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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by okerekeikpo: 7:33am On Oct 26, 2017
All a woman want in a man is money and nothing more, just give them money even if you are a monkey they will follow you blindly
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 7:33am On Oct 26, 2017
i find it funny when I see ladies bragging about who and who they will, and will not marry. when we know that 90% of them do not have any choice when it comes to men. trust me when they getting close to 30yrs they can take any man that come their WAY . WHEN IT COMES MEN, WOMEN DON'T HAVE ANY CHOICE THEY WILL DATE ANY MAN WHEN THEY ARE GETTING OLD, OR WHEN IT COMES TO MONEY.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by ewizard1: 7:33am On Oct 26, 2017
Some ladies would just jump on a thread and make a dumb fool of themselves. grin

After now, when we see their sugar porayro, he'll be as IQless as them.

Remember the short guys lady on Twitter? Them full here sef!
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Sike(m): 7:36am On Oct 26, 2017
Money rules. Money speaks
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by kingkuntaval: 7:36am On Oct 26, 2017
MaritzaNL:
You are not making any sense, I'm sapiosexual and I can only marry intelligent person.

For your info, I don't do cram and pour, you can't do that in my course, you will fail woefully.

Kwayet
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 7:38am On Oct 26, 2017
MaritzaNL:
I will never reach 40 in my Father's house if that is what you are wishing me, e no go work for you because am sure of myself.


Now swerve.

time will tell no one plans for failure
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by darazonian(m): 7:41am On Oct 26, 2017
MaritzaNL:
These folks you are calling up and down are in a civilized society, they are in developed country where they learn worthy skills without a degree and are very fluent in English, the non degree holders here mostly can't even make a correct sentence, most of them. So I wouldn't want to be in a situation where I will keep correcting someone's grammatical errors and blunders, thereby making me feel embarrassed and ruining my image which means a lot to me. Also why I said our thinking level won't be the same is because most of these non-degree holders perceive you as acting or feeling big because you have a degree and they don't, I don't know if you are getting my point, you can't give him your opinion or advice as a husband without him saying "Is it because I didn't go to school" or reminding you of him not being a graduate, there is this inferiority complex they carry around , I'm not cut out for that shiit.

Also I never made mention of one having a degree will make him automatically smart, going to school or being in school is a guide not really what makes you smart.
MaritzaNL:
These folks you are calling up and down are in a civilized society, they are in developed country where they learn worthy skills without a degree and are very fluent in English, the non degree holders here mostly can't even make a correct sentence, most of them. So I wouldn't want to be in a situation where I will keep correcting someone's grammatical errors and blunders, thereby making me feel embarrassed and ruining my image which means a lot to me. Also why I said our thinking level won't be the same is because most of these non-degree holders perceive you as acting or feeling big because you have a degree and they don't, I don't know if you are getting my point, you can't give him your opinion or advice as a husband without him saying "Is it because I didn't go to school" or reminding you of him not being a graduate, there is this inferiority complex they carry around , I'm not cut out for that shiit.

Also I never made mention of one having a degree will make him automatically smart, going to school or being in school is a guide not really what makes you smart.
MaritzaNL:
These folks you are calling up and down are in a civilized society, they are in developed country where they learn worthy skills without a degree and are very fluent in English, the non degree holders here mostly can't even make a correct sentence, most of them. So I wouldn't want to be in a situation where I will keep correcting someone's grammatical errors and blunders, thereby making me feel embarrassed and ruining my image which means a lot to me. Also why I said our thinking level won't be the same is because most of these non-degree holders perceive you as acting or feeling big because you have a degree and they don't, I don't know if you are getting my point, you can't give him your opinion or advice as a husband without him saying "Is it because I didn't go to school" or reminding you of him not being a graduate, there is this inferiority complex they carry around , I'm not cut out for that shiit.

Also I never made mention of one having a degree will make him automatically smart, going to school or being in school is a guide not really what makes you smart.

