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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by BluntBoy(m): 9:31am On Oct 26, 2017
Imoksp:
Ok. Not d same Alhaji then.tanx
No problem, bro.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by BluntBoy(m): 9:32am On Oct 26, 2017
pocohantas:


You are smart!
You are civil!
Educated or not!
I appreciate that!
We need more of your type in this section.

With this your post alone, I will marry you even if you stopped after common entance!!! kiss kiss

You really mean this thread o shocked cheesy
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 9:35am On Oct 26, 2017
989900:


The above comment is typical of a barbarian (degree holder or not).
Tell the old hag that I said she should ask her sister to sit down & be humble. Lol
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by dstar01(m): 9:37am On Oct 26, 2017
You may be wrong there Dear, I know of someone who was press club president and social prefect back in his secondary school days, went to YABATECH but couldn't even finish his OND due to financial reasons. He eventually started working and making few bucks and then got scammed while trying to travel out of the country to the UK to study DNA Technology and now he's back to struggling again, do you really think such a guy has low IQ?
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by tosyne2much(m): 9:37am On Oct 26, 2017
inotice:
forget all these online gimmicks and false claims,A man with just PrimarySix cert. that is hardworking in this era of Nigeria and knows his way around women,will not only be marriageable but will have options to choose from.
HAHAHAHA cheesy

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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by pocohantas(f): 9:37am On Oct 26, 2017
BluntBoy:


You really mean this thread o shocked cheesy

The few times you've quoted me, I ignore them, it's deliberate. I don't mean to sound rude about this, but I am sure we get the message smiley
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by YelloweWest: 9:40am On Oct 26, 2017
[quote author=TimeMod3 post=61781085]Old hag, Ask your sister to sit down & be
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 9:40am On Oct 26, 2017
pocohantas:


[s]You are smart!
You are civil!
Educated or not!
I appreciate that!
We need more of your type in this section.

With this your post alone, I will marry you even if you stopped after common entance!!![/s]
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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 9:45am On Oct 26, 2017
MaritzaNL:
You are not making any sense, I'm sapiosexual and I can only marry intelligent person.

For your info, I don't do cram and pour, you can't do that in my course, you will fail woefully.
You don't strike me as sapiosexual; I'm sure you just came across the word and its meaning, and decided to "use" it for want of what to say.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 9:49am On Oct 26, 2017
YelloweWest:
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Bitch, why did you edit your comments?
Let see how you train your sluts
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by mudolak(m): 9:52am On Oct 26, 2017
those lady that sayin degree they ar lie they only believe in money even if u ar nt attend any school once u get money u have them all
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Peachess(f): 9:53am On Oct 26, 2017
YelloweWest:

My dear don't blame them. Our young men need serious orientation about marriage.
None of them have experienced what they talking about.
They think once a man has money he can get any woman he wants and she would be happy. Dead wrong!
There is more to marriage than money. I turned down men who were by far more successful than my hus because of COMPATIBLITY!!

In most cases an educated woman and an uneducated man are incompatible.
Money and success cannot create compatibility.

My sister and her husband reason on 2 different levels. Her views are more enlightened and civil. His are archaic and obsolete.
I believe if he married a woman who shares his views and if she married a man who share her views which is largely influenced by her education, they would both be more happy....
And so annoying, to be honest, I don't know where they got that mentality.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by sharpwriter(m): 10:00am On Oct 26, 2017
tosyne2much:
You're on point bro. This country is in dire need of enlightened and right thinking leaders not educated leaders. Look at how the country is in the state of obscurity despite the fact that most of our leaders are educated either through the back door or through the road right way.

There are many advanced countries where the leaders are not as educated as ours yet they don't misbehave when in put in the position of power, they do not loot public fund, they are not selfish and self-centered because they have the love of the people at heart.

Goodluck Jonathan is a PhD holder but what spectacular impact did he make during his tenure rather than loot the nation's fund and usher us into recession.

Like I said earlier, we don't need graduates as leaders but loving, enlightened and right thinking people

Abi nw ... I did not think Jonathan made any impact in his home town cheesy cheesy or state not to talk of Nigeria, and he even did not see the need to improve the educational system despite being a PhD holder.

