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Nesso:
Liked the handled the whole thing, but if I were you I will let her continue on a testing spree nd I can't blame her too, u d only man she has known all her life. The thing is she won't stop until she has seen it all nd its within her rights, so let her go.

Hopefulman:
She's begged Consistently involving my closest friends and hers to pleading on her behalf, she says it's her last and that's it, with the I can't live without you ish, another chance palava. I have given her the chance just that that spark and fire ain't there no more. I had to put a few things into consideration before I did tho, this babe has been with me through thick and thing, suffered with me, drank garri, slept on the bare floor with me for days, was there when I had absolutely nothing.

It just baffles me cos I asked this question severally, as in you didn't misbehave when the going was rough why e be say na now wey every don set



Women sha...

This na babe wey dey complain steady about my sexual strength o, yet cheat on me with a two min guy in the name of wanting to taste another dick.

Lesson I learnt is even if you deflower a woman and then give her the world its still no guarantee. They cheat for stupid reasons



And to let you know she had this all planned and knew what she was going there to do, she came to my place on Thursday unshaved and went to this niggas place well shaved up with the shave cream wey I buy am o.

Chai

xcamarie:
Lol funny stories... Well my own happened when I was still in sch., my ex a civil defense guy, he was suppose to come and see me in sch hostel that night but later came with his bike carrying his friend a civil defense guy too and told me that he wasn't staying long, that they had an assignment in government house. I said ok goodluck and he rode off, but my mind was telling me that he was up to something. So I went to his house, on getting there i saw two of his colleagues outside, I greeted them and one of them said my ex was not in, while the other said I should just go in. Mehnnnn when I went close to the door my heart was skipping cos I just knew something was going on inside, on the other hand my ex thinking he had cleared his ground left the door opened. I just opened the door lo and behold my ex and a girl completely naked and she was on top of him, I just heard him say "Jesussss I can explain". I banged the door and stood outside shocked, he now ran after me with towel, knelt down and started saying he didn't know how he got there and that it's as if the girl is a witch, that he went to eat in their restaurant and didn't know how he got there lol it was funny and painful.

adepeter26:
Well, i was once in this situation too. But her own case was dat she wanted to FRIENDZONE after few years of our relationship just because am a university student & dat wen i go 4 my NYSC, I will see another gal.

Though, girls sha, they are unpredictable

WiLdFLame:
What did u now do? confronted him?

sweetestever:
yes he lied

JONSYN7154:
I've never been caught because I'm James Bond in that area. lol

ok my story didn't happen to me but my best friend

he dated this girl from 100L till we graduated, we had cash so normally we always provide for girls in school
but his own was serious
he pays for her breakfast, lunch and dinner
buys her clothes, pays for bis, changes her phone and all
you should get the picture by now!
we talked and talked dude wont listen said he wants to marry her, if he didn't spend eh he spent like 2million on this girl
so he graduated a year before her and even from far, my guy was still spending
i started hearing stories abt the girl but because i didn't want to hurt my guy i just kept quiet
after the girl graduated, she broke up with him and got married 2months later
HOW ABOUT THAT?

adajoe555:
Through Whatsapp. took his phone to check something then the message came up

agbonkamen:
that girl is wicked

WiLdFLame:
Checking lovers' private messages had always been relationship breaker since time immemorial

ok my story didn't happen to me but my best friend

he dated this girl from 100L till we graduated, we had cash so normally we always provide for girls in school
but his own was serious
he pays for her breakfast, lunch and dinner
buys her clothes, pays for bis, changes her phone and all
you should get the picture by now!
we talked and talked dude wont listen said he wants to marry her, if he didn't spend eh he spent like 2million on this girl
so he graduated a year before her and even from far, my guy was still spending
i started hearing stories abt the girl but because i didn't want to hurt my guy i just kept quiet
after the girl graduated, she broke up with him and got married 2months later
HOW ABOUT THAT?

RhemaDavids:
Cried like a baby, it didn't end there the next morning when I was going back I called him to bring out my laptop and documents in his house, he gave them to me and still could not say sorry. The laptop was stolen in the bus....I will never love again

Hopefulman:
I was going to open a thread about this before but I will just share mine here...


