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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by ivolt: 9:46pm On Sep 05, 2017
VargasVee:
1. I know you're a female hiding under a male moniker cause your comments are always about attacking men. Work on your self esteem.

2. How about when men say they cannot be in a relationship without sex? You lot still go ahead and cry an ocean about it.

3. The world can never be Utopia, not possible. There's always gonna be the rich and the poor. You do know that some people work harder yet still end up less affluent than others?

4. As a lady, are you any less human? Why not work towards your goal of being independent then having a man to it comes as a perk?

Truth is bitter!
It is none of your business whatever standard a woman set for herself,
you should be more concerned about yourself.

Any woman complaining of a male sex freak is obviously stupid because
it is none of her business also and she should move on from the relationship
if she can't accept the man's condition.

Unfortunately, what we see is someone writing several posts about how women
should live their lives, if they can't meet up why not move on instead of whining ?

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Biodun1929(m): 9:47pm On Sep 05, 2017
Na wa o! I guess this week is for bashing broke guys. Nigerian girls don vex. Abeg guys double your hustle and make money so you can marry these girls...there are too many single ladies out there.

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 9:52pm On Sep 05, 2017
Maduawuchukwu:


Lol. What time is it where you are?
?Almost 4pm. Can I ask who u is individual?
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by hedonistic: 9:53pm On Sep 05, 2017
Maduawuchukwu:

The Nigerian standard is too high for the nation's economy.

Nuggets of pure reality. It's baffling, really.

Very soon the country would implode under the weight of the sheer pressure of its own fakery.
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Burgerlomo: 9:56pm On Sep 05, 2017
TGoddess:
A woman who desires a rich husband shouldn't be poor and lazy herself.

What else can I say than to give you. ..

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by kullozone(m): 10:03pm On Sep 05, 2017
I don't even know where to start from. So just because a guy refused to be your mugu/maga, it means he's broke right? Some of us are wise. I give when necessary and not stupidly. This is something a broke slay queen would say, because business no dey move like before. Op dey vex say guys don dey get sense cheesy

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 10:06pm On Sep 05, 2017
DouglasH92:
I've noticed that a lot of Nigerian men, especially on social media always make excuses for their financial inadequacies. Instead of them to keep quiet and focus on becoming financially well off, they will reveal their financial insecurities by demonizing and lambasting any woman who says she would rather date a guy who has money. Most times you will see them making comments like "Women are hoes" Women are gold diggers." "Women should focus on love and not on the financial state of the man"
You will even see them saying that women should try to manage with a man who is earning low and should stop aiming too high in terms of the financial capacities of the man they want because money isn't all that matters.

I have also noticed that these kind of men are usually lazy. Most of their time is spent on social media arguing, insulting women and complaining about how women love money so much. And these men are usually frustrated, broke and low achievers. It's not surprising that they are in the financial state they are in. Real men who have money don't complain like they do. They know how the world works and they work hard to be financially successful and they let their financial success speak for them and attract whatever kind of women they want. They don't spend all day on social media casting aspersions on women who prefer a certain kind of lifestyle and men who understand and can provide such lifestyle.

Seriously, if you are such a man I feel really sorry for you. No amount of whining and complaining will change your condition. Leave social media and go and hustle. If you have money you won't have time to worry about what women want.


Bros this is a useless baseless n nonsensical post..... with no importance.

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by NESTAD(m): 10:09pm On Sep 05, 2017
The fact is, how do you expect a woman to date a broke ass nigga.

As a broke ass nigga, are you happy u 're this broke? How then do u expect a woman to be happy dating such a nigga like you.


I hope Ebuka will not come here lambasting me for such comment.

Anyway, I dey for South Africa come beat me nah!!!!

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by paulwhiz: 10:09pm On Sep 05, 2017
SweetPuffPuff:
shocked an who is taking care of babies and cooking. Keeping house and washing undecided is the contribution only to be financial?

