category of what?

Lady, I can feed the whole things that has ever sprout out of your family line for a whole year.

Bounce Hun.

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 7:18pm On Sep 05, 2017
lefulefu:

e be like E money don also dash op 50k thats why he now feels like a millioniare and he also now feels its his right to bash broke guys.

hehehehe

no mind OP jareh cheesy

na M0R0N she be cheesy

the only sensible thing i saw in her post is her advice for the so called broke guys to leave unnecessary online chit-chat and go hustle
every other thing na trash cheesy

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 7:18pm On Sep 05, 2017
Lalas247:

qhh dat guys is too rugged grin I fear o
It takes skill cry to do bear bear like that grin
iyam sure na dere d juju dey grin grin

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 7:24pm On Sep 05, 2017
sunshineR:


hehehehe

no mind OP jareh cheesy

na M0R0N she be cheesy

the only sensible thing i saw in her post is her advice for the so called broke guys to leave unnecessary online chit-chat and go hustle
every other thing na trash cheesy
oh u sure say na babe?
so babes don dey dey pose as guys too? grin grin
hmm really wat a man can do a woman can do better grin
anyway sha if E money is oppurtuned to dash me 50k iyam planning to purchase an origina gucci sweat shirt cheesy.gucci over pussy as ikp wil say

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 7:56pm On Sep 05, 2017
lefulefu:

oh u sure say na babe?
so babes don dey dey pose as guys too? grin grin
hmm really wat a man can do a woman can do better grin
anyway sha if E money is oppurtuned to dash me 50k iyam planning to purchase an origina gucci sweat shirt cheesy.gucci over pussy as ikp wil say

lmao cheesy cheesy

yes na..........na woman OP be.............


Like airforce own abi cheesy cheesy.................howfa ikp120 sef...............
Havent seen him nor his comments for a while now

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by makydebbie(f): 8:01pm On Sep 05, 2017
Op hope you're not encouraging ladies to be lazy?

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Victornezzar: 8:03pm On Sep 05, 2017
Hmmm
who's d gal behind d account
it seems guys av insulted u enof
u rush go open male account

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by goingape1: 8:25pm On Sep 05, 2017
DouglasH92:
I've noticed that a lot of Nigerian men, especially on social media always make excuses for their financial inadequacies. Instead of them to keep quiet and focus on becoming financially well off, they will reveal their financial insecurities by demonizing and lambasting any woman who says she would rather date a guy who has money. Most times you will see them making comments like "Women are hoes" Women are gold diggers." "Women should focus on love and not on the financial state of the man"
You will even see them saying that women should try to manage with a man who is earning low and should stop aiming too high in terms of the financial capacities of the man they want because money isn't all that matters.

I have also noticed that these kind of men are usually lazy. Most of their time is spent on social media arguing, insulting women and complaining about how women love money so much. And these men are usually frustrated, broke and low achievers. It's not surprising that they are in the financial state they are in. Real men who have money don't complain like they do. They know how the world works and they work hard to be financially successful and they let their financial success speak for them and attract whatever kind of women they want. They don't spend all day on social media casting aspersions on women who prefer a certain kind of lifestyle and men who understand and can provide such lifestyle.

Seriously, if you are such a man I feel really sorry for you. No amount of whining and complaining will change your condition. Leave social media and go and hustle. If you have money you won't have time to worry about what women want.
look at them!

I'm sure you are a disgrace to your family.

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 8:27pm On Sep 05, 2017
Guys will accuse the op of asslicking...

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Gerrard59(m): 8:27pm On Sep 05, 2017
DouglasH92, get ready oh. They are coming for you. I no dey! grin


Although, not related to the post. What I have observed here is most males complaining of females loving money or prefer dating financially comfortable men, unfortunately don't understand the female psychology. Females date/marry up not down. Stop complaining when females gravitate towards financially comfortable males. It is nature and several studies have proven it.

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Thobiy(m): 8:27pm On Sep 05, 2017
VargasVee:
1. I know you're a female hiding under a male moniker cause your comments are always about attacking men. Work on your self esteem.

2. How about when men say they cannot be in a relationship without sex? You lot still go ahead and cry an ocean about it.

3. The world can never be Utopia, not possible. There's always gonna be the rich and the poor. You do know that some people work harder yet still end up less affluent than others?

4. As a lady, are you any less human? Why not work towards your goal of being independent then having a man to it comes as a perk?
I ike the 3rd tip "The World Can Never Be Utopia"

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by greatman247(m): 8:28pm On Sep 05, 2017
TGoddess:
A woman who desires a rich husband shouldn't be poor and lazy herself.

Thank you for that nice remarks. I won't date ladies with such mentality simple. If you desire rich man you must be rich too.

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by gnss(m): 8:29pm On Sep 05, 2017
Nigerian women should stop expecting men to do all things for them and work as well .Nigerain women should stop waiting and waiting for men when they need something ...

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 8:31pm On Sep 05, 2017
TGoddess:
A woman who desires a rich husband shouldn't be poor and lazy herself.
and were did u see him advocate they should be undecided what is with the 3 ladies on this thread

He's here saying stop being angry and labeling women who want a successful man an u and the 1 above me an 1 other is shouting "lazy woman'
Do u 3 not work undecided do not ya mothers and the women u know.

Why are u making this about another topic entirely. undecided its sad these things come from women who likely wouldn't call out the behavior op has

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Gerrard59(m): 8:36pm On Sep 05, 2017
gnss:
Nigerian women should stop expecting men to do all things for them and work as well .Nigerian women should stop waiting and waiting for men when they need something ...