Ok, I dated this babe 5 years, and I mean I taught her everything she knows, opened her eyes too, deflowered her and all, we have gone so deep to the extent our families know one another. I have taken her home to my parents letting them know this is the woman I want to marry and countless times my dad and mom have both prayed for us with us kneeling, I mean we have gone that deep. I will be 30 this year and she's 25, so we both know walking down the aisle is pretty close, though I plan going outside the shores to study and seek greener pastures to, while the plan is doing an introduction before my balling out.



All that up there is just to let you know how far and deep this relationship has gone.


I do everything for this babe cos I see her as my wife already, and I could swear she can't ever open up her body for another guy, I mean I loved, trusted and cared too much, I use to be a play around guy but that life changed when I met her.


Just this past December, I began to notice firstly she lies too much and I have spent 5 years with this babe that I know every single thing about her as well as when she lies too even if sometimes I prefer not to talk cos deep down I am like "if you do anything wrong to this great relationship, you doing yourself".


Years back she gave me access to her fb and maybe must have probably forgotten, So on this faithful day something just pushed me to check which I don't do cos the trust was there, lo and behold when I went to her inbox, she had a fresh chat with a guy someone she's told me about that use to pester her where she use to work before she gained admission into school...

He was pleading with her to visit, before this chat obviously they have been talking over the phone, to my surprise and disappointment her response was

" how much you go gimme if I come? "

Guy was like " no worry, just come first "

And she was like " how much be tf to come there "

He told her and the next thing she said was send the address through text, he asked when she was coming and she said Saturday.


She came to my place Saturday, unshaved, we had to quarrel before we had sex, cos her mind was elsewhere, I knew all along and could have knocked everything off but I wanted to give her a benefit of that cos of how much I trusted this girl, normal it's not bad to have opposite sex as friends as long as you know your boundaries, my mind was like she was probably going to visit and leave.




Then Saturday came I purposely asked her how she would be spending her day, she was like she's going to her Elder's Sis, who happens to know me too, I was like say me hi to her and the kids when you get there.


From 6pm, for the first time in our 5 years of dating she wasn't picking up, only for her to come on WhatsApp later around 8 and told me she was upset and can't pick...

First I called the elder sister to give her the phone, she told me my woman wasn't at her place which was the confirmation she was spending the night at the guys place.


I wanted to clear her all her Bleep ups but controlled my emotions, I decided to chill and let her enjoy herself and do it face to face when I see her.


I couldn't sleep that night 6th of December, knowing another guy who probably didn't care one bit about her was fucking my woman.


Note, sex and money wasn't the problem, we Bleep like cat and rats, I opened her up, when it comes to even the sex this babe doesn't have my strength very lazy in bed, to even last a round is a p, she complains about my strength and love for sex, money wasn't the p cos I make sure she doesn't lack a thing, then why cheat on a nigga, when in truth since she doesn't have my strength sexually I should be the one cheating or trying to cheat.


Now the confrontation...

She ended up spending Saturday till Monday with this guy, two fucking nights.


On Monday she was like she's back from her sister's, meanwhile I let her be these two days, for the first time she wasn't online till Monday, and didn't bother calling or messaging and was complaining of body pains and how tired she was.


I wrapped a few fake gifts sent it to her to come pick them up plus some cash. She showed up in the afternoon that Monday.

I locked the door, wanted to beat her up then push her out, but to what end?, when the neighbourhood knows her as my woman, I didn't want to Bleep her up like that

I confronted her, she kept insisting she was at her sister's place, not till I told her about the call I made to her sister, plus the chat with the guy, even further convinced her I bugged her phone with a spy app which tells me all she does, dialled calls and messages which she fell for and lo began to confess.


That they did it twice and the guy is even as weak as she is in bed, it's her first and the last, she can't do without me bla bla bla, I can give her whatever punishment I want but not to leave her.

Her birthday was suppose to be 5 days away and I had plans.

I was like what was your reason, I still have this particular screenshot too cos I kept asking even after the confrontation, she was like

"Boo I just wanted to explore, test another dick ",

At least once in her life cos she's known just me all her life



WOMEN, I WONDER WHAT ONE CAN DO TO EVER PLEASE HER

She's still with me but I don't know what to do with her for now...

