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She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by Captain6(m): 8:51pm On Nov 20, 2017
It really hurts to love someone and not loved in return.
There is this beautiful coursemate of mine,that i love so much,that any day we don't chat or speak,i would feel unhappy.
I started by chatting with her regularly on facebook and whatsapp,and she was very friendly and our chats were very fun,until i tould her that i love her,and she said nothing.
She started avoiding me in school,she would intentionally hug any guy and gist with him,whenever am close to her,our conservations online became boring,she would take a lot of time to respond to messages,and wouldn't pick my calls,each time i asked her why she had been snobbing me,she would say that she was busy,and then apologise immediately.
I asked her out on several occasions but she kept disappointing me.She finally went out with me,and i again tould her that i am madly in love with her and would want to date her,she tould me that i am a nice guy,but she is already in a relationship, i asked her to let me know her guy,but she refused,saying it was unnecessary.
I feel she loves me too,because i noticed her body language. Should i let her go,or should i keep trying till she finally accepts me.

Could it be that she has no boyfriend? and is afraid of dating her coursemate?She doesn't reject my gifts and often compliments me.

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Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by Obiomon: 8:56pm On Nov 20, 2017
No, breakup with her undecided
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by DevilsVEGETABLE(m): 8:59pm On Nov 20, 2017
Obiomon:
No, breakup with her undecided
If the OP wins her he still cant keep her. subconciously he will see her as a LovePeddler... the chick has a bf mos def and you're just feeding her tentatively
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by Amarabae(f): 8:59pm On Nov 20, 2017
It is woo and not woe.
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by greatnaija01: 9:00pm On Nov 20, 2017
At your AGE and STAGE do you not know that LADIES increase your BP and reduce your GP?

PURSUING WHAT SHOULD PURSUE YOU BECAUSE YOU LACK PRIORITIES....

why not finish school and make a great living and then you either get a better girl or she will be CHEAPER by then and ready to be yours...
MATURITY is the ability to delay immediate pleasure.


FOCUS on DOING YOUR SCHOOL WORK AND GRADUATING EXCELLENTLY. Then better Ladies will be there for you...


Captain6:
It really hurts to love someone and not loved in return.
There is this beautiful coursemate of mine,that i love so much,that any day we don't chat or speak,i would feel unhappy.
I started by chatting with her regularly on facebook and whatsapp,and she was very friendly and our chats were very fun,until i tould her that i love her,and she said nothing.
She started avoiding me in school,she would intentionally hug any guy and gist with him,whenever am close to her,our conservations online became boring,she would take a lot of time to respond to messages,and wouldn't pick my calls,each time i asked her why she had been snobbing me,she would say that she was busy,and then apologise immediately.
I asked her out on several occasions but she kept disappointing me.She finally went out with me,and i again tould her that i am madly in love with her and would want to date her,she tould that i am nice guy,but she is already in a relationship, i asked her to let me know her guy,but she refused,saying it was unnecessary.
I feel she loves me too,because i noticed her body language. Should i let her go,or should i keep trying till she finally accepts me.

Could it be that she has no boyfriend? and is afraid of dating her coursemate?She doesn't reject my gifts and often compliments me.

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Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by victoronyekwelu(m): 9:02pm On Nov 20, 2017
Op how old are u??
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by soberdrunk(m): 9:02pm On Nov 20, 2017
Its either-----

1) She likes you and wants to take things slowly...

2) You are not her type but she enjoys your company and the things she is getting from you

Any which way you need to slow down and study the situation, if possible introduce another girl into the picture and if you see signs of jealousy, come back and buy me gulder then i will advice you futher.......

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Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by Captain6(m): 9:07pm On Nov 20, 2017
victoronyekwelu:
Op how old are u??
24
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by Ge0grapher(m): 9:10pm On Nov 20, 2017
greatnaija01:
At your AGE and STAGE do you not know that LADIES increase your BP and reduce your GP?

PURSUING WHAT SHOULD PURSUE YOU BECAUSE YOU LACK PRIORITIES....

why not finish school and make a great living and then you either get a better girl or she will be CHEAPER by then and ready to be yours...
MATURITY is the ability to delay immediate pleasure.


FOCUS on DOING YOUR SCHOOL WORK AND GRADUATING EXCELLENTLY. Then better Ladies will be there for you...



That is why u are old and single.



if he can balance his education with his relationship life. wah the hell are u talking about

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Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by Homeboiy: 9:11pm On Nov 20, 2017
Time and energy wey I ho use woo girl

I go use am for cast game for bet9ja undecided
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by Captain6(m): 9:16pm On Nov 20, 2017
soberdrunk:
Its either-----

1) She likes you and wants to take things slowly...

2) You are not her type but she enjoys your company and the things she is getting from you

Any which way you need to slow down and study the situation, if possible introduce another girl into the picture and if you see signs of jealousy, come back and buy me gulder then i will advice you futher.......
Thanks bro,am doing well in my academics, and she is doing well too,i believe we both can support each other in our academics.
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by generalbush(m): 9:17pm On Nov 20, 2017
Amarabae:
It is woo and not woe.

So you are really all that you mentioned in your Signature, and where you show your prowess in on Romance Section Nairaland?

Is this how you wana champion feminism in Nigeria?

Jeez mehn. You need a Job!! angry
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by Captain6(m): 9:17pm On Nov 20, 2017
Amarabae:
It is woo and not woe.
Thanks for the correction.
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by cyndy1000(f): 9:19pm On Nov 20, 2017
Am only here to read the advice that will be giving to you
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by soberdrunk(m): 9:22pm On Nov 20, 2017
Captain6:
Thanks bro,am doing well in my academics, and she is doing well too,i believe we both can support each other in our academics.

