16years!!! And she's started carrying a dick of 27years Chisosss!!! And even chop belleful?? Hhmm, if the guy is ok financially and is really serious about marrying her...make she go marry now.

chineduemmao:
abortion is illegal unless the mother's health is at risk.

Abortion is illegal in Nigeria.. This is true..

But trust me when I say, if you are close to a gynaecologist, they will do it for u for free.. Most won't perform surgical abortions though..just the ones that require pills

EmpressT:
The pregnancy was just a week. That's all. If it is 3 weeks getting to a month, then im in trouble

Oh alright.. I get..
Even if it's a month, there are drugs to use.. But u will need a specialist recommedation

abortion is not the solution. Let her give birth to the baby and then help her get her life back together.

being a mother doesnt stop her from achieving her dreams. she will only need to work harder.

abortion is not d solution to her problem, I will just advise u to let her carry d baby, besides she knew what she was getting herself into when was having sex with d man,And so far that man is ready to take the responsibility of d girl and d unborn baby. Although the has to be charged to court for child abuse or child molest. then after delivery she can go back and register her WAEC that is if she is serious about her education. As for u, u are too young to give that kind of a suggestion .take heed so that u won't stain ur hands with blood.

saraki2019:
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Antina:
You should have cautioned her when you see her towing the wrong path, it would have saved you from asking people's opinion. Save the rod and.....

Back to the topic!!

I beg of you, don't abort for her, she may be giving birth to a future president, who knows. And since the guy promised full responsibility of your sister, please let her be.

I know she would be happy someday she gave birth earlier!!.

Will you help take care of the child or you think Nigeria is Yankee. I beg keep quiet. Do you have any idea how many single mothers are on NL regretting not aborting unwanted pregnancy. What will a 16 year do with a child ? Abi you think say child na pet ?

Hmmm.... Thank God I am free from that even though it hurts me so much for getting pregnant and murdering an unborn child.

FrankGiel:

Oh alright.. I get..
Even if it's a month, there are drugs to use.. But u will need a specialist recommedation

Allow her to have the baby. That's a better way for her to learn her lesson the hard way. If she can phuck, she should be ready for the consequences.

Meanwhile you never can tell if that's the only baby she'll have in her entire life. Allow her have it. The guy don talk say e go marry am and if him nor marry am, na to carry police arrest am and let your sister move on. If she nor do waec next year, she'll do upper year. Don't go and complicate issues in trying to abort

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

You know what they call sweet 16?Most girls at that age are somehow vulnerable and wants to explore.So abortion is out of the option as she needs counseling.That she is pregnant now does not mean she can't make it in life.My classmate was impregnated in jss 2(at the age of 14yr old)and she is from a poor family but today she is a registered nurse in USA and that baby is now a graduate from a reputable university in USA.Even omotola,the screen goddess,got married at 16 ,so no big deal.Just counsel her and let her continue her education after given birth.

FrankGiel:

Abortion is illegal in Nigeria.. This is true..

But trust me when I say, if you are close to a gynaecologist, they will do it for u for free.. Most won't perform surgical abortions though..just the ones that require pills

abortion is relatively safe when done by a pro med practitioner but which doctor go risk im lincence for a lousy, wayward teenager?

Shawnnn01:


Will you help take care of the child or you think Nigeria is Yankee. I beg keep quiet. Do you have any idea how many single mothers are on NL regretting not aborting unwanted pregnancy. What will a 16 year do with a child ? Abi you think say child na pet ?

Pregnancy is not a disease.Read well,the man said he is ready to take care of the baby,so abortion is not the solution.Once she abort that baby,she is already gone to the dogs and automatic initiation into the world of waywardness!She should give birth to the baby and wait for a year then go back to write her exam.Its normal and not new,I am talking from experience !!

You want her to abort it! Idiot! Go and do the abortion urself! Would you come to ask this silly Qs if it was someone influential that got her pregnant

Skipuru:
. I don't know your real identity but your words malted my heart, thanks for the advice though.

