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Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by Nobody: 8:49pm On Nov 19, 2017
walepackage:
To be sincere @op,that girl aint loyal and trustful.I can bet that she has had sex with that same guy more than once or with another random guy.Shes just a pretender and a hoe that can hardly control her urge or libido.Some years back a girl i was dating was almost lured by her femalefriend.She wanted to connect my gf with her bf's friend,in which they went to a party together, which i gave her my consent before going.Fastforward in the party she was offer a drink and she's the type that dont really drink,but her friend assured her no lele,which was a plan for the other guy to have his way to take her home.But,unfortunately,when she was bit tipsy,she just try her best and holla at my digit with the name of the venue,which in a jiffy i was there.Her friend was shock when she see me, thats how i pick my bae to my house that night and this was the end to their friendship.If a lady is really into you and love you, hardly she cheats no matter the circumstance.
Hmmm
Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by Nobody: 8:50pm On Nov 19, 2017
walepackage:
To be sincere @op,that girl aint loyal and trustful.I can bet that she has had sex with that same guy more than once or with another random guy.Shes just a pretender and a hoe that can hardly control her urge or libido.Some years back a girl i was dating was almost lured by her femalefriend.She wanted to connect my gf with her bf's friend,in which they went to a party together, which i gave her my consent before going.Fastforward in the party she was offer a drink and she's the type that dont really drink,but her friend assured her no lele,which was a plan for the other guy to have his way to take her home.But,unfortunately,when she was bit tipsy,she just try her best and holla at my digit with the name of the venue,which in a jiffy i was there.Her friend was shock when she see me, thats how i pick my bae to my house that night and this was the end to their friendship.If a lady is really into you and love you, hardly she cheats no matter the circumstance.


Bro this your experience ehn
Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by Nobody: 8:53pm On Nov 19, 2017
Xopoh:


I wrote she is decent because i know how they started .. it took him 7 to 8 months for her to finally say yes..
He had to see her pastor and her elder sister first before she could go out with him... Not to talk of wetin hin eye see to get into her.
Now some radom guy just swerve in like that no sweat... mtchew..

T as suffered.

So a girl that took 7-8months to say yes can cheat easily. Whom was she cheating with and how much was she offered? Na wa oh.
Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by AryEmber(f): 8:54pm On Nov 19, 2017
BenShammer:
Is that your dream? To marry a man that would allow you to be "knacking" different men. There's no telling what was going on in the girl's mind before OP's bro noticed a change in her behavior. What if he wasn't available for het to run to because of his job or whatever?
Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by Nobody: 8:55pm On Nov 19, 2017
DeeTus:
Decent girl? Lol. When you think a woman is decent, she would disappoint you the more.


That's the spirit DeeTus. When a girl says she's this and that, me no dey argue, just consent, giving them the stage that one believes them makes one a maga

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Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by makydebbie(f): 8:56pm On Nov 19, 2017
BenShammer:
So girls that cheat are indecent
Yes.

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Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by AryEmber(f): 9:04pm On Nov 19, 2017
BenShammer:
Is that your dream? To marry a man that would allow you to be "knacking" different men. There's no telling what was going on in the girl's mind before OP's bro noticed a change in her behavior. What if he wasn't available for het to run to because of his job or whatever?
it does not have to be my dream, you're just too kind hearted that it's easy to take advantage of you. Any ways, the question is if she
knows that OP's trying to help her and yet gave in to her urges (if she's not even playing the poor guy and only sees him as her Maga )
Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by Xopoh: 9:21pm On Nov 19, 2017
KreativGenius:


So a girl that took 7-8months to say yes can cheat easily. Whom was she cheating with and how much was she offered? Na wa oh.

I swear I don't know.. It's sounds so unbelievable because I thought I knew her. what a shame.

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Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by Nobody: 9:29pm On Nov 19, 2017
Xopoh:


I swear I don't know.. It's sounds so unbelievable because I thought I knew her. what a shame.


When it comes to women bro. Just play along is what many guys do, and keep the expectation low. It will avert heart attack !