And u forget single mothers who do it all undecided

But my point u missed. They are not necessarily lazy but wanting .

If you check well most women that bash men and say they cannot marry men that don't make a certain amount. They too will cry feminism and say they cannot wash or clean. That their husband should must pay for cook and nanny. So if I'm paying for cook, nanny, driver and Brazilian hair where exactly are the women contributing? Is it only to open leg?
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 10:14pm On Sep 05, 2017
paulwhiz:


If you check well most women that bash men and say they cannot marry men that don't make a certain amount. They too will cry feminism and say they cannot wash or clean. That their husband should must pay for cook and nanny. So if I'm paying for cook, nanny, driver and Brazilian hair where exactly are the women contributing? Is it only to open leg?
what the heck undecided

Who is talking about female bashing men. We are talking about the opposite. Op is talking of the opposite
. undecided why are u hijacking this discussion
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Ugocosmetics(f): 10:15pm On Sep 05, 2017
Wow !! Excuses doesn't get anybody anywhere.
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Maduawuchukwu(m): 10:21pm On Sep 05, 2017
SweetPuffPuff:
?Almost 4pm. Can I ask who u is individual?

My name is on my moniker nah. This has always been my handle.
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 10:21pm On Sep 05, 2017
DouglasH92:


You belong to the category of men I'm referring to.

Stop blaming the government. Stop complaining about women. Go and hustle. Stop whining.
must everything revolve around, "hustling" ?

Just imagine what Nigerian suffering mentality has turned you to
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by laliga01: 10:28pm On Sep 05, 2017
Say this to the feminist and those that carry the saying " what a man can do a woman can do better" for head.
Some women think this hustle is easy without doing some illegal runs.
Not everybody has the connect to work in a high paying jobs.
Trust me, most guys are trying.

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by balarabe01(m): 10:32pm On Sep 05, 2017
grin hahahahhhh.....i dey lough

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by imma2(m): 10:40pm On Sep 05, 2017
DouglasH92:
I've noticed that a lot of Nigerian men, especially on social media always make excuses for their financial inadequacies. Instead of them to keep quiet and focus on becoming financially well off, they will reveal their financial insecurities by demonizing and lambasting any woman who says she would rather date a guy who has money. Most times you will see them making comments like "Women are hoes" Women are gold diggers." "Women should focus on love and not on the financial state of the man"
You will even see them saying that women should try to manage with a man who is earning low and should stop aiming too high in terms of the financial capacities of the man they want because money isn't all that matters.

I have also noticed that these kind of men are usually lazy. Most of their time is spent on social media arguing, insulting women and complaining about how women love money so much. And these men are usually frustrated, broke and low achievers. It's not surprising that they are in the financial state they are in. Real men who have money don't complain like they do. They know how the world works and they work hard to be financially successful and they let their financial success speak for them and attract whatever kind of women they want. They don't spend all day on social media casting aspersions on women who prefer a certain kind of lifestyle and men who understand and can provide such lifestyle.

Seriously, if you are such a man I feel really sorry for you. No amount of whining and complaining will change your condition. Leave social media and go and hustle. If you have money you won't have time to worry about what women want.
What a pity...eyaaah
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Crizillion1(m): 10:50pm On Sep 05, 2017
SweetPuffPuff:
u know I'm foreign Cuz why u talk ta me like that?

U know. I think that makes them all the harder the worker.
The Nigerian women I've know of are industrious. They are the 1s owning shops and selling on the roadside,going to school to better themselves or even just working a low wage job at shop rite.