Thank God, I'm glad I could help... u can always mention/message me if u want, wld love to hear your Testimony! All the best.

nigeriancritic1:

You neglected your duty in pointing to her the danger of having a sexual relationship before WAEC. You have failed her and as well she failed herself. Your sister is on the way to become if not already a trainee olosho and animashaun

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Really I wonder fit u get sense at all

Shawnnn01:


Will you help take care of the child or you think Nigeria is Yankee. I beg keep quiet. Do you have any idea how many single mothers are on NL regretting not aborting unwanted pregnancy. What will a 16 year do with a child ? Abi you think say child na pet ?

This got me @ Abi u think say child na pet?? nice response.... some people just don't understand wat parenthood is all about, they are just talking from their teeth. Like they say who no go nor kno!

OP this is long but read to the end.

First, I must commend you for taking the bold step to seek counsel before taking or enforcing any decision already taken. Also I Ignore those calling your sister names and those trying to accuse her or even you or your parents for not training her. Now to the issue at hand, we must learn to appreciate the fact that we are in a fast changing world where kids are even more knowledgeable than elders because of their access to information so this makes them explore a lot of thing they see or read, however they lack the experience of the elders, which makes them fall astray or make mistakes, however, we must learn not to throw away the baby with the bath water.

What has happened has already happened I will not blame you or your sister either for the fate that has befallen the family, however I advice that you thread cautiously, right now you think you are trying to cover the shame by asking her to abort the baby, but in reality you might be laying your mat on a land mine, have you thought about that which will be a bigger shame, married at 16 and having a baby at 16? For a man that consented to responsibility and marriage? Or dying in a theater under the knife or by taking herbal concoction or abortive pills? It like you want us to read your sisters story on NL front page then those insulting you now will be the ones blaming you for pushing her to abort a baby who father was proud to call his own.

It is true that she is 16 but another truth is that pregnancy has always been a blessing and not a curse ask your mother to meet with the young man that impregnated your sister he is 27 still a young man probably hustling too and even if not ready for marriage your family and his should come together arrange your sisters marriage and support her. A baby is a gift from God, why refuse it because of shame? You talk about education, A child does not stop anything it will make it harder for her, true, but with determination she can conquer, We all know Omotola that we all love to admire today, she was also a teenager when she had her first issue, same with Genevieve, today they are both proud educated moms and role models to many youths.

Op be wise don't let the devil use you and do you realize that what you are asking your sister to do is a sin before God and crime before our laws, if the law does not catch up with you, how about your God? In this time of teenage suicide and so much bad news, young man don't push your sister to do something nasty, do you realize that if in the cause of abortion something goes wrong and it so happens for that reason that your sister will be unable to conceive again, you will never forgive yourself and will have to live with that for the rest of your life? All you have to do meet with the young man find out what he does, if he is responsible then let your sister be his wife. If God blesses their union your family will also blessed too. Don't you want your mother to be a proud grandma' and share her own 3generation photos too?

However, if the young man is one of those irresponsibles, or badoo boys just let your sister have the baby and take him as your son or last born which ever tag you can live with, sooner than later both you and your mom will be proud you did not kill the poor innocent baby whose only crime was his "Right to Life"

Please I am not the one that Impregnated your sister ooo. I was touched to minister to you I don't know why but my instincts have never failed me. Be wise.

BrotherJesu:






Ode no go find empty land plant okro deh sell.

is ths what jesus teach u? mr brotherjessus

livinbygrace:



Pregnancy is not a disease.Read well,the man said he is ready to take care of the baby,so abortion is not the solution.Once she abort that baby,she is already gone to the dogs and automatic initiation into the world of waywardness!She should give birth to the baby and wait for a year then go back to write her exam.Its normal and not new,I am talking from experience !!

