Chukwudi4naija:
Just negodu. Na u go Bleep am afta d girl don die. They need to keep you from going close to a mortuary b4 u bleep person mama.

Are you sick or what I find it hard to understand the trash you talking about

Ballmer:
. Na wa for NL O ! So she as a right to Bleep around because they are not married ?

No, he said he wanted to make her useless. Reason I said that

Walk away bro just walk away
It hurts now but trust me, you'll become a full yoruba demon soon enough and know how the game is played in this modern times
you have your own life to live bro.....

fof1:



MY GOOD FRIEND. U ARE NOT D FIRST TO EXPERIENCE THIS PARTICULAR SCENARIO U HV PAINTED. PLS CALM URSELF DOWN FIRST. DON'T GIVE HEED TO ALL D BOISTEROUS ADVICE U ARE BEING LOADED WITH BY IMMATURE YOUTHS OR COS HERE. FIRST,LEARN TO FORGIVE URSELF & TO FORGIVE HER TOO. SEEK HER TRUE POSITIONS NOW. IS SHE REMORSEFUL AND VERY SORRY, THEN PLS MOVE ON WITH HER. GET HER OPINION ON D RELATIONSHIP. DON'T SHIP WREAK. GOOD CAN BE RECOVERED FROM D EVIL. GOOD BLESS UR HEARTS.

Pastor! You want him to forgive and marry a cheat. Wehdone sir! If she could cheat on him now, she would do it over and over again, even after marriage.

This ops is doing himself, kill yourself and that same guy will end up enjoying her hornypot forever.

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

Calm down. It's usually like that when you've just discovered that the person you've been trying to have a future with, has not been particularly straight with you. Over time, you'd get over all the emotions and actually laugh at how you almost did those stupid things your mind has suggested. Just let her go and focus on having a good life built around yourself only. Don't hurt her or the guy. It's not worth it. Trust isn't a virtue to be given to dogs...

Eeya...bros i don't even know what to say. This one is beyond me. Av had my own fair share of this bullshit too, u just gotta let go just like i did. BTW pls find anoda woman ASAP

Oyindidi:
Still let go! She owe you nothing as you two are not married yet. Move on

i hope it happens to you then you wld understand his pain

Bigsteveg:


Trust me, this is for me. More wisdom.

I love your personal text on your profile. it's for me. More wisdom bro

Adaumunocha:
Error in processing... Hope u read the op's story well?

Error in interpretation. I read t very well and reply remains the same

Lol... Sorry bro take heart such is life.

committing suicide really?, you're still very much young bro, a fail relationship is better than a broken home, what if God is trying to tell you something, believe me there a lot of women out there. i advise you forgive her and move on, after all the investment you made on her she still cheated while dating you,.i don't think she will hesitate when you guys are settled. Above all don't and never think of doing anything stupid like suicide because of a woman. they are not worth it. what you think matters now, fews month or years from now it will no longer matters.

Maxvasia:
Error in interpretation. I read t very well and reply remains the same

OK, if you say so.

steppins:

Tribal differences? You're not from the same tribe? No wonder. She's probably not feeling the relationship the way you do.
Ethnicity matters, even though people deny it.
She will one day ask herself if she was better off married to someone from her tribe.

I think you're right. The guy she had sex with was from her state.

HarunaWest:

N*gga your a blaady fool....she isn't married to yah she doesn't owe you any loyalty..she has a right to sleep about,if you decided not to,ain't her fault.....I hate when some guys come here to say a girlfriend cheated on them, like they were married to her,...mtscheeeeeew

will u shut up! Before I call python to come and dance on ur head. Because u av not married a girl den means d girl u planed to marry should be fucking around? Av u ever had any relationship in ur life?

you both are not married yet so you cant call it cheating. is she the first lady you ever slept with? and for saying all you have invested on her, with all of that can it return her virginity to her? you exposed her to sex and you are not married to her,what do you expect from her? what if you were not the one that disflowered her will you love her this much? ask yourself this question, "do i really did all i did for her because i was the one who disvirgin her? or because i really do love her and want her in my life?
Am not saying you should continue or discontinue with the relationship. its your choice but just take time out and cool out and take enough breathe and think well when you cool off

chronique:



Calm down. It's usually like that when you've just discovered that the person you've been trying to have a future with, has not been particularly straight with you. Over time, you'd get over all the emotions and actually laugh at how you almost did those stupid things your mind has suggested. Just let her go and focus on having a good life built around yourself only. Don't hurt her or the guy. It's not worth it. Trust isn't a virtue to be given to dogs...

