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Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by kay29000(m): 7:47pm On Oct 16, 2017
boujeeassnigga:
you still had some more juice left in you? Ma nigga

Lol!
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by hokafor(m): 7:54pm On Oct 16, 2017
Mr man you Did not finish the story of how you drank rum from Cuba.what happened to that woman that undressed herself.

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Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by delzbaba(m): 8:06pm On Oct 16, 2017
na Ra's kimono pikin?
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Nobody: 8:17pm On Oct 16, 2017
My own psychological problem is that no woman wants to molest me... sad
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Nobody: 8:22pm On Oct 16, 2017
daveemuobo:


dude is a f**ing visiting professor of 2 foreign universities and not a lowlife like you.

Everybody was once a lowlife is only a gradual process and many sacrifices will be made ok.
There are many untold stories about success.

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Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Martin0(m): 8:24pm On Oct 16, 2017
kay29000:


Nah! I don't think this was made up. Onyeka Nwelue is a known academician/movie producer. This was shared by him on his Facebook account. This is his personal account of what happened to him.

Please sorry to say..how can u be so dumb

This is what I call low medulla oblongata...

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Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Martin0(m): 8:26pm On Oct 16, 2017
gypsey:
i have never read anything so ignorant and stupid as this. shocked so if your 16 years old brother comes home from school and tell you that his female teacher raped you will just laugh and say to him " that's what you wanted you should be happy " . You are ignorant!

Just Negudu how human's are still reasoning in the 21th century,na wa ooo
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Martin0(m): 8:29pm On Oct 16, 2017
gypsey:
yes! It was Rape! You should have reported it. And see how people and police would have laughed at you

Uhmmmcheesycheesycheesy
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by mhisterdreezy(m): 8:40pm On Oct 16, 2017
Loyalblak007:
I thought these things happen in movies alone cheesy
come and do it to me biko

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Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by chronique(m): 8:57pm On Oct 16, 2017
I once found myself in a situation where one of my best friend's girlfriend came to look for him when he wasn't at home. I was laying on the bed and when she opened the door and I told her he wasn't around, she came inside and jumped on the bed and as she landed, her right breast was resting on my left palm. We started chatting and she didn't make any attempt to adjust. I became uncomfortable and was wondering what would happen if bestie comes in and finds us like that. I stylishly tried to remove my hand but she adjusted herself so the full breast fits well into my hand and I'd be able to hold it firm. I looked at her in the face and she looked at me and we didn't say anything. After a while, she got up and left. I wasn't sure if to tell my friend about it or not cos chic could turn around and say I tried to sleep with her when she came around and the dude would have probably believed her.

Another experience was when I auditioned an actress for a movie project and asked her to do something to wow me and she walked up to me to kiss me. It was just both of us in the studio that day(other team members had gone home after we auditioned others but she came late... Men go through lots of sexual harassment that the society really do not pay attention to.

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Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Nobody: 8:57pm On Oct 16, 2017
biacan:
He's not even happy that someone is taking him serious

for those of you quoting me........... we in a free world democracy for that matter........ if you don't like what I said kindly move out from this thread

Lol, biacan ever repping.... You should learn to call a spade a spade. I am very sure you won't say what you said if the situation was the other way round. That we are in a free world or in a democracy does not mean we shouldn't use our brain in the right way. Learn to think positively, never let your judgement be clouded by your sex or anything, don't be too emotionally attached to issues. Thank God you are not a lawyer, you would have made a very bad lawyer come judge. I pray sense fall on you.

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Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by PEACEFULRULER195(m): 8:57pm On Oct 16, 2017
May be she wanted to use ur semen for sacrifice before she could give that loan to u.
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by khalids: 9:03pm On Oct 16, 2017
Make una just leave women matter, they are just complicated, complex and confused.....And always want to lord in over everything and everyone if given the chance.....

Take Eve for example.....why did she eat the apple....because she wanted the knowledge of God....

Eve was naked in the garden of eden, after she chop fruit she realized she was naked, quickly cover her body......Many eons later, you see women dressing up half naked all over the place........You see they don't know what they want or why they even want it.....na so them just be....

Man is meant to dictate the pace, don't allow the confused women confuse you.....

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Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Moganajoe: 9:07pm On Oct 16, 2017
dainformant:
Abroad based Nigerian film-maker and talented writer, Onyeka Nwelue[s][/s], has opened up about women molestation after being a victim. According to him, people see women as weaker vessels - hence letting them get away with anything they want such as s3xual molestation. He also opened up on how he has been molested severally by ladies including the powerful one.

Below is what he shared on Facebook;

In July, a female fan came to my hotel room in New York and undressed herself. I kept telling her I was not interested in sex. Or her body. She didn't mind. She wanted sex with me. I had just flown in from Cuba. I had Cuban rum, which I drank when I was losing my mind. She did not want to go home.

Turn around the table: a male fan in the hotel room of a woman, undressed. That is RAPE!

Women get away with anything because we deceptively say they are weaker sex. Bunkum!

