kimbraa:
Now I know why they keep saying Nigerian girls are dumb. No offence intended, but that question shouldn't irk a sane human being.

It's a simply question that requires an answer. You'd pick offence if you don't even know yourself.

Jezz!, I can't believe what I'm reading on this thread.

God bless you for this.. Imagine what I'm reading.
When some guys complain about it people think we just hate them or something. Some can't even start a conversation.

I don't see what's bad in that question honestly.

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IamKashyBaby:


I hate this type of question to be honest..A lot men don't realize this type of question sounds stupid..

So, if he ask me this question, I will simply reply him IM NOT INTERESTED FOR THE JOB INTERVIEW right now... I got a job already.

Men shud find other ways to have a better conversation especially when its ur first time to talk to that person..There are so many interesting topics where u can exchange ideas rather than asking this BS type of question..

. [/s] Very dumb reasoning.

OrdercityWeb:

I hope all the mentally lazy ladies on this thread can read this comment up here.

Because if you're not mentally lazy that question shldnt even be a problem.

It's not laziness but perception

Simple as ABC, you wise jare

Florblu:
I always reply with "Ask me anything you wanna know about me"

Laveda:


Some men will still throw it back to you oh

wtf! That will be the end of our conversation...! He z nt smart

Florblu:
I always reply with "Ask me anything you wanna know about me"

Nice reply

OrdercityWeb:

Exactly bro!

So much mentally lazy ladies everwhere. They feel they're doing dudes a favour by chatting with them. I'm weak mehn

Lmao.. Easy bro. There are actually some Ladies out there who are really good in conversation, but most of the time, they allow a guy do most of the talking.
You even give some hint sef like saying few things about urself and the next reply is OK.

I'm happy for the few I have who can keep chat going for hours.

Florblu:
I always reply with "Ask me anything you wanna know about me"

This one go sch ✌

Laveda:


Don't you think you should just pick a question and ask rather than asking her to tell you about herself like it's an "interview"?

Ladies too do ask this same question, at least i have been asked by some ladies, and they go by saying; Who is Shu'muel ?

Most Nigerian girls are dumb as fucccckk, and can't hold a conversation longer than 3 seconds. What infuriates me most is when they go monosyllabic on your arse with the "k" bullshite. Don't nobody got time for your pretentious BS.

SO MANY NIGERIAN MEN NO GET GAME O . WHICH ONE BE TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF? IT'S NOT MENTAL LAZINESS ABEG. MAKE UNA CALM DOWN

Lalas247:

Dunno wt the fuss is about
If they ask ... response usuallygies like “ what would you like to know
Then the guy breaks it down ..
Ppl like to stress over lil things ... didn't even know it was an issue till I saw this thread lol

When I saw the subject of the thread, I wanted to pass 'cause people who know basic etiquette won't ask such question. Now, on reading the comments on the first page I just had to comment. It's pathetic how people reason.

supersystemsnig:


Lol...They arsed their way thru school prolly... I mean checkout some folks can't run three lines typo without errors...


It feels like they feel they do guys/men a favor by chatting. So i think i'll put a lid on this..Abeg, i can do without lazy minds...If one can not know whom they are, then what would they know? I'm sure when you ask about how do you see life, the processor would almost crash....

@Bolded: hahahahahaha. Lmaoooooooooo

So much shallowness everywhere. Honestly i can't deal with lazy minds. If this simple question is a problem i wonder what they will say about the question in the bolded. They will just uninstall whatsapp pata pata

CynthiaChi:
Guys, you gotta understand asking girls that question is kinda annoying.... It's not that we can't think up an answer but it's really difficult to answer that.... instead we prefer if you are specific in your questions... E.g, how old are you? What do you do? What are your hobbies?.... Those kinda stuffs are easier to answer, you ask us to tell you about ourselves and we literally blank out cos we are like 'where are we gonna start from?'...... Okay dudes, imagine you and a girl start talking for the first time and she says 'can you tell me about yourself?'... Honestly now, would you be able to answer that easily?

What you just wrote here is hypocritical, now am sure if a guy meets you and start asking you: how old are you? What do you do? What are your hobbies, what did u eat, etc u will turn around and say the poor guy is boring after some monotonous response from you.

I keep saying there is a stereotype with our ladies

Sometimes i cant help and wish we can switch roleplay with these ladies and see how well they can do with striking and keeping a convo

kimbraa:
When I saw the subject of the thread, I wanted to pass 'cause people who know basic etiquette won't ask such question. Now, on reading the comments on the first page I just had to comment. It's pathetic how people reason.

Lol guess ppl just have different things that irritate them sha ....

Ladies, make una dey there dey struggle if to flow with a guy's conversation or to snub him while the smart ones among u are igniting and flowing with the conversation and got married at the end.

I don talk my own finish; had I know usually comes last.

supersystemsnig:



Very true bro. Older ladies never fall hand. Abeg two shots for the older ladies in da house. They never fail..Older ladies 28 and up. Say hi

I tell you bro. They are the best!

OrdercityWeb:


Naturally?

Now i see why they say Nigerian ladies have issues. Y'all behave confused tbfh.

Lmao. Not all though.

Linux007:

What you just wrote here is hypocritical, now am sure if a guy meets you and start asking you: how old are you? What do you do? What are your hobbies, what did u eat, etc u will turn around and say the poor guy is boring after some monotonous response from you.

