I pity you gann ni. if u have never slept with any other girl in those six years, then you have evry reason to be angry.. but if you sef don chop another girl omo na karma b dat o, just carry face and carry your cross

OP you be mugu. Are you the one who deflowered the girl or she deflowered you? What a weakass nigga you are.

If you're the one who delflowered her then you're in the driving seat. You placed too much value on virginity that's why her infidelity is hurting you this much.

And you're a week dude too, going into your girl's phone snooping around and chatting with her friends. That's fücking poo. Real men don't do that . This and other weak signs she must have noticed is what made her to cheat on you despite the fact that you're the first guy.

Anyways, brace yourself, get a good talk with her and if she's truly remorseful, go along and marry her. If you feel she isn't worth it, then let her go instead of marrying out of pity and desperation and carrying that thought of cheating in your mind.

And learn to stop peeping into your woman's phone except there's a good ground for suspicion.

HarunaWest:

N*gga your a blaady fool....she isn't married to yah she doesn't owe you any loyalty..she has a right to sleep about,if you decided not to,ain't her fault.....I hate when some guys come here to say a girlfriend cheated on them, like they were married to her,...mtscheeeeeew

So Dats Hw U Think? Nawah O

Marvel1206:
Dude, just calm down. Investing on a girl is unwise

Just dump her please before you lose your sanity. Forget about marriage if you don't wanna die young

See mumu telling me to accept Jesus
You're really a Christian

The werey boyfriend even went ahead to ask her to confirm if she's been sleeping with the guy.

Some boys and mumu be like monkey � and banana �

Osey investor_op

Lmao
Have you eaten today?.. no give urself unnecessary high bp.
Your investments n sweat o fight for you (only if u seff no yash outsider for the 6years) if you did... Comon goan sit down

[quote author=GudPpleG8Nation post=60604443
Do you think it's about money? Dear, it's not all about money, it's about my time, resources, trying to convince my parents to accept her due to tribal differences, risking my life on many occasions, etc [/quote]

if she confess and she's remorseful please forgive but besure she is ready to change and be loyal. you don't know. who d. next person will be.

HarunaWest:

N*gga your a blaady fool....she isn't married to yah she doesn't owe you any loyalty..she has a right to sleep about,if you decided not to,ain't her fault.....I hate when some guys come here to say a girlfriend cheated on them, like they were married to her,...mtscheeeeeew

Morally bankrupt someborri...It is this same non-chalant attitude that your Governor has towards your state that is why Kogi remains the way it is...Abeg swerve..

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

Bro, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Take a nap and get over it

Oyindidi:
Still let go! She owe you nothing as you two are not married yet. Move on

Abeg stop talking like this. It is true that he should let go and it's not worth it. But saying she owes him nothing just because they are not married is wrong. This is a fiancee for God's sake. Even GF and BF owes themselves loyalty etc. If indeed they dont owe themselves anything, then Karma is rubbish.

Courting a woman that resides in another state is total crap; you decided on your own to add serious tribal and ethnic gaps and you expect everything to work out well?

Dating is entirely different from courtship and spousal relationships bro!

You made the first mistake when you decided to date an 100 level girl at a point you were heading for youth service. That's a whole lump of bullsh!t, especially since the focus is MARRIAGE.

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

Pls take things easy,if she is meant for you,she will surely be urs but if otherwise you have to part ways
You are not to old at all,still young.
Just pray for beta half from God and a God fearing lady and thank God that u discovered early.
Don't commit suicide it doesn't it

nairanaira12:


I pray your fiancee will sleep about and even get ffucked by your friends. Say amen to dat.

amen

Guy, I understand how you feel. Some of us have been there where you shut the door against other girls and stay faithful and in the end the lady you did it for failed. Sorry, its simply that she is not meant to be for you. i wont be easy getting over it considering all you have done in the last 6 years, introduction etc. i will advise you to move on with your life. if asked what happened, as a man tell people you caused the break up, defend her still. reason is taking the blame will help you in the healing process. blaming her will make you to recall.. speaking from experience. reactivate your locked down mission, one of them may just be HER. when you meet the right one, you will forget about this one.

KingMicky3286:


Did the guy cut the kpomo after Ynashing , If he did not cut the kpomo off, please manage the left over food. Next time secure your food against cockroach.

This is so hilarious

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

Bro I've been in your shoes, your world seem shattered and u feel it's gonna end anytime soon but b4 u make any decision relax...
1. I believe you've not considering going on with the relationship which will be unwise for u to do. She's gonna cheat a million times after marriage. I doubt she even had sex once with him, I believe it's just a defense mechanism 2 protect her shattered ego.

