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2dice01:
lol...most people or some/few people..


Even though the assslicking was too legendary

Limited knowledge is not a problem, refusal to learn is.

You should have infered that I know her away from nairaland from my last comment. But you choose ignorance.

By the way, it takes a legend to come up with something legendary, be it asslicking, bootlicking, sockslicking... Just name the licking.

I feel very sorry for u bro. Cos I totally understand how you feel. I myself am also in a situation like this, the thing is I've come to accept the reality of it all.

Love is never enough and that's the truth. She might be into u for a while but at some point it all just fades away.

The only thing u can do for ursef is keep ur hustle going and improve your financial status and maybe move on.

It's difficult for guys like us who genuinely love with our hearts. But trust me when the money comes and they see ur on a new level that's when they realize the mistake they've made. And even If they don't come back move on there's always someone better looking someone who's going to see u for u.

schumastic:
That's the problem I have with ladies generally they won't call it quit, they would prefer to double date and continue to deceive both guys.

Anyway, is your gf, your relationship and your choice to make at the end. But if am in your shoes, my brother, I would walk away or give her an ultimatum to either chose between spending her day with the guy or with me.

If you ask her to choose between you both, then most people, especially ladies will say you are selfish and self centered, forgetting the fact that you are only trying to protect your relationship.

Since you agreed to the fact that you don't want to boss her around since she is not married to you(this I admire). Please take a walk, the relationship is still young and you will do your heart more harm than good if you continue with it.

P.s. guys lets tell ourselves the truth, to date is very expensive this days, especially if you know you are not buoyant enough to go into a relationship, just have it at the back of your mind that issues of finance will come into play even if she is not the demanding type.

There are guys out there that are ready to compete with you on your girl especially the ones who are financially stable, they may come as a friend but we all know the end result.

Ladies need to understand this, the ego of a guy increases when he sleeps with a lady and he is ready to double his efforts when he knows she has a serious relationship and that's why he will do ANYTHING on earth to get you. So forget all those he is my friend nothing will happen, the only friend I know is "what a friend we have in Jesus".

Signed.

Vice Chairman,

Bachelors Club, Lagos Branch.

forward a copy of this comment to Calabar branch.

Op be prepared cos after that birthday she will resign from ur local factory . A multi national firm just offered her a mouth watering deal.

Prec1ous:
Limited knowledge is not a problem, refusal to learn is.

You should have infered that I know her away from nairaland from my last comment. But you choose ignorance.

By the way, it takes a legend to come up with something legendary, be it asslicking, bootlickping, sockslicking... Just name the licking.

lol...can she type the same shii for you..


Hell no

Continue boss...the Lord is your strength

2dice01:
lol...can she type the same shii for you..


Hell no

Continue boss...the Lord is your strength

That will have to be her choice, typing it was mine!

Anyways,
You win, twale!

muller101:
forward a copy of this comment to Calabar branch.

Yes bro, you can do just that.

Sorry bro, our single ladies still dnt want to understand that, they can stay in a relationship together with a guy, and make things work out for good...We are always going for already made, just few are ready to stay and have patience to see the relationship work..What if the guy she is running after, gets what he wants and dump her at the end? She will now come and cry you a river Dat is the main reason why you see some ladies at 34/36 still singled

schumastic:
That's the problem I have with ladies generally they won't call it quit, they would prefer to double date and continue to deceive both guys.

Anyway, is your gf, your relationship and your choice to make at the end. But if am in your shoes, my brother, I would walk away or give her an ultimatum to either chose between spending her day with the guy or with me.

If you ask her to choose between you both, then most people, especially ladies will say you are selfish and self centered, forgetting the fact that you are only trying to protect your relationship.

Since you agreed to the fact that you don't want to boss her around since she is not married to you(this I admire). Please take a walk, the relationship is still young and you will do your heart more harm than good if you continue with it.

P.s. guys lets tell ourselves the truth, to date is very expensive this days, especially if you know you are not buoyant enough to go into a relationship, just have it at the back of your mind that issues of finance will come into play even if she is not the demanding type.

There are guys out there that are ready to compete with you on your girl especially the ones who are financially stable, they may come as a friend but we all know the end result.

Ladies need to understand this, the ego of a guy increases when he sleeps with a lady and he is ready to double his efforts when he knows she has a serious relationship and that's why he will do ANYTHING on earth to get you. So forget all those he is my friend nothing will happen, the only friend I know is "what a friend we have in Jesus".

Signed.

Vice Chairman,

Bachelors Club, Lagos Branch.

i feel u bro everything you say has been taken into consideration i will just wait till that day is over but from last week i have been preparing my mind to drop the relationship but it all depends on how she acts

Andrew3:
Are you invited to the party?

that's the point am rejecting the invite before it comes

Khutie:
•••Mostly at 20-24 they are at the genesis of life, at that stage life is effusively and almost uninhibitedly enthusiastic. She shouldn't forget that birthday is only buh a day in a year. Give her the support she needs, not financially tho cause she's already on it. Focus on yhur hustle and may God bless yhu abundantly on it.
And don't forget to give her extra mile space after the birthday because she's gone for good to the highest stakeholder which is definitely ain't yhu.

scary but it's the the truthtruth one can never truly be ready for a break up but i should be ready for this one

muller101:
Op be prepared cos after that birthday she will resign from ur local factory . A multi national firm just offered her a mouth watering deal.

this got me cracked up

Brother indeed, you know guys treat any girl that they haven't seen her panties nice cos they are expecting a reward.......Even if na you you'll want to show appreciation

Kizito2nv:
My babe's birthday is next month and she says she wants to celebrate it its her 20th,
don't have that kind of money,

she says there's a guy an old friend who wants to sponsor the whole event for her, we don't have any problems in our relationship probably because I try not to find out if she is playing, cos i am old enough to understand that when u start looking for fault in Ur partner u will definitely find one, and am not ready to quit this one yet,
she hasn't given me concrete reason to fault her either i love her so much, and she has always expressed same towards me safe to say everything is fine between us

. Am a fresh graduate this is my first year in civil service and the job is really not paying enough to sustain me though the job is really promising guess that's why she is still with me, cos i don't really meet up to her financial demands for now,

she said the guy takes her like a sister but me no gree no guy does this kind of thing for free, just asked her if the guy knows she is dating someone she said no well i told her i can't attend if he doesn't know that, though i told her I wanted to take her out on the Sunday of the birthday then she told me she already accepted the guy take charge of her birthday party, am not yet her husband nor fiancee so I can't force not too,

it's not easy not spending the birthday with her and seriously i don't know our feature after that party i still stand on not going for the party i just wish someone out here can profer a better alternative i will appreciate thanks in advance
and one more thing she is very beautiful

If she would rather celebrate her birthday with someone else instead of you for whatever reason, then u should mentally dissociate urself from that relationship and consider it over. She has simply told u indirectly that u are dispensable and she owes u no loyalty. If she loves and believes in u as u think, having a party will mean nothing to her compared to the little u intend doing for her

Apina:
If she would rather celebrate her birthday with someone else instead of you for whatever reason, then u should mentally dissociate urself from that relationship and consider it over. She has simply told u indirectly that u are dispensable and she owes u no loyalty. If she loves and believes in I as u think, having a party will mean nothing to her compared to the little u intend doing for her

painful but it's the truth it's life