"non-degree holders perceived you as acting or feeling big because you have a degree and they don't". I like these lines and in many cases you are 100% right. In my area I have to keep quite when people are discussing so many issues be it social life, political, economic and even football the moment you dared to speak the answer is yes because you have a degree your views will always differ especially when you live around people who have not attained the sssce level and I am not saying non degree holders are not informed its our perception that made it look like that I have experienced this poo so many times in my locality.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by mrphysics(m): 7:44am On Oct 26, 2017
MaritzaNL:
Don't mind all these nairaland fucckboys that think they have an opinion, so because am a woman I should marry any dick or harry, I shouldn't have any choice for man that comes my way all because I want to marry.

That's pathetic.
You guys are quick to call names. Lol.

No one is saying you should marry anything. You should have a choice. But your decision shouldn't be based on having a certificate.

You have to associate with people from different backgrounds to know that business is another form of education. Just like in school, they are low life and unintelligent people, same with degree. I have an uncle who never went to school but everyday, he spends his time reading. Go to his library and you will realize that he is better than you with 2:1.

Education is what we all need not a degree or Ph.D. People here comparing Nigerian education to US, who told them that Nigerians are dumb Ass people. People who do not have anything to offer think that everyone is like them. When I was in school, I subscribed for opencourse wares of MIT, IIT, Stanford, and Oxford. Guess what, there is no difference to what we were thought.

You must separate education from degree. Thinking that a degree holder will reason alike with you simply because he has a paper called B.Sc is dumb and weak.

They are people you meet and you find it difficult to accept they never went to school.

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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 7:44am On Oct 26, 2017
darazonian:
[i][/i]

"non-degree holders perceived you as acting or feeling big because you have a degree and they don't". I like these lines and in many cases you are 100% right. In my area I have to keep quite when people are discussing so many issues be it social life, political, economic and even football the moment dare to speak the answer is yes because you have a degree. Your views will always differ and I am saying non degree holders are not informed its our perception that made look like that.
That's their mentality and its annoying.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Medicineguy: 7:44am On Oct 26, 2017
ewizard1:
Some ladies would just jump on a thread and make a dumb fool of themselves. grin

After now, when we see their sugar porayro, he'll be as IQless as them.

Remember the short guys lady on Twitter? Them full here sef!
Exactly
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 7:45am On Oct 26, 2017
bukas15:
my fried shut ur trap.which thinking faculty are u talking about?? Go to some uni nd see so many slay mamas olodo's galivanting around wit notin in their fish head.after they wil be formin graduates
Wee you keep kwayet.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Rubbiish(m): 7:48am On Oct 26, 2017
chronique:


After,you would boast about being a graduate but your assertion reeks of pure ignorance and defeats whatever you are arguing against. Where did you get the information that a dropout from Harvard is equivalent to a professor in Nigeria? Are you talking based on what you think? Do you have verifiable facts to back up this your claims? Havard no doubt, is a prestigious university. However,it's embarrassing to hear a so called graduate equate a dropout from Havard,with a professor in Nigeria. It actually makes mockery of the graduate that you are,and puts you on the same pedestal with the uneducated guys/dropouts that you are campaigning against. The standard of education in Nigeria is poor and I understand that. That being said,it's still not enough to equate an average Havard drop out with a Nigerian professor. There are probably other dropouts from Havard who never made it and of course,no one gets to talk about them. There are lots of harvard graduates who aren't popular but might just be doing just fine,averagely.
The bold is more than enough reason....Regardless of infrastructure, ASUU strike is more than enough reason to equate a Nigerian graduate with a primary school pupil in the US. You don't compromise standard at all when it comes to education. Go to faculty of engineering in our govt universities, it is not up to some private secondary school building in the same country? What type of product do u expect such school to churn out?
How many of our leaders allow their children to school here?
I won't argue with u sir, i m not among those who gets delight from deceiving themselves.
But if u think u can lecture in American university with our Nigeria degree....It is okay...
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 7:48am On Oct 26, 2017
maxwell60:
i find it funny when I see ladies bragging about who and who they will, and will not marry. when we know that 90% of them do not have any choice when it comes to men. trust me when they getting close to 30yrs they can take any man that come their WAY . WHEN IT COMES MEN, WOMEN DON'T HAVE ANY CHOICE THEY WILL DATE ANY MAN WHEN THEY ARE GETTING OLD, OR WHEN IT COMES TO MONEY.
Lol. Not really. Some girls are picky. I met a chick last year and out of blue told her I wasn't educated to see her reactions, she said I should go to school first before I approach her. After some days, she noticed that I tricked her but it was too late for her to return.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by crixuss(m): 7:50am On Oct 26, 2017
pocohantas:


