It looks like fake story.
But if nah true story, she should move on.

Hope the car wash job dey pay bills.
nigeria is a destroyed country with dead economy.
So if you are able to do something that bring food, thank God.

Movic1:
Your father . When you were enjoying AC and free ride in his customers car Did you call us Abegi Enjoy your marriage. Maybe a guy without car but with good heart is disturbing her like that but she decided to follow material. Some girls don't like the truth they prefer deception..

Chop knuckle!

jusRadical:



Fat lie. Talk for yourself.

When my wife agreed to marry me, I had no job, no single connection or contact for a job, no big uncle, aunt, relative or friens anywhere to help me or my family. My dad was a retired civil servant. My family could not boast of up to N50k in bank or anywhere. No property like house or car. I had only my first degree certificate.

But today, 13 years down the line, I can only say thank you JESUS CHRIST.

Only a girl that got nothing will easily agree to marry a guy that got nothing.

Just show me one lady that has big talent, glamour, wealthy family, great career, academic excellence that agrees to marry a guy of the type you described above. I mean in the Nigeria of today? None!! It'll be a big mistake if she tries it

There are also many guys that began in misfortune and lack like you but still ended in penury.

Unfortunately for the majority in that category, it doesn't always end well. No mocking by any means but it's fact!

MhizzAJ:
Why will someone lie like that na
Why was he so deceitful

But do people still marry these days without any background check Car dealer

Women should stop jumping all over men anyhow simply because they think he's successful or made

This one is more than one chance

Will Ladies ever stop..??
Most Nigerian Ladies are beggars.......that's the simple truth.

2 minutes into a new relationship, begging has started.
It's really repulsive.
And they get thrilled by materials things.
It's the lady's nature.
The man try sef, if it were some men they would remove your father's roof and promise to replace it with a better one.
..and that will be the end.

GraGra247:


Only a girl that got nothing will easily agree to marry a guy that got nothing.

Just show me one lady that has big talent, glamour, wealthy family, great career, academic excellence that agrees to marry a guy of the type you described above. I mean in the Nigeria of today? None!! It'll be a big mistake if she tries it

There are also many guys that began in misfortune and lack like you but still ended in penury.

Unfortunately for the majority in that category, it doesn't always end well. No mocking by any means but it's fact!

I laugh at you because you do not understand life. You think that like is about food, clothes, shoprite tantarlizers, cars, going abroad, etc.

What is poverty and what is wealth? Poverty and wealth are relative. There is more to marriage than money.

My had nothing then? Hahahahahaha.

Not everybody is materialistic like you. Many women out there are focused, hardworking and responsible in life not waiting for a made man to come and lift them out from poverty.

Many started poor and ended poorly is relative also. I prefer to start poorly and end poor than many out there who started with material wealth and ended in penury.

Reasonable and matured ladies look beyond naira and kobo. Many great men today started very poor. Make your research: many moved from grass to grace. Forget about the guys of there father's money.

jusRadical:



I laugh at you because you do not understand life. You think that like is about food, clothes, shoprite tantarlizers, cars, going abroad, etc.

What is poverty and what is wealth? Poverty and wealth are relative. There is more to marriage than money.

My had nothing then? Hahahahahaha.

Not everybody is materialistic like you. Many women out there are focused, hardworking and responsible in life not waiting for a made man to come and lift them out from poverty.

Many started poor and ended poorly is relative also. I prefer to start poorly and end poor than many out there who started with material wealth and ended in penury.

Reasonable and matured ladies look beyond naira and kobo. Many great men today started very poor. Make your research: many moved from grass to grace. Forget about the guys of there father's money.

All this long reply yet you never showed me one single example in the Nigeria of today.

My point has been proved.

elantraceey:



Please speak for the type of girls you know, I'll pick a guy with great wisdom over a rich guy anyday and anytime and a wise guy can't be broke for long . You can look out for material possessions but don't focus on that and forget what's more important.

So how do you know a guy of great wisdom? Is it written on his face? Or are you the only one that hasn't observed that from so many stories and news, many guys that were thought to be wise ended up doing foolish things that were unbelievable.

GraGra247:


All this long reply yet you never showed me one single example in the Nigerian of today.

