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Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by wins18(m): 7:06pm On Sep 23, 2017
shit, I just landed here, how come?
Which kind wahala network be this?
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by emerged01(m): 7:07pm On Sep 23, 2017
When it comes to relationship,let your heart lead you. Don't be distract by physical appearance,financial status e.t.c. Listen to and obey the still voice inside you.

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Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by teemy(m): 7:09pm On Sep 23, 2017
@ bamisepeters let me add a few to your points

1. Know his background
Anyone who is in for the long haul should be open to being asked real life questions and he should ask you same as well

3. Watch is attitude when it comes to money and you
Show me your friends and ... The way he relates concerning money issues with friends and family is not bound to change too soon

4. His history relationship-wise
If he had exes and 'they' were the ones at fault and none from him, even if he is a saint I would call that a red flag

5. Give him a trial
Well everyone deserves a second chance but if you see he is a coconut breaking mood, please do not lay down your head.

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Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by Humility017(m): 7:10pm On Sep 23, 2017
dryakson:
Ironically, the good ladies prefer those bad guys
you just nailed it...
they only start want the foo guys when they are getting close to 30 years of age...
that's when they begin to grow wiser...
especially between 26-30 years of age

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Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by tosyne2much(m): 7:11pm On Sep 23, 2017
Narldon:


My Ex saved his sidechick's name in his phone with "Edu Mechanic". shocked



When I discovered, I changed the name to 55227 undecided



Whenever she called, he would start murmuring that this MTN people will not allow his phone to rest...


He even went ahead to block the "MTN PEOPLE" smiley


Hehehe cheesy
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by Sodia(m): 7:22pm On Sep 23, 2017
really,,, what about knowing about SHE? Well i guess some hot babes go dey for www.safaxnet.com.ng lemme run to hook up with one.
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by Narldon: 7:23pm On Sep 23, 2017
tosyne2much:
Hehehe cheesy




Big Head


Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by tosyne2much(m): 7:25pm On Sep 23, 2017
Narldon:



Big Head

Small ass
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by Narldon: 7:28pm On Sep 23, 2017
tosyne2much:
Small ass



You haff spoil finish shocked

Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by maisauki: 7:30pm On Sep 23, 2017
Evaberry:
This is completely wrong
post d rightful one or shut your smelling mouth completely
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by akaahs(m): 7:36pm On Sep 23, 2017
adepeter2027:
So on point, but same applies to ladies as well
before is for who Read very well b4 rushing to make comments ok?
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by AuroraB(f): 7:48pm On Sep 23, 2017
Nackzy:
Abegi money cover those Everything
They dunno grin cheesy
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by goingape1: 7:53pm On Sep 23, 2017
bamisepeters:
I have heard many ladies telling themselves this guy deserves you, he is calm, handsome, caring. This doesn't deserve you, he is only a player, once he enters you that is the end.

I will not say the assertion is true or false, possibly they have heard about the guy from someone or they are the direct source that couldn't open up (Some girls cannot even be truthful to their best friend you know �).

Here are five things you need to do to be able to know if he is the right or he is the player "if" you desire a serious relationship:

1. Know his background

Don't be deceived that background doesn't matter for you to know if he will deserve you or not.

Some people, not just the guys but the girls too are the picture of what their background is.

Some are used to cheating because it is what their parent do for living.

Some that are raised by just the father due to betrayal on the part of the woman may have poisoned the mind of the guy that what his mum did is the reflection of what other women outside are.

The lady that grew under the training of just her mum after divorce due to the fact that the husband usually abuse her not just physically but emotionally most times build the lady to be mean to guys with the mindset that all men are equal.

I am not saying that is how everyone in such situation thinks, some of them do this and it affects the guy or the lady that they will not want to fall in same trap as the one shared by their source or that they experienced.

2. Ask about him

Starting a relationship goes beyond just accepting everyone that comes your way without knowing about that person himself even after you have known about the background because most times some guys have good parents and they are trained well but get it wrong the moment they mixed with others without good training.

