If i slap you eeh what is the meaning of this rubbish u are saying how this want take affect me

DiamonJ:
I'm 36 and he's 40

Mature people and lovely age difference.
So tell me, what's on your mind, do you love the way you people are now.

DiamonJ:
i cheated on no one, my good wasn't appreciated, I think he will appreciate my bad side, do you expect me to wait for him till eternity? no naw, na person born, I really needed that person who will love to share that little biscuit that he has, men!!!! u don't know how sweet u will feel when ur man is eager and love buying things for you, even if he doesn't have that money at that time, u will be happy praying for him to succeed in life, not living with a man who don't come ur mind when praying, bcoz u know ur effort is going to be in vain..... I think I be pushed to the wall, I'm even surprised that I can do this without feeling guilty, a kind hearted person like me.... na only God dey reward person

Quit making excuses!
What happened to breaking up when you meet the "perfect man", till the point of getting pregnant.
You said it yourself that your ex is doing well, so why not tell him to leave the your house?

Mbanu you want to eat your cake and have it, probably your current boyfriend is a small boy, that why he's so comfortable with his gf living with a man.

Don't think I don't want your happiness, just don't be hypocritical in your dealings. You succeeded in making your ex sound like a bad person and time wasters, yet you are no better.

Am I the only one finding it difficult to believe this story

Danielalhassan66:
If i slap you eeh
what is the meaning of this rubbish u are saying
how this want take affect me

what's ur problem, did I called u into my discussion? abeg park one side make I see people wen make sense, if hand dey scratch u, go slap ur girlfriend if u av any, or better still ur sisters

Stevengerd:
God bless u bro! because he has given u any gift, u wanna quit. Hw wil u expect me to buy u gift. who are you Gf, Not wife.

it's ur type that will end up marrying a lady that supposed to be a house help and loses the right woman that supposed to be a wife, bcoz of selfishness, greedy, stingy and not appreciating what you have

DiamonJ:
it's ur type that will end up marrying a lady that supposed to be a house help and loses the right woman that supposed to be a wife, bcoz of selfishness, greedy, stingy and not appreciating what you have

Story. i just told you how its going out there.

DiamonJ:
what makes him a responsible guy? by not appreciating my effort in the relationship, I cook, I wash his wears, I stood by him when he had nothing, I established him with my hard earned money, if am not good enough to be his wife by now after 7years, I don't think I will be good enough again, so the earlier I go look for that person who will love me for the real me, and smbody who wants me to get pregnant first before he marry me, I'm not desperate for a husband, when the right person comes, I don't think I will stress myself before everything clicks

Typical women talk, always boasting. I pray I never meet an arrogant woman like you.

some people will just come here to say rubbish without putting the guy in their shoes without hearing the other part of the story ..

smh

Stevengerd:
God bless u bro! because he has given u any gift, u wanna quit. Hw wil u expect me to buy u gift. who are you Gf, Not wife.

...but you want to knack the 'AKPAKO'

Remember the girl housed him[which I'm not in support of],cloth him,fed him and established him.

Courtsey demands he shows gratitude.
The poster sounds like a good woman,just little would be highly appreciated.

Funny woman, you broke up and you are still sleeping on the same bed, in the same house eating on the same table.

Please when you move out of his house let us know. But I cannot advise you to move out where do you want to write six years.

You just need to manage the situation

ADIEMUS:


...but you want to knack the 'AKPAKO'

Remember the girl housed him[which I'm not in support of],cloth him,fed him and established him.

Courtsey demands he shows gratitude.
The poster sounds like a good woman,just little would be highly appreciated.

People like the poster are people that will help you and then tell the whole world they made you.

[quote author=Prognose post=61503318]You met him 'when he had nothing'

You have been feeding him, clothing him, and your provided a roof over his head. It is safe to say you have been fucking him as well. Its very possible you have done one or two abortions self.

My dear na wife you be already na, he don see you finish abi wetin you want again?

You have been living with a man not your husband for seven good years, what urge or urgency will he have to want to put the ring on it? You're always available, I'm sure you have practiced every sex style under d sun with him, what do u want to impress him with again? Why would he want 2 marry u, seriously? When u already provide every every 4 him, food, money, sex, etc.


