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| I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by Omachi006(op): 3:32pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
Friends, I need your advice. I got out of an abusive relationship 2 years ago and since then I've been afraid of men. I can talk and smile with them but anytime they ask me out, I freeze. I get scared thinking that they'll treat me the way my boyfriend did. What should I do? Is something wrong with me? More questions needing your answers here: http://www.helloaf.com/
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| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by Omachi006(op): 3:33pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
What do you think can be done for this lady?  |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 3:34pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
kill ur family  |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by owomida1: 3:36pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
She shd only agree to date a dwarf |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by amunkita(m): 3:39pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
Any time dey ask her out, she should slap them, any one that apologizes or ask, bae why u slap me nah?, she should go ahead to date such. |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by Omachi006(op): 3:40pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU:HAHAHAHA. How far na bros? |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 3:40pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
Omachi006:i see front distance u r a guy 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by Omachi006(op): 3:40pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
amunkita:LMAO. You gats no chill oh. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by Omachi006(op): 3:41pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by Omachi006(op): 3:41pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU:I no be guy oh. LOL. |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 3:42pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
Omachi006:but i have what u can do nao  1 Like |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by owomida1: 3:45pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
Omachi006:At least height/stature won't intimidate her. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by izaray(f): 3:48pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
She need to give love another chance. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by izaray(f): 3:49pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
amunkita: 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by Skyfornia(m): 3:51pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
First she need to free her self from the self slavery or face her fears. You can't solve a problem by running away from the problem. |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 3:52pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
izaray: 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 3:52pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
Skyfornia:help ur bro 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by Omachi006(op): 3:52pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU:I comment my reserve oh. |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by Omachi006(op): 3:53pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
owomida1:HAHAHAHA. This one don pass physical looks oh. Babe is afraid ehn. Especially of being tied (in a relationship) with a man. |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by Omachi006(op): 3:55pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
izaray:Well, she's trying but the fear is stronger than love. What can she do? |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by owomida1: 3:57pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
Omachi006:Ok, find a sickler guy for her. Power no dey 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by izaray(f): 4:01pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
Omachi006:Aww!! Let her go and join Rev. sisters in Catholic nah, its very simple  since she's that scared of men  1 Like |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by Omachi006(op): 4:16pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
izaray:HAHAHAHA. You're mean oh. Chai! |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by Omachi006(op): 4:17pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by muller101(m): 4:18pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
Become a lesbian |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by izaray(f): 4:24pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
Omachi006: Its true nah. You even forgot to include wat she has passed through while dating her ex, dat gave her such fears and hatred towards men. after her ex boyfriend 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by Omachi006(op): 4:35pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
izaray:You're right sha. People think that emotional and psychological trauma isn't real but it is. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by izaray(f): 4:39pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
Omachi006:  I don dey suspect you oh 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by Omachi006(op): 4:44pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
izaray:LOOOOOOOL. I'm vewi innocent oh. |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by izaray(f): 4:47pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
1 Like |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by coolestofall(m): 5:13pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
There's nothing wrong with u. Its perfectly normal 2 feel d way u do. What 2 do? Remember, 4 every nice guy u let slip away, it means u'r letting ur abusive ex still hv a hold on u. Relationship aint a do or die affair. U give a guy who seems nice a chance, he bleeps up, u drop him. Its dat simple. Its not like u signed any binding contract. Xo, go enjoy urself. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm Afraid Of Men. What Should I Do? by hooklover: 5:51pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
Old avoid men for now till old age men are bad they can't change 1 Like |
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