QuietHammer:

She knows I don't have one. I know she'll feel very bad if I tell her to stop. She does it with a passion.

Now this here is a real world problem. She just needs a new hobby, tell her to transfer her passion to knitting.

rebirthforgoody:
Maybe you should tell her that you don't like her spending money buying foodstuffs cooking and be bringing for you.that she should save some money for her upkeep too.

QuietHammer:

I'll try this. Thanks.

This will obviously not work. She will laugh it off and tell you not to worry, that it doesn't take her much money to cook anyway. So when this fails, it will now be more difficult for you to tell her another day to stop. She will feel you are trying out many ways to push her away. Whatever you do, be resolved to end it and don't mince words. Tell her you value the friendship but not too comfortable eating her food since most times, u must have already eating and u end up throwing the food away.

herdeythoun:
politely tell her

She needs kpaunshin

QuietHammer:

She knows I don't have one. I know she'll feel very bad if I tell her to stop. She does it with a passion.

I just dey imagine the way she dey garnish your food. she'll eat one meat and give you three

MaritzaNL:
Tell her you have a girlfriend.

Eee no solve d issue...

QuietHammer:

She knows I don't have one. I know she'll feel very bad if I tell her to stop. She does it with a passion.

I just dey imagine the way she dey garnish your food. she'll eat one meat and give you three

i love early morning sex it neutralize my brain

QuietHammer:
Good evening. I'm a corp member serving in a school and I stay in the lodge provided by the school together with some other female corpers.
Now here lies my problem ; there is this particular female corper who keeps bringing me food randomly.
I know she'll feel bad if I tell her to stop it, I'll also feel bad if I throw the food out after receiving it from her, pretending that I really appreciate her bringing me food for no reason. How can I make her stop?

This is what works for me in such situations sit her down and make her understand you consider her very dearly as a sister and never want that brother and sister relationship to be spoiled, tell her that you are after someone or you have started a new relationship with someone you really fancy and you want to introduce your new love to her, but bros make sure you drive the brother and sister bit into her head. She will get the message if she get common sense

I love ur answer especially coming from a female folk

herdeythoun:
politely tell her

QuietHammer:
Good evening. I'm a corp member serving in a school and I stay in the lodge provided by the school together with some other female corpers.
Now here lies my problem ; there is this particular female corper who keeps bringing me food randomly.
I know she'll feel bad if I tell her to stop it, I'll also feel bad if I throw the food out after receiving it from her, pretending that I really appreciate her bringing me food for no reason. How can I make her stop?

Crap ! Man just tell her and be over with it. Just be polite as possible. Shekina

QuietHammer:
Good evening. I'm a corp member serving in a school and I stay in the lodge provided by the school together with some other female corpers.
Now here lies my problem ; there is this particular female corper who keeps bringing me food randomly.
I know she'll feel bad if I tell her to stop it, I'll also feel bad if I throw the food out after receiving it from her, pretending that I really appreciate her bringing me food for no reason. How can I make her stop?

Why is it that this kind of gift always falls into the wrong hands.

1nigeriamyfoot:
make we initiate dat nigga?

una comot ashi joint thread come initiate am

wehdone

SuperSuave:
man said he's not HOT man can never be HOT

but the girl never tell him to take off his jacket

That girl is yoruba and that's their method. [center][/

SeKTo:
Tell her you are fasting

guy fast waitin, do you want her to join him in fasting?

First of all..... U need to know the kind of person she is...... She might be a corper and nt be civilized....... So if she is civilized...... Good for u..... Just tell her with a very polite tone..... That ur the very selective type when it comes to food.......... U can chip in that u have some allergies and what she might be bringing might include some of those allergies...... That only u know what u can eat or not........ Pls be careful....... It's obvious she might have a crush on u......buh it's up to u to carefully discard her off...... U can fake a call in her presence and say it was Ur galfrwd...... And she was complaining of her presence with her property (which is you)........ Buh pls be careful....... Ladies nor dey joke dese days o...... And also...... Find out If it's only you she brings the food too or she have some pple she just decides to be helping their matter

QuietHammer:
Good evening. I'm a corp member serving in a school and I stay in the lodge provided by the school together with some other female corpers.
Now here lies my problem ; there is this particular female corper who keeps bringing me food randomly.
I know she'll feel bad if I tell her to stop it, I'll also feel bad if I throw the food out after receiving it from her, pretending that I really appreciate her bringing me food for no reason. How can I make her stop?

wow, guy you dey enjoy o, you want to reject free food abi, that's on a lighter mood, just leave that lodge and get another lodge.

