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Wait oo op u go tell me say u be virgin

lefulefu:
even in marriage there still a risk having kudos if the husband happens to be a serial cheater.didn't toke makinwa claim she contacted STD from her husband at one time?

"She claimed" you said.
Good.

Secondly, while dating a man, if you zip up, you will be able to learn the type of person he is properly. If he is the cheating type or not.
You wont be distracted by sex.
So the advice is still a strong one.

Thirdly, go to an hiv clinic and find out how many pple got hiv from cheating huabands compared to how many pple who did from premarital sex. You will get the point.

Ginaz:
What of lies, cheating, adultery, love of money, not showing kindness to needy people, not looking out for the widow men and women? Not having love for our brothers and sisters... Are these not sins more greater than fornication?

See, I'm a realist and do not belong to the abstain bal bla bla and bla. I belong to those who does good in action and in heart. Cos the heart is what God searches for. What good will it do you to abstain from sex but lie with the very passion of hell?

When the world of Jericho fell down, who was saved among thousands of people? Probably there were lots of virgins too in Jericho. But A PROSTITUTE was saved!!!! A prostitute among them all!!! As in, when I read that verse of the bible my spirituality gets hot like fire. She believed in God and saved the spies of Israelite, at that moment her life changed.

Stop being holy holy people, mostly which Africans are guilty of. They will be wicked at heart but shiny as light outside.

You see how the whites acted in the mist of the recent Florida storm, didn't you see how genuinely caring they were? They helped with food, money, medicals, even saved mere chickens. How many of you here shouting abstain abstain shiit would saved a mere chicken in a face of a storm?

God sees the heart...not your actions. Please everybody let's have a Godly fear in everything we do. You that's abstaining from sex but have a cold blooded heart is not different from the one doing it.

When it comes to Christianity in Africa, there is misconception. That's why I hardly go to church.

Being a Christian is much more than abstaining from sex. Let's get a grip on our overbearing righteousness when it comes to sex.


Sex is not the only sin listed in the Bible.

Pretend God is not in the picture and see the point of OP, STDs does not know all these things you've said. Abstinence is still the ultimate, the peace of mind alone, cannot be overemphasized.

felixomor:
"She claimed" you said.
Good.

Secondly, while dating a man, if you zip up, you will be able to learn the type of person he is properly. If he is the cheating type or not.
You wont be distracted by sex.
So the advice is still a strong one.

Thirdly, go to an hiv clinic and find out how many pple got hiv from cheating huabands compared to how many pple who did from premarital sex. You will get the point.

my guy dem boku ooo.come to edo state and go to any govt hospital and see for urself the number of pregnant women who are married who test positive to HIV.Guy if u hear some of these stories u go weak.these women are faithful but they still contacted the HIV.so how do u think it happened?.they will request their husbands to come for HIV screening the men go refuse.take a look at the huge number of married men who sleep around.many of dem are reckless and these same men go home to infect their wives.so even having sex in marriage is no guarantee that the sex would be safe...not with high number of married men who sleep around now.

Amberon11:
Been abstaining for a long time now. Its easy tho. Can't imagine myself sleeping with someone I don't love nor intend to marry.

But hey Amarabae, you failed to add that married couples should also remain faithful to each other cuz if they aren't stds will come flying around too.

Amberon11

I don't believe you

This thread is the definition of hypocrisy

I have always maintained that abstinence from sex means nothing, I mean zilch

So someone is straight off a saint because he/she is a virgin.?
,

Fyi;

The western world encourages sex before marriage but deal with sexually transmitted diseases better. They key for them is that they don't pretend

lefulefu:
my guy dem boku ooo.come to edo state and go to any govt hospital and see for urself the number of pregnant women who are married who test positive to HIV.Guy if u hear some of these stories u go weak.these women are faithful but they still contacted the HIV.so how do u think it happened?.they will request their husbands to come for HIV screening the men go refuse.take a look at the huge number of married men who sleep around.many of dem are reckless and these same men go home to infect their wives.so even having sex in marriage is no guarantee that the sex would be safe...not with high number of married men who sleep around now.