First, anybody can say he can take care of a child but when the main thing come, they will chicken out. Secondly,who told you once she aborts, she's gone to the dogs U ppl way of analyzing things is creepy. If Man na God, people for don die finish! Do u kno how many ppl don abort and they are still living their life? Not trying to support the act but don't try to condemn it either. Even married women abort. It's better to do wat ur power reach than to pretend because of what people will say. Hypocrites will always find something to talk

echelons:

Or future Buhari, which, to me, is even worse of.

lol

Send her to me

jstbeinhonest:
... Abort the child!! Abortion is NOT murder! ...

dis chilled me to the bone!

itsmeurLady:


First, anybody can say he can take care of a child but when the main thing come, they will chicken out. Secondly,who told you once she aborts, she's gone to the dogs U ppl way of analyzing things is creepy. If Man na God, people for don die finish! Do u kno how many ppl don abort and they are still living their life? Not trying to support the act but don't try to condemn it either. Even married women abort. It's better to do wat ur power reach than to pretend because of what people will say. Hypocrites will always find something to talk

I feel like kissing your words,am marveled by it.
would like to know u more hon,what do u say?

Never do or take part in abortion. It is never worth it. She would come around to blame you now and in the future. Having a baby doesn't end life. She could go on to be a first class student and be a better person you can ever imagine

If she wanna marry, let her be! Just make sure she goes back to school. Goodluck with your family

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

Decisions taken in anger are ones u end up regretting later.
Please, I beg u in the name of God DON’T ABORT THAT CHILD. I can assure u that in just about few months after the child is born the anger goes away and as d child grows older u wud thank God u never did.

I am talking from experience cos my sister went through this situation and the worst of it is that the man is much older in his 40’s who raped my sister.
We never allowed him to marry my sister.
I will tell u more privately what we did not on Nairaland thread.
Pls contact me through my email.
PLEASE I REPEAT DON’T ABORT THAT CHILD IF NOT U WILL HAVE BLOOD ON YOUR HANDS

Skipuru:


Professor please sir Just let me be.

See, I'm sorry for how I sounded. But you will regret putting your sister through abortion. It's murder. Its an intentional sin with no forgiveness. The deed has been done. Allow her give birth. Then send her back to school. God will be with you all. You can't kill an innocent child.

nigeriancritic1:

With technology like phone you dont need to be in ph. Since you know this is a possibility you should have warned her regularly through calls on why she should keep her thighs together. You are not worthy of a big brother.

Walahi u're a goat!!! So you think your 16 yr old daughter is a saint because because of your advices towards her?? Unless she's maid that doesn't go to school where she would have friends , I bet u to a virginity test with her.

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

what if during abortion she dies? the baby will be lost and sure her too, think wisely the deed has been done be grateful the guy responsible is responsible enough to take responsibility

nigeriancritic1:

You neglected your duty in pointing to her the danger of having a sexual relationship before WAEC. You have failed her and as well she failed herself. Your sister is on the way to become if not already a trainee olosho and animashaun

A very dumb statement. Mind u it cud happen to u.

EmpressT:
Hmmm.... Thank God I am free from that even though it hurts me so much for getting pregnant and murdering an unborn child.

ok i think its time u kip kwayet we don hear

nigeriancritic1:

You neglected your duty in pointing to her the danger of having a sexual relationship before WAEC. You have failed her and as well she failed herself. Your sister is on the way to become if not already a trainee olosho and animashaun

How did he neglect his duty? Was he supposed to become his sister's bodyguard. Let's stop putting blames on him and address the matter on ground.
@Op, I think your sister is too young to get married but abortion might give her ideas and encourage a reckless sexual lifestyle. The deed has already been done,let her have the baby nothing will happen to her. She can still go back to school after having her baby,it won't be easy but in the end you'll be glad you did.

Gulderbottle85:




When you were enjoying unprotected sex what were you expecting? Plasma TV?

Na 85 bottles of gulder u drink so wey u no fit read well... Bloody drunkard!!!