An even if in their life station they aren't wealthy, I think its OK they long for 1 who is.
They work hard an though its not produced them wealth,they aren't lazy as she said undecided

So Nigerian men aren't industrious abi?
It's d women that pays our bills getta here jawe
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 10:54pm On Sep 05, 2017
Crizillion1:


So Nigerian men aren't industrious abi?
It's d women that pays our bills getta here jawe
yh undecided single women. Single mothers and just women who contribute in their homes. Do u not know any woman like this personally? undecided

still doesn't discredit the living reality of these ladies.in Nigeria or the world over.
If we didn't provide for ourselves we'd starve undecided the dependant woman is facing extinction
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by mozele(m): 10:57pm On Sep 05, 2017
Lalas247:
Over to the Lads grin

lads?
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by jwals: 11:03pm On Sep 05, 2017
Don't call your brother, LAZY; because your hustle don pay, tomorrow might be his turn to HAMMER,WORK NOT EQUALS TO WEALTH BRO
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by mozele(m): 11:03pm On Sep 05, 2017
[quote author=DouglasH92 post=60164768][/quote]

other than posting a long epistle, you know I'd be most grateful if you'd offer me a job to earn a honest living.

Think about it tho. You'll save a man from becoming a devil's workshop.
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by mozele(m): 11:18pm On Sep 05, 2017
RuthDaniels:
Preach bro Preach!! Lol


I won't catch grenades for you though, because I see some pouring on you soon. cheesy


lol see your wide mouth.

Btw, the personal text on your profile mortified me.

It is horrifying biko

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by ImaIma1(f): 11:37pm On Sep 05, 2017
DouglasH92:
I've noticed that a lot of Nigerian men, especially on social media always make excuses for their financial inadequacies. Instead of them to keep quiet and focus on becoming financially well off, they will reveal their financial insecurities by demonizing and lambasting any woman who says she would rather date a guy who has money. Most times you will see them making comments like "Women are hoes" Women are gold diggers." "Women should focus on love and not on the financial state of the man"
You will even see them saying that women should try to manage with a man who is earning low and should stop aiming too high in terms of the financial capacities of the man they want because money isn't all that matters.

I have also noticed that these kind of men are usually lazy. Most of their time is spent on social media arguing, insulting women and complaining about how women love money so much. And these men are usually frustrated, broke and low achievers. It's not surprising that they are in the financial state they are in. Real men who have money don't complain like they do. They know how the world works and they work hard to be financially successful and they let their financial success speak for them and attract whatever kind of women they want. They don't spend all day on social media casting aspersions on women who prefer a certain kind of lifestyle and men who understand and can provide such lifestyle.

Seriously, if you are such a man I feel really sorry for you. No amount of whining and complaining will change your condition. Leave social media and go and hustle. If you have money you won't have time to worry about what women want.

Op u forgot to mention that they call Buhari' name everytime and blame him at everh slightest opportunity. They can blame the govt like kilode.

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Dcholeric: 11:41pm On Sep 05, 2017
DouglasH92:
I've noticed that a lot of Nigerian men, especially on social media always make excuses for their financial inadequacies. Instead of them to keep quiet and focus on becoming financially well off, they will reveal their financial insecurities by demonizing and lambasting any woman who says she would rather date a guy who has money. Most times you will see them making comments like "Women are hoes" Women are gold diggers." "Women should focus on love and not on the financial state of the man"
You will even see them saying that women should try to manage with a man who is earning low and should stop aiming too high in terms of the financial capacities of the man they want because money isn't all that matters.

I have also noticed that these kind of men are usually lazy. Most of their time is spent on social media arguing, insulting women and complaining about how women love money so much. And these men are usually frustrated, broke and low achievers. It's not surprising that they are in the financial state they are in. Real men who have money don't complain like they do. They know how the world works and they work hard to be financially successful and they let their financial success speak for them and attract whatever kind of women they want. They don't spend all day on social media casting aspersions on women who prefer a certain kind of lifestyle and men who understand and can provide such lifestyle.