2. There's no point avenging this in any way. U'll regret it when u get over it... (Where I am 2day, aside God vengeance was the driving force bcoz of same woman matter) though, I've let go of such motivational drive. it's really hard but you have to man up and pick up your life back, a woman shouldn't bring you down, be more social and engage in activities that'll keep you busy.

3. in this trying time, avoid any form of drugs or substance abuse (alcohol) time heals everything. I wish you all the best! hard luck...

HarunaWest:

amen

Good. So be it

Legendaryd:
So Dats Hw U Think? Nawah O

no man owes another man any sort of loyalty unless there's a binding agreement or contract....Since they ain't married she has the right to take her own decisions and. feel good about it...its her life,her choice

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

The problem with cheating is not actually in the cheating per say, it is more on you finding out and knowing who your partner is cheating with, you will surely feel very bitter,very bad,but you will need to calm down bro,the next problem is the imagination that will always build up in your mind about the cheating, giving advice in this kind of scenario is a very sensitive one,but first thing first, you need to know that no human is infallible, you disvirgined her quite allright,but she will be living with that imagination of how sex with another man will feel like, now she has tasted it, it is either her curiosity is quenched on inflamed, you need to find this out, if it has been quenched and she is commited to stick with you,fine, but if she still want to explore,then you have to start lookin else where, and goodluck with finding who will not cheat on you

sharpwriter:

Abeg stop talking like this. It is true that he should let go and it's not worth it. But saying she owes him nothing just because they are not married is wrong. This is a fiancee for God's sake. Even GF and BF owes themselves loyalty etc. If indeed they dont owe themselves anything, then Karma is rubbish.

You don't know Karma is rubbish before?
Karma indeed. Who did OP cheat on to deserve a cheat?

Marriage scares me.

i think i have few words for you op. Firstly, if you truely love her., you wont think of leaving her because of that, because the devil you no is quiet better than the angel you dont no at all. i dont call that cheat because you have not marry her officially, she might just decided to give the guy a trial as a friend before it turns out to be all these. secondly, the guy might be there for her in some aspect of which you aint taking note of.


solution.. sit her down and explain how you feel to her, am sure she would have realize her mistake and feeling guilty,so let her understand where you relationship is heading to,all these will teach her a lesson that even when you marry she will never dare to cheat on you. ask her what exactly prompt her to do such and work on it if needed. lastly dont leave her because of having sex with another man , which can only be once because no body holy pass.. you disvigin her, she didnt disflower you and you cant say she is the only person you have been sleeping with for the past six years.


hope i haven't bore you with these my little idea... Think wisely

Forgive her! You also said you are not perfect so don't expect her to be. If she repents marry her. If she continues end the courtship.

firstolalekan:
See mumu telling me to accept Jesus You're really a Christian

Do I know you?

ndiboy01:


Yu can't beleiv she cheated on yu......weyrey.....

Kill ya sef naaaaaaa


I ASKED A MILLIONAIRE HOW DID HE DO IT, HE SAID FORGET ABOUT GIRLS AND FOCUS ON ONE WOMAN, SHE'LL HELP YOU
ACHIEVE EVERYTHING. #It's_a_fact.

He focused on one woman. He built his world around one woman and now its crumbling before his eyes. Just reminding u.

Effiezynews:



Morally bankrupt someborri...It is this same non-chalant attitude that your Governor has towards your state that is why Kogi remains the way it is...Abeg swerve..

we talking relationship and you talking politics....Your the packaged product of our failed educational system no doubt

you are a fool op for asking for advice in such a crystal clear situation. Go ahead and marry her that is my advice,and end up making your life useless and worthless. Never in my life will I or have I ever kept a cheating partner.Any woman that can cheat on you can kill you.

MaziOmenuko:


Okk, which one do you want to do first? Committing suicide should the last because if you commit suicide first, you wont have the strenght to accomplish the other tasks like killing the 2nd guy. Now I will advise that if I am to arrange the tasks in order of importance, this is how it should look like...

1. making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life

2. killing the guy

3. committing suicide

4. dying

No 3 and 4 can be interchanged; you can do 4 first before 3 or the other way round.

Thank me later.

Best advice so far

HarunaWest:

no man owes another man any sort of loyalty unless there's a binding agreement or contract....Since they ain't married she has the right to take her own decisions and. feel good about it...its her life,her choice

Your son's fiancee too will sleep around even till wedding night. I'm certain you will love that when you hear it.

nairanaira12:


Good. So be it

And may your sleep with your sibling..say amen to that

hanassholesolo:
My whole world is shattering too, bro. I lost half my portfolio on Binary Options.
Feels like the end of the road for me.

Bleep life.

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