The relationship cannot be salvaged? The double standard in this society is appalling though. You'd advice the lady to forgive the man if he was d cheater...

If you think your case is worse , the check out this one below , I was reading and had tears building up in my eyes...the devil is a learner where a woman cheats

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

First off ur girl cheating on you isnt the end of the world,u arent the first and sure wont be the last,so cancel the negative thoughts

Relationships have got ups and downs....u aren't perfect like u said. Have you cheated on her b4? If yes,then her actions aren't so different from yours,talk things out with her. But if no,still talk things out with her to know her reasons for her actions.I need point out tho that this I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with...is not a good signal.

Finally if after hearing each other out and you still [b] FEEL[/b]u can't forgive or live with the knowledge that she once cheated on u for the rest of your life. Then reconsider ur stance on the relationship, but if u decide to forgive her and move on, do let us know when the wedding iv drops

Goodluck!

Abeg nor kill person ooooh,,, nor kill ya sef,,,, wen u give a girl money dont do so bcus u want her to be wit u till entenity,,,, I hate dis word invest on her,,,, give her and expect nothing,,, there's sum1 out there betta dan dis ya gf waiting for you to come,,,,,, wit ya story it is clear d girl is new in d act,,, bcus girls are very intelligent,,, there's no way u wud find out except her cup full

HarunaWest:

we talking relationship and you talking politics....Your the packaged product of our failed educational system no doubt

Salty cishet!...Talk to me when you stop waiting on your parents for food...Randy creature..

Dude forgive and forget ,proceed with the marriage ,that she slept with someone else doesn't mean she loves him, it was a simple mistake. At least that's what these men would say were the tables turned.

Chukwudi4naija:
Just negodu. Na u go Bleep am afta d girl don die. They need to keep you from going close to a mortuary b4 u bleep person mama.

What are you saying? If you can't communicate in simple english, try using pidgin. That way people will understand you better.

This is why I only date people who love me more than I love them




The signs are there already. You ahve a little problem with her and she starts chatting with random guys eh?




You fvck up, man.

my guy Ur story is d same thing with mine I swear.what I did is I make her my best friend and I started f**king best friend.let me make something clear to you if you marry d girl Ur landlord f**k her Ur neighbour will turn her to his sex object.

Adaumunocha:
The relationship cannot be salvaged? The double standard in this society is appalling though. You'd advice the lady to forgive the man if he was d cheater...

Spot on!

Man up bruh! take a chill pill and lean back. One thing for sure, if you lose a wh*re you gotta gain a wh*re.

CROWNWEALTH019:

Woman take your time

Evaberry:
I don't know what you should do


but one thing I'm sure of is that you shouldn't continue the relationship/ forgive her, she doesn't deserve you or your 'Love' if you decide to go ahead and forgive her and end up marrying her, you will be disrespecting yourself.

There's no point in causing harm to yourself or others for a girl that's not worth it, you will meet someone better, someone who will never make you doubt her.

Sense finally

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

IF U HAV YOUR MONEY SMILING IN UR ACCNT AND UR RANGE SPORT IN UR COMPOUND, EVERY GIRL WILL RUN AFER U AND U WILL EVEN BE RUNNING AWAY FROM THEM. BUT IF U DONT HAV MONEY AND U LUV A GIRL VERY MUCH AND AND SHE KNOWS DAT U LUV HER VERY MUCH , HMMN MY BRO, U R IN TROUUBLE. THSES HOES AINT LOYAL

when things start to go well in your life, the devil comes along to give you a girlfriend.