I keep saying there is a stereotype with our ladies

Sometimes i cant help and wish we can switch roleplay with these ladies and see how well they can do with striking and keeping a convo

YOU'RE MISSING THE POINT BRO. TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF IS AN INTERVIEW MODE QUESTION, IT'S BORING AND NOT CREATIVE.

Odunharry:

Lmao.. Easy bro. There are actually some Ladies out there who are really good in conversation, but most of the time, they allow a guy do most of the talking.
You even give some hint sef like saying few things about urself and the next reply is OK.

I'm happy for the few I have who can keep chat going for hours.

Honestly!

They are gems!

OrdercityWeb:

OMG!!

I feel i can empty my bank account on you.

I mean i went through the thread shaking my head in shame. So much mentally lazy 20-24 yes old shawties everywhere. I mean that's a very good question except most of them are very shallow and can't really think of anything yo say.
This is the very reason i like relating with very much older ladies. They are more rational.

All these small girls feel they are doing you the priviledge of chatting with them.

Imagine?

You won't blame them. Some just don't know how the world works out there.

Odunharry:

Lmao. Not all though.

Sorry jare. Some*

Florblu:
I always reply with "Ask me anything you wanna know about me"

Sensible

kimbraa:
You won't blame them. Some just don't know how the world works out there.

I mean. Very sad something.

You rock jare!

OrdercityWeb:

OMG!!

I feel i can empty my bank account on you.

I mean i went through the thread shaking my head in shame. So much mentally lazy 20-24 yes old shawties everywhere. I mean that's a very good question except most of them are very shallow and can't really think of anything to say.
This is the very reason i like relating with very much older ladies. They are more rational.

All these small girls feel they are doing you the priviledge of chatting with them.

Imagine?

NO BE LIKE THAT. SEE EHN. THAT QUESTION IS A VERY BROAD QUESTION AND IT'S JUST TO FORWARD AND BORING FOR A FIRST TIMER. IT'S NOT MENTAL LAZINESS AT ALL

OrdercityWeb:


@Bolded: hahahahahaha. Lmaoooooooooo

So much shallowness everywhere. Honestly i can't deal with lazy minds. If this simple question is a problem i wonder what they will say about the question in the bolded. They will just uninstall whatsapp pata pata

Chat up a regular yankee chick, and you can go for weeks without a dull moment. If they can't chat up well, then sex would be boring trust me. It can't be compartmentalized, its the same processor. I mean people need to up their game...When one can talk, they say talkative, thank goodness, i related with many yankee chicks earlier in life. It help molded my interaction. I mean speak make people feel you...Darn..

Linux007:

What you just wrote here is hypocritical, now am sure if a guy meets you and start asking you: how old are you? What do you do? What are your hobbies, what did u eat, etc u will turn around and say the poor guy is boring after some monotonous response from you.

I keep saying there is a stereotype with our ladies

Sometimes i cant help and wish we can switch roleplay with these ladies and see how well they can do with striking and keeping a convo

Hypocritical? I seriously fail to see the hypocricy in my comment, I gave my own view on a topic... Do not judge everyone as the same. You said you 'are sure' but you don't know me, so don't be so sure

OrdercityWeb:

Honestly!

They are gems!

I've met few naija ladies though that could really as in chat, we chatted for days, not even hours...

supersystemsnig:



Chat up a regular yankee chick, and you can go for weeks without a dull moment. If they can't chat up well, then sex would be boring trust me. It can't be compartmentalized, its the same processor. I mean people need to up their game...When one can talk, they say talkative, thank goodness, i related with many yankee chicks earlier in life. It help molded my interaction. I mean speak make people feel you...Darn..

You aptly described it man!

I wonder why they chat as if someone will scold them if the relax and just express themselves rather than bottle up and expect the man do all the "sustaining the convo" thing.

It's very tiring. Women in the West are bae man!
Super!

Laveda:


You're even getting it all wrong, you didn't ask me the rate of love for myself you asked to know about me, things about me.

You're even confused as to the perfect answer to the question.

I may take it that you are still young!

you know nothing about life and love woman!

OrdercityWeb:

You aptly described it man!

I wonder why they chat as if someone will scold them if the relax and just express themselves rather than bottle up and expect the man do all the "sustaining the convo" thing.

It's very tiring. Women in the West are bae man!
Super!

American ladies are fine wine abeg.I hooked up with a few naija overseas though. I think the orientation matters and its not an issue that's bound by nationality. I mean check out our flow on the thread for example? Can't flow this way, can't deal..


When the conversation begins to flow, you feel it flowing in the other person, next thing a tie builds, a soul connection.. Many people don't hit this Mental center of gravity.. No wonder they can be dating for two years and its dull...the years were empty...

supersystemsnig:



Chat up a regular yankee chick, and you can go for weeks without a dull moment. If they can't chat up well, then sex would be boring trust me. It can't be compartmentalized, its the same processor. I mean people need to up their game...When one can talk, they say talkative, thank goodness, i related with many yankee chicks earlier in life. It help molded my interaction. I mean speak make people feel you...Darn..

YANKEE CHICS SPEAK LIKE THAT? HAHAHAHA . DUDE YOU MET UGLY ONES . YANKEE GIRLS ARE WORSE THAN NAIJA GIRLS NA EUROPEAN GIRLS WEY DEY FLOW WELLA