My point has been proved.

I and my wife are examples.

I started materially poor, but now? Oh my GOD. GOD dey nwanne. My God has exalted our horn. He has enlarged our coast. My younger brother started out of nothing but today, o di egwu.

I have many more examples. There are other millions out there who started poorly but today they are millionaires or even billionaires. Have you heard of gov Ayade of Cross Rivers state, Rotimi Amechi of River state, Sam Egwu of Ebonyi State, just to mention but a few.

You might not know because maybe you read only news about celebrities.

GraGra247:


So how do you know a guy of great wisdom? Is it written on his face? Or are you the only one that hasn't observed that from so many stories and news, many guys that were thought to be wife ended up doing foolish things that were unbelievable.

There are wise girls out there. My sister's husband was poor when they married, but today, his community will do nothing without first informing him.

God gives wisdom my dear.

This is a joke!
Who is taking it seriously?
Who gives a car wash boy his keys for a long time that will afford him the time of changing to something nice, pick a babe and go on a date?
This is a joke!!!

GraGra247:


So how do you know a guy of great wisdom? Is it written on his face? Or are you the only one that hasn't observed that from so many stories and news, many guys that were thought to be wife ended up doing foolish things that were unbelievable.

Young lady, one cannot see beyond his horizon.

You know as far as you have gone.

Many men out there married when they where poor but their fortune has turned for better.

I know many folks like that.

My sister and my wife allowed the spirit of God to lead them.

Many things can be discerned by inner God-leading/wisdom. My sister and so also my wife were led by God. But remember that it is not about naira and kobo.

The like of a man does not consist in the aboundance of the things he has. There is more to life than money. Money is to me one of the least. Not because I have it but because God supplies all my needs according to His glory through Christ Jesus.

jusRadical:



Young lady, one cannot see beyond his horizon.

If you were the smart type, you would've easily guessed from my replies that I'm not a lady and that I might even be older than you.

If you can't easily guess such things that are easy, how can you be able to understand delicate matters like this.

jusRadical:



I and my wife are examples.

I started materially poor, but now? Oh my GOD. GOD dey nwanne. My God has exalted our horn. He has enlarged our coast. My younger brother started out of nothing but today, o di egwu.

I have many more examples. There are other millions out there who started poorly but today they are millionaires or even billionaires. Have you heard of gov Ayade of Cross Rivers state, Rotimi Amechi of River state, Sam Egwu of Ebonyi State, just to mention but a few.

You might not know because maybe you read only news about celebrities.

If ever you read my reply you'd easily understand that your wife and you are no examples

GraGra247:


If you were the smart type, you would've easily guessed from my replies that I'm not a lady and that I might even be older than you.

If you can't easily guess such things that are easy, how can you be able to understand delicate matters like this.

Hahahaha! Young lady, I am not a gender hunter finder or analyst. You can be a male, female or even a hermaphrodite: it is not my concern. My smartness is for smart issues and not a faceless forum nonsense like nairaland.

What I know is that not all girls consider the financial status of their spouses before marriage.
There are still many girls out there who still have great values and priorities in life.

Do not use yourself or the folks you know as yardsticks in life. There are billions or folks out there.

GraGra247:


If ever you read my reply you'd easily understand that your wife and you are no examples

I do not care about your post.

What I know is that my wife married me when I was materially poor. She never looked at my financial status then but today? My God, my God!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

jusRadical:



Hahahaha! Young lady, I am not a gender hunter finder or analyst. You can be a male, female or even a hermaphrodite: it is not my concern. My smartness is for smart issues and not a faceless forum nonsense like nairaland.

What I know is that not all girls consider the financial status of their spouses before marriage.
There are still many girls out there who still have great values and priorities in life.

Do not use yourself or the folks you know as yardsticks in life. There are billions or folks out there.

Dear girl child, I'm sorry but you lack the intellectual capacity to engage me. Tell your husband, he has a lot of things to teach you. Bye

GraGra247:


Dear girl child, I'm sorry but you lack the intellectual capacity to engage me. Tell your husband, he has a lot of things to teach you. Bye

Hahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!

Intellectual capacity? What is intellect?