QuietHammer:
Good evening. I'm a corp member serving in a school and I stay in the lodge provided by the school together with some other female corpers.
Now here lies my problem ; there is this particular female corper who keeps bringing me food randomly.
I know she'll feel bad if I tell her to stop it, I'll also feel bad if I throw the food out after receiving it from her, pretending that I really appreciate her bringing me food for no reason. How can I make her stop?

Mtchewww. You be small pikin sha. You no know how to tslk?

The day you tell her to stop, be prepare to chop poison.

In this period wea food cost so na im you dey reject one? I Trust some nairalanders dey go chop cum with the one under skirt. And u no even get GF for dat matter.

I just hope the girl is beautiful enough, cause there ain't no such thing like loving some one without been love back in return .

SuperSuave:
It might not put her off since they all know his girlfriend is most likely not in the state.

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I just hate it when things like this happen and we can't be straight with people, look them in the face and tell them what we don't like and make them know how they make us uncomfortable. We always don't want to disappoint them or make them feel offended/rejected which makes us lie about the truth because we feel there should be a genuine or a justifiable reason for our actions.


I just wonder if this happens to almost everyone in the universe or it's just an African or a Nigerian thing.

You couldn't have said it better!
I really don't know why it is so. Is that we are too emotional? Which I know we're not super at that

QuietHammer:
Good evening. I'm a corp member serving in a school and I stay in the lodge provided by the school together with some other female corpers.
Now here lies my problem ; there is this particular female corper who keeps bringing me food randomly.
I know she'll feel bad if I tell her to stop it, I'll also feel bad if I throw the food out after receiving it from her, pretending that I really appreciate her bringing me food for no reason. How can I make her stop?

is very simple. any time she knocks on your door, tell her from inside that the number u r calling is not reachable.

nelson7777:


i spoke to my gf about u, and she really appreciates d fact dat u take care of me, in her absence, and she wnts us to continue being friends on 1 condition, dat u stop bringing me food...

best thing to tell her..

nelson7777:


i spoke to my gf about u, and she really appreciates d fact dat u take care of me, in her absence, and she wnts us to continue being friends on 1 condition, dat u stop bringing me food...

This could do.
Considering the fact that the op doesn't feel a thing for her.

nelson7777:


i spoke to my gf about u, and she really appreciates d fact dat u take care of me, in her absence, and she wnts us to continue being friends on 1 condition, dat u stop bringing me food...

Bros I cut cap for you...you be king of Savage very polite

Aliii:
Bros I cut cap for you...you be king of Savage very polite

Thanks boss

QuietHammer:

She knows I don't have one. I know she'll feel very bad if I tell her to stop. She does it with a passion.

If I say what's on my mind now, people like lalas247 go dy look me one eye ...Op Nysc na 1year sha

I dnt eat my galfrnds food talk more of a strange gal i meet yle serving.. some guys get long throat sha

If you have friends around call them to join you to eat Or let her know that you always observe time with the Lord.

loluadebayo:
Why exactly do you want her to stop? The food no sweet ni? Is she looking for something else? I really don't know. As a guy cooking can hardly be a thing you like and you're seeing free food. You better just give her part of your allowance you're to spend on feeding and we can call it symbiosis �

Biologist spotted!

u only talk to safe urself.... Hw re we sure it only food DAT brought both of u together... coper life style sha...scope too much

Dis is one n only way Nigerian Ladies toast a guy
Food and gifts
In USA?dey tell u face to face
Stop her strictly as if any relationship com up?it wil nt last?
Bae'sperate. Desperate girls are prone to be overlooked. Most guys need that girl they would be desperate for and not one who would make the reverse come to stay.

This one no hard na, you no watch TV when you small?