Seriously, if you are such a man I feel really sorry for you. No amount of whining and complaining will change your condition. Leave social media and go and hustle. If you have money you won't have time to worry about what women want.
you're definitely a hungry bitch

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by ImaIma1(f): 11:46pm On Sep 05, 2017
goingape1:
actually he/she is encouraging ladies to just sit down and open there smelly yansh for who them think is rich!

no wonder ritualist do enjoy using women as spare part undecided

Are you one of them? Cos you seem to throw insults at women easily and talk down on them. You sound angry.
Your words are always uncultured and crude.

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by passey: 11:50pm On Sep 05, 2017
Make I rant small today abeg...
when will this foolish childishness stop among Nigerian ladies... why must men live up to your financial standards?
Does your father meet the standards you are always struggling to set for young men? If he does then good for him atleast you have a man who meets your standards and he should be available for you!
Are there not female millionaires? So why don't you lazy, inferiority complex infested girls aspire to such ideals and achievements? Who says your destiny is tied to that of men? Every man will find his woman and so shall every woman.
In the whole world, Nigerian girls are the only ones I see insisting on making the issue of money central to their happiness and lives. No wonder our ladies wallow in mediocrity because life for them, is all about what a man can give them or better still, what they can beg off a man.
There is no single rule that guides all lives and all men can only manifest their own destinies not your fantasies. All fingers are not and can never be equal... so also are the lots and destinies of men. Success is not necessarily dependent on hard work alone.
If you decide that a man does not have sufficient money to be with you, then fine, you are not obligated to be with him... go find yourself your kind of man. And same applies for the men too...
Don't go around spreading your poverty mentality about men must own this, men must have or be that... be with who ever you decide. Not some false generalization about all men should have money. Being rich or successful or what ever you call it, is itself subject to definition... what you consider rich is essentially poverty to someone.
Please let life takes its natural course. Some people are rich in tangible things while some other people are rich in other ways, humility, wisdom, kindness, spirituality etc... some people,s lives just positively impacts and adds to human happiness and humanity...
Just don't go about talking money and trying to force your vain aspiration down the throats of some young men and even women... making it look like if they don't have money as you believe, then they are not successful.
Why do you reserve for yourselves the position of the human species that have a right to be broke without any qualms? Life is actually a process and the poor man of today can be rich tomorrow and vice versal.

I am just trying to be the sane voice in this conversion by trying to remind us all men and female alike that life should be about setting goals and achieving same as well being about the pursuit of happiness as we individually understand it.

PS.... before you choose to ignore the substance of my rant and try to force your classification on my poor head, by the special grace of God, I am beyond what you will call poor but I still remember a time when all I could afford was 10 naira card on my girlfriend's birthday. Today, I am blessed by God's mercy alone, to the point where I can do things for her in seven figures, if you get my drift! So that is life for you

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by StaffofOrayan(m): 11:54pm On Sep 05, 2017
Even billionaires love to brag about their broke days, wealth doesn't spring overnight like a stream except you are into shady ish, wealth is built over time, it takes a smart woman to recognize a billionaire in the making, for those looking for the ready made product, it hardly lasts. Nigerian women have never been lazy, far from it, a Nigerian woman loves a man that has a plan

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 11:57pm On Sep 05, 2017
All the aunties go claim feminist and gender equal... until it comes to financial responsibility.

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 11:58pm On Sep 05, 2017
ImaIma1:


Op u forgot to mention that they call Buhari' name everytime and blame him at everh slightest opportunity. They can blame the govt like kilode.
And who do you blame for yours?
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Afhounja(m): 12:38am On Sep 06, 2017
If a man is hustling for the purpose of laying his earnings at a woman's feet, he is hustling for the WRONG reason.

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Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Nobody: 1:02am On Sep 06, 2017
Maduawuchukwu:


My name is on my moniker nah. This has always been my handle.
Re: Nigerian Men Should Stop Making Excuses For Their Financial Inadequacies. by Pataricatering(f): 1:04am On Sep 06, 2017
They always know how women should manage broke guys but will never joke with ' submission ' !. Broke men too want submission , lol .

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