₦airaland Forum

Many Nigerians, though hard working and intelligent, are indecent, insincere and loose.

There is a young Lady who wishes to succeed in life. She's intelligent and hardworking, but, she is sexually loose and insincere to people who tend to put her through on the track of decency, sincerity and charisma.

She tends to open easily to any man who approaches her, then pretends to the whole world as if she hasn't known any man.

To the decent people in her life, she feigns decency; while to the loose people around, she loosely identifies.

Right now, she is away from her parental home having told the mother she is off to the city to see her girl friend; but in reality she is in the arms of her loose boy friend who invited her over to spend some days in his place.

WHEN WILL LADIES LEARN THAT IN ORDER TO ATTRACT A DECENT MAN, SHE MUST BE GENUINELY DECENT?

I laugh when people say hardworking is equal to greatness,that's a fucking false statement,

Greatness is equal to Grace that follows for,the grace of God.


The word feminism is from the pit of hell and a feminist is a candidate of hell fire angry

do you ladies know how much energy and strength used to hold the dick to stand erected before putting on a condom,you think it's easy holding that thing to stand grin

evil women everywhere.

mrdickhead:
I laugh when people say hardworking is equal to greatness,that's a fucking false statement,

Greatness is equal to Grace that follows for,the grace of God.


The word feminism is from the pit of hell and a feminist is a candidate of hell fire angry

do you ladies know how much energy and strength used to hold the dick to stand erected before putting on a condom,you think it's easy holding that thing to stand grin

evil women everywhere.

Good Bros, you have point.

But, hard working and being intelligent are components of greatness.

To be a great person entails that a person should have so many qualities. My first post encompasses the other components.

You can't have it all.....we all have one flaw

babyfaceafrica:
You can't have it all.....we all have one flaw

Well said, but we strive for perfection.

What do you say then, where a person's flaws are numerous?
Shouldn't the person work on him/herself?

eodavids:
Well said, but we strive for perfection.

What do you say then, where a person's flaws are numerous?
Shouldn't the person work on him/herself?

even if we work on our flaws 24/7......we will still have flaws..just at a reduced rate....no one can be perfect...that is why I advice people.. Marry people with their flaws if you can cope..you cannot change people...when you didn't create them in the first instance....there are flaws I can cope with people,there I those I can't.....

babyfaceafrica:
even if we work on our flaws 24/7......we will still have flaws..just at a reduced rate....no one can be perfect...that is why I advice people.. Marry people with their flaws if you can cope..you cannot change people...when you didn't create them in the first instance....there are flaws I can cope with people,there I those I can't.....

Thank you o

Ppl looking for perfect and they are not perfect themselves ... it just baffles me what some Nigerian men see as priority ...
just look at this topic from a guy .. Tuesday morning ... about women ! So sad

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People should try to find out their partner flaws..if he"she looks perfect..you better look well..there ain't no perfect human beings...some guys are gentle and loyal..their flaw may be roughness/dirtiness...some gals are beautiful and lovely..their flaw may being saucy/lousiness......some people cannot keep secrets,flirt alot and are party freeks(me I cannot marry this ones..even if she is Mrs world)..but some can...do what you can control and handle.....love is not blind o

babyfaceafrica:
People should try to find out their partner flaws..if he"she looks perfect..you better look well..there ain't no perfect human beings...some guys are gentle and loyal..their flaw may be roughness/dirtiness...some gals are beautiful and lovely..their flaw may being saucy/lousiness......some people cannot keep secrets,flirt alot and are party freeks(me I cannot marry this ones..even if she is Mrs world)..but some can...do what you can control and handle.....love is not blind o

Well said!

Lalas247:
No one is perfect .. Nigerians should get it In there head no one is perfect ....

Imagine thought this was an intelligent topic topic till it transferred from topic to being a woman issue why does ur life revolve around what the opposite sex are doing ...

Anyway ur theory is flawed why.... please take a look at FP the guy who beat his wife ...
Did u see all the characteristics of the perfect bride he listed! And yet she was the devil so pls (even stated she goes church everyday) yet he is here crying after he thought that was perfect catch ...


It’s only in Nigeria that intelligence and hard work is not enough they will find something else to judge u on ( we wonder why after independence we ain’t moved forward .. still waiting for permanent electricity from the perfect ones mtcheew na women be problem abi

The woman concerned here needs being pitied.
If a lady has someone who truly considers her as a marriage material; is she suppose to play games yet behind his back and still aim at covering it up

Don't tell me this is normal pls

I don't know what you are talking about, how did you even end up with these claims?.

Anyways I'm hardworking and intelligent, decent too, I don't misbehave or do anyhow.

MaritzaNL:
I don't know what you are talking about, how did you even end up with these claims?.

Anyways I'm hardworking and intelligent, decent too, I don't misbehave or do anyhow.

Fantastic!

You seem rare. You also have gotten the point I raised. There are flaws that are minor and easily overlooked. Such are:
-not a perfect cook;
-not waking up early enough;
-not keeping the house very clean;
-etc
All the above are minor flaws.

The major flaw includes infidelity, etc.
Such flaw is hard to endure/copewith

eodavids:
Fantastic!

You seem rare. You also have gotten the point I raised. There are flaws that are minor and easily overlooked. Such are:
-not a perfect cook;
-not waking up early enough;
-not keeping the house very clean;
-etc
All the above are minor flaws.

The major flaw includes infidelity, etc.
Such flaw is hard to endure/copewith

Exactly.