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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by U1(m): 9:23pm On Oct 03, 2017
OP, do not even let the thought of abortion cross your mind. You have made the first mistake; don't make another. I beg you.

You need to gird yourself and move on with life. Another wrong step is one you may live to regret for many years. Wish you God's guidance.
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Iyajelili(f): 9:26pm On Oct 03, 2017
Blackfire:
Marry me
Just like that? Lol
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by starrybaba(m): 9:27pm On Oct 03, 2017
Habah ma'am! @ 39 u still dey do boyfriend?
Before you open leg for the guy, your relationship should have been defined na...u just acted like teenage girls wey body dey sweet.
You should know that we all receive the consequences of our actions or inactions...Now your own is here, face it squarely.

My candid advice is for you to keep the baby because you ain't getting any younger...and please try to learn from past occurrence because it may be as a result of not learning from past experiences that kept you till 39.

May God see you through...its well!
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Rozaytee: 9:50pm On Oct 03, 2017
Mehn...i dunno wat to say to u...39years and havent planned ur life well...even dating one loser like dat...mtcheeew
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Nobody: 9:51pm On Oct 03, 2017
Tecno66:
say anything you like. Kids will soon begin to mess u up. When you make comment on nairaland you insult everyone that has contrary view to the one you have,.
i only insulted u cos you were judging the woman instead of proferring a solution
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Rozaytee: 9:52pm On Oct 03, 2017
Mehn..i dunno wat to even say to u....at 39years u cant even plan ur life well...and dating one loooser like dat?....mtcheeeew
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Meekymannia: 10:31pm On Oct 03, 2017
you are telling me? when you are busy collecting prick whom do you informed? shocked
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by nickyrichx21(m): 10:37pm On Oct 03, 2017
No one should assume the worse. It is often difficult to know why anybody is not married. But my dear, keep the child. These kids may seem out of place in the world at the moment, but the always end up being joy unspeakable just when you least expect it. If it were me, I could even bone the idea of marriage again completely
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by tobaseye: 11:18pm On Oct 03, 2017
Op people have said it all keep the baby, bear the pain now and you will be happy tomorrow.

I bet you in 2 to 3 years from now, all you will be saying about the child is " this is my inspiration I can't live with him or her".

Please don't bother yourself about people's opinions about you because you got pregnant out of wedlock. Though not easy but please bear it.

God is your strengths.
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Nobody: 11:20pm On Oct 03, 2017
With all your experience at almost 40, u still bet belle. Your plan was to trap him but e no work. Ntoo
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Tecno66: 1:15am On Oct 04, 2017
funmisticqueen:
i only insulted u cos you were judging the woman instead of proferring a solution
The woman claimed to be 39 years and I am much much more older than her and I said at that age she ought to have enough experience about how to prevent unwanted pregnancy except she deliberately allowed it because time was running out on her. I wrote this having taking time to read through her write up. We have a terrible culture in this forum where people insult everybody. They hide under the hiden identity of nairaland to insult the president, everyone. In nairaland, news readers include teenagers and even 70yr old men. A 60yr old man makes a comment, a 25yr old person says shut your mouth, fool, zombie and things like that. To the users of the forum, all are mates. I once wondered whether all the insults people throw around here would have been so if nairaland was a forum for french people or the Americans where people are treated with much decorum. I am not surprised though when the first words Nigerian children utter when learning how to speak are you dey mad, see you head etc. I wonder how we got here? What goes around come around. When you slap your father, get prepared for a slap from your son or daughter. That's it. Eshegan.
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by BabaRamota1980: 5:48am On Oct 04, 2017
myomectomy