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Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by banre(m): 9:39pm On Nov 19, 2017
nawa o.....but this story weak me o tell ur broda to man up and dump the b!tch.
If na me right at that moment i don brk up with am
Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by banre(m): 9:40pm On Nov 19, 2017
Ladycloud:
Whatever the case may be... I'll rather remain a decent girl.
i see...
Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by fabulouscj: 1:08am On Nov 20, 2017
as i read the story finish i just shock head. d story weak me. the girl can't b trusted, she's unfaithful. is it sex that her bf can't satisfy her with? that she goes about fucking di'ks am she it didnt happen just once. just dump her sorry ass and move on...
Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:54am On Nov 20, 2017
BenShammer:
I know how controversial this sounds, but the fact that she cheated doesn't mean she's not the best thing that could ever happen to him. I know how it hurts knowing the girl you love more than anything in the universe was intimate with a stranger. Well the truth is everybody has urges. Society dictates that women should be virtuous and basically frigid until they get married, but the reality is that women are highly sensual creatures and sometimes their sexual urges can be overwhelming. If you get to the root of what happened, you'll likely discover that the other guy was somebody she saw/spoke to often, he probably gave her attention and showed her care. I don't know how often your brother saw/talked to her, but she might've been lonely, feeling unloved/undesirable or was probably bored and needed some excitement.
Yes, good girls are not immune to sexual urges and may give in to their desires, most times to a guy they don't have feelings for, he just happened to be at hand. I quite believe her when she said it was just sex, she just had a need he was willing to take care of. Tell your brother to make sure she cuts the other guy out of her life and address whatever may be the root cause, I.e loneliness etc.
There's no perfect good girl out there, he may leave her and end up with a street wise girl that would engage in atrocities at his back. She was feeling guilty and confessed because she has a conscience and genuinely loves your bro

brothas and sistas, the above message should NEVER be followed.... as what this poster is saying is that weakness is ok and so long as you keep this weak deceiving woman away from temptation, you are ok. haba!!!!

what next? tie her to the bedpost every morning so that nobody has access to her (and only the meguard and driver will have a train/0rgy with her?)
if a woman cannot close her legs and hold herself for her man, then she is a h0e, and NOTHING you do can change that. any man, colleague, bus driver who tells her sweet things will sample her...every time you travel away, and she has a hitch in her pant, she will be used by strangers and/or friends. what kind of stressful life is this? what kind of low life partner is this?!

she is a DECEITFUL UNTRUSTWORTHY woman and your brother should fully understand the consequence that it entails.

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Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by SmellingAnus(m): 3:58am On Nov 20, 2017
Your brother is already in mumu kingdom.... There is no advice that involves him leaving her that he will accept... I don't blame him much... Those of us that have been there before know better...
Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by Bester44(m): 4:14am On Nov 20, 2017
IamKashyBaby:



Your brother can still pursue his dream to go to Abu Dhabi if he really wanna work there & besides, this is a great stepping stones for his OWN future..

But no matter how hard he work if his gf is a liability he will never gonna succeed sha..He will carry the burden every day &
this is not good...

U better talk to him to stay away from her if he wanted a brighter future & leave this girl who cant keep legs close when he is not around..

Is that your pic in the profile? I learned that bloggers made money slandering you of recent. You pretty sha.
Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by Nobody: 4:23am On Nov 20, 2017
Bester44:


Is that your pic in the profile? I learned that bloggers made money slandering you of recent. You pretty sha.


grin

Hahahaha...thanks for the compliment but don't get it twisted...that's Rihanna.. wink

@bolded I dunno about that one..




Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by Bester44(m): 4:41am On Nov 20, 2017
IamKashyBaby:



grin

Hahahaha...thanks for the compliment but don't get it twisted...that's Rihanna.. wink

@bolded I dunno about that one..






I saw some threads saying they have your nudes, mentioning one SINZ guy as the leaker.

Don't mind me jare, I don't know how these celebrities look like. I just hear those names. I'm an oldskool type.
Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by Nobody: 5:01am On Nov 20, 2017
Bester44:


I saw some threads saying they have your nudes, mentioning one SINZ guy as the leaker.

Don't mind me jare, I don't know how these celebrities look like. I just hear those names. I'm an oldskool type.


Oh okies..

All those fake nude chats that shook NL, doesn't affect me at all..This is the second time they did it to me..They tried so hard to put me down... But the truth must prevail...People should stay away from these snakes, they are lonely & frustrated outside NL...


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Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by I888(m): 6:29am On Nov 20, 2017
Xopoh:
she confessed that the had sex with a guy that Wednesday, A guy she claim she is not dating… My brother asked why she did it and the stupid girl said she don’t know that it just happened - and she is sorry-.

This is the girl my brother want to leave his graduate
Please be sincere.

I just came to laugh. That line reminded me of an ex. Sure, they always confess, they always say they Dont know... They always say it just happened. Bros, tell your brother to move on.

