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bongolistik:
Everybody has his/her own ways of doing things and maybe for many guys out there, it has become norm for them to cohabit with their girlfriend and they enjoy it that way, but you know that everybody can't be the same.

My case is entirely different, as my girlfriend is planning to come and stay with me for only God knows how long she intends staying, but it looks like she wants to stay for a very very long period of time, but I asked her not to.

Not because I don't love her nor because I want to be flirting with other girls in her absence, mind you I am not a casanova to start with. All these that some guys will always want to change or flirt with plenty girls and always ready to go extra miles because of woman like travelling from Kafanchan to somewhere in Ibeju Lekki to see her or to flirt with her, I am not just that type and I don't really have such kind of energy chasing different women around like the way soldier ants do in their network.

But the thing there is that I just don't like the idea of staying or living almost permanently with a girlfriend, because I can't really see how I would be entirely differenciated from a married person and unmarried if she stays permanently with me. I don't just like it. Yes she can come spend weekend or some extra days, but moving or packing in completely is a no no for me.

Have I wronged her for rejecting her request?

Adaumunocha:
Wetin the guy do? This one weak me o

But it doesn't have to weak you cos some ladies are natural destroyers

I know of a woman that burnt down her husband's car and also destroyed home appliances out of rage of anger

tosyne2much:
But it doesn't have to weak you cos some ladies are natural destroyers

I know of a woman that burnt down her husband's car and also destroyed home appliances out of rage of anger

tosyne2much:
You have done no wrong.

I also don't think it makes sense to harbour someone you're not married to and then you continue to live as couples. This often makes a relationship lose its value, excitement, fun, respect for each other, etc. In fact, it will get to a time when everything will boring and it will lower the chances of getting married to that person.

Visiting is perfectly normal but should only be for a very short period of time

#Modified#

With all the comments from ladies, we easily conclude that we don't have any lady on Nairaland that's cohabiting?


Issokay oooo! Lemme leave them to their hypocrisy

Effiezynews:
Oga, babes done wise...Collabo no dey always follow for promo... Times have changed. Cohabitation is a relationship killer...Op, you have done well..

selflessposhheart:
No don't even know how I will live with my husband let alone a bf

Adaumunocha:
Too bad.

FortifiedCity:

selflessposhheart:
hello cupcake

FortifiedCity:
What's up honey

Chascop:
amakadihot87 , your comment di hot and sharp

selflessposhheart:
Good you?

nunamyeong:
i can never n will never try it again....

pls dont try it.. it for your own good..

1234onyekwe:
Is like u re speaking from experience can u enlighten us a bit about what transpired b/w both of u if u wouldn't mind.

nunamyeong:
bro... na long story oooo. but one day i will narrate it.

1234onyekwe:
just try small,I know wan make that kind mistake.