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TheGenius001:
Woow


like seriously? I love her with all my heart. letting her go isn't that easy man.

Am actually shouting on u ! U can't force anyone to love u!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Guess some one have loved u much or showed genuine instrest in u....but u were just not feeling it..it happens .

See...just b normal with her, if she love u...she will come around!!!!!

JERRY1925:
Am actually shouting on u ! U can't force anyone to love u!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Guess some one have loved u much or showed genuine instrest in u....but u were just not feeling it..it happens .

See...just b normal with her, if she love u...she will come around!!!!!

True talk
thanks man.

TheGenius001:
Thanks.
But I have not mentioned love to her anytime since I've known her.All I would tell her is *I like this about you* *I respect you*etc.

I gave her weeks without talking to her and yet she didn't even respond.So that makes me feel confused as to wether she is interested or not.

If I ask her *Do you have a boy friend?*
She would reply*That question is insensitive,even if someone is in a relationship,and you love the person,you would hang around because their relationship might not work out.And if their relationship doesn't work,then you can have the person and see if your relationship can work*.That was a reply I got when I asked her if she has a boyfriend.


Other times I ask her that question in order to know if all this things am doing is really worth it,she would say it is insensitive to ask such a question And she gets annoyed with me easily to an extent that I am always afraid of her anytime I want to chat or call her.
Mind you she is the churchy type as she is always in the church everyday.

I don't know if she loves me or not.

She already told you not to think about it according to your write up and you are still asking for how to decipher if she loves you.

You are only trying to force yourself on her and that's so irritating.

Be careful

Ximenez:
She already told you not to think about it according to your write up and you are still asking for how to decipher if she loves you.

You are only trying to force yourself on her and that's so irritating.

Be careful

Yeah that's right.
Love has blinded me from seeing that.Thanks a lot.I appreciate.

TheGenius001:
*Modified

Yeah we are Course mates am a year older than her.I don't know if she is in a relationship with someone or not because each time I ask her,she says the question is
insensitive. She is the SU(scripture uniun type) or the church type and yeah the genuine one.So i don't think she is any relationship.Also she went to GIRLS school (Boarding ).


I love her and she knows I do.But she has this self defence mechanism that will detect any slight mistake I make towards her.The other day she told me by a chat on whatsapp that I should give up on her stating that other people may not like you(me) the way you(I) do for them.But when I called her to give me reason why she told me to let off her,She said its because she doesn't understand me so far.That she doesn't know what I'm up to and that she doesn't even know the reason
why she said so.
This response made me confused the more.
Does she love me or not.

I on a normal day I don't bounce into a relationship just like that.And am not in a hurry to tell her my intentions but its like that it is just what she wants me to do(I.e to tell her my intentions of being her boyfriend ).Cos am afraid if I should tell her, so quickly,she might turn me down.I want us to start as friends first.And it will be very painful for me if she turns me down.
She doesn't even talk much with me on whatsapp like the other girls I know.She doesn't even instigate conversation at all ether on Facebook or whatsapp.

Or maybe she is naive about relationship stuffs?,I don't know.

I love her so very much.
Dear Nairalanders do you think she loves me?
Or
do I let go?


Mind you, the love I mean is not lustful or infatuation.

My guy you are on a suicidal path. Please and please. Free the girl, she has nothing to offer you. I have been there too, infact if you may know, she only sees you as one of them.
One thing is certain she knows you love her, the simplest language anyone understands in this world, is the language of love. So she knows, but she is not ready to love you back.

In other to avoid emotional drama and disaster please free the girl.

My guy just try and work on yourself, go to parties, ceremonies, occassions there are so many girls out there waiting to reciprocate your love.

Thats my one cent for you.

mumels:
My guy you are on a suicidal path. Please and please. Free the girl, she has nothing to offer you. I have been there too, infact if you may know, she only sees you as one of them.
One thing is certain she knows you love her, the simplest language anyone understands in this world, is the language of love. So she knows, but she is not ready to love you back.

In other to avoid emotional drama and disaster please free the girl.

My guy just try and work on yourself, go to parties, ceremonies, occassions there are so many girls out there waiting to reciprocate your love.

Thats my one cent for you.

Thanks a lot man.

She is one in a million.Her type is very rare to find this days.

Beauty+Brain.

I think am just going to give her space for the main time.And when we return from the ASUU strike.I'll show her who I am.

Thanks once again