On my film set recently, a powerful woman came to ask me for sex before she could give me the loan I asked from her. I told everyone who was close to me on set. Thank God, my two producers are women. I told them.

As a child, I was molested by a woman. Someone we called Aunty. I made a short film, The Great Masturbator highlighting this issue.

In Calgary, I spoke about being molested by a woman infront of Nigerian women and they all started laughing at me. I cursed them. I was angry.

Women are about themselves. The Boy Child has no supporter. The women think only about themselves. No woman wants to know what I am going through psychologically but they want us to help them update my Facebook with: "Me, too!"

No way, I won't. Unless they take our cases seriously too, I am not pandering to that!


Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2017/10/onyeka-nwelue-reveals-how-he-was-sxually-molested-by-women.html

You sef selfish oh....you need money and the person says u pple should do trade by barter. Only sex oh, no collatoral
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Mbediogu(m): 9:39pm On Oct 16, 2017
morrizo:
Guy considering the economy of the country right now, I will advice u to sleep with her there is nothing wrong if that will help u get ur capital to start a life. Every big organization once had some unbelievable secrete that was never told but taken to the grave by there founders.
Wish I can have such opportunity to finance my own business.

I can't believe this! What if it is set up, or trial? No regard for HIV?
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Icon79(m): 10:19pm On Oct 16, 2017
He should either give us a NAME or shut da feck up! We're not interested in all those lies and fabrications.

If this really happened then, be a man, provide a name or save your stories for the birds!


O pari

Loyalblak007:
I thought these things happen in movies alone cheesy
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Azam101: 10:29pm On Oct 16, 2017
So this is the chap? Majek fashek family!
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by itchie: 10:31pm On Oct 16, 2017
biacan:
He's not even happy that someone is taking him serious

for those of you quoting me........... we in a free world democracy for that matter........ if you don't like what I said kindly move out from this thread

How won't you be quoted when you made a very stupid comment

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Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Nobody: 10:36pm On Oct 16, 2017
Mbediogu:


I can't believe this! What if it is set up, or trial? No regard for HIV?

Life on its own its a set up.... For HIV use a condom.
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Rosebaby568(f): 10:50pm On Oct 16, 2017
can someone explain to me ayam not understanding
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by john650(m): 10:52pm On Oct 16, 2017
This whole story is quite laughable. Did the woman try to molest him because he's a hunk? Because I don't see it. He looks more feminine than masculine.
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Pricelessangel0(f): 11:12pm On Oct 16, 2017
What is this man talking about? molestation by a female? guys that talk like you are just pitiful. Are you even a guy at all? wat about saying NO like Joseph did. after enjoying everything you come out andsay its molestation. abeg park well.
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Pricelessangel0(f): 11:21pm On Oct 16, 2017
chronique:
I once found myself in a situation where one of my best friend's girlfriend came to look for him when he wasn't at home. I was laying on the bed and when she opened the door and I told her he wasn't around, she came inside and jumped on the bed and as she landed, her right breast was resting on my left palm. We started chatting and she didn't make any attempt to adjust. I became uncomfortable and was wondering what would happen if bestie comes in and finds us like that. I stylishly tried to remove my hand but she adjusted herself so the full breast fits well into my hand and I'd be able to hold it firm. I looked at her in the face and she looked at me and we didn't say anything. After a while, she got up and left. I wasn't sure if to tell my friend about it or not cos chic could turn around and say I tried to sleep with her when she came around and the dude would have probably believed her.

Another experience was when I auditioned an actress for a movie project and asked her to do something to wow me and she walked up to me to kiss me. It was just both of us in the studio that day(other team members had gone home after we auditioned others but she came late... Men go through lots of sexual harassment that the society really do not pay attention to.
what you are saying is it harassment or seduction? you guys are just missing. Seduction is the power of a woman and only those guys weak in mind and body that fall into it and now you guys are calling it harassment whereas its seduction, and seduction of a woman is the key to weakness of every man.
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Xteljay(f): 12:17am On Oct 17, 2017
Loyalblak007:
I thought these things happen in movies alone cheesy

i neva knew i was nt d only one thinkin dat way

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Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Xteljay(f): 12:22am On Oct 17, 2017
chronique:
I once found myself in a situation where one of my best friend's girlfriend came to look for him when he wasn't at home. I was laying on the bed and when she opened the door and I told her he wasn't around, she came inside and jumped on the bed and as she landed, her right breast was resting on my left palm. We started chatting and she didn't make any attempt to adjust. I became uncomfortable and was wondering what would happen if bestie comes in and finds us like that. I stylishly tried to remove my hand but she adjusted herself so the full breast fits well into my hand and I'd be able to hold it firm. I looked at her in the face and she looked at me and we didn't say anything. After a while, she got up and left. I wasn't sure if to tell my friend about it or not cos chic could turn around and say I tried to sleep with her when she came around and the dude would have probably believed her.

