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lefulefu:
if a man really love u it will be difficult for him to cheat on u.note dat not all men wey marry a woman love that woman.some just marry d woman just because of the pressure of the parents or just to fulfill all righteousness.after dat dem start chasing d babe dat thrill dem.there are married men during valentine day dey will take out their sidechick and have fun while their own wives are at home.some Will buy the nice tinzs for their sidechicks but nothing for their wife..if d love no dey dere den the love no just dey dere.

Alwaysking:
ofcourse if he loves you, he also respect you. if a man don't love and respect his woman then he's likely to cheat with other women.

QueenSekxy:
most men that cheat still love their wives,

what i can decipher is that love isn't just enough
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self control and fear of God is needed in this out contemporary era

lefulefu:
he doesn't love his wife.its not by having sexy butt or flawless skin.a man who loves and respect his wife will not involve himself with skanks.i am sure he just married her cos he felt his time is ripe for marriage or maybe his parents pressurized him.

makydebbie:
Sure.

QueenSekxy:
most men that cheat still love their wives,

what i can decipher is that love isn't just enough
..

self control and fear of God is needed in this out contemporary era

greiboy:
No they don't

They may love their wives at the beginning of the marriage , but fall out of love at some point in the marriage. This maybe down to many reasons.

one of the main reason is failure to know each other characters during courtship.

Another reason maybe change in attitude by the wife. I.e. some wives may become more bossy, some women may let themselves go and lose shape

We fall in and out of love

greiboy:
No they don't

They may love their wives at the beginning of the marriage , but fall out of love at some point in the marriage. This maybe down to many reasons.

one of the main reason is failure to know each other characters during courtship.

Another reason maybe change in attitude by the wife. I.e. some wives may become more bossy, some women may let themselves go and lose shape

We fall in and out of love

lefulefu:
that word, 'fear of God' or 'God fearing' has been abused in Nigeria cos its the men who claim to be God fearing that cheat more on their wives..if a man adores and love u and he's sexually attracted to u(sexual compatibility is important) tell me why he go look at another woman.

KreativGenius:
True talk !

If a man loves his wife deeply, cheating won't be on his mind! It cuts down to discipline and self control. How about when faced with temptation,Make a video call, call your wife, see the problem, oya keep gisting, till the moment fades away. I've heard of couples that call each other, oya come now now now ! Some have learnt discipline, why some employ other methods !

QueenSekxy:
sometimes in marriages,spouses fall in and out of love,,cos of one reason or the other,,

PurpleDrankk:
They've only been married for five months and I caught him last weekend at a party(A mutual friend's wedding party) in another state, dancing provocatively with different skanks girls and spraying serious cash on them.... with his wedding ring off.
And if you see his hot, sexy wife ehn. Petite, nice butt and perky titties, flawless and beautiful fair skin, dresses to kill, very intelligent and charming. Near perfect in all ramifications. All the guys at work are literally drooling after her. She was even my girl crush at a point and I usually said to myself "Her husband is an extremely lucky dude!".
What I don't understand is why he'll run after girls that don't can't even compare to his wife in anyway.
This thing really pained me sha. I don't really know why I'm so upset by this afterall the woman in question is not even my friend. But I'm truly hurt. She really doesn't deserve this shiit.

lefulefu:
lol This type of romantic connection wey dey yarn how many married couples practice it? Most couples get their partners choose for them by their pastors .they get married to each other cos they feel its the the will of God as the pastor go yarn them.no love,no attraction.so tell me why one or two of the partners no go cheat.likewise others wey their parents they choose partner for them.see one of my friend wey wan marry.she told me the guy bought a car for her to beg her for her hand in marriage but though she no love the guy she considering it cos of the car.so tell me if this babe come marry the guy u no sure she fit get dat temptation to cheat?

greiboy:
No they don't

They may love their wives at the beginning of the marriage , but fall out of love at some point in the marriage. This maybe down to many reasons.

one of the main reason is failure to know each other characters during courtship.

Another reason maybe change in attitude by the wife. I.e. some wives may become more bossy, some women may let themselves go and lose shape

We fall in and out of love

lefulefu:
lol if my wife start to dey get fat like Eniola Badmus i will force her to start jogging with me every morning.wetin ...abeg make she maintain her shape like Queensekzy or Lalas247.

KreativGenius:
We fall in and out of love... Erm..!



I think relationships should be a triangle, God/activities has to be somewhere in between couples, that way when we get lost in the journey, things that brings us together keep us in the flow...

KreativGenius:
Can you imagine? Car kwa !


Do men go this low to ask for women in marriage?

I thought i was so easy, that one easy pass me.

Attarction is key and then communication.

If you see how a lady around me and her husband gist daily? I swear two of them no need sex at all for the whole year. The communication between them is super super crazie.

As for me o, if i meet a lady, i take her to God, we pray, if God say yes, i don go be that. We go find out the rest along the way. We shouldn't ovespeculate and fear abeg

lefulefu:
yea like reasons maybe the guy now snores too much when sleeping or the woman is now too fat after the birth of one child.these are minor issues that can be fixed sha.

KreativGenius:
LMAO @ Eniola Badmus. Na to carry am for head go drop for plastic surgeon office be that. Straight up, liposuction

greiboy:
You are right bro

However, as we grow older we lose interest in certain things, and our characters begin to evolve.

This evolution of character puts a lot of marriages in jeprady because many couples begin to lose what brought them together at the stage.

Many couples in cultural sensitive countries like Nigeria will only stay together because of the pressure from the society. Therefore, the only alternative is cheating

The only way to stay together for longer is to continue to find new ways to fall in love and that is not a easy task

QueenSekxy:
so women are the sole reason for cheating in marriage

lefulefu:
brother if a guy really mean a particular babe he had do anything to get her.this is time wen dem go say he's love drunk.

lefulefu:
yea like reasons maybe the guy now snores too much when sleeping or the woman is now too fat after the birth of one child.these are minor issues that can be fixed sha.

KreativGenius:
Is there a man that doesn't cheat ?

lefulefu:
for a man to go to a party and start having it off with hookers or skanks as op put am that mean the man no like im wife na.i can bet u he can't stand his wife hence his frolicking with women of the street.its obvious dem force this man marry d woman.

KreativGenius:
Plenty of activities are needed in between. Many couples don't have what i call " couple identity ". That's a binder that glues them and isn't sex.

These binders can be work so if a couple engages in research for example, and both have work they do at home to keep them together, such an activity can fill the void. But bros, how many homes have libraries? How many men aren't contented with the norm and spend time to do research at home after work? How many men have good communication with their wives? How many men have good rapport with their wives?


Many times it's women that flow with the transition better, the men still think they're boys. When them wear jeans at 45, they forget their age.

Now sex is not food, let's say sex in a marriage is merely a tool for pleasure, imagine been able to engage in activities together, they'll have sex them on the floor, sleep there, wake up together, and the sequence continues


Personally i was raised to think and believe free things, i.e. sex has grave consequences so i naturally run from them

lefulefu:
lol if my wife start to dey get fat like Eniola Badmus i will force her to start jogging with me every morning.wetin ...abeg make she maintain her shape like Queensekzy or Lalas247.

Lalas247:
After reading the long glorying of the said wife ... she missed out two addition to the list that is very very Vital
Doing Missionary with all those qualities .... kolewerk ..Man needs reverse cowgirl once in a while
Can she cook some ladies drive men away when the guy goes out to feed himself ... those two basic things no dey her list

Seen guys cheat for less

It is well

KreativGenius:
Okay, on a kentro level. E don do me before. I concur. I fit do pass car self if my power carry am !