Hopefulman:
She's begged Consistently involving my closest friends and hers to pleading on her behalf, she says it's her last and that's it, with the I can't live without you ish, another chance palava. I have given her the chance just that that spark and fire ain't there no more. I had to put a few things into consideration before I did tho, this babe has been with me through thick and thing, suffered with me, drank garri, slept on the bare floor with me for days, was there when I had absolutely nothing.

It just baffles me cos I asked this question severally, as in you didn't misbehave when the going was rough why e be say na now wey every don set



Women sha...

This na babe wey dey complain steady about my sexual strength o, yet cheat on me with a two min guy in the name of wanting to taste another dick.

Lesson I learnt is even if you deflower a woman and then give her the world its still no guarantee. They cheat for stupid reasons



And to let you know she had this all planned and knew what she was going there to do, she came to my place on Thursday unshaved and went to this niggas place well shaved up with the shave cream wey I buy am o.

Chai

Sabrina18:
If I decide to cheat in a relationship, them never born that person wey go catch me.

Untraceable, unless I want you to know am cheating.

hooklover:
Another one I was firing one lady married wen my phone was ringing I looked it was another married lady calling to know if I was at home so she can c me in d evening by 8pm..

I ignored the call and kept busy sucking pussy..Na so I hear knock for my door, I ignore the knock. Knock persisted I peep and saw her outside standing.. I told lady on bed to cover up.. Wear boxer open door she came in she saw the atmosphere she started laughing.... I told her this is mama faith on bed and introduced her as mama dorcas to mama faith....
They greeted each other... I no even send them cos I know say married ladies no go fight.
Summary is I Bleep 2 of them same time.and the 2 of them became friends from dat day..
Anytime dey c me den ask me of the other.....

Joshrob:
Don't try it with me because before you even think about cheating on me,I will know you have plans..
I read girls mind by just looking into there eyes.

Sabrina18:
You don't know me sha, am very smart and devious o. I can even sell you right before your eyes. No one can read my mind and if you are with me, you can never know what is on my mind, I don't talk much, making it more difficult for you.
You can only read minds of talkatives girls not me.

rosieluv:
he told me he was sick n i decided to visit him(didnt call him tho,ws expectin him to b on a sick bed) d nxt mornin,found him wiv a gal in his room. I ws deeply hurt coz i luvd him unconditionally,infact dem plenty wey don cheat on me. it is nt fair n am a very gud gal.

Joshrob:
I don't talk much either so its help me remember every detail of what you say or do and to know when you're lying or trying to cheat...just don't think about cheating if we are dating because I must fund out.

Sabrina18:
If I decide to cheat in a relationship, them never born that person wey go catch me.

Untraceable, unless I want you to know am cheating.

adajoe555:
I don't check his messages, that day his Data was on the she sent a message out of curiosity I check. Then this saying rang in my ears CURIOSITY KILLS THE CAT

LOL

hooklover:
Another one I was firing one lady married wen my phone was ringing I looked it was another married lady calling to know if I was at home so she can c me in d evening by 8pm..

I ignored the call and kept busy sucking pussy..Na so I hear knock for my door, I ignore the knock. Knock persisted I peep and saw her outside standing.. I told lady on bed to cover up.. Wear boxer open door she came in she saw the atmosphere she started laughing.... I told her this is mama faith on bed and introduced her as mama dorcas to mama faith....
They greeted each other... I no even send them cos I know say married ladies no go fight.
Summary is I Bleep 2 of them same time.and the 2 of them became friends from dat day..
Anytime dey c me den ask me of the other.....

hooklover:
Never be worried of how a ladies decides to play with her pussy with different dick.

Ur provision of everything for a lady does not give u garanteee she will not taste other dicks.

If u like give her 1million or Bleep her scatter if she decide to taste other ducks nothing u can do..

I have dated married ladies with everything their husband can give a lady and some with good sex performance in bedroom by dere husband.Yet they still give me pussycat to taste....

Then u will understand ladies love to experiment adventure...
As a man u learn not to take ladies matter seriously cos pussy is ur own only wen it's with u .No get hypertension and die young cos pussy u die to protect will still be given to someone freely....

JaffyJoe:
Via her whatsapp. Begged for forgiveness but the feeling just never felt the same again. Hated I treated her like shyt for the remaining part of the r/ship.