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Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by michony505(m): 9:02am On Sep 26, 2017
tosyne2much:
Despite the rant for "holiness", you people have the worst human relation and hypocritical acts.

My brother, being holy goes beyond not watching television, it goes beyond not dressing expensively, it goes beyond wearing wearing 50 shoulder pads blouse, it goes beyond not wearing trousers, gold or earrings. The earlier you people know this, the moment you stop discriminating other people.

Listen up, I retrace my step and mind my movement around you the moment I know you're a deeper life member based on the obvious fact about you people. Forget about you people's quiet nature, nobody can deceive me with that because na that quietness and social isolation dey cover una

Mind you, I don't hate Deeper Lifers, I'm only saying the bitter truth which many of you don't want to hear
I pray God reveals himself to us on daily basis. But has for me I have found the truth and millions of people or words cannot CHANGE that. So no point arguing with u. No b fight o.God bless u Sir

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by larabaj(f): 9:07am On Sep 26, 2017
God bless you
Obiwiz:
most of the people bashing the church's wedding are people lacking in focus and personal conviction in life.
The same applies to some of the leaders and members in the church who saddle their members with unrealistic and illogical restrictions and laws.
Who says heavy make-up and see-through clothes are the definition of a standard wedding ceremony?
Who says appearing extremely lavish and extravagant is a must for every wedding?
Who says wearing good quality nice-looking clothes and accessories are sinful?
And tell me why I must scale my judgement of what is good or bad based on what a man(son of G.O) did in his own wedding?
In a nutshell, strike a balance in everything you do. Moderation is the keyword. Why person go enter into huge debt bcuz he wan impress people with him wedding? Do as your hand reach. Why base ur life on what people/peer subtly impose on you as a yardstick? If u knw wat God commands, do it simply and don't let any man(G.O or not) impose his/her personal choices on you. In the end, no be the glamour of the wedding be the important thing, rather na the level of happiness and fulfillment in the marital life be the koko. Just like someone asserted above, the slay queens go always oppose, bcuz many of them are plain myopic in real issues of life.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by DanAdes525(m): 9:22am On Sep 26, 2017
michony505:
I pray God reveals himself to us on daily basis. But has for me I have found the and millions of people or words cannot CHANGE that. So no point arguing with u. No b fight o.God bless u Sir

I do not know you, and I don't hate you too.
But the truth remains that just anybody can feel the sarcasm and hidden intentions in your "No be fight o" comment. it's totally uncalled for. And I hope you change and work on your temper.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by Lillpo(m): 9:24am On Sep 26, 2017
Good, as far as they are compatible
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by DanAdes525(m): 9:32am On Sep 26, 2017
As for me, I don't subscribe to societal rules. I do what works for me.
I'm not bashing the deeper life style, and nobody should because the people that have had their weddings in such manner are not complaining, or at least they are not complaining to the social media.
I have very few deeper life members as friends, I don't know why......Maybe because I feel they are too hypocritical. But I have a few that are worth calling friends.
As for me I don't care what church you claim membership of, we all know the context to which "church" was used in the bible. All these one man ideas, you people follow and neglect the real search for God is derailing. I hope we wakeUP.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by Nobody: 9:33am On Sep 26, 2017
cosmatika:
Check ladies who oppose it, dey can never look beautiful without makeup. As for d guys, na secret sin dey cause am

