Aboguede:
again acvording to igbo culture, a woman is never old than a man so my wife can be old than I am but I will enforce my rules uncompromisingly that she might think I lied about my age.

secondly, It id important that as a man I should also teach ur girl friend and train her as long as u and her are together because u nevet know when u might change the status and mind you that love is created and not pre made.

you can deceide to have fun but before u know it, u are cut up as long as u are making love to the same person often, the magnetic force of sex will cloud ur mind and make it hard to let go so if you always show ur true self from the start, she will either remain or leave early and always learn as a man to not pretend because pretence make a man stupid and perpetual cowardice and I can tell u from experence and as a sycologist that WOMEN respect a man who is uncompromising, strict and straight forward.

I have handled cases of counselling and in many cases, the woman says she think the man is like a woman in character and some women admitted thay they purposedly tested the men by doing wrong and the men will keep quit because of fear.

I once dated a girl and she met another girl in my room at certain time and she protested that the girl should leave and the girl left and then I also asked her to leave too for not respecting me as a man and I forced her out but she letter called and apologised on her kneels but in another relationship my the girl I was dating found another lady in my room and the same thing happened but this time, I later apologised to her and she started she later developed aggresive attitude which killed the relationship.

so in all, a man is obliged to be fatefull as the lady does same but as a man make sure ur wife is more tollerent than the husband otherwise the marrage will lack credibility because by nature, a man is poligamuse but a woman can be fateful bu nature so never let nature be compromised especially by a woman.

caesaraba:


You get sense. My girlfriend who I was planning to propose to despite so many flaws finally broke the camel's back when I discovered she was sleeping with a married military officer in Kogi and has been trying to blackmail me with tears and saying it was in her past. My reply has been that, I can take almost anything from a woman however, unfaithfulness isn't one of those things. Funny thing was the way she referred to the man as a father-figure constantly ehn! I'd have prostrated on the floor in thanksgiving for all he was doing not knowing that he was helping me to wash plate. I almost got married to this person fa! Anyway, sorry I just had to air this out when I saw your first item on the list. Many thanks.

Billyonaire:
We are like Hydrogen ions, we just love to bond, we can not spare any oxygen free radical, women to produce water, which is life. Marriage is not natural to all animals. Including Humans, we are hydrogen atoms, we just have to bond.

prinxpalax:

1. Proud and arrogant woman.
2 who can not let go, who fights for everything.
3. Who is possessive,wanting to acquire everything and selfish.
4. That has ego
5.worldly and canally minded.
6.who competes with everybody/­everything available
7. Who compares and contrasts herself with other people
8. A woman who can not forgive and forget easily
9. That can not utter this sentence " I am so sorry " effortlessly to people.
10.nags and shout and shameless.
11. Who exposes her God's given body for public to see
12. Who cannot adjust to any situation of life
13. Who only delights in the life of comfort,opulent and riches
14. Who thinks she has monopoly of knowledge,ideas and wisdom
15. Who doesn't care about Godly virtues.. 16. Who is weary in well doing.
17. Easily discourage and complain alot

hopeall:


Oh please, your girlfriend story is over 4 years ago and due. Move on already and get a new gal.

ImaIma1:
Kuku get sand and create your woman

Jman06:
Just three things I ask of my future wife:

1. Be faithful to me. Don't even give me any reason to suspect you are cheating on me. If you feel that you are tired of me, give me the divorce papers, I'll respect you and even give some parting gifts.

2. Respect my parents and siblings, they are my first love. Be rest assured that I will never tolerate any of them disrespecting you. I'll have your back always.

3. Respect me. Don't use harsh words on me no matter what. I have ego too, don't bruise it please.

Any lady that can give me just the above three will have me wholesale, I'll forgive all her other sins.

Sparkles003:

I was not born to go empty handed.

KevinDein:

Nothing possessive or controlling there. It's not asking for too much if one is told to stop nagging, be a little humble, say sorry when you hurt others; basically just be sensitive and considerate to others' feelings.

