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Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Robbin7(m): 10:22am On Sep 09, 2017 |
These days I go even fear to sponsor my own wife self. Make she no go love one Yahoo boy 4 SKU 2 Likes |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Jaqenhghar: 10:25am On Sep 09, 2017 |
MissCokie:I remember one guy a security man in some organization. the guy was barely educated bit he was sponsoring his girl through school. He had this nice racket going on where they steal diesel from the company stores and sell. About the time the girl graduated he got busted and was sacked. That girl dropped him like a hot potato 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Daeylar(f): 10:25am On Sep 09, 2017 |
I think the best way to give is to know who you are giving to and to give only what you can afford to let go. give and forget about what you've given, don't keep it mind. I think this helps if the person betrays you later, you won't be upset about what you gave because you know that you gave because it's your personal decision, it's what you wanted to do and you are happy with your decision. There is nothing wrong with lending a helping hand IF YOU CAN AND IF YOU ARE WILLING TO . It doesn't make you a mugu, it doesn't mean you are foolish. That should have been op's advice, Instead of trying to spoil people's minds from giving. illuminated93: That's the most important thing, give because you want to and not because of emotional blackmail. Nice LordKO:I love this 2 Likes |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Jaqenhghar: 10:25am On Sep 09, 2017 |
Robbin7:Yes O. I geard of one man too.sponsored his wife abroad. She ran off and left him with 6kids 2 Likes |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 10:29am On Sep 09, 2017 |
MissCokie:The funny thing is that after sponsoring her in school, you'll still be required to pay a huge bride price and settle a lengthy traditional marriage list, all for some tiny piece of wet, hairy flesh between her legs 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by dangotesmummy: 10:30am On Sep 09, 2017 |
I'm with her on that. Too much Expectations lead to heartbreak |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by dangotesmummy: 10:31am On Sep 09, 2017 |
MasterRahl: Really? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by ocelot2006(m): 10:31am On Sep 09, 2017 |
OrestesDante: It's pretty much self explanatory: NEVER EVER INVEST HEAVILY ON A WOMAN WHO IS NOT YOUR WIFE, MOTHER, OR SISTER. 2 Likes |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by vislabraye(m): 10:36am On Sep 09, 2017 |
MissCokie: Wisdom !!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 10:42am On Sep 09, 2017 |
nairanaira12: Bros! You don't have to insult me now. You can just read and leave |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 10:42am On Sep 09, 2017 |
ocelot2006: This is better than insult |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by lexy2014: 10:43am On Sep 09, 2017 |
OrestesDante:d point she was trying to make is that u should spare no effort, financially, materially or otherwise in helping ur gf achieve her dreams. u don't need 2b married 2her. Just make sure b4 she asks, u have provided |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 10:45am On Sep 09, 2017 |
lexy2014: Thanks |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Itzurboi(m): 10:47am On Sep 09, 2017 |
Shey nah bad tin if one lady sponsor me too, abi is it a crime in nigeria constitution... Why always "MALE" 1 Like |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Itzurboi(m): 10:50am On Sep 09, 2017 |
MasterRahl:bros, is that tiny fleshy tin the famous"ABODII OR SHAKI" that afonja likes so much.. 1 Like |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Jman06(m): 10:54am On Sep 09, 2017 |
Op is very right. A girl who is not your wife owe you nothing. Sponsoring her in school is a waste of resources unless you are on a charity mission. 1 Like |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by lexy2014: 10:54am On Sep 09, 2017 |
Daeylar:op isn't spoiling people's minds, she's just being plain honest. Its easy 2 say give 2a man or woman u intend 2 marry without any emotions attached.fact is most times, u give more 2a person who u c as d object of ur love much more than u give 2 others. U can't avoid it.best thing is avoid it all together. If u want 2b father Christmas, then leave romance&love out of it. Jesus had this to say in Matthew 7:6 "Don’t give precious things to dogs. Don’t cast your pearls before swine. If you do, the pigs will trample the pearls with their little pigs’ feet, and then they will turn back and attack you". Even Jesus knew some people don't deserve good gifts.some people are not just worth it 3 Likes |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by jeff1607(m): 10:55am On Sep 09, 2017 |
illuminated93: what if the lady, tells you its ur duty to cater for her needs (as a gf ooo not as a wife) As they always say if a man can't spend his all for her while courting he won't do during marriage |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by lexy2014: 10:56am On Sep 09, 2017 |
OrestesDante:u welcome |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by 1234onyekwe: 11:03am On Sep 09, 2017 |
Eberex:Guy u helped her out of ur selfish interest,ask ur self this question how many times have u helped any of ur family member guininely,or helped any dude that is close to u.U did it so that u 'll be seen as a good person or get access to what lies in b/w her legs. 4 Likes |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 11:04am On Sep 09, 2017 |
MasterRahl: Extra burden. Life should be much more easier than this. Women indirectly suffer men, but we don't know it. 2 Likes |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 11:05am On Sep 09, 2017 |
Jaqenhghar: That's my point. No matter what you do, if she wants to walk away, she would, and you can't do anything. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by guru90: 11:07am On Sep 09, 2017 |
MissCokie: 100% True..... |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 11:07am On Sep 09, 2017 |
menxer: The less privilege, IDP camps would pray for you, your family members will never forget you. But if you decide to help a girl is just your gf, the outcome won't be nice. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 11:09am On Sep 09, 2017 |
reminiscing: Okay. And remember not to attach emotions while doing it. Suicide and heartbreaks is real. |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 11:09am On Sep 09, 2017 |
Hahahaha..Laugh don kill me. Billyonaire must have an opinion. 1234onyekwe: |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Chukazu: 11:09am On Sep 09, 2017 |
true but some women are very loyal, if able to find such, I sure don't mind sponsoring |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by Nobody: 11:10am On Sep 09, 2017 |
If you wanna help somebody be it Gf, bf or whatever. You help because you have the resources to do so. Help that doesn't expect anything in return is the purest. But I do understand where the Op is coming from. Life is full of betrayals, people betray you at the slightest thought. But there's one thing no for sure, and that is, 'No good deed goes unrewarded and same can be said for Evil deeds. 1 Like |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by MissCokie(f): 11:10am On Sep 09, 2017 |
goingape1: That's good. I rather tell my man to invest in himself than me. 1 Like |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by guru90: 11:10am On Sep 09, 2017 |
ocelot2006: supported! |
Re: Do Not Sponsor Her Education Or Career If She Is Not Your Wife: Miss Cokie by menxer: 11:12am On Sep 09, 2017 |
MissCokie:Leave that bias. What do you mean by 'pray for you?' You have added value to a life, that is all that matters. |
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