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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by ivolt: 9:46pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
VargasVee: Truth is bitter! It is none of your business whatever standard a woman set for herself, you should be more concerned about yourself. Any woman complaining of a male sex freak is obviously stupid because it is none of her business also and she should move on from the relationship if she can't accept the man's condition. Unfortunately, what we see is someone writing several posts about how women should live their lives, if they can't meet up why not move on instead of whining ? 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Biodun1929(m): 9:47pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Na wa o! I guess this week is for bashing broke guys. Nigerian girls don vex. Abeg guys double your hustle and make money so you can marry these girls...there are too many single ladies out there. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 9:52pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Maduawuchukwu:?Almost 4pm. Can I ask who u is individual? |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by hedonistic: 9:53pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Maduawuchukwu: Nuggets of pure reality. It's baffling, really. Very soon the country would implode under the weight of the sheer pressure of its own fakery. |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Burgerlomo: 9:56pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
TGoddess: What else can I say than to give you. .. 2 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by kullozone(m): 10:03pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
I don't even know where to start from. So just because a guy refused to be your mugu/maga, it means he's broke right? Some of us are wise. I give when necessary and not stupidly. This is something a broke slay queen would say, because business no dey move like before. Op dey vex say guys don dey get sense 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 10:06pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
DouglasH92: Bros this is a useless baseless n nonsensical post..... with no importance. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by NESTAD(m): 10:09pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
The fact is, how do you expect a woman to date a broke ass nigga. As a broke ass nigga, are you happy u 're this broke? How then do u expect a woman to be happy dating such a nigga like you. I hope Ebuka will not come here lambasting me for such comment. Anyway, I dey for South Africa come beat me nah!!!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by paulwhiz: 10:09pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
SweetPuffPuff: If you check well most women that bash men and say they cannot marry men that don't make a certain amount. They too will cry feminism and say they cannot wash or clean. That their husband should must pay for cook and nanny. So if I'm paying for cook, nanny, driver and Brazilian hair where exactly are the women contributing? Is it only to open leg? |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 10:14pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
paulwhiz:what the heck Who is talking about female bashing men. We are talking about the opposite. Op is talking of the opposite . why are u hijacking this discussion |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Ugocosmetics(f): 10:15pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Wow !! Excuses doesn't get anybody anywhere. |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Maduawuchukwu(m): 10:21pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
SweetPuffPuff: My name is on my moniker nah. This has always been my handle. |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 10:21pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
DouglasH92:must everything revolve around, "hustling" ? Just imagine what Nigerian suffering mentality has turned you to |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by laliga01: 10:28pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Say this to the feminist and those that carry the saying " what a man can do a woman can do better" for head. Some women think this hustle is easy without doing some illegal runs. Not everybody has the connect to work in a high paying jobs. Trust me, most guys are trying. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by balarabe01(m): 10:32pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
hahahahhhh.....i dey lough 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by imma2(m): 10:40pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
DouglasH92:What a pity...eyaaah |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Crizillion1(m): 10:50pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
SweetPuffPuff: So Nigerian men aren't industrious abi? It's d women that pays our bills getta here jawe |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 10:54pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Crizillion1:yh single women. Single mothers and just women who contribute in their homes. Do u not know any woman like this personally? still doesn't discredit the living reality of these ladies.in Nigeria or the world over. If we didn't provide for ourselves we'd starve the dependant woman is facing extinction |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by mozele(m): 10:57pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Lalas247: lads? |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by jwals: 11:03pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Don't call your brother, LAZY; because your hustle don pay, tomorrow might be his turn to HAMMER,WORK NOT EQUALS TO WEALTH BRO |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by mozele(m): 11:03pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
[quote author=DouglasH92 post=60164768][/quote] other than posting a long epistle, you know I'd be most grateful if you'd offer me a job to earn a honest living. Think about it tho. You'll save a man from becoming a devil's workshop. |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by mozele(m): 11:18pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
RuthDaniels: lol see your wide mouth. Btw, the personal text on your profile mortified me. It is horrifying biko 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by ImaIma1(f): 11:37pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
DouglasH92: Op u forgot to mention that they call Buhari' name everytime and blame him at everh slightest opportunity. They can blame the govt like kilode. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Dcholeric: 11:41pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
DouglasH92:you're definitely a hungry bitch 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by ImaIma1(f): 11:46pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
goingape1: Are you one of them? Cos you seem to throw insults at women easily and talk down on them. You sound angry. Your words are always uncultured and crude. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by passey: 11:50pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Make I rant small today abeg... when will this foolish childishness stop among Nigerian ladies... why must men live up to your financial standards? Does your father meet the standards you are always struggling to set for young men? If he does then good for him atleast you have a man who meets your standards and he should be available for you! Are there not female millionaires? So why don't you lazy, inferiority complex infested girls aspire to such ideals and achievements? Who says your destiny is tied to that of men? Every man will find his woman and so shall every woman. In the whole world, Nigerian girls are the only ones I see insisting on making the issue of money central to their happiness and lives. No wonder our ladies wallow in mediocrity because life for them, is all about what a man can give them or better still, what they can beg off a man. There is no single rule that guides all lives and all men can only manifest their own destinies not your fantasies. All fingers are not and can never be equal... so also are the lots and destinies of men. Success is not necessarily dependent on hard work alone. If you decide that a man does not have sufficient money to be with you, then fine, you are not obligated to be with him... go find yourself your kind of man. And same applies for the men too... Don't go around spreading your poverty mentality about men must own this, men must have or be that... be with who ever you decide. Not some false generalization about all men should have money. Being rich or successful or what ever you call it, is itself subject to definition... what you consider rich is essentially poverty to someone. Please let life takes its natural course. Some people are rich in tangible things while some other people are rich in other ways, humility, wisdom, kindness, spirituality etc... some people,s lives just positively impacts and adds to human happiness and humanity... Just don't go about talking money and trying to force your vain aspiration down the throats of some young men and even women... making it look like if they don't have money as you believe, then they are not successful. Why do you reserve for yourselves the position of the human species that have a right to be broke without any qualms? Life is actually a process and the poor man of today can be rich tomorrow and vice versal. I am just trying to be the sane voice in this conversion by trying to remind us all men and female alike that life should be about setting goals and achieving same as well being about the pursuit of happiness as we individually understand it. PS.... before you choose to ignore the substance of my rant and try to force your classification on my poor head, by the special grace of God, I am beyond what you will call poor but I still remember a time when all I could afford was 10 naira card on my girlfriend's birthday. Today, I am blessed by God's mercy alone, to the point where I can do things for her in seven figures, if you get my drift! So that is life for you 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by StaffofOrayan(m): 11:54pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Even billionaires love to brag about their broke days, wealth doesn't spring overnight like a stream except you are into shady ish, wealth is built over time, it takes a smart woman to recognize a billionaire in the making, for those looking for the ready made product, it hardly lasts. Nigerian women have never been lazy, far from it, a Nigerian woman loves a man that has a plan 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 11:57pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
All the aunties go claim feminist and gender equal... until it comes to financial responsibility. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 11:58pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
ImaIma1:And who do you blame for yours? |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Afhounja(m): 12:38am On Sep 06, 2017 |
If a man is hustling for the purpose of laying his earnings at a woman's feet, he is hustling for the WRONG reason. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 1:02am On Sep 06, 2017 |
Maduawuchukwu: |
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Pataricatering(f): 1:04am On Sep 06, 2017 |
They always know how women should manage broke guys but will never joke with ' submission ' !. Broke men too want submission , lol . 1 Like |
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