huhWhat is that huh

Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by phranq30(m): 7:01am On Oct 04, 2017
Adeoba10:
Name of the university? And what sex position lead to the pregnancy?
Hehehe..My guy!
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by phranq30(m): 7:06am On Oct 04, 2017
Chascop:
sounds like a cooked story
Thou must be a chef
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Nobody: 8:47am On Oct 04, 2017
Tecno66:
The woman claimed to be 39 years and I am much much more older than her and I said at that age she ought to have enough experience about how to prevent unwanted pregnancy except she deliberately allowed it because time was running out on her. I wrote this having taking time to read through her write up. We have a terrible culture in this forum where people insult everybody. They hide under the hiden identity of nairaland to insult the president, everyone. In nairaland, news readers include teenagers and even 70yr old men. A 60yr old man makes a comment, a 25yr old person says shut your mouth, fool, zombie and things like that. To the users of the forum, all are mates. I once wondered whether all the insults people throw around here would have been so if nairaland was a forum for french people or the Americans where people are treated with much decorum. I am not surprised though when the first words Nigerian children utter when learning how to speak are you dey mad, see you head etc. I wonder how we got here? What goes around come around. When you slap your father, get prepared for a slap from your son or daughter. That's it. Eshegan.
old man have you finished ranting. This is a faceless forum, what did you expect? Children of this generation will only give respect to whom it is due and whosoever has earned it. Afterall it is you 'elders' that brought this country to the way it is.
For your age, i expected a more matured response. I dont have time to listen to myopic rants of elders who cannot offer wise advice.
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Nobody: 8:48am On Oct 04, 2017
BabaRamota1980:
myomectomy

huhWhat is that huh
surgery to remove fibroid
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Jkvivi2020: 9:02am On Oct 04, 2017
from ur story I can see you are trying to trap him wit pregnancy that is what you girls are capable of doing at 39 you are not married yet because you have been to selective, he must be rich, have a car,house an more.you Bleep all the men in the uni and outside uni now you are desperate to marry.
slay queen in the house keep on slaying while ur mate are married menopause is knocking at ur door.that is the real truth take it or leave it.
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Blackfire(m): 9:04am On Oct 04, 2017
Iyajelili:
Just like that? Lol
What do I do
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Iyajelili(f): 9:09am On Oct 04, 2017
Blackfire:
What do I do
I'm coming let me prepare a list as i no get papa again
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Blackfire(m): 9:15am On Oct 04, 2017
Iyajelili:
I'm coming let me prepare a list as i no get papa again
U know sometimes somethings are taking as joke unit it becomes serious.


Marry me
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Iyajelili(f): 9:18am On Oct 04, 2017
Blackfire:
U know sometimes somethings are taking as joke unit it becomes serious.


Marry me
I can't marry you just like that, Won't you even get to know me?
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Blackfire(m): 9:34am On Oct 04, 2017
Iyajelili:
I can't marry you just like that, Won't you even get to know me?
OK let me know you.
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Iyajelili(f): 9:41am On Oct 04, 2017
Blackfire:
OK let me know you.
I am iyajelili,very jovial, kind, like to be happy all the time and want new friends
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Blackfire(m): 10:19am On Oct 04, 2017
Iyajelili:
I am iyajelili,very jovial, kind, like to be happy all the time and want new friends
I am val ,tall , half Igbo half Yoruba, extremely funny, but serious goal getter .

I reside in Ibadan,
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Iyajelili(f): 11:26am On Oct 04, 2017
Blackfire:
I am val ,tall , half Igbo half Yoruba, extremely funny, but serious goal getter .

I reside in Ibadan,
Lovely resume,i'm impressed.
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Blackfire(m): 3:04pm On Oct 04, 2017
Iyajelili:
Lovely resume,i'm impressed.
Wait till u meet me in person.

So what do u hate most....
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Iyajelili(f): 3:51pm On Oct 04, 2017
Blackfire:
Wait till u meet me in person.

So what do u hate most....
Unnecessary lies,pride and i especially hate people who are jealous of others
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Blackfire(m): 5:23pm On Oct 04, 2017
Iyajelili:
Unnecessary lies,pride and i especially hate people who are jealous of others
Am impressed really impressed.

But whats up with the name I mean your moniker,
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by muller101(m): 5:58pm On Oct 04, 2017
Funkybabee:
Does he have a family you knew....even if you don't go and meet his mother or any elders in his family that can handle him,no man will bear a woman like you at ur age and still expect you to born out of wedlock or be single




If you are a yoruba involve ur parents in it jare



Moro pe ori re fe daru!!!!
the parents sent her there right? grin
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Funkybabee(f): 8:18pm On Oct 04, 2017
muller101:
the parents sent her there right? grin
So her parent have to send her there for dating before she can marry at her age....


Funny u
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by princesscool: 12:56pm On Nov 14, 2017
mayowa558:
zombi


Your grammar tho
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by nairapower: 2:13am On Dec 05, 2017
Keep the child. Damn the shame. Life goes on. Trust God for a man to settle down with.
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