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Never Beg For Love by eneazi(op): 9:00am On Nov 24, 2017

There was this guy who asked me out during my undergraduate days in the University he would have been any girl's dream man, but not mine. From my first to final year, and even after graduation he kept asking and got the same reply a huge 'NO' but brother was not having it, and saw me as a cold stone ice queen. He became persistent as the years rolled by and got same old reply.

A few years ago he was forward about what he wanted; something serious that would last a life time, and how he would like us to start a family and grow old together, well I told him it was not going to work out that I have never felt what he felt, and did not see myself sharing that emotion in the nearest future he started begging and was on the verge of crying, but I made him understand that even If I were to accept his proposal he would never be a happy man, and love was a strong emotion to beg for or compel, and if not careful someone might take advantage of his emotion and hurt him.

I made it clear to him that he was going to be hurt, heart broken and even hate me (which he did for a short while) but he deserved someone who was willing to share the same emotion with him, someone who was ready to start a family with him not out of pity, but love. As expected he was hurt and heart broken, but as painful as it was he saw my point today we are good friends and he is engaged to a lovely lady that loves him.

My point here is do not beg to be loved, know when your time is up, know when the ship is not sailing in the same direction, pay attention to little details, know the time to reasonably draw the line between effort and moving on, do not force yourself on someone that think less of you, worst kind of feeling is for someone to date you, marry you out of pity trust me you'll be miserable all through your life, if someone treats you like they are doing you a favour married or in a relationship with you then there is a problem somewhere. Love is a natural phenomenon and should not be forced or begged.

Source : eneazi..com

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Re: Never Beg For Love by Nobody: 9:03am On Nov 24, 2017

they can write any rubbish for traffic. bravo.

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Re: Never Beg For Love by mikejj(m): 9:07am On Nov 24, 2017

nice piece but some mugabe will not hear. they wil want to force it not beg self

Re: Never Beg For Love by DaddyKross: 9:08am On Nov 24, 2017

Don't flatter yourself

Any guy wey don dey beg beg like that, na only dogbo he wan dogbo. God save you say you no open because after dogbo like this, na you for kan dey beg am

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Re: Never Beg For Love by dingbang(m): 9:10am On Nov 24, 2017

DaddyKross:

Don't flatter yourself

Any guy wey don dey beg beg like that, na only dogbo he wan dogbo. God save you say you no open because after dogbo like this, na you for kan dey beg am

truest of words bro.. But these fish brains will always be flattered

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Re: Never Beg For Love by Chidonc(m): 9:14am On Nov 24, 2017

shebi love na bank alert huh

Re: Never Beg For Love by DaddyKross: 9:16am On Nov 24, 2017

dingbang:
truest of words bro.. But these fish brains will always be flattered

They are coming for you

Menhh, they never learn. They always think they have got the upper hand but men are always 30billion steps ahead.

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Re: Never Beg For Love by eneazi(op): 9:24am On Nov 24, 2017

DaddyKross:

Don't flatter yourself

Any guy wey don dey beg beg like that, na only dogbo he wan dogbo. God save you say you no open because after dogbo like this, na you for kan dey beg am

funny

Re: Never Beg For Love by eneazi(op): 9:25am On Nov 24, 2017

mikejj:
nice piece but some mugabe will not hear. they wil want to force it not beg self

Thanks....true talk

Re: Never Beg For Love by eneazi(op): 9:25am On Nov 24, 2017

DaddyKross:
They are coming for you

Menhh, they never learn. They always think they have got the upper hand but men are always 30billion steps ahead.

indeed

Re: Never Beg For Love by valgbo(m): 9:31am On Nov 24, 2017

OP is a lesbian....... he's every girl's dream, except yours.......

Still possible the one he's dating now dated him outta pity......

Re: Never Beg For Love by GoldNiagara(m): 2:15pm On Nov 24, 2017*

eneazi:
There was this guy who asked me out during my undergraduate days in the University he would have been any girl's dream man, but not mine. From my first to final year, and even after graduation he kept asking and got the same reply a huge 'NO' but brother was not having it, and saw me as a cold stone ice queen. He became persistent as the years rolled by and got same old reply.

A few years ago he was forward about what he wanted; something serious that would last a life time, and how he would like us to start a family and grow old together, well I told him it was not going to work out that I have never felt what he felt, and did not see myself sharing that emotion in the nearest future he started begging and was on the verge of crying, but I made him understand that even If I were to accept his proposal he would never be a happy man, and love was a strong emotion to beg for or compel, and if not careful someone might take advantage of his emotion and hurt him.

I made it clear to him that he was going to be hurt, heart broken and even hate me (which he did for a short while) but he deserved someone who was willing to share the same emotion with him, someone who was ready to start a family with him not out of pity, but love. As expected he was hurt and heart broken, but as painful as it was he saw my point today we are good friends and he is engaged to a lovely lady that loves him.

My point here is do not beg to be loved, know when your time is up, know when the ship is not sailing in the same direction, pay attention to little details, know the time to reasonably draw the line between effort and moving on, do not force yourself on someone that think less of you, worst kind of feeling is for someone to date you, marry you out of pity trust me you'll be miserable all through your life, if someone treats you like they are doing you a favour married or in a relationship with you then there is a problem somewhere. Love is a natural phenomenon and should not be forced or begged.

Source : eneazi..com

Pooh Pooh! So it is some kind of achievement that a guy asked you out and you turned him down. You had to publish this nonsense egocentric Pooh on a social media to feel important. I hope you have settled down now.

What is the emphasis he was on the verge of crying, that makes you feel like some kind of wonder woman. As if your vital part is paved with unadulterated gold.

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Re: Never Beg For Love by Nobody: 2:28pm On Nov 24, 2017*

Re: Never Beg For Love by Nobody: 2:32pm On Nov 24, 2017*

GoldNiagara:
What is the emphasis he was on the verge of crying, that makes you feel like some kind of wonder woman. As if your vital part is paved with unadulterated gold

Re: Never Beg For Love by itsik(m): 4:22pm On Nov 24, 2017

Sometimes I come to nairaland.com and romance section to see if there are pretty ladies around.
But funny enough I see good replies on posts and u check out the moniker only to see she isn't using her picture.
Pass on, she will.

Why dont they use their pictures.
Well their choices sha.

Wish someone can create a thread for single and matchmaking.
I mean singles ooooo

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