Honestly, I don't know where you folks get the assertion that Nigerian women do not work. They work a lot, and I see it daily!

Neither do these women necessarily wait for men to buy something they need, they get it themselves. However, it is important to note that no matter how much a woman has, she will always desire the man buys some things for her with HIS money not hers. That is the female psychology.

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by TechAddiction: 8:37pm On Sep 05, 2017
TGoddess:
A woman who desires a rich husband shouldn't be poor and lazy herself.


U gat all ma love already, nice one.. grin grin

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 8:37pm On Sep 05, 2017
SweetPuffPuff:
and were did u see him advocate they should be undecided

Where in my post did i imply that he did

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 8:38pm On Sep 05, 2017
TGoddess:
Where in my post did i imply that he did
were in ya post didn't u Unless u were shouting lazy on account of something else u read

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by MCastle: 8:39pm On Sep 05, 2017
Invest now!

Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by goingape1: 8:39pm On Sep 05, 2017
makydebbie:
Op hope you're not encouraging ladies to be lazy?
actually he/she is encouraging ladies to just sit down and open there smelly yansh for who them think is rich!

no wonder ritualist do enjoy using women as spare part undecided

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 8:39pm On Sep 05, 2017
DouglasH92:
I've noticed that a lot of Nigerian men, especially on social media always make excuses for their financial inadequacies. Instead of them to keep quiet and focus on becoming financially well off, they will reveal their financial insecurities by demonizing and lambasting any woman who says she would rather date a guy who has money. Most times you will see them making comments like "Women are hoes" Women are gold diggers." "Women should focus on love and not on the financial state of the man"
You will even see them saying that women should try to manage with a man who is earning low and should stop aiming too high in terms of the financial capacities of the man they want because money isn't all that matters.

I have also noticed that these kind of men are usually lazy. Most of their time is spent on social media arguing, insulting women and complaining about how women love money so much. And these men are usually frustrated, broke and low achievers. It's not surprising that they are in the financial state they are in. Real men who have money don't complain like they do. They know how the world works and they work hard to be financially successful and they let their financial success speak for them and attract whatever kind of women they want. They don't spend all day on social media casting aspersions on women who prefer a certain kind of lifestyle and men who understand and can provide such lifestyle.

Seriously, if you are such a man I feel really sorry for you. No amount of whining and complaining will change your condition. Leave social media and go and hustle. If you have money you won't have time to worry about what women want.

Olosho when dey use man moniker.

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Phonefanatic: 8:40pm On Sep 05, 2017
DouglasH92:


You belong to the category of men I am talking about. Stop complaining about the world. Stop complaining about women. Stop vilifying me. Go and hustle. Become financially successful and you won't have to complain anymore.

Even you dey struggle unless you are on Forbes.

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Lothario(m): 8:42pm On Sep 05, 2017
Please do yourself a favour and shut up you think like the slay queens I bashed here
https://www.nairaland.com/3952352/reasons-why-no-rich-guy

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by danniyal(m): 8:43pm On Sep 05, 2017
DouglasH92:
I've noticed that a lot of Nigerian men, especially on social media always make excuses for their financial inadequacies. Instead of them to keep quiet and focus on becoming financially well off, they will reveal their financial insecurities by demonizing and lambasting any woman who says she would rather date a guy who has money. Most times you will see them making comments like "Women are hoes" Women are gold diggers." "Women should focus on love and not on the financial state of the man"
You will even see them saying that women should try to manage with a man who is earning low and should stop aiming too high in terms of the financial capacities of the man they want because money isn't all that matters.

I have also noticed that these kind of men are usually lazy. Most of their time is spent on social media arguing, insulting women and complaining about how women love money so much. And these men are usually frustrated, broke and low achievers. It's not surprising that they are in the financial state they are in. Real men who have money don't complain like they do. They know how the world works and they work hard to be financially successful and they let their financial success speak for them and attract whatever kind of women they want. They don't spend all day on social media casting aspersions on women who prefer a certain kind of lifestyle and men who understand and can provide such lifestyle.

Seriously, if you are such a man I feel really sorry for you. No amount of whining and complaining will change your condition. Leave social media and go and hustle. If you have money you won't have time to worry about what women want.

Look at what this op is saying. This is a country where the minimum wage is N19000. 2 million people recently applied for Npower( may be the op is part of them too). So if a woman wants to live a decent life then she should fold her arms and wait for a man ?. What if the man drop dead or loose his job ?. just because you are privileged to have a good job doesn't mean you should look down on other people. you don't know what tomorrow will bring your way

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by donnaD(f): 8:43pm On Sep 05, 2017
Story for the gods some guys are just born NFA#NO FUTURE AMBITIONS #.

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Maduawuchukwu(m): 8:45pm On Sep 05, 2017
SweetPuffPuff:
and were did u see him advocate they should be undecided what is with the 3 ladies on this thread

He's here saying stop being angry and labeling women who want a successful man an u and the 1 above me an 1 other is shouting "lazy woman'
Do u 3 not work undecided do not ya mothers and the women u know.

Why are u making this about another topic entirely. undecided its sad these things come from women who likely wouldn't call out the behavior op has

You don't grab why they have those positions. In Nigeria the average woman is looking for a rich man even if they are mainly broke. They do this without regard for the fact that the country is still economically down and even though you hustle well you will likely end up broke. The Nigerian standard is too high for the nation's economy.

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