It is good to make enquiries about him from those around him and make some conclusions through things you see around him.

You might have heard so many times that appearance is reality, believe me, many things we see physically are the truth in many cases.

3. Watch is attitude when it comes to money and you

This is almost general among guys, that women are moved by money, especially when they want to start a relationship with a lady.

The moment his attitude is showing you that money is what you need, you need to be watchful.

The truth is that some of this guys have had experiences with other girls, they know a lot about girls, unfortunately, it is the bad things they know about them, hence, they categorize you under them and will want to entice you with it.

The moment you notice this from someone who is just asking you out you need to be extra careful and need to prove to him you are not the type.

4. His history relationship-wise

The truth is that many history makes the future. Except from those that are yet to be in a relationship before, you need to know the reason for breakup of the previous relationship.

The history is very essential as it makes you know the type of person you are in a relationship with.

Someone who cannot tell you the truth about his past relationship needs proper check before you accept his proposal.

I know some men can lie, however, as a woman you know how to get he truth of any situation when it comes to a man you want to know about, isn't it?

5. Give him a trial

Even after you have done all the above, giving him the chance to prove himself is very essential.

For many guys if you don't try them out you may not know if he deserves you or just another player.

The background might be deceitful, the friends he flocks with might just be bad while he is the good egg, don't forget, your appearance in his life might even take him out of their midst finally.

His history might also have gone through another series of scrutinization which might have changed him for better.

Judging him with some of those things above might be deceitful, but one thing is very certain, dating someone who you have not really known before for a more than a year or less can open your eyes to everything you need to know about him.

So many guys cannot hide their behavior for even a week let alone a month, but if you don't give them a trial you may not be able to know the reality of any man.

Many from good homes have even failed when you thought they should be better.

Some will fall to the temptations that stairs on their face and all, without trying him out you may not know if he is the right or wrong.

Judging one with the other will not also be the best until you try another as we can never be the same.

Like my religious leaders and brethren will say "prayer is the key", prayer is very essential for guidance so as not to fall into wrong hands.

Don't forget, the bad guys also have lovers, but if you are a good one your goodness or prayer can lead you to the right one.

Source: http://www.bamisepeter.com/2017/09/5-things-to-do-to-know-if-he-deserves.html
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Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by emdeey(m): 8:10pm On Sep 23, 2017
Try a dude and lose hime forever
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by sochey(f): 8:13pm On Sep 23, 2017
Narldon:


My Ex saved his sidechick's name in his phone with "Edu Mechanic". shocked



When I discovered, I changed the name to 55227 undecided



Whenever she called, he would start murmuring that this MTN people will not allow his phone to rest...


He even went ahead to block the "MTN PEOPLE" smiley


lmao
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by Nobody: 8:15pm On Sep 23, 2017
I'm done with relationships
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by Olusola147(m): 8:16pm On Sep 23, 2017
The truth is that some ladies don't believe you deserve them unless you show your bedmatics skills to them [/i][/quote] grin
tosyne2much:
Another way to know if he deserves you is if he can satisfy you in bed cheesy


The truth is that some ladies don't believe you deserve them unless you show your bedmatics skills to them
Lol...Baddest!
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by Skmoda360(m): 8:27pm On Sep 23, 2017
tosyne2much:
Another way to know if he deserves you is if he can satisfy you in bed cheesy


The truth is that some ladies don't believe you deserve them unless you show your bedmatics skills to them
ITEL you my brother.

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Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by Funkychic(f): 8:36pm On Sep 23, 2017
tosyne2much:
Another way to know if he deserves you is if he can satisfy you in bed cheesy


The truth is that some ladies don't believe you deserve them unless you show your bedmatics skills to them



Hi Tosyne2much.......longest time, how are u doing?
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by Tattooboy: 8:42pm On Sep 23, 2017
Supersuave2:

Ronaldinho 4 Life!
Dinho is my homie
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by Teymi20: 8:49pm On Sep 23, 2017
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Narldon:


My Ex saved his sidechick's name in his phone with "Edu Mechanic". shocked



When I discovered, I changed the name to 55227 undecided



Whenever she called, he would start murmuring that this MTN people will not allow his phone to rest...