FYI, I've nva attended DL before, neither am I righteous, but I knw dey re on the right path with Jehovah
oga make up is not the issue here.. at least let her dress well. d dressing is too casual and not even attractive. I believe my mother Mary will never dress like this
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by Nobody: 9:36am On Sep 26, 2017
Obiwiz:
most of the people bashing the church's wedding are people lacking in focus and personal conviction in life.
The same applies to some of the leaders and members in the church who saddle their members with unrealistic and illogical restrictions and laws.
Who says heavy make-up and see-through clothes are the definition of a standard wedding ceremony?
Who says appearing extremely lavish and extravagant is a must for every wedding?
Who says wearing good quality nice-looking clothes and accessories are sinful?
And tell me why I must scale my judgement of what is good or bad based on what a man(son of G.O) did in his own wedding?
In a nutshell, strike a balance in everything you do. Moderation is the keyword. Why person go enter into huge debt bcuz he wan impress people with him wedding? Do as your hand reach. Why base ur life on what people/peer subtly impose on you as a yardstick? If u knw wat God commands, do it simply and don't let any man(G.O or not) impose his/her personal choices on you. In the end, no be the glamour of the wedding be the important thing, rather na the level of happiness and fulfillment in the marital life be the koko. Just like someone asserted above, the slay queens go always oppose, bcuz many of them are plain myopic in real issues of life.
Couldn't have said it any better
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by michony505(m): 9:36am On Sep 26, 2017
DanAdes525:


I do not know you, and I don't hate you too.
But the truth remains that just anybody can feel the sarcasm and hidden intentions in your "No be fight o" comment. it's totally uncalled for. And I hope you change and work on your temper.
My brother God sees my heart that I was not thinking the way u think. I love everyone even my enemies. That was why i made the first prayer of " that God will reveal himself to US(everyone).

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by tosyne2much(m): 9:42am On Sep 26, 2017
deturla:

WoW....
You really mean the Deeper Life people gan oh!
I finish work abi? cheesy
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by Nobody: 9:59am On Sep 26, 2017
slimmdree:
LOL so because she doesnt wish that kind of wedding she is now a LovePeddler?? Chill bro. Am a FULL deeperlifer and i doubt i would ever leave the church but i would never marry in that church...instead i would jejely do court wedding.
Not because of wedding but someone born in Deeper Life dont have a pierced ear,she is a liar from the pit of hell
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by Nobody: 10:04am On Sep 26, 2017
tosyne2much:
Most have you are educated but brainwashed fellow

So, that a lady has her ears pierced makes her a wh'ore?

Most of you are not religious, you're only being archaic and uncivilized in reasoning cheesy
U are the one that is immersed of delusion and devoured by hatred, ur mind is full of trash,empty ur mind and then go back and read my comment very well and U ll get understanding
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by SirGoldEjike(m): 10:24am On Sep 26, 2017
ransomed:
:::--- No, when the children of God gathered, the ekwensu family members mingled with them to cause confusion. What is the essence of wasting your resources on mundane things that are not edifying, glorious and just in the body of christ? Why do we need to be of "this world" when we are instructed not to be part of it. We are indeed at the perilous time, hypocrites should remember that judgement will start from the church and do not be decieved, God cannot be mocked whatever we sow, we shall reap. Thanks.
Alright Bro, sorry for arousing the ''spirit of Religion'' in you, you misunderstand me and call me a member of the family of devil, God Bless you dear,

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by tosyne2much(m): 10:34am On Sep 26, 2017
profolaolu:
U are the one that is immersed of delusion and devoured by hatred, ur mind is full of trash,empty ur mind and then go back and read my comment very well and U ll get understanding
Hahaha.. Look at you! I busted your people's bubble which didn't go well with you.

For your mind now, I can't make heaven shey? cheesy
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by Nobody: 10:36am On Sep 26, 2017
Meanwhile the Deeper Life pastor's son wedded in the Caribbean with the bride wearing lipstick and jewelry - lol- grin

One rule for the minions and another one for the owners of the church ...
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by Nobody: 10:39am On Sep 26, 2017
tosyne2much:
Hahaha.. Look at you! I busted your people's bubble which didn't go well with you.

For your mind now, I can't make heaven shey? cheesy
Who am I god? am I Sure I ll make heaven? but I hate when people peddle lies, what bubble did U burst U are just showing ur ignorance
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by Nobody: 10:40am On Sep 26, 2017
Also , the hypocrites dress like they are going for to mourn whereas in the same bible where they preach from, weddings were colorful and glamorous .

Read about Rebecca's engagement in Genesis 24 for example
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by Nobody: 10:43am On Sep 26, 2017
frosbel2:
Also , the hypocrites dress like they are going for to mourn whereas in the same bible where they preach from, weddings were colorful and glamorous .