I work with hiv people alot. So you dont need to tell me.
That's why I said percentage. Pls check that up
Thats why even WHO promotes abstinence above all other means of prevention.


Secondly, the husbands that gave them you are talking about its still the same premarital sex that infected the husbands.
So what are we saying?

This advice is for everyone o, not just women.

keemP:
Dearest OP,
Did you or did you not get involved in Pre marital sex?

Even if she did..
That was the past, this is today, get the message and run with it....
Even if one has had it, Abstinence is still the best.

nice write up OP.
buh i hope this all reflected in ur life when u where still single if not then ..........


hope u are not among the "do what i say buh dont do what i do"

subtract sex, there's no genuine reason to be in a relationship!

if you like.... preach from now till tomorrow, it doesn't make any difference.

Amarabae:
He looks so hot with a big cucumber!
Her shape is tempting with a hot watermelon!
The urge is stepping in and sexual feeling is building up in you!
You want him or her inside of you, you want it sloppy and harder,
you want a pounding,so that you can mourn,scream, and shed tears of joy,
#I deeply understand, yes premarital Sex can be sweet and fun-filled!
BUT have you thought about the negative impact premarital sex can have in your life?
Lets start with STDs!
Yes condom will be used but have you heard about condom break during the pounding?
With many fake condoms in markets now,Do you know that if condom break happens,you are now exposed to STDs both curable and incurable?
Dear sister, before you start sucking that his long hard pipe, have you heard about precums?
Though the rate of infection happening through precum is low,yet the possibility can not be written off,
mr headgiver, be careful,vaginal fluid can harbour microorganisms that can cause infection,
some STD carriers are on revenge mission,looking for who to infect,
why do you want to risk your future just for 10mins fun,
why not wait till you are married?

-
The spiritual negative side of premarital sex!
Have you heard about spirit husband and wife?
Oh yes, they are REAL!
Many frusration,setback,limitation,hinderances etc that many unmarried folks are having came as a result of negative effect of sleeping around with multiple sex partners,
looking at it from a spiritual angle, premaritial sex is a sin before God and Man!
-
What about the psychological trauma and stigmatisation you will go through if you contact an infection through premaritial sex,
or how disappointed your family will be if they find out,
I know that legally,if you are above 18yrs,you can have sex!
But dont let that deceive you,
-
premarital sex is not worth the negative risk,
infact masturbation is a bit less risky than premarital sex,
thought both of them are bad though!
-
save your future!
Be wise!
Zip up till marriage!
Thank you my sweethearts!

It is 'moan' not 'mourn'.

felixomor:
I work with hiv people alot. So you dont need to tell me.
That's why I said percentage. Pls check that up
Thats why even WHO promotes abstinence above all other means of prevention.


Secondly, the husbands that gave them you are talking about its still the same premarital sex that infected the husbands.
So what are we saying?

This advice is for everyone o, not just women.

WHO promotes abstienance,faithfulness to one partner etc.Even if a person abstained and eventually got married.if he or she happened to get to a reckless serial cheater then there is every likelihood of the person still contacting STD.except if the person wants to abstaine for life.apart from abstinence,couples should also be encouraged to be faithful to each other.dats d way i see it .u can't tell a sexually active adult to start abstaining...that would be unrealistic.but u can certainly tell him or her to stick to one partner.anyway we go argue this matter till midnight but ppl will still do wat they want to do.

Maxi112:
subtract sex, there's no genuine reason to be in a relationship!


if you like.... preach from now till tomorrow, it doesn't make any difference.

some ppl dey wey no dey kpansh for dhier relationship oo.idem dey call themselves asexual ppl.

Joiceee:
everyone is a saint now.........who r now those practicing the premarital sex?

Why not take d lesson and stop asking useless questions..what is wrong with u this geh??

lefulefu:
some ppl dey wey no dey kpansh for dhier relationship oo.idem dey call themselves asexual ppl.

That one pass me oh, waiting them come they do for the relationship ni?


