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I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by dungburu: 8:48am On Sep 10, 2017
There is this lady I met 3 months ago, we have been chatting lately and it has gotten n to the extent of her falling in love with me...

And having understood the game relationship to an extent, I never express how I feel about her or say some romantic words like "I love u " etc... She is d one that has been calling me dear , sweetie n so on...

Now, she said am not romantic n insisted that I must be saying those romantic words n expressions.. bt I told her I cant for now that she should give me time that I will need to trust her to an extent before saying those sweet words, n now she dnt call like before n d chat is less...

She told me d last time I called that I should just make use of the available opportunity now that she is giving me chance that she pray another man should not win her attention that she knows what she is saying n that she would only be calling d way she used to do untill I begin to say sweet words. So she said its better she stays out of the relationship if I will not kowtow to what she need from me, so I told her to step out if that is d reason she would want to quit n that if she has gotten a guy winning her attention she should let me know so as to back off too. And I think if I should start saying d romantic words, Which is a CHALLENGE LADDER to her, I may loose her chase.

What should I do in this regard ?
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by falconey(m): 8:50am On Sep 10, 2017

Even if you don't mean it you should have at least say it when she demanded unless of course you didn't love her then your gesture is justified, Funny you claimed you understood relationship to an extent.

With the way you handled the situation,you don't understand shit!

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Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by smartty68(m): 8:50am On Sep 10, 2017
Lol! Guy be forming Commando. Girls/Ladies/Women likes sweet names and petting a lot

Guy loosen up and stop all these old school form of love

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Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by dingbang(m): 8:51am On Sep 10, 2017
What kind of dull person are you? Sorry to ask

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Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by izzou(m): 8:53am On Sep 10, 2017
Two little kids with Android phones and 10mb data

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Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by NLbully(m): 8:57am On Sep 10, 2017
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by davinero2: 8:58am On Sep 10, 2017
My brother.

Never let yourself get emotionally blackmailed into doing something you're not comfortable with cos in the end, you'd feel completely empty and used.

Though romance is an essential part of a relationship, try to get into it willingly. The worst that can happen is losing her.
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by indodon(m): 8:59am On Sep 10, 2017
izzou:
Two little kids with Android phones and 10mb data

buhahahhahahhahah

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Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by Nobody: 9:01am On Sep 10, 2017
What exactly are you trying to form? Kingkong? Novice be forming pro.

That shiit doesn't make you hard but stvpid.

Get the '500 ways to be a player' book asap

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Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by SmellingAnus(m): 9:03am On Sep 10, 2017
She is right that you ought to be calling her sweet names... My only fear for you is that you could receive more threats of she quitting the relationship whenever she wants you to do as she pleases whether she is right or wrong lipsrsealed
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by STARGREEN(m): 9:04am On Sep 10, 2017
Oga i understand that u'r a practical man, but there seems to be nothing much to please her with such words.
What does it cost to say it? Her requirements are very simple yet you are complaining!
Please say it to keep her or...

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Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by McBrooklyn(m): 9:49am On Sep 10, 2017
grin
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by society001(m): 9:57am On Sep 10, 2017
guy you don't understand anything abt relationship.
will calling her my angel cut off ur tongue?
try and call her those sweet pet names and u will see her reaction.
otherwise if she eventually meets another romantic guy who call her those names
just forget abt her she is gone for good.
pet name shows that u adore and have affection for ur lady
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by Tamel(m): 10:13am On Sep 10, 2017
pele
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by Nobody: 10:30am On Sep 10, 2017
grin


Chaaaii...

I dont even get what the problem is embarassed

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Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by smartty68(m): 10:32am On Sep 10, 2017
IamKashyBaby:
grin


Chaaaii...

I dont even get what the problem is embarassed
You always never fails to appear in threads like this one cheesy

Was going to mention you before you appeared
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by Nobody: 10:42am On Sep 10, 2017
smartty68:

You always never fails to appear in threads like this one cheesy

Was going to mention you before you appeared


grin


Hahahhaha..juz cc me whenever there's a good & juicy thread sha. wink
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by smartty68(m): 10:43am On Sep 10, 2017
IamKashyBaby:



grin


Hahahhaha..juz cc me whenever there's a good & juicy thread sha. wink
LOL! Alright
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by Monaco2(m): 10:44am On Sep 10, 2017
He may have been your father but he wasn't your daddy wink
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by Lalas247(f): 10:45am On Sep 10, 2017
falconey:

Even if you don't mean it you should have at least say it when she demanded unless of course you didn't love her then your gesture is justified, Funny you claimed you understood relationship to an extent.

With the way you handled the situation,you don't understand shit!

U no fit hack stuff again sad oga at don block am abi
Ahhh I miss those days grin
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by cuvox(m): 10:47am On Sep 10, 2017
u cant even call her sweetname or any pet name. Na wa.

now u hv given her the chance to create an opening. God help u if she's a player
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by falconey(m): 10:59am On Sep 10, 2017
Lalas247:

U no fit hack stuff again sad oga at don block am abi
Ahhh I miss those days grin



You remember when the site was displaying Amsterdam cloudware when you try to access? that's when I couldn't anymore cus he upgraded it.
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by Lalas247(f): 11:00am On Sep 10, 2017
falconey:




You remember when the site was displaying Amsterdam cloudware when you try to access? that's when I couldn't anymore cus he upgraded it.

Kai yh I remember ... so sad sad
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by dollytino4real(f): 12:54pm On Sep 10, 2017
Jacksparr0w1207:
What exactly are you trying to form? Kingkong? Novice be forming pro.

That shiit doesn't make you hard but stvpid.

Get the '500 ways to be a player' book asap
u called village champ abi,
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by dollytino4real(f): 12:57pm On Sep 10, 2017
SmellingAnus:
She is right that you ought to be calling her sweet names... My only fear for you is that you could receive more threats of she quitting the relationship whenever she wants you to do as she pleases whether she is right or wrong lipsrsealed
baba 4 sweet names pls mentor him
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by Rhemy2013(f): 1:05pm On Sep 10, 2017
I dnt think you love her cause if you do u will definitely call her swt names in fact sweetest name,i didn't see anything bad calling ur lover a romantic name ,it even build d relationship stronger wink.pls adjust urself cheesy
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by SmellingAnus(m): 1:21pm On Sep 10, 2017
dollytino4real:
baba 4 sweet names pls mentor him
hahahhaha Missed you...
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by dollytino4real(f): 1:24pm On Sep 10, 2017
SmellingAnus:
hahahhaha Missed you...
u lie,u dont miss one bite. u choose sinaj and not me am jealous
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by SmellingAnus(m): 1:28pm On Sep 10, 2017
dollytino4real:
u lie,u dont miss one bite. u choose sinaj and not me am jealous
haba.... I choose her 4 dat thread no mean say I no go miss you na.... The only person wey I specifically wish happy New month for my siggy...
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by Nobody: 1:30pm On Sep 10, 2017
smartty68:
Lol! Guy be forming Commando. Girls/Ladies/Women likes sweet names and petting a lot

Guy loosen up and stop all these old school form of love

I think I need this too myself
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by Nobody: 1:53pm On Sep 10, 2017
dollytino4real:
u called village champ abi,
Pardon?
Re: I Need Your Advice, My Girl Threatens To Quit.. by dollytino4real(f): 1:56pm On Sep 10, 2017
Jacksparr0w1207:
Pardon?
ok no pardon, because i said i dont know wat is thong

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