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Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by 400billionman: 12:50pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
MissCokie: Dem no dey telli person. Samankwe ! She won't leave because she hates you. She will leave just to play bad girl. The world today likes taking advantage of good deeds.. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by babyfaceafrica: 12:54pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Daeylar:you can't know people..people will show you what they want you to see...a girl will pretend to like you because she knows you are sponsoring her education,once she is through and has a good job..she will show you herself.. We can't read peoples mind...prevention is better than cure 1 Like |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by emorse(m): 12:54pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
MissCokie:I totally get ur point. However, I don't see anything wrong in helping someone 'simply because you can' (no strings attached). Who knows, he/she might be in a position to help you or yours in future. And even if it doesn't happen exactly that way, you still enjoy a feeling of satisfaction knowing that you have added value to someone. Besides sef, what goes around comes around. I'm a living proof of that statement. 1 Like |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Daeylar(f): 12:57pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica: I meant know the person before you start giving or show any intention of giving, before you start carrying yourself as someone who can feed everyone in nigeria, Take time to observe and then give only because you want to. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by emorse(m): 12:58pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica:Would I be stupid to grant you one wish (assuming I have the means) simply because I can? NB- I don't and may never know you in person. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Kaycee7(m): 12:59pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
MissCokie:What if I decide to sponsor the girl just for the sake of it? No strings attached. What then? 2 Likes |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by babyfaceafrica: 1:03pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Kaycee7:that is different.. What OP is insinuating is that gf/bf issues...where an uneducated or semi-educated man sponaoeea in gf to school with the impression and hope that they will get married,when when she finish ,only for the gal to dumb his sorry ass,when she is through..these things happen |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by blessudu1(m): 1:13pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Well said miss |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Kaycee7(m): 1:19pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica:Op didn't insinuate that the post was for uneducated or semi-educated men. IMO, whoever you are, "buying" a wife isn't a wise decision these days. These aren't the days when women just came into a house to do the bidding of the man. A girl who dumped you at the end is better than the one who married you and ends up making your life uncomfortable. Marriage should be for love and not a way of showing gratitude 4 Likes |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 1:27pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
illuminated93: @illuminated93 :You are wrong bro. Everyone ,even God expects something from you in return for what he's done for us..especially when that person is your gf,you'd naturally expect a payback except for the fact that u chose to make a decision not to get along with her later..because you are emotionally attached,it pains u more. So,I strongly agree with Misscokie 2 Likes |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 1:32pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
You have an awakened mind. alexialin: |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by babyfaceafrica: 1:45pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Kaycee7:love..lmao |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 1:46pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
freddywells81: After reading his reply, I realized that he did not understand, and i couldn't have explained better than you did. 1 Like |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 1:48pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Kaycee7: You will attach some things later. But, still yet, don't. Show that compassion to your family. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 1:51pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
emorse: Why is every body trying to convince themselves that they can help a girl without any motives?. Anyway, if the girl is your GF, please don't waste your resources on her. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 1:52pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
emorse:Why is every body trying to convince themselves that they can help a girl without any motives?. Anyway, if the girl is your GF, please don't waste your resources on her. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 1:54pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
400billionman: I have a friend, who made same mistake. He regrets doing what he did for the girl, I can't just help, but to console him. Although i warned him . |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 1:55pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
OrestesDante:good. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 1:58pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Sierusvirus: Sometimes people prefer to act blind when they see the truth. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by CoolAmbience(m): 1:58pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
MissCokie: No objections. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by emorse(m): 1:59pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
MissCokie:Hahahaha! I'm not trying to convince myself. Its something I've done severally (in my own little way). Unfortunately, I can't prove it cos I'd be calling them out - which would be very rude. Madam, leave people who want to help jare. They might be saving lives. Just advise them to be careful and not have too many expectations. Enjoy!!!! |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Jman06(m): 2:00pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
We have all done some crazy stuff in the past for love. I recall spending my monthly allowance in school on a girl i was madly in love with, thinking that that would please her and make her happy. But i was dead wrong. What i got in return was a girl who was always showing attitude issue. At a point she wanted to turn me to full-time ATM, that was when i had to borrow some sense and quit the relationship. Since then i drew the conclusion that giving gifts does not make girls happy. So, i won't advice any guy to train a girl he has love affairs with in school. That will not make her see you differently from other guys. You'll only end up with heartbreaks when she dumps you and falls cheaply for another dude. 1 Like |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 2:00pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Billyonaire: Even if you're sponsoring her out of charity, do not in anyway expect any favor from her, don't attach any emotions, because you would be disappointed when the time for action comes, and she's not present to answer the call. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 2:02pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
emorse: okay. I've heard you. Its feels good most times, when you're helping someone just for charity sake. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by emorse(m): 2:04pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
MissCokie: GBAM!!!!!! DAZZALL! |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 2:04pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Jman06: Thanks for sharing. Now imagine i was advising you back then, not to sponsor her, I am sure you would hate me right?. 1 Like |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 2:06pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
emorse: DAZZALL |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by emorse(m): 2:08pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
MissCokie:I swear nothing beats that feeling. Its like drinking your favourite beer with your favourite plate of pepper soup, at your favourite bar, watching your favourite team beating their arch rivals at the champions league final. Chai!! lol. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Jman06(m): 2:09pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
MissCokie:I might not have taken your advice, but i won't hate you. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 2:11pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
emorse: But don't allow your favourite heart to fall in lust with that favourite girl, in order to avoid a favourite suicide, in your favourite grave. Such feelings. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 2:12pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Jman06: Yeah, because you would, i was trying to sow the seed of discord?. Such is life. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 2:18pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
hmm |
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