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Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by I888(m): 6:36am On Nov 20, 2017
Xopoh:


I wrote she is decent because i know how they started .. it took him 7 to 8 months for her to finally say yes..
He had to see her pastor and her elder sister first before she could go out with him... Not to talk of wetin hin eye see to get into her.
Now some radom guy just swerve in like that no sweat... mtchew..

T as suffered.
it happens. You suffer for one girl why another guy wey no sweat will just have her with ease lol. You have to understand that a girls brain is her emotions. Everything she does is based on emotions. The other guy got in with ease because he played his card right and sync every thing with her emotions.

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Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by marcusagrippa(m): 7:03am On Nov 20, 2017
Xopoh, let your brother ask the girl the number of times "it" happened. I say this because the guy seems to be a "friend" or constantly around the babe.
Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by Nobody: 7:38am On Nov 20, 2017
IamKashyBaby:



Oh okies..

All those fake nude chats that shook NL, doesn't affect me at all..This is the second time they did it to me..They tried so hard to put me down... But the truth must prevail...People should stay away from these snakes, they are lonely & frustrated outside NL...



Can you mention those snakes? Those horrible people should be exposed.
Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by ken2baba(m): 8:05am On Nov 20, 2017
Xopoh:


I wrote she is decent because i know how they started .. it took him 7 to 8 months for her to finally say yes..
He had to see her pastor and her elder sister first before she could go out with him... Not to talk of wetin hin eye see to get into her.
Now some radom guy just swerve in like that no sweat... mtchew..

T as suffered.
it's normal

When dey love you n want to spend their life with you, dey play hard to get but when dey see a player or a guy dey are more attracted to they give in within minutes

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Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by Nobody: 8:24am On Nov 20, 2017
Any girl wey portray herself as decent or holy to u certainly get something to hide.take note dat most babes wey dey wear very long skirts and clothes to hide their shape and wey dey sleep for inside church....when it comes to sex and double dating they are very rugged in itcheesy.

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Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by Nobody: 8:42am On Nov 20, 2017
DeeTus:
Lol! Stop defending immoralities. What happens to faithfulness? A woman who truly loves his man would never sleep with another man no matter what.


who are we to judge?
Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by walepackage(m): 8:47am On Nov 20, 2017
KreativGenius:



Bro this your experience ehn
that is why its safe to be trusted and loyal than just love without trust and loyalty.Morning
Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by sinceraconcept(m): 8:57am On Nov 20, 2017
Xopoh:


She didn't tell him the day he asked(on Wednesday) He had to convince her to tell him the truth because he was sure that the strong feelings he felt meant something.. I do have that feelings too for those I really care about. but his is stronger than mine..Kinda like he feels what she feels whenever her feelings pass a certain level.

Do you mean you would give her a second chance you were to be the main subject in this case?
strong feelings,Orisa Ibeji at work. I now believe it exists . The girl will meet her waterloo. we yorubas believe twins have their deity and orisa Ibeji will deal with her but your brother has to leave her. there is no excuse for cheating especially for women. millions of decent women have scaled through without cheating on their husbanda or partners
Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by Erums(m): 9:55am On Nov 20, 2017
Girls are like dis most times.. Its frustrating wen ur plan for a girl is knownnand stilk she leaves it all for sex.... Its really not that she loves the main guy.. Is just that de other guy actually used anf dunped her.. Den her eye clear.... So shes bk
Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by lordsjay: 11:34am On Nov 20, 2017
Brother, no one is holy. all this people here commenting that she should be stoned to death, if you look inside their own cupboard, you go throw up.
At least the girl still have some conscience to a point that she confessed and apologize even when she's not caught. most of the girls and guys we have won't confess even if you catch them right in the act. what I would say, is let your brother listen to his inner self, and most likely give the girl a second chance.
For me, I like to deal with fellow human beings with flaws than with self proclaimed saints.
Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by lordsjay: 11:37am On Nov 20, 2017
And don't use the word decent for anyone. just say, a girl, lady, woman, guy....... No one is decent, not even me.

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Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by Nobody: 11:42am On Nov 20, 2017
KreativGenius:
LOL! Don't be her ATM machine.


That's the spirit DeeTus. When a girl says she's this and that, me no dey argue, just consent, giving them the stage that one believes them makes one a maga
Re: Even The Decent Girls Are No Better Than The Bad Girls by Nobody: 11:43am On Nov 20, 2017
KreativGenius:



That's the spirit DeeTus. When a girl says she's this and that, me no dey argue, just consent, giving them the stage that one believes them makes one a maga
Lol....you crack me up!

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