Another experience was when I auditioned an actress for a movie project and asked her to do something to wow me and she walked up to me to kiss me. It was just both of us in the studio that day(other team members had gone home after we auditioned others but she came late... Men go through lots of sexual harassment that the society really do not pay attention to.
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Xteljay(f): 12:24am On Oct 17, 2017
chronique:
I once found myself in a situation where one of my best friend's girlfriend came to look for him when he wasn't at home. I was laying on the bed and when she opened the door and I told her he wasn't around, she came inside and jumped on the bed and as she landed, her right breast was resting on my left palm. We started chatting and she didn't make any attempt to adjust. I became uncomfortable and was wondering what would happen if bestie comes in and finds us like that. I stylishly tried to remove my hand but she adjusted herself so the full breast fits well into my hand and I'd be able to hold it firm. I looked at her in the face and she looked at me and we didn't say anything. After a while, she got up and left. I wasn't sure if to tell my friend about it or not cos chic could turn around and say I tried to sleep with her when she came around and the dude would have probably believed her.

Another experience was when I auditioned an actress for a movie project and asked her to do something to wow me and she walked up to me to kiss me. It was just both of us in the studio that day(other team members had gone home after we auditioned others but she came late... Men go through lots of sexual harassment that the society really do not pay attention to.
society do not pay attention to the sexual harrasment of men because they are known to have more strength than a lady. Just imagine urself tellin ur friend u were raped by a lady what will they do to u
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Nobody: 1:10am On Oct 17, 2017
morrizo:
Guy considering the economy of the country right now, I will advice u to sleep with her there is nothing wrong if that will help u get ur capital to start a life. Every big organization once had some unbelievable secrete that was never told but taken to the grave by there founders.
Wish I can have such opportunity to finance my own business.
How are we even sure he didn't do it? Did he tell us the ones he did?
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by NaeChris: 4:02am On Oct 17, 2017
Tomorrow if a man ask for sex before he helps a woman, they will say (all) menn are wicked, they go say Jesus feed 5k people him no take anything. Mcheeew.
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by frubben(m): 6:31am On Oct 17, 2017
kay29000:
Of course there will always be double standards. I remember a couple of years ago, I was in my room, nursing a hangover from the night before, and my friend's female friend came into the room. I opened my eyes and was shocked to see her standing there. I had seen her for the first time a few hours before then when my friend asked me to help her turn on the TV/DSTV in the parlor as he was leaving the flat.

So, there she was in my room, asking me if I am okay and all that. I told her I had a little too much to drink last night and needed to sleep it off, then she asked if she could lie down beside me on the bed. I thought I wasn't hearing well, but I sha nodded. She lay down beside me, and I turned around to continue my sleep. A few minutes later, she tapped me, I turned around, and she slowly kissed me. I didn't want to embarrass her, so I played along...long story short, we had sex.

If it was the other way around, the female in the equation would have shouted rape. Because, really, that was like rape to me.
why u no shout rape, instead u play along
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Nobody: 6:35am On Oct 17, 2017
FreeTraining:

How are we even sure he didn't do it? Did he tell us the ones he did?

Don't mind human beings always trying to paint a perfect picture of themselves when we all know there ain't no perfect picture. Sometimes the once they do behind d scene could be worse, u know.
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Emmbanny(m): 6:50am On Oct 17, 2017
morrizo:
Guy considering the economy of the country right now, I will advice u to sleep with her there is nothing wrong if that will help u get ur capital to start a life. Every big organization once had some unbelievable secrete that was never told but taken to the grave by there founders.
Wish I can have such opportunity to finance my own business.
Na Wa For You, This One Mo Be Good Advice
Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by ObaroFaisal(m): 7:48am On Oct 17, 2017
dainformant:
Abroad based Nigerian film-maker and talented writer, Onyeka Nwelue[s][/s], has opened up about women molestation after being a victim. According to him, people see women as weaker vessels - hence letting them get away with anything they want such as s3xual molestation. He also opened up on how he has been molested severally by ladies including the powerful one.

Below is what he shared on Facebook;

In July, a female fan came to my hotel room in New York and undressed herself. I kept telling her I was not interested in sex. Or her body. She didn't mind. She wanted sex with me. I had just flown in from Cuba. I had Cuban rum, which I drank when I was losing my mind. She did not want to go home.

Turn around the table: a male fan in the hotel room of a woman, undressed. That is RAPE!

Women get away with anything because we deceptively say they are weaker sex. Bunkum!

On my film set recently, a powerful woman came to ask me for sex before she could give me the loan I asked from her. I told everyone who was close to me on set. Thank God, my two producers are women. I told them.

As a child, I was molested by a woman. Someone we called Aunty. I made a short film, The Great Masturbator highlighting this issue.

In Calgary, I spoke about being molested by a woman infront of Nigerian women and they all started laughing at me. I cursed them. I was angry.

Women are about themselves. The Boy Child has no supporter. The women think only about themselves. No woman wants to know what I am going through psychologically but they want us to help them update my Facebook with: "Me, too!"

No way, I won't. Unless they take our cases seriously too, I am not pandering to that!


Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2017/10/onyeka-nwelue-reveals-how-he-was-sxually-molested-by-women.html



Who made this guy a top Nigerian writer ? Making noise on Facebook doesn't make you top.

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