Where did they learn the programming and take its examinations? undecided

Don't you know computer and software programming can be learned to a professional level without formal education?
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by inotice: 7:52am On Oct 26, 2017
ACDONCHRIS:
Hello, Ladies. Interesting views so far, I must tell you. I don't intend meddling with all the ladies throwing around arguments. Please take note of the following:

1. Possession of a degree does not, in anyway, make you think better than someone without it.

2. Marrying a man that possesses a degree does not guarantee you a happy marriage.

3. Bagging a degree is not the true definition of education. Simply put, you're not better educated than one without it.

4. It's not every man without a degree that is jealous of a career-loving wife.

5. 99% of the people that have interracted with me in all spheres of life in the last 12 years (including you) did not know that I never had a degree (till today) .

6. I do not have a degree. What I possess is NCE. With it, I taugh in schools, worked in the financial services sector, worked in the construction and building sector, etc. before resigning into self-employment in October, 2015. Currently in Church, I oversee hundreds of very learned personalities, yet if they are told today that I'm not a graduate, they will say, "it's a lie." Today, I run my own successful school and farm. My in-laws to be do not even bother asking if I'm a graduate or not. Infact, they do not even know and even if they're told, they'll never believe it. My father-in-law to be is a serving Navy Capt. in the Nigerian Navy. I'm marrying their daughter by God's grace next year. I have never stepped outside the shores of Nigeria. Even though I don't possess a university degree, my wife to be does not even bother. It's very good to be a graduate, but that's not all to life.

7. I'm just 32.

Ladies, what do you have to say about me?


the bolded almost rubbished all you have written about yourself.seeking online validation or acceptance from ladies here doesn't always turn out as expected.

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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 7:54am On Oct 26, 2017
Safiaa:
A degree is a certificate. Thats all. It really doesn't define a lot.
thumbs up
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by AleAirHub(m): 7:54am On Oct 26, 2017
See comments shocked shocked shocked. No wonder Professors of books are one of the most poorest sect of people in Nigeria follow by those who has swore their life to "I most be Bsc , Msc , PhD holder... grin grin grin grin

Quote me wrong make Ogun fire that person angry angry angry
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by pocohantas(f): 7:55am On Oct 26, 2017
crixuss:


Don't you know computer and software programming can be learned to a professional level without formal education?


We were talking Gates and Zuckerberg, not if it can be learnt without 'formal' education. Two different topics.

Ezi39:
One problem with marriage of this kind is the difficulty the girl will face in making the husband's people believe that she's not the one in control. The husband's people always believe that their son's power is illusory because those who have degree are said to be knowledgeable.
I have a friend that married a HND holder, and she is facing the problem I stated above. So it's for the girl's good to go for someone that is at par with her in education, when it comes to marriage.
I kept hearing from my friend's family members that the girl inveigled him into marrying her so she would be the one in control.

So sad, she should have married Zuckerberg or look for one very rich, enlightened and well-informed HND holder. It's good for people to go for compatible interests that gives them peace of mind. What people think of it, all the semantics and examples of exceptions are totally irrelevant. I wish her the best... smiley
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by mrphysics(m): 7:56am On Oct 26, 2017
darazonian:
[i][/i]

"non-degree holders perceived you as acting or feeling big because you have a degree and they don't". I like these lines and in many cases you are 100% right. In my area I have to keep quite when people are discussing so many issues be it social life, political, economic and even football the moment you dared to speak the answer is yes because you have a degree your views will always differ especially when you live around people who have not attained the sssce level and I am not saying non degree holders are not informed its our perception that made it look like that I have experienced this poo so many times in my locality.
Should a First Class graduate marry a 2:1 graduate? Or should 2:1 marry a 2:2 graduate?