He even went ahead to block the "MTN PEOPLE" smiley


hehe
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 8:56pm On Sep 23, 2017
goingape1:
shut the fvck off














shut the fvck off






















shut the fvck off!
grin lipsrsealed
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 8:59pm On Sep 23, 2017
Alexk2:
1. Know his background
Anybody who base his/her judgement on the above isn't smart and not ready for anything serious. Actually, experience have shown that on the average, those who came out from bad/irresponsible parents becomes a much better spouse in life than those whose parents are "good".....this is so because it is so much easier to learn from bad experience and be a better person than to learn from good experience and be best.

2. Ask about him
This should actually be no. 1 but in the right way. The point should read; "know your partner"
Do all your best to know all that you can about him/her; if possible, make him/her your besty for this purpose.


3. Watch is attitude when it comes to money and you
Very very important. No. 2 method will also be of help in this case.

4. His history relationship-wise
This is just an extension of no. 2

5. Give him a trial
I have reservation about this one...be very careful who you're giving a trial. If he/she fails all the above assessment, a trial may/may not be necessary depending on how sure you're about your results and your overall conviction. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
really appreciate.

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Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by tosyne2much(m): 9:21pm On Sep 23, 2017
Funkychic:




Hi Tosyne2much.......longest time, how are u doing?
Tosyne is doing just fine.. How are you too?
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by tosyne2much(m): 9:22pm On Sep 23, 2017
Olusola147:



The truth is that some ladies don't believe you deserve them unless you show your bedmatics skills to them [/i] grin[i] Another way to know if he deserves you is if he can satisfy you in bed cheesy


The truth is that some ladies don't believe you deserve them unless you show your bedmatics skills to them [/i]Lol...Baddest!
Hope I talk am well egbon? cheesy
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by Funkychic(f): 9:27pm On Sep 23, 2017
tosyne2much:
Tosyne is doing just fine.. How are you too?


I'm good too
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by tosyne2much(m): 9:49pm On Sep 23, 2017
Skmoda360:
ITEL you my brother.
Na so bros
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by Emmyblaqie: 9:50pm On Sep 23, 2017
Guys and love, girls and love... As far as m concerned, derz notin lyk love. So evry1 in a relationship or nt shud jes chill nd drink fanta...it'll soothe ur spirit.

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Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by CHYMA0258(m): 10:40pm On Sep 23, 2017
no surer way,depends on individual and the value they hold for themselves. no formula for all these love thing. make una leave matter for mathias joor
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by Zionprincess(f): 11:08pm On Sep 23, 2017
Abfinest007:
girl do tease boiz this days but no girl will I like u again and I will date her just bcus she confess her love for me bcus the last two that did it d relationship didn't end up well




It didn't end well because you took their love for granted. you don't expect someone to keep loving you without you returning the love back.

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Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by nairanaira12: 12:14am On Sep 24, 2017
Narldon:


My Ex saved his sidechick's name in his phone with "Edu Mechanic". shocked



When I discovered, I changed the name to 55227 undecided



Whenever she called, he would start murmuring that this MTN people will not allow his phone to rest...


He even went ahead to block the "MTN PEOPLE" smiley



grin

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O ti sign tipétipé
Re: 5 Things To Do For You To Know If He Deserves You Or Not - Bamisepeter's Blog by phiszo(m): 8:31am On Sep 24, 2017
Humility017:

you just nailed it...
they only start want the foo guys when they are getting close to 30 years of age...
that's when they begin to grow wiser...
especially between 26-30 years of age
True. Most ladies (beautiful ones) below the age of 24 are not serious.

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