9japrof:



So you mean your ex was like John the Baptist thT prepareth a way for the coming of the Messiah

Chai the nigga groomed a babe another dude dey enjoy for the past five years.

When I say life is unfair, una go dey follow me argue

izaray:
What is dis one even saying So u think all relationships must lead to marriage? It means you are still a learner to be reasoning dis way then

Sgttanner:
of course m not dumb.. I know she's gonna have other suitors, it's normal.... But that doesn't give her the right to hurt my feelimgs.. Honestly would have appreciated if she actually told me she can't continue with me and she wants to quit instead of hurting me... I really know how hard I have stay to be loyal.. I am not bad myself.. I know how temptations I have flee from all cos of her.... But all the same.. Shiit happens

izaray:
What is dis one even saying So u think all relationships must lead to marriage? It means you are still a learner to be reasoning dis way then

9japrof:


Madam walahi u go like quarrel pass fight

prinxpalax:

1. Proud and arrogant woman.
2 who can not let go, who fights for everything.
3. Who is possessive,wanting to acquire everything and selfish.
4. That has ego
5.worldly and CANALLY minded.
6.who competes with everybody/­everything available
7. Who compares and contrasts herself with other people
8. A woman who can not forgive and forget easily
9. That can not utter this sentence " I am so sorry " effortlessly to people.
10.nags and shout and shameless.
11. Who exposes her God's given body for public to see
12. Who cannot adjust to any situation of life
13. Who only delights in the life of comfort,opulent and riches
14. Who thinks she has monopoly of knowledge,ideas and wisdom
15. Who doesn't care about Godly virtues.. 16. Who is weary in well doing.
17. Easily discourage and complain alot

ferhyntorlah:


Mr KelvinDein, I hope you also say I'm sorry when you hurt others?

I hate for the equation to be unbalanced.

amarachievelyn8:
Men nko
Qualitities of a man I would like to marry
A man that gives not an aka gum
Not hot tempered, doesn't beat women
That respect me and try to here my opinion
Love me for who I am not for what I am
And can never cheat

MADUBI:

That makes you a better wife self. Ngwanu collect the ring.

MADUBI:

That makes you a better wife self. Ngwanu collect the ring. Lol

zinizta:
The Rule Of ThumB Is Until She Is Exclusively Yours, She Is Not Yours Exclusively... This Is Why Pre-Marital Sex Is F**KEd Up...But Hey We Are In Modern Times Where Lovers Need More Shock absorbers Than Automobiles.

Jman06:
Just three things I ask of my future wife:

1. Be faithful to me. Don't even give me any reason to suspect you are cheating on me. If you feel that you are tired of me, give me the divorce papers, I'll respect you and even give some parting gifts.

2. Respect my parents and siblings, they are my first love. Be rest assured that I will never tolerate any of them disrespecting you. I'll have your back always.

3. Respect me. Don't use harsh words on me no matter what. I have ego too, don't bruise it please.

Any lady that can give me just the above three will have me wholesale, I'll forgive all her other sins.

KevinDein:

Nothing possessive or controlling there. It's not asking for too much if one is told to stop nagging, be a little humble, say sorry when you hurt others; basically just be sensitive and considerate to others' feelings.

Sgttanner:
lol... Funniest part..we both haven't engaged in premarital sex cos she's a virgin... And I have never pester her for sex and also it's not like I am having the sex somewhere else... Although we both engage in romance and that's the highest we have gone

zinizta:
Respectfully Confront Her... Underline The Word Respectfully - No Calling Of Names, No Getting Violent. Just Talk.Listeo To Her Side Of The Story.Be Strong, Man. See This BS As Occupational Hazard. Love Isn't A Do Or Die Affair.

PrimadonnaO:


@point 1, no woman should get married with the mindset of leaving when she's tired. It's not a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.