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The lady I love now is a friend,in fact not just anyhow friend but a very close friend with my ex of 3 yrs ago..I really don't know why but what I took cognizance of was when we started dating she asked me about my past and I told her all..but I really don't know why she has decided to make friends with her.

My Ex of 3 yrs ago really still loved me but I just couldn't tolerate cheaters, I had to make it clear to her that we can't date anymore but we can still be friends. So I really still have her contact and we just used to chat normal.Sometimes back then; my new gf had told me that she really dislike her [well;I believed that was norma]not until she later told me she really want to be her friend and I was so surprised...I asked if she was norMal she said yes,that she see no reason hating her...and she doesn't want to hate her,even my ex Neva knew she hated her..so it's best she become her friend..well I accepted because she wasn't happy at all when I rejected the offer..but now they are getting too close than normal.I don't like it.For real I don't know if this is norMal because I am really frustrated with this.please anybody with this kind of issue or what do you think is best for me to do?I love my new gf so much and don't know what to do?

Ohoooo

Being mere frnds is k bt getting 2 close mayb harmful, besides, u dnt no d state of mind of ur ex, she may tear u guys apart out of jealousy. Op, u ar d man here and ur woman suppose to be obedient and submissive. No quarrel or shouting yet, talk to her, let only greetings and "hi" connect both of dem. If she insists, den let her choose between u and ur ex

You go dey fvck both of them na

This matter tie rapper o!
You dey fear say, dem fit collude put your head for armpit!

Different problem just dey sha!

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Highest, they plan a coup or her mind get poisoned.

Goodluck

This is serious

This na okro soup matter o.
Op, dis wan get as e b o.
Being friends with ur ex is not the ish tho. The ish is whether her intention of being friends with ur babe is pure...
I mean is there an ulterior motive to it.

TINALETC3:
Being mere frnds is k bt getting 2 close mayb harmful, besides, u dnt no d state of mind of ur ex, she may tear u guys apart out of jealousy. Op, u ar d man here and ur woman suppose to be obedient and submissive. No quarrel or shouting yet, talk to her, let only greetings and "hi" connect both of dem. If she insists, den let her choose between u and ur ex

Thanks

Worwor:
You go dey fvck both of them na

Na that one simple pass,but I no see any big deal in that

Bulletproof:
This matter tie rapper o!

You dey fear say, dem fit collude put your head for armpit!


Different problem just dey sha!

I tire o

IamZod:
This na okro soup matter o.
Op, dis wan get as e b o.
Being friends with ur ex is not the ish tho. The ish is whether her intention of being friends with ur babe is pure...
I mean is there an ulterior motive to it.

They are really getting too close and the [ode] new gf no wan get sense

IamLEGEND1:
Cut off all lines of communication between yourself and your girlfriend +the ex.... Pack your things and move to zamfara.
Problem solved. Unless you live in zamfara, then move to Kebbi.

U sure say u b legend?

issylarry:
They are really getting too close and the [ode] new gf no wan get sense

I feel u bro... Just talk to her..
Tell her why u ain't too comfortable with this strange closeness with ur ex...
Tell her reasons why u feel dis closeness with ur ex could be harmful to ur relationship esp if ur ex hv other motives.

Let her know your not comfortable with her beeing friend with your ex,cos i wonder the kind friends wey dem do sef.. Na wen dat 1 give her poison she go know what's up

,n

Two wise fools of girl. Your girlfriend want to learn more about your dark secret and other things through your ex. While your ex is feeding her curiosity with every dirty past of yours in order to win her trust and destroy her love for you. It is evident that your ex is smarter. Don't bother telling your girl to stop seeing ur ex.what ever you tell your girl,she will confide that to your ex. Just start drawing extremely close to your ex without engaging in sex with her. Your girl will realize that she's about to loose her man .woman are jealous creature.trust me that ex will become her worst enemy.another solution in case you don't want to draw close to the ex. Make sure you always say something good about your ex always.good compliments .always find a way of bringing her up as a topic in every discussion in a positive way. Your girl will start getting jealous and suspicious.she will stop seeing that ex out of jealousy

Kenneth4u205:
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I think I like this one

issylarry:
I think I like this one

are you in anyway related to monitoring spirits ?