Dis quarrel u are quarreling with him now is married people's quarrel in case u don't know.

"He's not romantic" , " he has never bought any clothes for me in seven years" . Did u ever give him d chance 2 struggle 4 himself & be a man?

u are d breadwinner

This is the absolute truth!

DiamonJ:
the apartment is mine, I broke up with him doesn't mean I should throw his belongings out, he needs to settle down and get his place

to be realistic to you, ur kind is rare

DiamonJ:
I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years two weeks ago, but we still live in the same apartment, sleep on the same bed but we don't touch each other, I still cook and we eat together, we're working on becoming a good friends, I feel a big relieve broken up with him, I broke up with him bcoz, he doesn't make me feel the real me, the little exes I had are better than him, he always makes me remember my past relationships, he never bought me anything on Valentine's, birthday's or any celebration, I was the one who had bought him gold necklace, and other things in the past, I stop buying him things when I sees that he's not reciprocating it, I went to my closet two weeks ago, all the clothes, watches, shoes that I have from seven years ago till date are bought by me, he's not that romantic either, he want me to get pregnant first before we get married. God used me to make him what he is today, he wasn't working when I met him, but today he can buy anything he wants, with his money, I thank God for that. its good I experienced this bad apple for me to appreciate the good ones. I know my next will be my husband, I know if I sacrifice what I sacrificed to a good man, everything will be perfect...., I don't know how to tell his mom, his mom called me yesterday that I refused to come visiting, she loves me, but I love my life more

Your exes were better than him? What sort of a woman are you? So, your exes will be yardsticks for measuring your present partner?

Listen, every partner is a new challenge and it would be unfair to expect everyone to behave or express love in the same way. If your relationships with your exes were perfect, how come they became your exes? All I see is a woman who is refusing to let the past go. Please, instead of going into another relationship with an unfortunate fellow who may end up trying to live in the shadows of exes, just go back to one of your exes.

DiamonJ:
what's ur problem, did I called u into my discussion? abeg park one side make I see people wen make sense, if hand dey scratch u, go slap ur girlfriend if u av any, or better still ur sisters

u get liver ooh
be like say u want lost abi
no across my lane ooh
cause u try na 99 men go cook for u

raylord:
From all u said. D only reason u are breaking up with him is because he dosn't buy u things. I swear that's d only reason u were able to give. Let me tel u. I as a person do not intend to buy any gal friend a damn gift. It's just a matter of volition. I know I can buy d world for my wife(when I get married). So u better don't labour in vain. This one u say d guy is now financially alright. Later u people will say it's only Bleep boys that are coming yr way. After breaking up with responsible guys over little issue

If u can't buy for your girlfriend, trust me u won't buy for your wife.. It just works that way

Babe, I have a similar case as yours
But mine was 4 years.
I initiated break up severally but he never accepted it, he will always come and beg and somehow I will pity him. But right now I am already in another relationship which I bluntly told him but he's still sticking around. My next plan is to give him my wedding invitation letter, then he will have no choice to move on...so best thing for u is to get into another relationship if u r sure u can't cope with him, introduce him to the new guy and watch how he will move out of your apartment

zaramgrand:

If u can't buy for your girlfriend, trust me u won't buy for your wife.. It just works that way

Is that a law or what

DiamonJ:
what makes him a responsible guy? by not appreciating my effort in the relationship, I cook, I wash his wears, I stood by him when he had nothing, I established him with my hard earned money, if am not good enough to be his wife by now after 7years, I don't think I will be good enough again, so the earlier I go look for that person who will love me for the real me, and smbody who wants me to get pregnant first before he marry me, I'm not desperate for a husband, when the right person comes, I don't think I will stress myself before everything clicks

The only reasonable thing i see here is he wants you to get pregnant b4 anything. I dont see much of a big deal here. Am just concern about you loosing som1 over little differences. Very little differences. You will experience more difference issues when you get married. i feel like you are just not interested in him anymore. Moreover theres no love, If not, you wont be giving up that easily over little differences. Anyway, You are the one wearing the shoes, so you know where it hurts