You must be schizophrenic to think that girls marry girls in Nigeria? Do girls children marry women in your place. Maybe you are from Bikinafaso.

Please go to celebrity and fashion section. I think you will be much more excited there.

Movic1:


Bloggers and dishonesty I didn't believe this story decided to make a little confirmation and research about it, I picked some words from the story above like (he told me that he is a car dealer) and search it one Facebook ,no result was found. Then I screen shot the picture then cropped out the girl picture and Google it using Google image search. I was told the best result was on instagram . I clicked it and I was redirected to @berbiedoll profile. Behold the picture used in the story. I be like.. Is it by false to blog? I’m actually waiting for the post to hit front page so that I can expose this lie but i have no option than to do it now. I don’t want to Dm her that her pics is been used for a false info Coz I don’t want people to think Nairaland is a land of deception .I was once a blogger, I know all the tricks and lie but decided to quit when I come to know that it doesn't make sense to sit at home getting info and spread wrong information to the public. I deleted my facebook page with over 20k+ likes and stopped paying for hosting/domain. Abeg bloggers make una dey give out genuine story and not fake Photoshop facebook story like this..

The story is real, I read it live on FB. It was lifted from a secret Facebook women's page (OMAM), you won't be able to find it. The poster requested for her identity hidden, so I don't know where blogger got that random girl's photo from.

MhizzAJ:
Why will someone lie like that na
Why was he so deceitful

But do people still marry these days without any background check Car dealer

Women should stop jumping all over men anyhow simply because they think he's successful or made

This one is more than one chance

Hi, I'm also a Car dealer !!!! Can we meet?

car wash and car dealer means thesame thing.. mark the word "CAR"

Gals and material things

.

All work na work as far he can take Kia home needs

You never see shonshin..

Girl u see what you are have been looking for.. still a car dealer nah? General manager of a company is a GM while Gate man is also a GM they are both managing things.

that's what happens when you're materialistic in nature. I'm sorry, you have to stay put.

You will make a good private investigator

Movic1:
Bloggers and dishonesty I didn't believe this story and i decided to make a little confirmation and research about it, I picked some words from the story above like (he told me that he is a car dealer) and search it one Facebook ,no result was found. Then I screen shot the picture then cropped out the girl picture and Google it using Google image search. I was told the best result was on instagram . I clicked it and I was redirected to @berbiedoll profile. Behold the picture used in the story. I be like.. Is it by force to blog? I’m actually waiting for the post to hit front page so that I can expose this lie but i have no option than to do it now. I don’t want to Dm her that her pics is been used for a false info Coz I don’t want people to think Nairaland is a land of deception .I was once a blogger, I know all the tricks and lie but decided to quit when I come to know that it doesn't make sense to sit at home getting info and spread wrong information to the public. I deleted my facebook page with over 20k+ likes and stopped paying for hosting/domain. Abeg bloggers make una dey give out genuine story and not fake Photoshop facebook story like this..

...if u love him and the car wash brings food to the table.... then cont with the marriage.

I wonder oooooo and even if you are a graduate so? them tell you say non-graduate Rod dey sour? olojukokoro like you! marry you degree na!

JPENG:
Car wash Man no be human being??

Movic1:
Bloggers and dishonesty I didn't believe this story and i decided to make a little confirmation and research about it, I picked some words from the story above like (he told me that he is a car dealer) and search it one Facebook ,no result was found. Then I screen shot the picture then cropped out the girl picture and Google it using Google image search. I was told the best result was on instagram . I clicked it and I was redirected to @berbiedoll profile. Behold the picture used in the story. I be like.. Is it by force to blog? I’m actually waiting for the post to hit front page so that I can expose this lie but i have no option than to do it now. I don’t want to Dm her that her pics is been used for a false info Coz I don’t want people to think Nairaland is a land of deception .I was once a blogger, I know all the tricks and lie but decided to quit when I come to know that it doesn't make sense to sit at home getting info and spread wrong information to the public. I deleted my facebook page with over 20k+ likes and stopped paying for hosting/domain. Abeg bloggers make una dey give out genuine story and not fake Photoshop facebook story like this..

cc : seun , lalasticlala , mynd44

he is a future car dealer.