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FellepHq:
I think the first sign is when communication starts getting hard, monotonic or generally boring. When you start reading meaning to each others speech and general intolerance.

U made complete sense. You're right

This must be what you are suffering personally, God be with your family

nairavsdollars:
Wanting all your husband's money to go to your family ALONE while you discourage him to give to his family

nairavsdollars:
Wanting all your husband's money to go to your family ALONE while you discourage him to give to his family

Yes this is definitely one of them

I don’t need sign anymore






Once bitten...........

scofieldsimba:
If e crash,you move ahead. .
You don't force it..

did you buy your stupidity or is it genetic

bid4rich:
Yes...God will help us but we have to work our marriage as you would your salvation. "work out your own salvation with fear and trembling"

Alright sir.
Not yet married, perhaps in the next 40mthz

story for the married people

davodyguy:
Infidelity is the final break.
I catch my wife, marriage ends same day. No one born can beg me to take her back

If she catches you?

Congratulations Traphedges.

scofieldsimba:
If e crash,you move ahead. . You don't force it..

How old are you?

Mine has already crashed. With a nagging, abusive and disrespectful wife for the last 6 years plus, tell me why it wouldn't crash. The only reason she is still with me and in my house is because of my children.

PastorandMentor:
Who marriage help?

your parents of course

paulostical2004:
Mine has already crashed. With a nagging, abusive and disrespectful wife for the last 6 years plus, tell me why it wouldn't crash. The only reason she is still with me and in my house is because of my children.

eyaa, pls make her see a counsellor , dnt let it crash, I hate to see kids suffer .

paulostical2004:
Mine has already crashed. With a nagging, abusive and disrespectful wife for the last 6 years plus, tell me why it wouldn't crash. The only reason she is still with me and in my house is because of my children.

Don't let it crash oh. Try and see a marriage counselor to resolve whatever conflicts you might be having.

What happiness means to party a in marriage is not what it means to party B.Marriage is not mathematics where 1+1 is 2.Many a times all these online advice and write ups on marriage does not work the same way in real life

Adaumunocha:
If she catches you?

Nothing will happen. Cos I can choose to marry two

always talking and chatting with an Ex, all in the name of friendship. too bad , offensive and inappropriate.

Crystalline:
We need God's help

My dear we don't need G-D's help, his help is always there for us. We simply don't want to work on our weaknesses. we want people to accept us the way we are not minding how disagreeable our conducts can be. WE DONT LIKE TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY

TrapHedges:
In the society nowadays, there is this sudden surge in the level of marriage breakups. It looks like everybody just wants to propose, take pre-wedding pictures, have a lavish weddin ceremony, go for honeymoon and then break it all up right after maybe, one or two years of marriage. A breakup doesn't just happen in a marriage though, there are always signs to look out for, symptoms of a breakup.
Below are seven big warning signs that your marriage is about to end;

1. Halting Intimacy:- When you stop initiating intimacy with your partner, when you'd rather do house chores or any other stuff than get cuddling, touching and all that with your partner, this is a likely sign that your marriage might be about to crash. In any marriage, there should always be this feeling of want, and maybe, lust between couples. Intimacy helps keep a relationship alive because there's always this bond attached when couples get intimate.

2. Getting Secretive :- Doing things behind your partner's back, deliberately keeping secrets from your partner is another sign your marriage might be about to end. In any relationship/marriage, there should be a level of individual space that is needed for growth but once you start hiding things from your partner, sending secret text messages or maybe starting to use a password on your mobile are all signs that you want to hide something from your partner and it makes trust waver

3. Repeating Arguments :-Fighting and quarrelling with your spouse over the same thing every now and then is another sign. When you both get into fights constantly without trying to make amends or put an end to the cause of the argument, it makes arguments go on and on and probably stretch deep into other things. You should always endeavour to kill any argument immediately and avoid getting physical.

4. Not Caring About Your Appearance :- In a marriage,when you stop caring about what your partner thinks on your appearance, when you neither give a crawling fuçk nor a flying one about your partner's opinion on how you look, It is another warning sign that your marriage has issues. Not making your hair, not trying to look nice for your partner,acting lazy and sloppy, maybe even going to bed in clothes you use for house chores and not caring what your partner might think are all signs of a marriage that is about to crash.

5. Getting Abusive and Offensive :- Your wife does something to annoy you, you send her home on an insult errand to her great grandfathers. Your husband does something to piss you off, you start to call names and insult his mother and all of his ancestors. You both bring up past issues to berate each other whenever an argument surfaces. One simple complaint and you are both flaring up, ready to tear each other up. These are all signs that a marriage has problems and it is likely to crash. No matter the argument,never get verbally or physically abusive in your marriage.

6. Refusing To Tackle Issues Head-on:- Apparently, you don't like your new job, it sucks, but you'd rather be at it than go home to your wife because you are trying to avoid her. You don't have much interest in alcohol and clubbing so you try to avoid your friend's company but lately, you'd rather be with your friends drinking and clubbing than go home to your wife. Your boring job is suddenly not so boring anymore and your friends have suddenly become more important to you than your spouse. These are all signs that you are refusing to tackle and resolve whatever problem you have in your marriage. You are trying to bail out the easy way and this doesn't bode well for your marriage.