Read about Rebecca's engagement in Genesis 24 for example
Did they dress for U because the reason of ur agony and wailing seems unknown and out of proportion
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by Oluwaseyi00(m): 11:02am On Sep 26, 2017
Dnockeror333:


Please, commentor, you made me to roll in questions. I need reply your comment!

1. What standard does Earths Father expects? Are you so ignorant? Where do we hear that every marriage must be done in the Church? That they MUST wear white and a coat to cause stair? That tgey must spend and be spent for their pastors while Brother Peter and Paul and the other Ten die without funfair?
Where have you heard such, from the mouths of men who have innate reasons for defying, redefining and demistifying their do's and don'ts?

Sister, only our Father who exist forever we should await and wait for, do not follow the ways of this world either in gold or goldless!

Can't comprehend undecided
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by AyamConfidence(m): 11:06am On Sep 26, 2017
wristbangle:
I am sorry to say but I can't marry a deeper life lady whether socially oriented or not. I can't bare a lady wearing parashute with stench of armpit smell due to over covering her body.

Atimes I wonder how their couples enjoy sex. A deeper life member told me no pre-intimacy, no preamble, they don't even off their shirt during sex sad undecided



gringrin
grin grin...really??

Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by Analee(f): 11:12am On Sep 26, 2017
Afam4eva:
Every sane human being should reject deeper life weddings. Even though i never wedded there, i experienced a lot of deeper life weddings as a guest. From the uninspiring printing gown worn by the gown to the nwa teacher tailored suit coat worn by the groom and the fact that food is never enough. The most annoying thing is that after the church wedding you all the guests have to match begind the couple and singing this song...

I'm gong to meet the lord
Where he goeth, i will go
Where he liveth, i will live
His people shall be mine
bla bla bla
lolzzzzzzz my belle oo,u ehn! u funny die,u really witnessd it.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by Analee(f): 11:21am On Sep 26, 2017
JoshMedia:

Wow
Who do we have here?
Another miscreant who doesn't use his senses

As for the lady's case, so you think Deeper Life is what make her like that?
See, I get plenty Deeper Life friends, female even plenty and they are all Jovia
So tell me another lie
what said she is d truth,i was a member,once u r nt a member or u nt dressd in der pattern dey quarantine u,dey see u as an unbeliever or wordly.d interestn part is dat sins dey av been doin all these av nt seen wer it has taken dem to,rather u ve more of poverty stricken longtym members dan average members
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by Analee(f): 11:50am On Sep 26, 2017
ransomed:
:::-- Ekwensu, light and darkness can never co-habit. How many of the girls that are against deeper life marriage are virgins? The children of belial will always go against anything Pure, holy and God like in nature.
even one of der worker who is a core member,even got married der,if u go in timelin 4 fb na only kumuyi msg n d post n share,even n pics sef na deeper babe n marry,even pics wen n dey alwaz snap na infront of church, d bro dey toast me 4 whatsapp,if u c him u wont believ his d one,always dressd lik real bro,wit his t-shirt coverin his neck,mak i no mention n district,i confrontd him,him say i mak i leav dat tin,say supposn tel me say e b redemmed,christ embassy etc weda i go dey talk ds kin tin?if u c dey ds man dey beg 4 dat eh!na der i know say lik dey sex starved,or abi na waterspirit dey wori am,n if u c d deeper uniport babe wen n marry eh!fada! D babe mak sense die,bt my questn na y n stil chuk outside,abeg any deeperlife member n d house pls reply me,because ona no dey believ say ona married bro dem stil dey find punna outside.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by michony505(m): 11:56am On Sep 26, 2017
Analee:
what said she is d truth,i was a member,once u r nt a member or u nt dressd in der pattern dey quarantine u,dey see u as an unbeliever or wordly.d interestn part is dat sins dey av been doin all these av nt seen wer it has taken dem to,rather u ve more of poverty stricken longtym members dan average members
Must you lie to pass a message?