I no fit do that kin one when I no be virgin man ni, kpansh or no relationship!

Thread for hypocrites, Thread for Christians.....Spiritual husband and wives ngwanu, lol i'm out......

ireneidiva:
It is 'moan' not 'mourn'.

So it is correction you came here to do..why are you like this?

lefulefu:
WHO promotes abstienance,faithfulness to one partner etc.Even if a person abstained and eventually got married.if he or she happened to get to a reckless serial cheater then there is every likelihood of the person still contacting STD.except if the person wants to abstaine for life.apart from abstinence,couples should also be encouraged to be faithful to each other.dats d way i see it .u can't tell a sexually active adult to start abstaining...that would be unrealistic.but u can certainly tell him or her to stick to one partner.anyway we go argue this matter till midnight but ppl will still do wat they want to do.

How did the serial cheater contact hiv?
Is it not premarital sexual habbits?
So the advice still holds.

Your argument sounds like Telling people to Drive rough because both people who drive rough and those who drive carefully get accidents....
Its a dead argument.
because those who drive rough are more likely to die by accident.
Its a simple analysis

humeeh:
Me ke?Not at all...I'll just be jejely observing on the apple tree just like u

....Awwnn,thank uu..

Nice one
Team observers

uzoormah:
Why not take d lesson and stop asking useless questions..what is wrong with u this geh??

why not mind your business, there is no harm in doing that.

Yoshy:
Pretend God is not in the picture and see the point of OP, STDs does not know all these things you've said. Abstinence is still the ultimate, the peace of mind alone, cannot be overemphasized.

Ya I know, but most point they focus on is God. And besides, sex is not the only way to get STD, you can get it innocently through a blood transfusion or airborne disease, rape, body contact with semen or saliva.

You should be informed about sex, STDS, or you choose to abstain .A Virgin can have STD without knowing. Saying you're abstaining cos of STD is absurd.

Let God Guild us amen.

sunshineG:
This thread is the definition of hypocrisy

I have always maintained that abstinence from sex means nothing, I mean zilch

So someone is straight off a saint because he/she is a virgin.?
,

Fyi;

The western world encourages sex before marriage but deal with sexually transmitted diseases better. They key for them is that they don't pretend

Hmmmm

felixomor:
How did the serial cheater contact hiv?
Is it not premarital sexual habbits?
So the advice still holds.

Your argument sounds like Telling people to Drive rough because both people who drive rough and those who drive carefully get accidents....
Its a dead argument.
because those who drive rough are more likely to die by accident.
Its a simple analysis

ok i don hear u those ones we wan abstain make dem abstain,those ones wey wan keep one partner make dem keep one partner,those ones we wan be asexual make dem be asexual,those ones wey wan marry 2000 wives and have 3000 mistresses u are free. Maxi112 hope u don hear

Thank God i'm still a virgin

Amarabae:
He looks so hot with a big cucumber!
Her shape is tempting with a hot watermelon!
The urge is stepping in and sexual feeling is building up in you!
You want him or her inside of you, you want it sloppy and harder,
you want a pounding,so that you can mourn,scream, and shed tears of joy,
#I deeply understand, yes premarital Sex can be sweet and fun-filled!
BUT have you thought about the negative impact premarital sex can have in your life?
Lets start with STDs!
Yes condom will be used but have you heard about condom break during the pounding?
With many fake condoms in markets now,Do you know that if condom break happens,you are now exposed to STDs both curable and incurable?
Dear sister, before you start sucking that his long hard pipe, have you heard about precums?
Though the rate of infection happening through precum is low,yet the possibility can not be written off,
mr headgiver, be careful,vaginal fluid can harbour microorganisms that can cause infection,
some STD carriers are on revenge mission,looking for who to infect,
why do you want to risk your future just for 10mins fun,
why not wait till you are married?