You reasoning is shocking.

You must have been with market people. Those selling bags of beans and rice in oshodi, Aba, and Ontisha. They are quick to identify you as being educated.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Acidosis(m): 7:56am On Oct 26, 2017
Sezua:

If you are truly sapiosexual, you would know that being intelligent isnt a degree thing. Besides, intelligence is relative. You might be intelligent in ur field for example; banking. But you can be dumb when it comes to music and sounds.

Exactly.. We have a lot of 'educated' (degree holders) adults who can barely use internet banking. In fact, some can't operate an android phone.

Learning doesn't stop at the University level, so whoever makes a university education a criteria is only limiting himself/herself. We learn everyday on the internet, on TV, etc.

A lot of educated adults with degrees do nothing these days than spreading fake broadcast WhatsApp messages. Sometimes when I receive these messages, I just wonder where they got their degrees from. Some of these messages will tell us why we should stop drinking la casera because the drink killed 9000 people in Nassarawa... I will just be like "really?, and you studied Microbiology?" Funny thing is when you read some of these messages, you'd understand that it can only come from degree holders because the use of English, punctuations, are always on point.

A lot of degree holders believed bathing with salt and water will prevent/cure ebola.

Give me an enlightened logical mind, an exposed and presentable realist that is opened to everyday learning and I won't bother about her highest level of education. If certificates were the criteria for marriage, I won't even marry myself.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by ojudunkemi: 7:58am On Oct 26, 2017
I will use myself as an example, I am about completing my masters degree but my fiance is an ssce holder, he had an accident when he was in 200 level in unad.what I want to bring out is this, my parents were strongly against it but I stood my ground to the end. Education is just there so that u won't feel left out when u find yourself in the midst of educated people or friends. We are coping well by God's grace and we will Tie the knot come Nov 25.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by mrphysics(m): 7:58am On Oct 26, 2017
AleAirHub:
See comments shocked shocked shocked. No wonder Professors of books are one of the most poorest sect of people in Nigeria follow by those who has swore their life to "I most be Bsc , Msc , PhD holder... grin grin grin grin

Quote me wrong make Ogun fire that person angry angry angry
Don't mind them. They value certificates so much yet they all didn't make First Class

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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by princeade86(m): 7:59am On Oct 26, 2017
HRHQueenPhil:


Thank you, dat is why i cant marry a person with such mentality, u av ur preference and i have mine. this country is in dire need of educated people. the people u are mentioning , many of dem accumulated wealth due to connection with rich people. so mentioning them makes me pity you.
dear, is not about education or certificate, is about exposure. We av thousands of bsc or hnd holder, that ssce men still beta dan in term of exposure, the way they talk in public, and how sound there children be. Am not talking about money now, buh about how u run ur family.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by mrphysics(m): 8:01am On Oct 26, 2017
ojudunkemi:
I will use myself as an example, I am about completing my masters degree but my fiance is an ssce holder, he had an accident when he was in 200 level in unad.what I want to bring out is this, my parents were strongly against it but I stood my ground to the end. Education is just there so that u won't feel left out when u find yourself in the midst of educated people or friends. We are coping well by God's grace and we will Tie the knot come Nov 25.
Nice one.
What your fellow ladies are telling you is that you should call it a quit simply because he isn't with a certificate. Lol.

HML

Don't mind the subterfuge we have on nairaland
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Sezua(m): 8:05am On Oct 26, 2017
Acidosis:


Exactly.. We have a lot of 'educated' (degree holders) adults who can barely use internet banking. In fact, some can't operate an android phone.

Learning doesn't stop at the University level, so whoever makes a university education a criteria is only limiting himself/herself. We learn everyday on the internet, on TV, etc.

