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It's hard to decide, I know some peeps who got married, and that seemed like the best thing that ever happened to them

While my uncle that got married changed totally, and I think so far is living a miserable life


I think it also depends on who you get married to

Sholaqe:
depends on the people involved. there are certain needs that can't be met when one is married and there are certain freedoms one loses when one gets married. In the same vein, there are certain benefits and joys that being married bestows on a person. so there are pros and cons to both. its just a matter of weighing both on your own subjective scale.

what needs cant be met when you are married and met when you are single?I do nt think you lose any freedom cos you can still do waht ever you want to do that was morally right.

Single sweet die, used to have 100% freedom and can embark on any journey without a second thought . But the moment man marries, everything changes, have to limit everything hence making my family and wife a priority.

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Sholaqe:
depends on the people involved. there are certain needs that can't be met when one is married and there are certain freedoms one loses when one gets married. In the same vein, there are certain benefits and joys that being married bestows on a person. so there are pros and cons to both. its just a matter of weighing both on your own subjective scale.

god bless u

both ways has it UPS and DOWN

myboy2010:
nothing gives u happiness than making Jesus Christ the lord of ur life

bullshit.

Sholaqe:
depends on the people involved. there are certain needs that can't be met when one is married and there are certain freedoms one loses when one gets married. In the same vein, there are certain benefits and joys that being married bestows on a person. so there are pros and cons to both. its just a matter of weighing both on your own subjective scale.

Halfway through reading your comment,I got distracted and can't remember a word I jus read even though its right in front of me.

Why do you think this happened?

a good marriage is better than being single for two are better than one. one will chase a thousand and two can pursue ten thousand. there is also the favor that a man obtains from God when he finds a wife.

all that being said. a bad marriage with an abusive spouse, liar, interfering in-laws, etc will always be worse than being single. marriage is different from singleness in terms of free time, schedule and responsibility but that does not mean it should be hell. if u are married and looking back at your single days with yearning then mo sorry gan. best to go for counselling.

byvan03:
Either way, you are screwed.

just as soren kierkegaad puts it, Marry, and you will regret it; don’t marry, you will also regret it; marry or don’t marry, you will regret it either way

Marriage of course. When I first got into it, I felt so uneasy for like four good months based on transition from liberty of actions to consideration before acting. But afterwards my life got transformed into a better one, ranging from better sense of reasoning and judgement, higher tolerance level, feel loved and secure, better savings, faster goals achievement, closeness to God and many more .... Just be with the right partner.

For a man having a wife is like having a slave( no insult intended) , you have to house her, feed her, cloth her and you have to bury her if she dies. When you are single you can employ services of women now and then and pay off front. You don't have to house them, feed them or cloth them. You have no responsibility for burying any of them if they die.

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DeckXavier:
just as soren kierkegaad puts it, Marry, and you will regret it; don’t marry, you will also regret it; marry or don’t marry, you will regret it either way

myboy2010:
nothing gives u happiness than making Jesus Christ the lord of ur life

say no more

I will marry when I have enough money to throw away

ok

Japhet04:
Marriage is nothing but a waste of time, energy and resources, why marry when you can be free to live life without any restrictions and limitations which mar-rriage brings. My opinion tho

life is best enjoyed alone

You wanna be truly happy? ==GOD.

hmm... what a big question...i have experienced both... but if I have the chance to choose again, I will prefer to be single... yes marriage is sweet and all but it doesn't really worth it's weirdness...if not for the feeling of having a child, it's a crazy world...

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happines is a choice

Stay away from marriage. It's the headquarters of fake people. You can enter into legal arrangement to make children but the conventional thing called marriage is, like religion, pathetically fake.

Married life is very sweet if both partners are attuned to each other. You can't wait to return home on time, feeling responsible as man or woman, knowing that, you have someone to share virtually your entire life with.
Same can be horrible if both partners lack basic ingredients to make good marriage.

Akshow:
Single. was once married, now single. Single rocks.

u are happily divorced right?

No English dictionary has been able to explain the difference btwn the two words "COMPLETE" and "FINISHED". Some people say there is no difference between "COMPLETE" and "FINISHED", but there is. When you marry the right woman you are COMPLETE and when you marry the wrong woman, you are FINISHED! When your wife catches you with another woman you are COMPLETELY FINISHED and when your wife likes shopping so much you are FINISHED COMPLETELY!


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depends on how you live your single life. I'm single and hoping for happy, healthy and a better marriage, becouse i'm happily preparing for my marriage. Note: your single life determine your marriage life. When you are not happy, healthy....... As single, you will take that to your marriage. (quote me)

AnanseK:

For a man having a wife is like having a slave( no insult intended) , you have to house her, feed her, cloth her and you have to bury her if she dies. When you are single you can employ services of women now and then and pay off front. You don't have to house them, feed them or cloth them. You have no responsibility for burying any of them if they die.

This is a lame school of thought.

I'm happy now. Relationship brought hell at a point, ɓut I'm back to my happy state. If relationship coulɗ ɓe that terriɓle, I wonɗer what marriage holɗs!

MhizzAJ:
Single and happy #Selflove

let go dia together