Sounds like you are just her study partner, it will be wise not to complicate issues....
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by lilmax(m): 9:22pm On Nov 20, 2017
she was sented from the see.... get read of her
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by victoronyekwelu(m): 9:28pm On Nov 20, 2017
Captain6:
24
oga get ready for NYSC when you are done then ask your question again
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by Nobody: 9:33pm On Nov 20, 2017

I started by chatting with her regularly on facebook and whatsapp,and she was very friendly and our chats were very fun,until i tould her that i love her,and she said nothing.

She started avoiding me in school,she would intentionally hug any guy and gist with him,whenever am close to her,our conservations online became boring,she would take a lot of time to respond to messages,and wouldn't pick my calls,each time i asked her why she had been snobbing me,she would say that she was busy,and then apologise immediately

you guys won't learn stop asking lady out physically, it gives them the two answers, yes or no, can't you just let nature do it work just stating from simply friendship. undecided



i asked her out on several occasions but she kept disappointing me.She finally went out with me,and i again tould her that i am madly in love with her and would want to date her,she tould me that[b] i am a nice guy[/b],but she is already in a relationship, i asked her to let me know her guy,but she refused,saying it was unnecessary

a good thumb up for her letting you know where you messed up things finally, like nice guy sucks, they carry left overs. lipsrsealed
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by greatnaija01: 9:46pm On Nov 20, 2017
AM NOT OLD... AM RICH- A BITCOIN MILLIONAIRE and not SINGLE.... I made my money before women came in... If u have a lady even if she is loyal... she gat a price... I CAN PAY IT... domb-dude


Ge0grapher:


That is why u are old and single.



if he can balance his education with his relationship life. wah the hell are u talking about
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by YoungDaNaval(m): 9:49pm On Nov 20, 2017
Homeboiy:
Time and energy wey I ho use woo girl

I go use am for cast game for bet9ja undecided
maximum respect
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by YoungDaNaval(m): 9:51pm On Nov 20, 2017
greatnaija01:
AM NOT OLD... AM RICH- A BITCOIN MILLIONAIRE and not SINGLE.... I made my money before women came in... If u have a lady even if she is loyal... she gat a price... I CAN PAY IT... domb-dude


Na this kind online bragging I no dey like. lefulefu come and carry your brother ooh
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by Captain6(m): 9:59pm On Nov 20, 2017
greatnaija01:
AM NOT OLD... AM RICH- A BITCOIN MILLIONAIRE and not SINGLE.... I made my money before women came in... If u have a lady even if she is loyal... she gat a price... I CAN PAY IT... domb-dude


Mostly golddiggers are attracted to a guy who is rich,but a lady who sticks with you when you are not yet rich,truly loves you. That's the kind of lady, i want in my life.

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Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by greatnaija01: 10:01pm On Nov 20, 2017
you will find her bro.... BUT if you love her TREAT HER RIGHT.... AND THATS WITH MONEY.



Captain6:
Mostly golddiggers are attracted to a guy who is rich,but a lady who sticks with you when you are not yet rich,truly loves you. That's the kind of lady, i want in my life.
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by Captain6(m): 10:02pm On Nov 20, 2017
RETIREDMUMU:


you guys won't learn stop asking lady out physically, it gives them the two answers, yes or no, can't you just let nature do it work just stating from simply friendship. undecided





a good thumb up for her letting you know where you messed up things finally, like nice guy sucks, they carry left overs. lipsrsealed
Nature?Friendzone is real! undecided
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by heffem(m): 10:02pm On Nov 20, 2017
lilmax:
she was sented from the see.... get read of her

Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by Legitman22(m): 10:03pm On Nov 20, 2017
@OP tell her to sit on your laps, if she refuse promise to pay her just to sit on your laps, from there u can move further to pre-intimacy. Stop wooing her.
I think what u really need is sex.
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by Captain6(m): 10:04pm On Nov 20, 2017
greatnaija01:
you will find her bro.... BUT if you love her TREAT HER RIGHT.... AND THATS WITH MONEY.



What happens then,if there is no longer money?
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by ibkayee(f): 10:08pm On Nov 20, 2017
soberdrunk:
Its either-----

1) She likes you and wants to take things slowly...

2) You are not her type but she enjoys your company and the things she is getting from you

Any which way you need to slow down and study the situation, if possible introduce another girl into the picture and if you see signs of jealousy, come back and buy me gulder then i will advice you futher.......
Sounds like number 2 tbh
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by Slayer2: 10:23pm On Nov 20, 2017
You buy gift for her. I hope you have bought more gifts for your mum that you have for her? If not.

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Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by Stevengerd(m): 10:31pm On Nov 20, 2017
Homeboiy:
Time and energy wey I ho use woo girl
I go use am for cast game for bet9ja undecided
I swear down bro! Any sure games dis weekend
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by greatnaija01: 10:32pm On Nov 20, 2017
then you will know why some NIGERIAN artists tie women to money in their songs. she will still love you but may have to CHEAT ON YOU TO FEED YOU

Captain6:
What happens then,if there is no longer money?
Re: She has a boyfriend,should I keep trying to woo her. by Stevengerd(m): 10:35pm On Nov 20, 2017
Amarabae:
It is woo and not woe.
Keep correcing shogbo! U beta start correcting ur ways, b4 2017 cums to an end.

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