utenwuson:
straight to the point..... my bro wife stop breastfeeding her two months old daughter, my bro complains and is a thug of war.... she splashed him with burning oil, thank God he was prepared and so it didn't cause more havoc, he went to work and returned in the evening only for the wife to lock him out.
my bro is such a gentleman and don't even know how to talk much, he has confided in me that he has contacted his lawyer to help him file for divorce while he is presently in a hotel for over a week now.... I just left my office heading to their place. am utterly confused as am Tempramental my self and may end up hurting her

Munae:



Easiest divorce is to kill her na.

Thats what's trending.

utenwuson:
straight to the point..... my bro wife stop breastfeeding her two months old daughter, my bro complains and is a thug of war.... she splashed him with burning oil, thank God he was prepared and so it didn't cause more havoc, he went to work and returned in the evening only for the wife to lock him out.
my bro is such a gentleman and don't even know how to talk much, he has confided in me that he has contacted his lawyer to help him file for divorce while he is presently in a hotel for over a week now.... I just left my office heading to their place. am utterly confused as am Tempramental my self and may end up hurting her

Rosarie:
mind ur business abeg.try to reconcile them not break them.they may divorce now and come back later on o.a kid is involved then u will b an enemy and their kids will hear d part u played.see d way u talked about d woman.na so ur bro perfect?

pcguru1:


And we ask how come people getting stabbed didn't leave.

Rosarie:
with this biased story.what did his bro do for them getting to this stage.i ve been married 5years.marriage involves alot.who told u d bro aint voilent?

pcguru1:


I won't be asking what the wife did, when she gets stabbed, all I know is if there's a threat like that, they need to separate to cool off first, it seems you know the guy personally in question, please advice him not to be violent anymore.

Rosarie:
i dont ve your time mr stabber ok.all marriage must ba stabbing abi.did u see him lay a fault on d bro?.pls go and sit down jor

Gaybu:
I do not have a problem. I am married to my wife who is a medical doctor, dated her from university and helped her succeed to pass medical school, she is 4 years older than me but look younger, we dated 4 years and got married when I got into oil and was rich. 4 months after marriage we separated for 8months, we came back and learnt our lessons. I had hit her a few times but I later I realized after living for 3years alone in America that I should never touch her. I am back in Nigeria and 5months now, we have two kids which we got from IVF, and been married and wedded for 5years, but you know what, I have known her 9years now, and what Ian trying to say here is i Bleep her 70 times or more in very 30days. I am surprised when I see write ups here saying their husband haven't touched them for months or years. Please men Bleep YOUR WIVES more than 20times a month. Please this is my appeal on behalf of women complaining. You Bleep girls out there a lot on daily basis that you are a bad guy but can't Bleep your wife. Nawa o

Blonchilli:
You're tempramental abi temperamental Oshey baddest since your brother cannot hurt his wife you want to do the hurting for him. I hope she pours hot oil on your head to cool you down. You're that member of the family that makes things worse

Seahawk:
this made me laugh so hard

utenwuson:
by the grace of God, I have quitely park her stuffs and she has headed to her mum while we perfect the divorce issue in court..... prevention is better than cure/grief cos I can't loose my only brother.

This maybe how Mariam started before eventually killing her husband. men are becoming endangered species and one must take caution.

we will make sure the kid is fine, I can't even type all what my brother has pass through in the name of enduringthe union but pouring oil on him and locking him out of the house he built is way tooooooo much.
thanks all for ur advice

utenwuson:
by the grace of God, I have quitely park her stuffs and she has headed to her mum while we perfect the divorce issue in court..... prevention is better than cure/grief cos I can't loose my only brother.

This maybe how Mariam started before eventually killing her husband. men are becoming endangered species and one must take caution.

we will make sure the kid is fine, I can't even type all what my brother has pass through in the name of enduringthe union but pouring oil on him and locking him out of the house he built is way tooooooo much.
thanks all for ur advice

Rosarie:
u and ur family are d problem.ur brother is not a man

Richy4:


What I can only say is wow!!!!..You have packed her things.. she has headed to her mum's. .. You guys are really meddling on your brother's marriage and it is not healthy....

You have asked your brother his own side of the story, have you asked the woman what her grievances were? Or maybe she doesn't have any right what so ever to be angry because she was married to your only brother?
If you succeed in destroying this union, how sure are u that u and your family will not end the second one that your holy brother will be embarking in future? Anyway good luck

MizAijay:
Mr Op aka defender of the brethren, you should try and apply your heart to wisdom instead of seeking to hurt a nursing mother.
Your brother's wife stopped breastfeeding her two month old baby, no sane mother would do that. Instead of you and your brother opting for the easy way out (divorce), please take that woman to a hospital and seek help there. It's very possible she's suffering from Postpartum depression. You and your 'gentleman' brother should read about it and get enlightenment. It's just unfortunate that we don't pay attention to mental health in this part of the world.

utenwuson:
thank God the deed is done and she's gone, so any other thing becomes secondary. no justification whatsoever to splash burning oil on your husband, lock him out for days and don't even feel remorseful.........we just thank God it ends here

utenwuson:
by the grace of God, I have quitely park her stuffs and she has headed to her mum while we perfect the divorce issue in court..... prevention is better than cure/grief cos I can't loose my only brother.

This maybe how Mariam started before eventually killing her husband. men are becoming endangered species and one must take caution.

we will make sure the kid is fine, I can't even type all what my brother has pass through in the name of enduringthe union but pouring oil on him and locking him out of the house he built is way tooooooo much.
thanks all for ur advice