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by Analee(f): 12:07pm On Sep 26, 2017
michony505:
Must you lie to pass a message?
if evryone is a liar,den u r liar ursef,u js claimin u know dem,bt av seen u dnt.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by FA13(m): 12:56pm On Sep 26, 2017
motun2017:
as a girl born and brought up in deeperlife i can tell you. you dont wanna wish your eneemy dt kind of wedding (funeral) mtcheew

You always have something negative to say about the church.

You must have been offended or wounded by someone in the church.

Would like to know
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by FA13(m): 1:03pm On Sep 26, 2017
uzoormah:

U lack understanding
You are free to air your view and not abusing another!
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by FA13(m): 1:10pm On Sep 26, 2017
kristen12:
Deeper life yesterday, deeper life today. Wetin the church do una na? I've never heard them forcing anyone to attend the church or get married there so what's the fuss? Members of the church aren't complaining to you guys, the enjoy the church like that, please you guys should let them be. If you can't stick to their rules and regulations then quit. Its not by force.

Mbok leave them alone with their bigs skirts and coats/ suits. The complain is becoming boring and irritating.

Hmm. What an objective comment.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by Freewt: 1:40pm On Sep 26, 2017
I was not born in Deeper life but I like their view although we do watch TV , dance and the rest in my church.... I have some of them as my friend and I can say that they are VERY nice to me. Most ppl bashing this church are even worse in somethings they indulge in. If God says I will marry one of them no wahala. Love their PST ( kumuyi) too.

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by uzoormah(m): 1:40pm On Sep 26, 2017
FA13:

You are free to air your view and not abusing another!
Whr u from?
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by FA13(m): 1:43pm On Sep 26, 2017
An2elect2:
When I joined deeper life some years back before leaving for my life, I gave out all my beautiful clothes to please my so called deeper life brethren who were not pleased with them but I saved my earrings and jewelries. I was born again, very zealous and was ready to give my life for these people but they were still not pleased because I still had my earrings which they saw as a sign of worldliness.

When I understood the grace of God in truth and how it resonated with my salvation experience, I came to see what deeper life stands for. Deeper life stands for the best self righteous persons, moralists, hypocrites and not for Christ. Deeper life stands for anti Christ, hatred for the gospel. Deeper life means the congregation of those who deem Christ's death on the cross as nonsensical, foolishness and vain. In deeper life you are craftly and gradually taught to trust in your goodness and not in Christ's goodness. You are even taught how to smartly call your self righteous works the work of God's grace. You are subtly taught to hate the grace of God and rely on your strength.

I did not get saved in deeper life. I didn't even get saved in a "church" but all my stay in deeper life they gave me the impression that they were the only Christians in the world (O my, and it's not even a Christian church), imagine that kind of pride!

After leaving deeper life, I studied Mr Kumuyi's biography, I read how he became a "Christian and a pastor" and I wasn't surprised. He was just a good boy with charisma who knew about Bible stories and people thought that qualified him to become a Christian and a minister.






Really, there is no iota of truth in all your statement.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by cosmatika(m): 1:58pm On Sep 26, 2017
EmpresFIDEL:
oga make up is not the issue here.. at least let her dress well. d dressing is too casual and not even attractive. I believe my mother Mary will never dress like this
Wat is ur definition of dress well? Hope U know dat ur mother Mary is not an Olosho. Igbo ppl say dat "onye chowa ilú nwanyi, óchówa nke ana alú alú". Meaning dat wen a guy wants to marry, he starts looking for d marriageable ones. I drop my pen here
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Complain About Deeper Life Weddings? by ransomed: 4:36pm On Sep 26, 2017
SirGoldEjike:
Alright Bro, sorry for arousing the ''spirit of Religion'' in you, you misunderstand me and call me a member of the family of devil, God Bless you dear,
::-- You know your bible and you know exactly what i was trying to convey. My comment was generalized and not directed at you sir. I am sorry if you feel offended. I am not religious but do not like people who compromise the standard of God to please the society of whoremongers.

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