A lot of educated adults with degrees do nothing these days than spreading fake broadcast WhatsApp messages. Sometimes when I received these messages, I just wonder where they got their degrees from. Some of these messages will tell us why we should stop drinking la casera because the drink killed 9000 people in Nassarawa... I will just be like "really?, and you studied Microbiology?" Funny thing is when you read some of these messages, you'd understand that it can only come from degree holders because the use of English, punctuations, are always on point.

A lot of degree holders believed bathing with salt and water will prevent/cure ebola.

Give me an enlightened logical mind, an exposed and presentable realist that is opened to everyday learning and I won't bother about her highest level of education. If certificates were the criteria for marriage, I won't even marry myself.
Those whatsapp rumours are something else. Na another day matter.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Respect55(m): 8:15am On Oct 26, 2017
Dasherz:

if you can clearly point out the "edge" I will agree with you ... what other edge does a graduate have asides being employed in good positions in companies seemingly owned by non graduates
Oh, that?
The question here should be why those non graduates aren't handling those tasks themselves but seek the expertise of graduates.
The 'edge' I'm talking of is graduates' expertise in their field of endeavours. It takes a graduate in medicine and surgery to operate successfully on a patient. A non graduate can't do that. That's just Wat I mean.
One more thing, so to you, all companies are owned by non graduates. I never knew all along
That bn said, I won't like this issue to become personal thereby leading to unnecessary exchange of words. I won't comment on this anymore. Peace bro
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by tosyne2much(m): 8:17am On Oct 26, 2017
Peacefullove:


Tosyne keep up your humble attitude jare, considering the present Condition of the country , What is d basis of their Show off if at the end many of dem won't still get Job? is that Not even worst ?

Better to stay low key and let success do the rest. People need to start thinking
That's it jawe my bro
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by YelloweWest: 8:20am On Oct 26, 2017
Peachess:

God thank you for this comment, you need to see the way I've been insulted just for stating my preference. I'm trying explain all these things you've said but they choose to call me names. I don't blame them tho, they're just pained.
My dear don't blame them. Our young men need serious orientation about marriage.
None of them have experienced what they talking about.
They think once a man has money he can get any woman he wants and she would be happy. Dead wrong!
There is more to marriage than money. I turned down men who were by far more successful than my hus because of COMPATIBLITY!!

In most cases an educated woman and an uneducated man are incompatible.
Money and success cannot create compatibility.

My sister and her husband reason on 2 different levels. Her views are more enlightened and civil. His are archaic and obsolete.
I believe if he married a woman who shares his views and if she married a man who share her views which is largely influenced by her education, they would both be more happy....

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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by tosyne2much(m): 8:23am On Oct 26, 2017
Respect55:
With all due respect to all concerned, a graduate and a non graduate can never be the same.
Moreso, walk up to any man or lady who isn't a graduate and ask them if they wish they had gone to sch and watch dem echo YES.
I beg to disagree with you bro.. There are so many illiterates who are more exposed and enlightened than you.

That fact that some of them don't have access to the internet does not mean their sense of reasoning is limited
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by YelloweWest: 8:24am On Oct 26, 2017
yeyerolling:
education and bsc degree are two diff tins
Until the test of knowledge charges from examination to somethnic else, I beg to differ.

I degree holder is presumed to be educated until proven other wise.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Respect55(m): 8:28am On Oct 26, 2017
tosyne2much:
I beg to disagree with you bro.. There are so many illiterates who are more exposed and enlightened than you.

That fact that some of them don't have access to the internet does not mean their sense of reasoning is limited
Don't narrow ur argument down to me bro. We are debating on graduates and non graduates in general, not me.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 8:28am On Oct 26, 2017
Notatribalist:
even the guy on your dp?last time I checked he was just a footballer without degrees..
pocohantas doesn't come lesser an hypocrite. She'd be the first to lick Ronaldo's balls given the privilege.

Let her convince us a little by showing us her #pocorunz certificate. Lol

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