Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? - Romance (3)

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Nobody: 9:08am On Nov 16, 2017

Are you a baby?, so you are not man enough to settle your own fight? undecided

,she probably doesnt have strength to quarrel

Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Nobody: 9:08am On Nov 16, 2017

You want a woman to fight your battle. Women ain't built for such, they are mostly for taking the back sit in situations like this, keeping quiet was the natural and expected behaviour

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Teeboi56: 9:09am On Nov 16, 2017

I can't stop laughing oooo

Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by stevups(m): 9:10am On Nov 16, 2017

Her introduction was right but the conclusion was faulty.

Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by maidaddy: 9:10am On Nov 16, 2017

first sensible comment on this issue. to the rest of you saying otherwise, e dey for una body. she should have said something not to escalate but to calm the situation.

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Brugo(m): 9:12am On Nov 16, 2017

I am surprised people are jumping in to insult the op. He never stated anywhere in his narrative that he replied the lady who insulted him. Would you guys have expected a man to reply a lady or even fight with her? Come on! He left the redress for his girlfriend to handle because the aggressor was a woman too.

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by uracocksucker: 9:14am On Nov 16, 2017

She was probably embarrassed by you vocabulary, grammar, tense, and punctuation. You will do better if your stupidity is restricted to your bus trip and at home. Why parade it to social media??

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by talk2percy(m): 9:19am On Nov 16, 2017

Chineke eh... grin

. Bros nah 3-0 be that so oo...kpeleee. At least u have learned ur lesson..

Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Jaiyeola24(m): 9:20am On Nov 16, 2017

OK let us turn the table around now, will it be okay if a guy seal his mouth or folds his arms while another man insults his Bae?

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by oWlSuMe: 9:21am On Nov 16, 2017

sorry bruv, but I don't think your 'gal' is into u that much. thi kinda sh** happened to me not too long ago, I went to a buka with my girlfriend to grab something to eat, d food they placed in front of me wasn't worth it so I complained about it, one of the girls there now took it upon herself to belittle me, my Babe insulted the life outta her, I had to tell her to stop it. she jumped to my defence immediately, which I think is what a relationship should be all about. so if your gal is denying u in front of eryone I suggest u find a gal who is really into u bruv.

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by drlaykay(m): 9:22am On Nov 16, 2017

She could choose not to talk but must have spoken to you silently to try end the shit.
The reason she gave for not speaking is very stupid.

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by pahen1991: 9:23am On Nov 16, 2017

weh dat woman rapper dat wants to 4uck his flatmate up becos of his girlfriend. He should come and see

Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by mbahdi(m): 9:23am On Nov 16, 2017

U even get luck.my own girlfriend refused visiting me unless I come her place anytime I win see am.say its not scriptural visiting a man u aren't married to

Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by pahen1991: 9:23am On Nov 16, 2017

and you call her ur girlfriend

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by pahen1991: 9:24am On Nov 16, 2017

tell us something like ur sexmate

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Belafonte(m): 9:24am On Nov 16, 2017

Lol. We learn everyday. This thread and the resulting comments should make guys know how to comport themselves around women. No sacrifices that don't benefit you directly.

I wonder what the general consensus would be if roles were reversed. Hmm

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by betty616(f): 9:25am On Nov 16, 2017

I don't even like having issues with anyone personally not to talk of having issues for someone else Irrespective of who it is cos I'm a very shy person that hates attention especially for the wrong reasons. If you're not going to over look anything anyone does to you in the public which you can decide to be quiet about, then you should be man enough to see to its end cos I won't get involved. At least my boyfriend knows that

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by impeccable2217(m): 9:29am On Nov 16, 2017

Bravo

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Belafonte(m): 9:29am On Nov 16, 2017

Of course. The women in this thread would never want to be treated differently from the way they treat their lovers. It wouldn't be a big deal if their boyfriends ignored the verbal assault and reminded them of their unmarried status when asked why they didnt come to their defence/aid. grin

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Pidginwhisper: 9:30am On Nov 16, 2017

You enter finish you come discover say she be regular for NA , even your bf go deny ever knowing you that day

Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by coputa(m): 9:31am On Nov 16, 2017

The girl is very wise, you are not yet her man.it's only a foolish girl that will fight on behalf of her boy friend.If the girl intervens and per adventure she losses a part of her body like the eye,then,the man (boy friend) will then abandon her for another girl.
This can only be done if you are legally married,because you are already one,anything that touches one affects the other.

Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by dederocs(m): 9:33am On Nov 16, 2017

You sound immature, how would you want your woman to fight in public... You need to work on your thinking.

Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Nobody: 9:34am On Nov 16, 2017

If a man insults your woman in public... you have the same excuse.

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Wisebisho: 9:36am On Nov 16, 2017

Even if he is my wife, I can't support her to join the quarrel, beside I cannot bring myself to low to quarrel with a lady...

Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by smartg(m): 9:36am On Nov 16, 2017

bros you're very funny oo. so you wanted to create a scene abi. if she had challenged d woman, the next thing you would have heard on nairaland is "2 ladies fought and na-ked themselves inside a bus because of one man".

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Nobody: 9:43am On Nov 16, 2017

She is wise... she’s in d relationship with her head not her heart or in it with both

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Offpoint: 9:45am On Nov 16, 2017

lol, I can't help but laugh... she did the right thing by not interfering bro, she's a wise girl. your cross is your cross alone to bear.

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Daeylar(f): 9:47am On Nov 16, 2017*

You are both wrong,
I understand your pains, it's very hurtful when you are being attacked and your girl won't stand for you, but honestly that reason you gave was bs, there is nothing like girl to girl issue there, she doesn't have to stand up or support you just because it's a woman, she can support you regardless if whoever's gender, she should support you, period. apart from that comment nothing else you said was wrong.

Your girl was very very wrong and unnecessarily sassy,
Why would she keep quiet?, either she calms you down and tells you to ignore it all or she calmly stands up for you, her keeping quiet is not justifiable at all she was dead wrong there.

Further more, her useless reason was even more annoying, this isn't husband issue why did she sarcastically bring husband into it, which one is she can fight for husband but not for bf ?? Nonsense.

So is she saying that she can't fight for her friends that she cares for if they are attacked either by calming them down and getting them to leave the scene or by standing up for them? If she can then why is your case different? Why do you have to be a husband to deserve such? If she knows she can't stand up for you or calm you down why are you a boyfriend?, won't she expect your help one day If the tables are turned? How would she feel if you tell her that she has to be a wife first?

Her behaviour wasn't funny, it was very annoying.

She doesn't have your back and that's something expected from a friend talkless of a girlfriend which makes it more annoying
What will you do?

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Taiwo20(m): 9:48am On Nov 16, 2017

so what were you expecting

Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by cutedharmee: 9:52am On Nov 16, 2017

Nah won't allow a lady bullshit ma boubou in ma presence. Ko poribu

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by Josh44s(m): 9:53am On Nov 16, 2017

But u get strength at d other room.

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Re: Ladies Do You Step In Or Let Him Handle It Himself? by loluadebayo: 9:54am On Nov 16, 2017

I don laugh piss for body. She's a smart girl. Na to dey look you na. Inside bus make she carry you fight for head like headtie.

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