7. Infidelity:- No doubt, infidelity is considered to be the chief destroyer of marriages nowadays. It has the ability to destroy marriages because it dissolves the one important foundation of any marriage, which is trust. Infidelity doesn't necessarily have to be physical, it could be emotional. When you start imagining and fantasizing about that hot colleague at work or maybe an Ex you met back recently, it is also a form of cheating. When you derive more satisfaction from immersing yourself in fantasyland with that colleague at work or that ex you just met back than spending quality time with your spouse, it's a sign that something deep is wrong with your marriage. Not all spouses forgive infidelity though so avoid going physical with cheating. Maybe it could be worked out but most times, trust is never regained.
These are all clear signs that your marriage is having issues that will likely lead to a breakup. You should see a marriage counsellor and work on whatever issues you might be having with your spouse.
Wish you all the best in your marriages!

source : www.nemezu.com/2017/10/7-clear-signs-your-marriage-is-about-to.html?m=1

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davodyguy:
I balance it.

My wife's money her headache and how I spend mine is non of her business.

I bought her a car, fuel it, pay all the bills in the house, feed her, pay the rent and she absolutely does nothing at home with her income. Her salary sef, I have no idea of how much.

Then she dare not ask me how I spend mine, cos she's overfed.

My prayer has always been my wife will never be as rich as I am, so the headship authority or crown is not taken from me, as God ordained it.

hmmmm well said. .
I need a job.

davodyguy:
I balance it.

My wife's money her headache and how I spend mine is non of her business.

I bought her a car, fuel it, pay all the bills in the house, feed her, pay the rent and she absolutely does nothing at home with her income. Her salary sef, I have no idea of how much.

Then she dare not ask me how I spend mine, cos she's overfed.

My prayer has always been my wife will never be as rich as I am, so the headship authority or crown is not taken from me, as God ordained it.

my brother u have INFERIORITY complex

davodyguy:
I balance it.

My wife's money her headache and how I spend mine is non of her business.

I bought her a car, fuel it, pay all the bills in the house, feed her, pay the rent and she absolutely does nothing at home with her income. Her salary sef, I have no idea of how much.

Then she dare not ask me how I spend mine, cos she's overfed.

My prayer has always been my wife will never be as rich as I am, so the headship authority or crown is not taken from me, as God ordained it.

hehehe!! Hope ur wife no dey for nairaland oooo!!

davodyguy:
I balance it.

My wife's money her headache and how I spend mine is non of her business.

I bought her a car, fuel it, pay all the bills in the house, feed her, pay the rent and she absolutely does nothing at home with her income. Her salary sef, I have no idea of how much.

Then she dare not ask me how I spend mine, cos she's overfed.

My prayer has always been my wife will never be as rich as I am, so the headship authority or crown is not taken from me, as God ordained it.

hehehe!! Hope ur wife no dey for nairaland oooo?? Nt all woman will luv to read d last part of ur comment!

Nmaglit:
my brother u have INFERIORITY complex

No I don't. Whatever rocks your boat

horlakunle25:
hehehe!! Hope ur wife no dey for nairaland oooo?? Nt all woman will luv to read d last part of ur comment!

She no dey

davodyguy:
I balance it.

My wife's money her headache and how I spend mine is non of her business.

I bought her a car, fuel it, pay all the bills in the house, feed her, pay the rent and she absolutely does nothing at home with her income. Her salary sef, I have no idea of how much.

Then she dare not ask me how I spend mine, cos she's overfed.

My prayer has always been my wife will never be as rich as I am, so the headship authority or crown is not taken from me, as God ordained it

Really?
Make sure you are the richest being on earth from the day you get married till you part with your wife

davodyguy:
She no dey

better for u ooo!! U neva can tell she might own a small pistol inside her bag, and dis comment might trigger her to use it on u!!

Mariinee:
Congratulations Traphedges.

you're such a darling.. thanks hun

davodyguy:
I balance it.

My wife's money her headache and how I spend mine is non of her business.

I bought her a car, fuel it, pay all the bills in the house, feed her, pay the rent and she absolutely does nothing at home with her income. Her salary sef, I have no idea of how much.

Then she dare not ask me how I spend mine, cos she's overfed.

My prayer has always been my wife will never be as rich as I am, so the headship authority or crown is not taken from me, as God ordained it.

What you wish yourself also wish the same for your wife. Marriage it's about understanding.[color=#006600][/color]cheers

What has ladies done ? Wife this, wife that?
Haba
Men are also at fault ooo

Everyone seems to be a marriage counsellor these days...even single people.

davodyguy:
I balance it.

My wife's money her headache and how I spend mine is non of her business.

I bought her a car, fuel it, pay all the bills in the house, feed her, pay the rent and she absolutely does nothing at home with her income. Her salary sef, I have no idea of how much.

Then she dare not ask me how I spend mine, cos she's overfed.

My prayer has always been my wife will never be as rich as I am, so the headship authority or crown is not taken from me, as God ordained it.

i need a husband like this abeg . not this lets share the house rent, water bills .......