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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by toprealman: 10:07am On Oct 26, 2017
HRHQueenPhil:


In this age, i cant do it. there are uncountable stories of people who struggled 2 train themselves through school. he didnt do it, not because of money BUT because he thought it was not necessary. Any man with that mentality is not fit to be my husband and life partner. when we get married, i would have submit to him, i cant marry such a man only for him 2 tell me my children does not need to do BSc or MSc is a waste of money.
The reverse is the case sweetie. Most people that skipped school make it top priority for their kids!
Some that have gone to school and struggled to make it actually discourage you from embarking on such a journey.
Buhari has no elitist certificate, just the yet to be confirmed SSCE. You know where he lives......Aso rock!
Remember the pic of Tuface, KANU and Okocha that went viral some months back.....guess they were laughing at this post. Why? The three legends didn't "waste" time schooling.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 10:18am On Oct 26, 2017
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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Nobody: 10:18am On Oct 26, 2017
Peachess:

And so annoying, to be honest, I don't know where they got that mentality.
Who gives a fuçk how bitches feel...
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by joshrare(m): 10:28am On Oct 26, 2017
yeyerolling:
which bsc does indimi, ahmed musa or emenike have . Having a bsc doesnt make u a beta or worse person. In the uk (who colonised us) secondary school education is seen as enuf. A female doc can marry a gardner or cleaner. And no fuss wud be made of it. We really have a long way to go in nigeria. Some have bsc they cant speak or write good english. All those expats in julius berger, cappa and d alberto, and those oil workers in PH . most dont have bsc just vocational courses. Smh for nigeria o

look at it this way bro....the people you mentioned above are exposed, they are civilised people not by virtue of their education but their career choices.. so what they could have read in books they got it travelling round the world and meeting people from different class OK....To my beautiful sister out there pls follow your heart as for me I can't marry an ssce holder because.. IT WILL NOT BE FUNNY AT ALL... Don't blame me I'm only obeying scriptures.... man know thyself
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by sukkot: 10:40am On Oct 26, 2017
MaritzaNL:
In as much as examination is not a true test of knowledge, albeit there is no others true test of knowledge known for now, we use it, but then if one is not a degree holder, it could only mean two things.

1)You couldn't get it as a result of financial constraint or other constraints which is quite understandable.

2)You are too plain dumb to be in a tertiary institution.

Notwithstanding, there are high class illiterates that hang around with b.sc, and b.sc doesn't mean someone is intelligent, but to an extent you are not on the same level with a non degree holder no matter how you view it
DAYUM GURL GET YOUR MONEY BACK FROM THE UNI LMAO. there is no others ?
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by sukkot: 10:42am On Oct 26, 2017
HRHQueenPhil:


In this age, i cant do it. there are uncountable stories of people who struggled 2 train themselves through school. he didnt do it, not because of money BUT because he thought it was not necessary. Any man with that mentality is not fit to be my husband and life partner. when we get married, i would have submit to him, i cant marry such a man only for him 2 tell me my children does not need to do BSc or MSc is a waste of money.
dayum gurl you are an illiterate lmao.' does not need ' ? cheesy

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Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by Ezi39: 10:46am On Oct 26, 2017
Whilst some posts make some valid points here, they miss some key points. Non degree holders nescience of current will always cause them to not know the savoir-faire needed in most occasion.
I have a friend that married one, and he is always seeking advice from me in order to know most activities of the wife. He is stumped on how to control the wife because the wife is ahead of him educationally.
Even his authoritative presence does not solve the problem because there are things that the wife must decide for him. Sometimes the wife will manipulate him by using casuistry to conceal her real motives.
I adjure guys not to take interest in women that is not at par with them in education. Imagine my guy is now submerged by feeling of dubiety.
For me, it seems to have a double standard when it comes to a non degree holder guy marrying a degree holder lady. May be it should be better the other way round.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by tosyne2much(m): 10:55am On Oct 26, 2017
sharpwriter:


Abi nw ... I did not think Jonathan made any impact in his home town cheesy cheesy or state not to talk of Nigeria, and he even did not see the need to improve the educational system despite being a PhD holder.
Even Buhari wey no too dey educated improve educational system pass am cheesy
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by encryptjay(m): 10:57am On Oct 26, 2017
Good day folks, first, I'd like to thank you all for your contributions. Had to take my time to peruse through 16 pages in order to catch a glimpse of opinions of different posters here.
I believe some ladies are not being truthful, some just want to sound classy.
Also, there's a difference between having a university degree and being educated; there's more to education outside a paper.
Being educated doesn't mean you must be sound in English.
Mark Zuckerberg and Bill Gates dropped out because they had vision and if they didn't drop out at that particular time, the dream would have gone into oblivion.
These guys are sound intellectually and their financial education is top notch.
They were doing well and it is not just anybody that gets admitted into Harvard.
If they should sit down and share their experience and perspective about life, you're be amazed by their wisdom.
I see some people obsessed with this paper and can't even hold down an intellectual discuss. It's ludicrous to think that these so called graduates aren't even educated, they're just a bit certified.
From this thread and with the way some ladies here responded, why won't there be so many cases of unhappy marriages?