-
The spiritual negative side of premarital sex!
Have you heard about spirit husband and wife?
Oh yes, they are REAL!
Many frusration,setback,limitation,hinderances etc that many unmarried folks are having came as a result of negative effect of sleeping around with multiple sex partners,
looking at it from a spiritual angle, premaritial sex is a sin before God and Man!
-
What about the psychological trauma and stigmatisation you will go through if you contact an infection through premaritial sex,
or how disappointed your family will be if they find out,
I know that legally,if you are above 18yrs,you can have sex!
But dont let that deceive you,
-
premarital sex is not worth the negative risk,
infact masturbation is a bit less risky than premarital sex,
thought both of them are bad though!
-
save your future!
Be wise!
Zip up till marriage!
Thank you my sweethearts!

I disagree with you, its ur opinion tho, so no problem

lefulefu:
ok i don hear u those ones we wan abstain make dem abstain,those ones wey wan keep one partner make dem keep one partner,those ones we wan be asexual make dem be asexual,those ones wey wan marry 2000 wives and have 3000 mistresses u are free. Maxi1...12 hope u don hear

fair enough, I agree with you.

no body holy pass baba, na so one Jehovah witness babe take they preach for me everyday, she don nearly convert me till I find out her guy na my paddy

forget.... sex is life bro!

uzoormah:
So it is correction you came here to do..why are you like this?

Who is this?

Blueberrie:
all the above can be worked on. They are not permanent. And if you divorce them just cause of those minor issues then i dont think you really loved them in the first place

What you call minor, might be major to others ..........

Maxi112:
fair enough, I agree with you.

no body holy pass baba, na so one Jehovah witness babe take they preach for me everyday, she don nearly convert me till I find out her guy na my paddy

forget.... sex is life bro!

lol forget wetin jehovah witness ppl dey yarn.dem dey fuk too na.all those their shirt on tie with trouser and skirt no dey deceive me.i sabi dem.d day wey one jehovah witness guy almost scam me dat was the day i begin to dey fear dem.abeg me dey look for a female jehovah witness babe to come my pad to dey preach to me cos me don tire for one bald headed jehovah witness guy wey dey disturb me every Sunday afternoon.if u get any fine jehovah witness sister wey dey luk for a brother to preach to abeg send her my way.she must have a twerkable back oo.

ireneidiva:
Who is this?

Dnt allow me to come there and handle u now..just ask me dat question again

Amarabae:
He looks so hot with a big cucumber!
Her shape is tempting with a hot watermelon!
The urge is stepping in and sexual feeling is building up in you!
You want him or her inside of you, you want it sloppy and harder,
you want a pounding,so that you can mourn,scream, and shed tears of joy,
#I deeply understand, yes premarital Sex can be sweet and fun-filled!
BUT have you thought about the negative impact premarital sex can have in your life?
Lets start with STDs!
Yes condom will be used but have you heard about condom break during the pounding?
With many fake condoms in markets now,Do you know that if condom break happens,you are now exposed to STDs both curable and incurable?
Dear sister, before you start sucking that his long hard pipe, have you heard about precums?
Though the rate of infection happening through precum is low,yet the possibility can not be written off,
mr headgiver, be careful,vaginal fluid can harbour microorganisms that can cause infection,
some STD carriers are on revenge mission,looking for who to infect,
why do you want to risk your future just for 10mins fun,
why not wait till you are married?

-
The spiritual negative side of premarital sex!
Have you heard about spirit husband and wife?
Oh yes, they are REAL!
Many frusration,setback,limitation,hinderances etc that many unmarried folks are having came as a result of negative effect of sleeping around with multiple sex partners,
looking at it from a spiritual angle, premaritial sex is a sin before God and Man!
-
What about the psychological trauma and stigmatisation you will go through if you contact an infection through premaritial sex,
or how disappointed your family will be if they find out,
I know that legally,if you are above 18yrs,you can have sex!
But dont let that deceive you,
-
premarital sex is not worth the negative risk,
infact masturbation is a bit less risky than premarital sex,
thought both of them are bad though!
-
save your future!
Be wise!
Zip up till marriage!
Thank you my sweethearts!

NICE ONE BUT....... ARE YOU A FARGIN?

Joiceee:
why not mind your business, there is no harm in doing that.

who open gate 4 u?