Wish I could quote some posts here but they're just to many to quote.
Great thread.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by xtgozie(m): 11:04am On Oct 26, 2017
HRHQueenPhil:


In this age, i cant do it. there are uncountable stories of people who struggled 2 train themselves through school. he didnt do it, not because of money BUT because he thought it was not necessary. Any man with that mentality is not fit to be my husband and life partner. when we get married, i would have submit to him, i cant marry such a man only for him 2 tell me my children does not need to do BSc or MSc is a waste of money.

Sorry o! Innoson Motors, never had a school cert, Ifeanyi Uba none, Coscharis none, the list goes on.
Most times what we don't want is wat we get.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by xtgozie(m): 11:06am On Oct 26, 2017
Peachess:
No, fucking way, I can't do that. You don't expect me to go through the stress of getting a degree, then settling down with someone with a lower degree. The truth is, there's always going to be jealousy and so many annoying shit like that, his ego will always be an issue. I want someone that reasons better than me, that I can have a reasonable conversation with. Most educated people can't even have a reasonable conversation not to talk of a school dropout (I know that there are exceptions).
*modified*
Those quoting asking me and asking me if he's rich should know marriage is not all about money. You need someone that you share common ground with and reason alike. I've seen marriages like this, how they struggled and how it all crashed. Most times the person with a lower degree will always feel like the other person is proud and acting too smart just cos he/she has a degree. And this jealousy will always bring dispute...
And those people pained cos of my comment, don't be. Everyone has a preference, everyone can't like the same thing. I won't judge you if you choose to marry a fat, slim, curvy, short, tall, fair, dark, beautiful or ugly lady. So respect mine and stop letting sentiments to cloud judgements.
a fool is a fool no matter the degree
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by geronimoedeh1(m): 11:09am On Oct 26, 2017
[quote author=Rubbiish post=61734946]
Easier said than done
If u are educated, wont your parents question u for bringing an uneducated man home?[/quote

How many of our parents are educated?
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by xtgozie(m): 11:09am On Oct 26, 2017
HRHQueenPhil:


Thank you, dat is why i cant marry a person with such mentality, u av ur preference and i have mine. this country is in dire need of educated people. the people u are mentioning , many of dem accumulated wealth due to connection with rich people. so mentioning them makes me pity you.
What do you understand by education?
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by jelel6: 11:12am On Oct 26, 2017
Michael004:
Are you mathematician or which vehicle do you manufacture here. Not talking of teaching dydx

don't drag this. for you to say differential equations are not applicable in mechanics is the height of ignorance. a minute googling stuff like this would do you a lot of good and save you from embarrassing yourself one day.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by xtgozie(m): 11:12am On Oct 26, 2017
pocohantas:
NO. Not just having the degree, but being grounded in his field...academically.

Please, nobody should come here to form holier than thou and smh for Nigerians. We all have something that attracts us to the opposite sex, love isn't blind after all. That's why some guys won't marry that hardworking girl selling fish in the market, you'll prefer the hardworking banker.

For some, it's religious inclination, some educational, physical, financial, cultural...etc. It doesn't make you better than them, you also saw something in your own partner that they probably won't care about, because it's not something that ticks the box for them.

Except you can marry that uneducated, timid, disabled [I mean no offence to this group], and not too good looking male/female, don't just try to form better than others.

We all have our choices, If you're not condescending about it...no probz.

The hard working degree(s) holders are waiting for you.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by xtgozie(m): 11:15am On Oct 26, 2017
QueenSekxy:
nope,,I don't think we can reason alike,,especially when I want to further my education.

See you see reason!
Probably he might be smarter.
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by xtgozie(m): 11:18am On Oct 26, 2017
MaritzaNL:
You are not making any sense, I'm sapiosexual and I can only marry intelligent person.

For your info, I don't do cram and pour, you can't do that in my course, you will fail woefully.

Intelligent people? Man or woman be specific! And how many will they be since you said people
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by xtgozie(m): 11:26am On Oct 26, 2017
MaritzaNL:
In as much as examination is not a true test of knowledge, albeit there is no others true test of knowledge known for now, we use it, but then if one is not a degree holder, it could only mean two things.

1)You couldn't get it as a result of financial constraint or other constraints which is quite understandable.

2)You are too plain dumb to be in a tertiary institution.

Notwithstanding, there are high class illiterates that hang around with b.sc, and b.sc doesn't mean someone is intelligent, but to an extent you are not on the same level with a non degree holder no matter how you view it

Lots of graduates worked for Steve Jobs. If all your hope is on your degree, you are among all women most miserable
Re: Ladies, Can You Get Married To A Non Degree Holder? by xtgozie(m): 11:29am On Oct 26, 2017
MaritzaNL:
Also I never made mention of one having a degree will make him automatically smart, going to school or being in school is a guide not really what makes you smart.

See how it is guiding our graduates that went through it.

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